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NFT: We had a harrowing moment on the highway last night

BigBlueBuff : 9/1/2014 4:20 pm
I just need to share this because I need to talk about it, I'm not sure if any of you have had similar situations (I'm sure someone has, this is BBI after all) but it was crazy.

We were coming home from a friend's house and travelling Eastbound through St. Louis when several cars in front of us suddenly braked and swerved. Suddenly, there was a man walking in the middle of our lane on I-64/US-40! I immediately swerved to the right but hit him with the very edge of the driver's side mirror! My wife immediately turned around and looked and I caught a glimpse in the rear view mirror and it appeared that he was still upright so we took a moment to safely get off the freeway at the very next exit, pulled over and called 911.

The St. Louis police officers who took our statement were professional and thorough in their questioning and kind when it was clear that we were honest and visibly shaken. The officer followed up with me this morning to let us know that there were no reports at any of the hospitals of serious injury and no fatalities or reports of other incidents on the highway last night. We don't know what brought this man into the middle of a busy freeway on a dark night but we are grateful for this news and hopeful that the extent of his injury was nothing more than a very nasty bruise.

As for us, we are still a bit spooked by the incident but were fortunate that, with the kids in the car, everything that could have gone right basically did and that the extent of our damage was a broken mirror. It happened in the blink of an eye and was extremely frightening and very close to a tragic fatal accident. It just proves that any distraction, from texting to eating in the car can create an unsafe situation while driving. Just pay attention folks, you never know what's around the corner.
A man recently committed suicide  
bceagle05 : 9/1/2014 4:27 pm : link
on a New Jersey highway by doing just that - he jumped in front of a truck and the driver had no chance to avoid him. It was the second time he had attempted it. Not sure if that was the motivation for this man, but I'm glad everything got through the incident unscathed.
Everything = everyone  
bceagle05 : 9/1/2014 4:27 pm : link
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People do that with trains all the time...  
Dunedin81 : 9/1/2014 4:38 pm : link
it's incredibly fucking selfish. If you feel the need to kill yourself that's on you, but if you insist on making someone else the agent of your demise, to relive that for years to come, that's beyond the pale.
so how long til someone  
Kevin999 : 9/1/2014 4:40 pm : link
posts a thread saying there were walking along a highway and someone swerved and almost hit them....
An attempt to inject  
natefit : 9/1/2014 5:01 pm : link
some levity:
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It's only a selfish act if the person is of sound mind  
Jim in Tampa : 9/1/2014 5:03 pm : link
My guess is that people who try to commit suicide in this manner are feeling desperate and hopeless. They are certainly not in their right minds when they commit such an act.
See you next Summer.  
vibe4giants : 9/1/2014 5:10 pm : link
RE: It's only a selfish act if the person is of sound mind  
Dunedin81 : 9/1/2014 5:10 pm : link
In comment 11836258 Jim in Tampa said:
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My guess is that people who try to commit suicide in this manner are feeling desperate and hopeless. They are certainly not in their right minds when they commit such an act.


I don't accept that suicide is an inherently selfish act, but I also don't accept that the people who do it are necessarily out of their minds. And while making someone else clean up after you slit your wrists or shoot yourself is bad, forcing someone else to deliver the death blow is probably worse.
I experienced a similar situation when I was a kid about 7 yrs old  
micky : 9/1/2014 5:51 pm : link
traveling down the shore on the Garden State Parkway. It was me and a car full of my family. My dad was driving in center lane and a car on our left was just passing us.

We were all talking and etc etc when all the sudden my niece screamed. A guy was crossing right in front of us..my dad just missed him by swirving to his right. However, the car that was just passing us, hit the man dead on about 60 mph or so. All I saw was the guy hit his head into the car's windshield and flip over it like a rag doll. My dad immediately (as a few other cars as well) to side of the Parkway. My uncle and dad ran to his aide. Got traffic to slow and warned ahead. My uncle tore off his shirt to wrap the guy who was bleeding

The guy's wife was still in the parked car, from where he decided to cross the Parkway to go (which found out later) to take a piss. We went with the wife to the hospital after the ambulance and all came. However, the guy died on the arrival. It was one image I'll never rid of or shake..just a horrible memory on what was suppose to be another great trip to the shore.
A very close friend of mine  
JerryNYG : 9/1/2014 6:26 pm : link
was driving home from a Halloween party about 5 years ago when he hit and killed a man who was laying down in the middle of the highway. The man had been picked up by police earlier in the evening for doing the same thing, and then later cut loose the same night. My friend had indulged in a few drinks earlier in the evening but was below the legal limit. He blew .05 BAC, but was charged with vehicular homicide, DWI and all kinds of other stuff.

The man who died was a locally known alcoholic who had been kicked out of a nearby bar earlier and had been found wandering the side of the road or passed out in the road before this accident.

Crazy situation all around. Obviously,there is a family who is missing someone and has to deal with that pain. My friend has had a very hard time with it, still is suffering legal consequences and still does not have a driver's license.

Definitely need to be careful out there!
Grateful to hear you and yours are safe  
JonC : 9/1/2014 6:27 pm : link
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Micky  
BigBlueBuff : 9/1/2014 7:38 pm : link
That's precisely what I wanted to avoid. Fortunately, it was 9:30 and both my kids had fallen asleep, but they both woke up when the impact with the mirror occured. It was crazy loud and both my wife and I thought we killed him. I was between 7-10 car lenghths behind the guy in front of me and there wasn't really anyone in front of him so he saw the guy earlier than me and just missed him. I had less time to react so I clipped him. When I first saw him he was lined up square between my wheels, an image and moment I won't soon forget.

Suicide by car was my first instinct as he was walking, NOT RUNNING, across the highway. For reference, it was right before an exit and right after a merge so at that spot there are FIVE active lanes on the Eastbound highway. Why someone would choose to cross there when there was a street overpass just a few feet away is insane.

If it was a suicide, or whatever, it pisses me off that I almost killed a man AND could have potentially lost control of my own car in an effort to avoid him.
Jerry  
BigBlueBuff : 9/1/2014 7:47 pm : link
The police were exceedingly nice with me after they questioned me. Of course, who knows what would have happened if I had killed him.
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