It's like being Jekyll and Hyde, and it lasts for years. And if you have any kind of underlying issue (I have auto-immune issues) it makes those worse. The hot flashes and the inability to sleep can make you crazy. HRT helps, but the possible side effects can be scary. I stopped taking those after having some issues with them. What has finally helped is a complete diet change, and yes anti-anxiety/depression meds. They also help with the hot flashes. Effexor is supposed to be very helpful with that. Maybe you guys can take some too, to help you cope.
Yeah, I'm sure the idea of shacking up with a bunch of old, hairy, fat dudes that haven't been laid for years is so appealing to him
I survived it without losing too much. Just an ear and an eye.
But I'm much better now.
That only works for the not-getting-laid part, though. It's the other 23 hours and 57 minutes that'll kill ya.