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NFT: Woman broke into a man's apartment and raped him

GMAN4LIFE : 9/15/2014 4:20 pm
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A Seattle woman is accused of raping her neighbor as he slept after a party.
The victim shoved the 240-pound woman, later identified as 26-year-old Chantae Gilman, off of him when he woke up to her having sex with him, according to the Seattle P-I.
She apparently broke into the 31-year-old's apartment on June 16, 2013 after a birthday party. It wasn’t until recently that a sample of DNA taken from the victim was analyzed.
Gilman was linked to the crime, but she is apparently undergoing drug treatment, a neighbor told KOMO-TV.
A Facebook page that appears to belong to Gilman frequently notes her sporadic sobriety.
"I've got 2 months pregnant and I'm 31 weeks pregnant," Gilman apparently wrote on Aug. 5.
An arrest warrant was issued for Gilman, a mother of four other children who is reportedly pregnant with another child.
Court documents show Gilman held the victim down during the alleged rape and told him to be quiet. He managed to push her out of his west Seattle apartment.
He then described Gilman as “a drug user in the area.”
In the past, Gilman had been treated for mental health issues and drug abuse. She's also pleaded guilty in 2006 and 2008 to criminal charges, court records show.
She reportedly suffers from bipolar disorder and another mental illness, the TV station reported.
During an undated interview, Gilman reportedly told investigators she didn’t remember having sex with the man or being at his home, the P-I wrote.




thats one heavy sleeper...

horrible

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Some guys have all the luck  
Stu : 9/15/2014 4:22 pm : link
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RE: Some guys have all the luck  
Dave in Hoboken : 9/15/2014 4:25 pm : link
In comment 11864639 Stu said:
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If you're into 240 lb women.
Eh.....  
Stu : 9/15/2014 4:26 pm : link
You're half asleep. Who cares?
RE: Eh.....  
jcn56 : 9/15/2014 4:27 pm : link
In comment 11864646 Stu said:
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You're half asleep. Who cares?


So does that make her effectively 120 lbs?
RE: RE: Some guys have all the luck  
GIANTSr01 : 9/15/2014 4:27 pm : link
In comment 11864644 Dave in Hoboken said:
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In comment 11864639 Stu said:


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If you're into 240 lb women.


More cushion for the pushin'!
According to Giants.com,  
Dave in Hoboken : 9/15/2014 4:28 pm : link
she weighs eight more pounds than Jon Beason.

If Beason is going to miss any games, we may have found his replacement!

BIG MOMMA.
Um...  
EricNY33 : 9/15/2014 4:29 pm : link
I'd care if I woke up and some 240 lb meth head was riding me like she's coming down the back stretch a Churchill Downs...
RE: According to Giants.com,  
GIANTSr01 : 9/15/2014 4:29 pm : link
In comment 11864652 Dave in Hoboken said:
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she weighs eight more pounds than Jon Beason.

If Beason is going to miss any games, we may have found his replacement!

BIG MOMMA.


Can't be any worse than Herzlich
You already know when she gets a hold of someone, they're not  
Stu : 9/15/2014 4:30 pm : link
getting away, so she has that going for her.
RE: Um...  
GIANTSr01 : 9/15/2014 4:31 pm : link
In comment 11864653 EricNY33 said:
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I'd care if I woke up and some 240 lb meth head was riding me like she's coming down the back stretch a Churchill Downs...


I doubt she's a meth head if she's 240. Probably just your garden variety alcoholic
not if it's a 240 cushion on top of  
BCD : 9/15/2014 4:32 pm : link
your chest and you're ye'll for your life.
RE: RE: According to Giants.com,  
Dave in Hoboken : 9/15/2014 4:32 pm : link
In comment 11864655 GIANTSr01 said:
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In comment 11864652 Dave in Hoboken said:


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she weighs eight more pounds than Jon Beason.

If Beason is going to miss any games, we may have found his replacement!

BIG MOMMA.



Can't be any worse than Herzlich


x1000000000000000000000000000
RE: You already know when she gets a hold of someone, they're not  
Dave in Hoboken : 9/15/2014 4:34 pm : link
In comment 11864657 Stu said:
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getting away, so she has that going for her.


And this. She'd probably be an instant upgrade to our LB corp.
Hmmm  
JesseS : 9/15/2014 4:52 pm : link
This has nothing to do with the "my wife is pregnant" thread a couple posts down, right?
maybe the woman..  
Rangersin7 : 9/15/2014 5:05 pm : link
Was teaching him a lesson as to how women are treated by men since men are bad and women need to be protected against them. Was her name pork and beans or maybe baadbill by chance?
If the roles were reversed...  
Dunedin81 : 9/15/2014 6:29 pm : link
we wouldn't be cracking jokes.
Sad that she has 4 kids  
buford : 9/15/2014 6:59 pm : link
and is a total lunatic.
RE: If the roles were reversed...  
Mason : 9/15/2014 7:07 pm : link
In comment 11864912 Dunedin81 said:
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we wouldn't be cracking jokes.


Bingo. But I guess it is part of social contract double standard that apparently men agree to at birth that I keep hearing about. Like taking hits from women and smiling about it because you know you were bless with Y chromosomes.

That  
CapeGman : 9/15/2014 7:14 pm : link
guy is never going to be able to fall asleep again.
If this broad was thin and cute, we'd never have heard of any of this.  
shepherdsam : 9/15/2014 7:19 pm : link
.
Here is his revamped apartment door.  
Stu : 9/15/2014 7:19 pm : link
if she ain't 280, she ain't a lady  
ojeda26 : 9/15/2014 7:51 pm : link
It's just more ounce for the bounce.

RE: if she ain't 280, she ain't a lady  
BigBlueShock : 9/15/2014 8:08 pm : link
In comment 11865064 ojeda26 said:
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It's just more ounce for the bounce.

Weren't exactly a ladies man in your prime huh? That's cool, it'll be our little secret. Gotta take what you can get, right? ;)
This is a snapshot about society right here  
Bramton1 : 9/16/2014 9:18 am : link
A man rapes a woman, and it's horrible and inexcusable and wait till he gets to gets to jail and meets Bubba.

A woman rapes a man, and we crack jokes.

Not being critical of anyone here, but it's interesting how we as a society view women raping men.
That guy is a slut  
WideRight : 9/16/2014 10:24 am : link
He deserved it
...  
TICSUAP : 9/16/2014 10:55 am : link
The jokes about it are fucking disgusting.
Rape with a male victim...  
Dunedin81 : 9/16/2014 12:07 pm : link
whether the perpetrator is male or female, may be the single most underreported crime in America. See above for the reasons why.
Feel like I wanna call BS on this somehow  
Csonka : 9/16/2014 12:23 pm : link
Just so I have this straight, a drunk and/or drugged psychotic 240 lb ninja meth-head breaks into my house, into my room while I'm asleep, naked, on my back, and aroused. She climbs into my bed and I don't wake up until she's riding me. Nobody else finds this story questionable?
Those who conflate the two rapes  
WideRight : 9/16/2014 12:39 pm : link
are demonstrating the ignorance that makes BBI famous.

Rape as a crime against women is heinous. Its brutal, but more fundamentally an perverse excercize of male power, and the psychological disruption of woman's sense of safety security leads to helplessness. The psychological aspects of the crime have long lasting effects that sometimes are never overcome. But the damage is more than physical.

This vinette is partly a joke. There was no excercize of power - the women snuck up on a sleeping man (how I don't quite understand). And the man may feel violated but he is not likely to have any long lasting psychological consequences, because this women or other threats to him are unlikely to lead to helplessness or despair.

So why are you offended again?


Are you usually this fucking stupid?  
Dunedin81 : 9/16/2014 12:41 pm : link
Man gets raped in prison by another man, does he not feel violated? Man raped by women with whom he did not want to have sex, does he not feel violated? Are there different social dynamics? Absolutely. But treating male rape like it's a joke is idiotic.
Was expecting much worse  
You'reMyBoyBlue!! : 9/16/2014 12:45 pm : link
Dune's little angry today  
WideRight : 9/16/2014 12:58 pm : link
Nobody mentioned male-on-male rape here.

Carry on
RE: Dune's little angry today  
Dunedin81 : 9/16/2014 1:01 pm : link
In comment 11866321 WideRight said:
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Nobody mentioned male-on-male rape here.

Carry on


Male on male rape is more cognizably a violation. But this is basically a stranger rape in the man's own apartment. If you don't think there is the potential for a lasting psychological impact you are dense beyond belief.
RE: Those who conflate the two rapes  
buford : 9/16/2014 1:04 pm : link
In comment 11866280 WideRight said:
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are demonstrating the ignorance that makes BBI famous.

Rape as a crime against women is heinous. Its brutal, but more fundamentally an perverse excercize of male power, and the psychological disruption of woman's sense of safety security leads to helplessness. The psychological aspects of the crime have long lasting effects that sometimes are never overcome. But the damage is more than physical.

This vinette is partly a joke. There was no excercize of power - the women snuck up on a sleeping man (how I don't quite understand). And the man may feel violated but he is not likely to have any long lasting psychological consequences, because this women or other threats to him are unlikely to lead to helplessness or despair.

So why are you offended again?



It's not a joke. Forcing sex on someone is rape. Women can rape men and they can sexually harass them. And how do you know there is no lasting psychological consequences? Your ignorance is astounding.
"Not likely"  
WideRight : 9/16/2014 1:17 pm : link
was the statement.

You see the felon above. Thats going to create a perpetual threat that make you feel helpless and afraid?

Just don't see anything here that is at all comparable to male to female rape. But I'll listen....
And she didn't force herself.  
WideRight : 9/16/2014 1:22 pm : link
He was asleep. She snuck in. Pretty incredible for a 240 lber

RE: And she didn't force herself.  
Dunedin81 : 9/16/2014 1:28 pm : link
In comment 11866376 WideRight said:
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He was asleep. She snuck in. Pretty incredible for a 240 lber


You come across as an asshole.
Perhaps  
WideRight : 9/16/2014 1:33 pm : link
But I'm not.

Not sure why anyone's trippin over the jokes?  
T-Bone : 9/16/2014 1:36 pm : link
I mean, it's not (and never has been) my cup of tea to joke about stuff like this, but this goes on all the time about incidents just as bad as this one... if not worse. Meanwhile, I've seen jokes posted on threads where women have been raped, someone has been killed and a bunch of other incidents and when someone inevitably comes on the thread and says 'Why is this a joking matter?', that person gets told that that's the way some people deal with tragic circumstances and therefore it should be ok.

For those that are complaining, this is nothing new and you might as well deal with it and ignore the thread because this happens on pretty much every thread where something tragic happens to someone else.
T-Bone  
Dunedin81 : 9/16/2014 1:50 pm : link
If this was a thread about a female rape victim and someone cracked a joke it would be time to pile on the joker, no? Even ignoring male on male rape, which by some estimates may actually exceed male on female rape because of prison assaults, the idea that you could be compelled to have sex against your will or without your consent - regardless of the size or attractiveness of the other party (which, again, would not even be mentioned in discussing a male on female rape) - and that there would be zero psychological implications is just wrongheaded. And WideRight's pseudo-psychological explanation for why was just idiotic.
The thread discussing  
Pork and Beans : 9/16/2014 2:12 pm : link
the teenage girl who was murdered with scissors at school before she went to the prom, turned into a joke fest. Nothing is surprising at BBI
She doesn't look  
Some Fan : 9/16/2014 2:17 pm : link
like a 240 pounder to me.
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RE: T-Bone  
T-Bone : 9/16/2014 2:28 pm : link
In comment 11866429 Dunedin81 said:
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If this was a thread about a female rape victim and someone cracked a joke it would be time to pile on the joker, no? Even ignoring male on male rape, which by some estimates may actually exceed male on female rape because of prison assaults, the idea that you could be compelled to have sex against your will or without your consent - regardless of the size or attractiveness of the other party (which, again, would not even be mentioned in discussing a male on female rape) - and that there would be zero psychological implications is just wrongheaded. And WideRight's pseudo-psychological explanation for why was just idiotic.



Dunedin81 - that's my point though, there have been instances where a thread was started about a female getting raped by a male... kids getting killed...all kinds of stuff posted on here and in almost every single instance jokes can be found on the thread. I personally don't like it myself but all I do now is just shake my head and keep it moving. BBI has always been similar to society in general when it comes to tragedies...if it doesn't affect the person(s) personally, then it's Comedy Central time. The only thread that I can recall that didn't have any jokes on it was the 9/11 thread and that's because it affected EVERYONE.

It is what it is man. Just pay attention to the next thread like this, or where some other tragic incident happens or do skim through other threads like this and you'll see the same thing. I'm actually with YOU on this (having once been semi-violated myself once... kind of sorta) but again, some people just find humor in stuff like this. I know it's annoying, but unfortunately it's the way of the BBI!
T-Bone  
Dunedin81 : 9/16/2014 2:43 pm : link
The jokes are distasteful, but I guess it's a means of dealing with something that is uncomfortable for us. What I found more distasteful was the idiotic assertion that there can be no long-term psychological consequences of a female on male rape.
the people who are signing off on this one as 'hell, at least he is  
Nitro : 9/16/2014 2:45 pm : link
gettin some' are emblematic of my assertion that bbi is filled with dusty dicked idiots.
That picture  
Phil from WNY : 9/16/2014 2:50 pm : link
made me think of Eddie Murphy's aunt. Goony Goo Goo.
RE: the people who are signing off on this one as 'hell, at least he is  
RC02XX : 9/16/2014 2:50 pm : link
In comment 11866527 Nitro said:
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gettin some' are emblematic of my assertion that bbi is filled with dusty dicked idiots.


Dusty dicked idiots. That is the greatest single insult I've heard in ages. Thanks for that, as I'll use that from here on out.
the jokes, I get  
fkap : 9/16/2014 5:04 pm : link
we make jokes about pretty much every disastrous situation. The 'situation is no big deal' attitude of some defending the jokes is pathetic. Making a joke and admitting bad taste, but hey it's funny, is one thing. Not understanding that male rape is a horrendous thing is sheer stupidity.
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