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NFT: Missed opportunities (non football related)

Sonic Youth : 10/20/2014 7:49 pm
Friends band asked me a year ago to play bass for them. Really talented guys.

Didn't have time, didn't play bass. Too busy working.

Other friend plays bass in band.

Fast forward a year.

Friends band has only played 3 shows, but their EP is so on point, a large band's singer has decided to manage them and sign them on his label.

GOD DAMNIT! -_-

just venting on this one. Damnit Damnit Damnit. What could have been =( =( =(
Everybody misses something  
Giants2012 : 10/20/2014 8:07 pm : link
Music however, there isn't much there and a high goes to a low pretty quickly. It's not yesteryear in music.

Like Hollywood, make it for a min and spend the rest of your life chasing a dream while others move ahead.

You're still likely better off without it.
When the Mega Million was upwards of $400 million...  
RC02XX : 10/20/2014 8:15 pm : link
I bought one ticket and missed every number, but if I would have bought another ticket I would have picked all of the right numbers...because when the drawing happened, I was certain that I would have picked those exact numbers.

Fuck my life...I would have been a bajillionaire!..:(
If by being "busy" you mean  
oipolloi : 10/20/2014 9:11 pm : link
Doing stuff for a chick, then you should kick yourself.

If it was work or family, what choice did you have? Just don't make the same mistake next time.
Is there  
ron in new mexico : 10/20/2014 9:42 pm : link
a lot of money to be made in music anymore?
I mean sure some groups black keys something like that but I heard that bands that are real good ( like kongos perhaps) due to no CD's being sold anymore really just make thier money in touring. Some monies in CD's and royalties on songs but nothing like it was years ago. You were like a instant millionaire. Now I heard you pretty much have to work for a living.

Which is not quite but sort of a 9-5 job. Go someplace different every night set up play, and do that over and over.
Is this not true?, that was my impression.

Great if you miss the opportunity to perform your art, but is it the money or the art. Seems if art you could still hook up with someone or other..
maybe  
spike : 10/20/2014 9:45 pm : link
your friend is an awesome bass player….
slightly different answer  
Sneakers O'toole : 10/20/2014 10:06 pm : link
but there was a girl I was close to when I was younger, we were very good friends, one of those ones that got away type of deals. I never took the shot I should have taken, because knowing what I know now as an older guy, she felt the same way

I compare every girl I have ever met since to her.
RE: slightly different answer  
RC02XX : 10/20/2014 10:15 pm : link
In comment 11932974 Sneakers O'toole said:
Quote:
but there was a girl I was close to when I was younger, we were very good friends, one of those ones that got away type of deals. I never took the shot I should have taken, because knowing what I know now as an older guy, she felt the same way

I compare every girl I have ever met since to her.


What have you done to Sneakers, you eagle dragging jackass?
Sneakers  
Sneakers O'toole : 10/20/2014 11:10 pm : link
cannot be influenced by Eagle dragging assholes!!!!!
RE: Is there  
Sonic Youth : 10/23/2014 12:02 am : link
In comment 11932924 ron in new mexico said:
Quote:
a lot of money to be made in music anymore?
I mean sure some groups black keys something like that but I heard that bands that are real good ( like kongos perhaps) due to no CD's being sold anymore really just make thier money in touring. Some monies in CD's and royalties on songs but nothing like it was years ago. You were like a instant millionaire. Now I heard you pretty much have to work for a living.

Which is not quite but sort of a 9-5 job. Go someplace different every night set up play, and do that over and over.
Is this not true?, that was my impression.

Great if you miss the opportunity to perform your art, but is it the money or the art. Seems if art you could still hook up with someone or other..

Yeah, I think it's just the feeling of getting paid to do something you truly love. But the money vs fulfillment thing is a constant tug of war. Just gotta keep striving to find that happy medium.

To be honest, I find a few of my friends that I grew up with playing music are finally getting to some pretty awesome places, some as DJs, some playing in bands, and a couple who are in the recording end of things. I have a fleeting sense of jealousy, but at the end of the day, I'm happy for them, and hey, I guess it gives me one more connection to the industry that I might be able to leverage if I ever get the balls to go for it, right?
RE: Is there  
Sonic Youth : 10/23/2014 12:06 am : link
In comment 11932924 ron in new mexico said:
Quote:
a lot of money to be made in music anymore?
I mean sure some groups black keys something like that but I heard that bands that are real good ( like kongos perhaps) due to no CD's being sold anymore really just make thier money in touring. Some monies in CD's and royalties on songs but nothing like it was years ago. You were like a instant millionaire. Now I heard you pretty much have to work for a living.

Which is not quite but sort of a 9-5 job. Go someplace different every night set up play, and do that over and over.
Is this not true?, that was my impression.

Great if you miss the opportunity to perform your art, but is it the money or the art. Seems if art you could still hook up with someone or other..

But to answer your initial question in your post, yeah, most musicians (at least in most of the genres I listen to) are completely broke. A couple of the electronic genres I like have some potential to make some cash eventually, if you get big enough, but nobody is really in it for that nowadays.

You can't be. With the CD model destroyed, a lot of money has dried out. Artists don't make shit off streaming sites.
RE: slightly different answer  
SanFranGiantsFan : 10/23/2014 6:02 am : link
In comment 11932974 Sneakers O'toole said:
Quote:
but there was a girl I was close to when I was younger, we were very good friends, one of those ones that got away type of deals. I never took the shot I should have taken, because knowing what I know now as an older guy, she felt the same way

I compare every girl I have ever met since to her.


LOL. Good one Sneakers.
Sonic Youth  
Headhunter : 10/23/2014 8:13 am : link
Watch the movie Killing Bono, not the same, but you'll relate your experience to it
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