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GiantFilthy : 10/28/2014 1:32 pm
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RIP Patrice... nsfw audio but sfw video  
Osi Osi Osi OyOyOy : 10/30/2014 12:34 pm : link
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G'morning, Filthy  
Anakim : 10/30/2014 12:34 pm : link
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Wut up, buddy!?  
GiantFilthy : 10/30/2014 12:37 pm : link
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RE: T-Bone,  
buford : 10/30/2014 12:44 pm : link
In comment 11948246 GiantFilthy said:
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as was said earlier, that is assuming that every "hi" and "good morning" was just pleasantry without any strings attached. You and I both know that if she answers back with a pleasantry of her own, the average male is going to take that as a signal for conversation, and step one to getting dat bootaaay.

In other words, I'd bet the vast majority couldn't care less how good her morning is but would like to make her morning better with a little D.


Well, yes. But is that a bad thing? Guys want to meet girls and have sex with them. Thank God, otherwise we'd go extinct.
T-bone...  
Hades07 : 10/30/2014 12:48 pm : link
...pretty much my feeling on the whole thing.
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GiantFilthy : 10/30/2014 12:51 pm : link
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T-Bone,
GiantFilthy : 12:30 pm : link : reply
as was said earlier, that is assuming that every "hi" and "good morning" was just pleasantry without any strings attached. You and I both know that if she answers back with a pleasantry of her own, the average male is going to take that as a signal for conversation, and step one to getting dat bootaaay.

In other words, I'd bet the vast majority couldn't care less how good her morning is but would like to make her morning better with a little D.


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buford : 12:44 pm : link : reply
Well, yes. But is that a bad thing? Guys want to meet girls and have sex with them. Thank God, otherwise we'd go extinct.


Well I think that's up each individual lady walking the street. Some I'd imagine would love the attention briefly. If however it was every day, I can't see it not being frustrating. And I can see that frustration eventually turning what was at first minor annoyances into things you might consider harassment. At least it may feel that way to the girl.

But that's just my take. Girls are weird and gross and who knows what the hell goes on in that brain?
RE: T-Bone,  
GMAN4LIFE : 10/30/2014 12:52 pm : link
In comment 11948246 GiantFilthy said:
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as was said earlier, that is assuming that every "hi" and "good morning" was just pleasantry without any strings attached. You and I both know that if she answers back with a pleasantry of her own, the average male is going to take that as a signal for conversation, and step one to getting dat bootaaay.

In other words, I'd bet the vast majority couldn't care less how good her morning is but would like to make her morning better with a little D.


true but oh well... you walked through all lowlifes. This shouldnt be news to her. Now have her do this in a better environment. Doesnt happen.
The truth  
PA Giant Fan : 10/30/2014 12:59 pm : link
Get over it
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RE: T-Bone,  
BrettNYG10 : 10/30/2014 1:00 pm : link
In comment 11948246 GiantFilthy said:
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as was said earlier, that is assuming that every "hi" and "good morning" was just pleasantry without any strings attached. You and I both know that if she answers back with a pleasantry of her own, the average male is going to take that as a signal for conversation, and step one to getting dat bootaaay.

In other words, I'd bet the vast majority couldn't care less how good her morning is but would like to make her morning better with a little D.


I just assume anyone who talks to me wants to engage in coitus.
RE: T-Bone,  
rsjem1979 : 10/30/2014 1:01 pm : link
In comment 11948246 GiantFilthy said:
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as was said earlier, that is assuming that every "hi" and "good morning" was just pleasantry without any strings attached. You and I both know that if she answers back with a pleasantry of her own, the average male is going to take that as a signal for conversation, and step one to getting dat bootaaay.

In other words, I'd bet the vast majority couldn't care less how good her morning is but would like to make her morning better with a little D.


One solution would be to take the onus off of men to be the one who initiates conversation 99% of the time.

Don't want to be bothered by the bottom rung of male society? Establish a willingness to be equals when it comes to dating, as opposed to passively waiting for someone who meets your standards to ask you out.

There are many approaches to meeting women, and while this may be an example of the worst possible way, when you put it exclusively in our hands you're going to run the gamut.
Attention Whore  
PhiPsi125 : 10/30/2014 1:02 pm : link
Two days in a row that this dumb fucking story has been plastered all over the news.

She wasn't harassed. She knew what she was doing. And she dressed accordingly to elicit a specific response. That any news program is granting a second of airtime to this garbage is an indictment of how horrible news reporting is these days.
RE: T-Bone,  
T-Bone : 10/30/2014 1:02 pm : link
In comment 11948246 GiantFilthy said:
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as was said earlier, that is assuming that every "hi" and "good morning" was just pleasantry without any strings attached. You and I both know that if she answers back with a pleasantry of her own, the average male is going to take that as a signal for conversation, and step one to getting dat bootaaay.

In other words, I'd bet the vast majority couldn't care less how good her morning is but would like to make her morning better with a little D.


Filthy one - then she has the choice to continue to ignore them OR video herself going through what EVERY other pretty woman (and maybe even some not so pretty ones) have to go through each day of their lives. This video is pretty much a 'Duh?' video to me. Especially considering that she's wearing such form fitting clothing and before anyone says it, I'm not saying that she shouldn't be able to wear what she wants to wear and not be harassed but that's simply not the world we live in.

This video is the equivalent of me wearing a Giants jersey and videotaping myself walking through the streets of Philly for 10 hours and showing everyone the reactions I get. Sure, it'd be nice to know that I could walk around the streets of Philly with a Giants jersey on and know that I won't be harassed... but again, that's not the world we live in... nor will it ever be.

So basically what she's saying in that video is 'Hey everybody! I'm a pretty girl and I'm going to wear these tight pants and walk around throughout the city and watch how many guys try to holla at me.... and oh yeah, please send a donation so that we can stop this from happening because I'm very annoyed by this and hopefully we can stop ALL men from trying to come on to pretty women who are walking down the street!".
Yeah  
Motley Blue : 10/30/2014 1:02 pm : link
Didn't hear too many "hi's & good morning's" in there.

I think I heard one "Have a nice evening." and the guy who followed her for 5 minutes said the most innocent thing...then followed her for 5 minutes.

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buford : 10/30/2014 1:09 pm : link
In comment 11948279 GiantFilthy said:
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T-Bone,
GiantFilthy : 12:30 pm : link : reply
as was said earlier, that is assuming that every "hi" and "good morning" was just pleasantry without any strings attached. You and I both know that if she answers back with a pleasantry of her own, the average male is going to take that as a signal for conversation, and step one to getting dat bootaaay.

In other words, I'd bet the vast majority couldn't care less how good her morning is but would like to make her morning better with a little D.





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buford : 12:44 pm : link : reply
Well, yes. But is that a bad thing? Guys want to meet girls and have sex with them. Thank God, otherwise we'd go extinct.



Well I think that's up each individual lady walking the street. Some I'd imagine would love the attention briefly. If however it was every day, I can't see it not being frustrating. And I can see that frustration eventually turning what was at first minor annoyances into things you might consider harassment. At least it may feel that way to the girl.

But that's just my take. Girls are weird and gross and who knows what the hell goes on in that brain?


That's true, but if a woman personalizes this, that's the problem. They aren't talking to her as much as they probably talk to every woman that passes by. So I wouldn't be flattered or bothered by it. That is what they are doing, it really doesn't have anything to do with me. Of course the guys who follow her down the street, that is a different story. But honestly I've never had an issue with brushing someone off by being direct.

I know I'm probably going to catch shit for this, but it seems women that do complain about this are really upset because they don't believe certain guys have the right to talk to them. They believe they are way too good for those guys and those guys should understand that and not address them at all. Just MHO.
RE: RE: T-Bone,  
BrettNYG10 : 10/30/2014 1:12 pm : link
In comment 11948304 T-Bone said:
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In comment 11948246 GiantFilthy said:


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as was said earlier, that is assuming that every "hi" and "good morning" was just pleasantry without any strings attached. You and I both know that if she answers back with a pleasantry of her own, the average male is going to take that as a signal for conversation, and step one to getting dat bootaaay.

In other words, I'd bet the vast majority couldn't care less how good her morning is but would like to make her morning better with a little D.



Filthy one - then she has the choice to continue to ignore them OR video herself going through what EVERY other pretty woman (and maybe even some not so pretty ones) have to go through each day of their lives. This video is pretty much a 'Duh?' video to me. Especially considering that she's wearing such form fitting clothing and before anyone says it, I'm not saying that she shouldn't be able to wear what she wants to wear and not be harassed but that's simply not the world we live in.

This video is the equivalent of me wearing a Giants jersey and videotaping myself walking through the streets of Philly for 10 hours and showing everyone the reactions I get. Sure, it'd be nice to know that I could walk around the streets of Philly with a Giants jersey on and know that I won't be harassed... but again, that's not the world we live in... nor will it ever be.

So basically what she's saying in that video is 'Hey everybody! I'm a pretty girl and I'm going to wear these tight pants and walk around throughout the city and watch how many guys try to holla at me.... and oh yeah, please send a donation so that we can stop this from happening because I'm very annoyed by this and hopefully we can stop ALL men from trying to come on to pretty women who are walking down the street!".


That's a poor analogy, IMO - additionally, the men have ~6+ inches and 50+ pounds on her. You and I can most likely do something about a man following us around for a period of time - a woman probably can't without going to someone else.

It's not merely people bothering her while she's going about her day, but the potential intimidation factor associated with it - particularly at night.
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BrettNYG10 : 10/30/2014 1:14 pm : link
In comment 11948317 buford said:
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T-Bone,
GiantFilthy : 12:30 pm : link : reply
as was said earlier, that is assuming that every "hi" and "good morning" was just pleasantry without any strings attached. You and I both know that if she answers back with a pleasantry of her own, the average male is going to take that as a signal for conversation, and step one to getting dat bootaaay.

In other words, I'd bet the vast majority couldn't care less how good her morning is but would like to make her morning better with a little D.





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buford : 12:44 pm : link : reply
Well, yes. But is that a bad thing? Guys want to meet girls and have sex with them. Thank God, otherwise we'd go extinct.



Well I think that's up each individual lady walking the street. Some I'd imagine would love the attention briefly. If however it was every day, I can't see it not being frustrating. And I can see that frustration eventually turning what was at first minor annoyances into things you might consider harassment. At least it may feel that way to the girl.

But that's just my take. Girls are weird and gross and who knows what the hell goes on in that brain?



That's true, but if a woman personalizes this, that's the problem. They aren't talking to her as much as they probably talk to every woman that passes by. So I wouldn't be flattered or bothered by it. That is what they are doing, it really doesn't have anything to do with me. Of course the guys who follow her down the street, that is a different story. But honestly I've never had an issue with brushing someone off by being direct.

I know I'm probably going to catch shit for this, but it seems women that do complain about this are really upset because they don't believe certain guys have the right to talk to them. They believe they are way too good for those guys and those guys should understand that and not address them at all. Just MHO.


I also feel that most people shouldn't have a right to talk to me because I'm too good for them.
Not to mention there are places & settings where  
Motley Blue : 10/30/2014 1:17 pm : link
it's more acceptable & even expected.

Go to the bars, clubs, online dating, places where women are dressed up & clearly seeking attention form the opposite sex.

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T-Bone : 10/30/2014 1:20 pm : link
In comment 11948321 BrettNYG10 said:
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In comment 11948304 T-Bone said:


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In comment 11948246 GiantFilthy said:


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as was said earlier, that is assuming that every "hi" and "good morning" was just pleasantry without any strings attached. You and I both know that if she answers back with a pleasantry of her own, the average male is going to take that as a signal for conversation, and step one to getting dat bootaaay.

In other words, I'd bet the vast majority couldn't care less how good her morning is but would like to make her morning better with a little D.



Filthy one - then she has the choice to continue to ignore them OR video herself going through what EVERY other pretty woman (and maybe even some not so pretty ones) have to go through each day of their lives. This video is pretty much a 'Duh?' video to me. Especially considering that she's wearing such form fitting clothing and before anyone says it, I'm not saying that she shouldn't be able to wear what she wants to wear and not be harassed but that's simply not the world we live in.

This video is the equivalent of me wearing a Giants jersey and videotaping myself walking through the streets of Philly for 10 hours and showing everyone the reactions I get. Sure, it'd be nice to know that I could walk around the streets of Philly with a Giants jersey on and know that I won't be harassed... but again, that's not the world we live in... nor will it ever be.

So basically what she's saying in that video is 'Hey everybody! I'm a pretty girl and I'm going to wear these tight pants and walk around throughout the city and watch how many guys try to holla at me.... and oh yeah, please send a donation so that we can stop this from happening because I'm very annoyed by this and hopefully we can stop ALL men from trying to come on to pretty women who are walking down the street!".



That's a poor analogy, IMO - additionally, the men have ~6+ inches and 50+ pounds on her. You and I can most likely do something about a man following us around for a period of time - a woman probably can't without going to someone else.

It's not merely people bothering her while she's going about her day, but the potential intimidation factor associated with it - particularly at night.


It may not be the best but I think it's an apt one. And she seemed to have no problem handling herself for 10 hours (at least the 10 hours she allowed us to see). Not to mention, she's only showed us what SHE wants us to see... what about the guys who approached her in a respectful way? What about the guys who she actually perhaps stopped and talked to? How do we even know she did this for actually 10 hours?

And lastly Brett... what to you propose to do to resolve the issue?
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GiantFilthy : 10/30/2014 1:22 pm : link
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And lastly Brett... what to you propose to do to resolve the issue?


I think the resolution is on guys to maybe stop trying to approach women on the street and leave them alone.
RE: Not to mention there are places & settings where  
T-Bone : 10/30/2014 1:23 pm : link
In comment 11948331 Motley Blue said:
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it's more acceptable & even expected.

Go to the bars, clubs, online dating, places where women are dressed up & clearly seeking attention form the opposite sex.


Some would argue that she's clearly seeking attention by the way she's dressed.... which, again, she has a right to do.. but then don't be surprised by the reaction you get from others (hence my likening this to me wearing a Giants jersey around Philly). And for everyone woman like her who doesn't appreciate the way she's getting approached there is another woman who enjoys it and may have stopped and talked to one of those guys. How are we supposed to know the difference?
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T-Bone : 10/30/2014 1:24 pm : link
In comment 11948337 GiantFilthy said:
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And lastly Brett... what to you propose to do to resolve the issue?



I think the resolution is on guys to maybe stop trying to approach women on the street and leave them alone.


Well I think that's silly. What happens when she sees the guy on the street that she WANTS to talk to her but doesn't because of her video?
They can argue it  
Motley Blue : 10/30/2014 1:27 pm : link
if they enjoy making shitty arguments.

You don't know what some woman just walking down the street minding her business has going on. Shit, she could be walking home from the doctors office where she just got told she had pussy cancer because she let some dude on the street pick her up and sleep with her by saying," Damn Girl!". Yeah, that dude gave her HPV, but she had jeans on that day...
Some dude  
Berrylish : 10/30/2014 1:28 pm : link
started talking to me yesterday in a deli. He told me i could get in line in front of him, told me pink was a good color on me and told me to give the cashier hell. ( was wearing pink scrubs) puleeeeeeeeaseeeeeeee
To piggyback off of Motley's post,  
GiantFilthy : 10/30/2014 1:30 pm : link
there is a time and place. I'm sure plenty of women don't mind being hit on out in public like this. But in my opinion it's best to go by the assumption that on the street, especially in a fast moving town like Manhattan, that girl does not want me to stop her and she is not out here looking the other half of her heart.

If I see her at the bar then I'll runningman-chasse-featherstep-heelpull-crossbodylead-grapevine right up to her and see what's up.
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T-Bone : 10/30/2014 1:30 pm : link
In comment 11948352 Motley Blue said:
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if they enjoy making shitty arguments.

You don't know what some woman just walking down the street minding her business has going on. Shit, she could be walking home from the doctors office where she just got told she had pussy cancer because she let some dude on the street pick her up and sleep with her by saying," Damn Girl!". Yeah, that dude gave her HPV, but she had jeans on that day...


This is true.

OR, she could be having a nice day and feeling good and sexy and may be willing to give one of these guys the time of day. Unfortunately we men won't know unless we try right?
Everything starts....  
Wonderphil11 : 10/30/2014 1:31 pm : link
with awareness and all this video is doing is shining a light on a situation that women have to deal with. It doesn't matter what she looks like, what neighborhood she's in or what she's wearing. It's not some blanket statement admonishing every man and condemning the act of trying to meet someone of the opposite sex. It's not a vanity, look at me, attention whore project either. I find it interesting that some are jumping to these conclusions based on nothing and getting all riled up because an organization wants to change behavior that some women (rightfully so) would consider harassing and, in some cases, threatening. The fact that this woman is receiving threats against her is disturbing but unfortunately not shocking in the least and somewhat expected when factoring in the overreaction by so many.
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BrettNYG10 : 10/30/2014 1:35 pm : link
In comment 11948339 T-Bone said:
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And lastly Brett... what to you propose to do to resolve the issue?



I think the resolution is on guys to maybe stop trying to approach women on the street and leave them alone.



Well I think that's silly. What happens when she sees the guy on the street that she WANTS to talk to her but doesn't because of her video?


She can go talk to him?
Like I said  
Motley Blue : 10/30/2014 1:40 pm : link
There's a better venue. Having a sidewalk in common isn't a really a whole lot to hang your hat on. Go sit I a coffee shop or a book store. Put yourself in a position to have something in common with them other than some pavement.


Take Mr. Clarence's advice.
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Expected  
mitch300 : 10/30/2014 2:02 pm : link
a more attractive women.
The only people I find fault with are the losers in the video  
Go Terps : 10/30/2014 2:20 pm : link
What kind of game is that?

Guys can be pretty nuts though. My wife texted me a couple weeks ago that the guy working on the ceiling in her office was blatantly hitting on her. I don't take offense to that sort of thing but this time I thought it was a bit much as she is six months pregnant. Who hits on a pregnant chick?

I don't know, I guess a dick and balls make you do weird shit sometimes.
Congrats, Terps!  
JonC : 10/30/2014 2:29 pm : link
This is amplified in NYC where the streets are crawling with women and dudes in pursuit, and this population tends to be more aggressive as a people, more forward with their interest, etc. Let her walk around the LES on a Saturday night and it will be much, much worse.

The key is act with class, treat with respect, make her laugh. Those things are easily done in a manner that actually attracts a woman regardless of location. There's so much shite social programming in our society confusing simple things.

Preggo chicks is a big time fetish for some of us.  
GiantFilthy : 10/30/2014 2:30 pm : link
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I mean for some other people.  
GiantFilthy : 10/30/2014 2:30 pm : link
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Motley Blue : 10/30/2014 2:44 pm : link
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The only thing a woman hates more than being looked at like an object  
Nitro : 10/30/2014 4:38 pm : link
is not being looked like an object (ask buford).

Men approach, women decide. Been that way forever. The same behavior can be sweet or creepy depending on the source. This is all very basic stuff, so yawn.

Any grand experiment that gets uploaded to youtube has about as much science around it as a Randy alien thread.

Great think piece for the bored internet though.
Here's some real  
GeneInCal : 10/30/2014 4:49 pm : link
harassment. I doubt this chick and her ilk are doing anything about it though.
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the racial component to this is unignorable by the way  
Nitro : 10/30/2014 5:40 pm : link
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Those guys had weak game..  
Davisian : 10/31/2014 12:06 am : link
You don't harrass the pussy, you take a mental picture of dat ass and make a deposit into the spank bank..


Fuckin idiots..

RE: Those guys had weak game..  
River Mike : 10/31/2014 9:00 am : link
In comment 11949251 Davisian said:
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You don't harrass the pussy, you take a mental picture of dat ass and make a deposit into the spank bank..


Fuckin idiots..


What's the difference between a sperm bank and a savings bank?
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River Mike : 10/31/2014 9:21 am : link
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You don't harrass the pussy, you take a mental picture of dat ass and make a deposit into the spank bank..


Fuckin idiots..




What's the difference between a sperm bank and a savings bank?


Answer... In the sperm bank, after making a deposit you LOSE interest.
i heard the interview with the camera guy...  
GMAN4LIFE : 10/31/2014 9:45 am : link
i mean that would should be labeled as captain obvious
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Hades07 : 10/31/2014 10:17 am : link
In comment 11948374 BrettNYG10 said:
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And lastly Brett... what to you propose to do to resolve the issue?



I think the resolution is on guys to maybe stop trying to approach women on the street and leave them alone.



Well I think that's silly. What happens when she sees the guy on the street that she WANTS to talk to her but doesn't because of her video?



She can go talk to him?
So it isn't ok for men to approach random women on the street, but it is perfectly fine for a woman to do it? What if he isn't interested in the attention, maybe she is the 100th girl to try some pick up line on him as he was just trying to walk through the city for 10 straight hours?

Or are you saying that there should be different rules and laws for different genders? Should it be, say a $50 fine for speaking to a woman in public unless spoken to first, with a chance for that fine to be waived if the verbally assaulted female in question finds the male perp appealing? Maybe we should have a national attractiveness scoring system for men, so we know before we open our mouths the likelihood of being ticketed for the offense? Or should we have a red strip running down the sidewalk for women who want to be approached? Walk in the red strip and she's asking for it. What's the answer really? And once we do fix it, what inane thing are we going to have to fix next?
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BrettNYG10 : 10/31/2014 10:19 am : link
That was an incredibly stupid post.
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Hades07 : 10/31/2014 10:22 am : link
In comment 11949487 BrettNYG10 said:
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That was an incredibly stupid post.
That was the point, only way to respond to the stupidity and hypocrisy of your own. But I should have assumed you were to slow to pick up on the tongue in cheek nature of it, so he I am holding your hand through it. You are welcome.
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BrettNYG10 : 10/31/2014 10:26 am : link
So your 'point' is to demonstrate you're a moron? Got it.
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GiantFilthy : 10/31/2014 10:42 am : link
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RE: To piggyback off of Motley's post,  
wigs in nyc : 10/31/2014 10:56 am : link
In comment 11948359 GiantFilthy said:
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If I see her at the bar then I'll runningman-chasse-featherstep-heelpull-crossbodylead-grapevine right up to her and see what's up.

.....well now I need a new move.
RE: Everything starts....  
JOrthman : 10/31/2014 11:46 am : link
In comment 11948364 Wonderphil11 said:
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with awareness and all this video is doing is shining a light on a situation that women have to deal with. It doesn't matter what she looks like, what neighborhood she's in or what she's wearing. It's not some blanket statement admonishing every man and condemning the act of trying to meet someone of the opposite sex. It's not a vanity, look at me, attention whore project either. I find it interesting that some are jumping to these conclusions based on nothing and getting all riled up because an organization wants to change behavior that some women (rightfully so) would consider harassing and, in some cases, threatening. The fact that this woman is receiving threats against her is disturbing but unfortunately not shocking in the least and somewhat expected when factoring in the overreaction by so many.


Spot on
I find WonderPhil annoying  
Pork and Beans : 10/31/2014 11:58 am : link
please donate to me and I will work to end his harassment.
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Wonderphil11 : 10/31/2014 2:54 pm : link
In comment 11949645 Pork and Beans said:
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please donate to me and I will work to end his harassment.


Ummm....OK
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