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NFT: Is it better to rent or buy a home?

nyjuggernaut : 10/31/2014 10:49 pm
My wife and I have been renting a place in Jersey for the past 7 years but with the kids getting older we've outgrown it. Have started browsing around for a bigger place and am wondering with the way the market is right now if it's best to just find another rental. I've been getting mixed thoughts on both renting and buying and figured I'd see what BBI folk think.
if you have the money for the down payment  
CruzShip52 : 10/31/2014 10:52 pm : link
Buy

Youre building equity
im very one sided on this  
CruzShip52 : 10/31/2014 10:54 pm : link
So take my opinion w a grain of salt ..im not a fan of renting
It's impossible to say  
UConn4523 : 10/31/2014 10:59 pm : link
so many factors; are you staying put? Will you outgrow a home and have to upgrade? Schools, taxes, upkeep, etc.

My friend never lived away from home and took a job out of state and bought a condo. A year into it he hates it and is stuck there in essence.

I wouldn't buy just to buy. If buy if I was 100% sure it's the right home for me and one that I'll be in for the next 5-7 years at an absolute minimum.

Right now I'm on the verge of buying but living in a full service building that has everything I can possibly want at a reasonable price and not having to pay for taxes and upkeep is incredibly attractive. I'm not in a rush though I am looking at 2015 to be the purchase year.
I always felt like I was wasting money when paying someone rent  
steve in ky : 10/31/2014 11:11 pm : link
With home ownership you get the benefit of the tax deduction from the interest and equity as you pay down the mortgage even without factoring in any future appreciation. If able to afford the higher payments I personally preferred going with a 15 year mortgage myself and paying it off ASAP while also saving the additional interest that would have been paid out with longer mortgages.

Also for me at least there is something about it being yours. I enjoy owning property and being able to do with it as I like.
I own but the trend nationally  
ron in new mexico : 11/1/2014 12:01 am : link
since the precipitous fall in home values following the subprime debacle is against it. So many ended up in upside down loans they gave up on the whole process. Imagine paying for years and years on a property that had lost a third of what it was worth?
And the system does not favor just running away from it there can be severe negative consequences.

So a bit it depends upon your view of the economy. Are things going to be stable within the terms of the loan?

Land taxes in NJ to my dim recollection can be quite heady. That may be a consideration.

A all cash deal would probably circumvent all these considerations. Amount and terms of the loan would make some more or less important.
AS kids grow up we normally go to smaller homes not bigger. Burt if that is as they are teenagers and need rooms for themselves keep in mind that will end in a few years and then you will need a smaller home. It is way way easier to get a different rental than sell or buy a home. YOu may end up stuck in what you buy.
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kepler20 : 11/1/2014 1:40 am : link
if you're renting in the city you are more insulated from a precipitous fall in value.

That's all I got.
The answer to this question  
Hammer : 11/1/2014 6:33 am : link
is not nearly as clear as it was only 8 years ago.

For my money, it depends more on your familial situation than anything else.

If you have a family, read kids, and a steady job, and like the area you are going to be in, and intend to stay for at least 7-10 years, and have at least a 20% deposit, I would say it is a good idea to buy.

If you don't have any one of those things, I think you're better off renting.

I bought my fist house in 1987 and would still be there if not for a divorce and bought my second house in 2003 and still live there. That'll give you some idea regarding how I look at my living arrangements.

Just my 2 cents, your mileage may vary.
There are way too many variables  
Rick in Annapolis : 11/1/2014 6:57 am : link
to answer this question. But strictly speaking from a monetary stand point, and assuming you're paying fair values on your rent or purchase, I think buying a home will always be the better long term investment. Especially if you can take advantage of current interest rates.
Several excellent posts already, especially from UConn and Hammer.  
Big Blue Blogger : 11/1/2014 7:39 am : link
There is a ton of noise on this topic, ranging from NAR propaganda touting "better living through home ownership" (happier kids, fewer divorces, more family wealth - can you say "correlation, not causation"?) to scholarly macroeconomic models of why renting must cost more than owning. The problem, aside from all the vested interests distorting the discussion, is that people aren't data points. They have complex emotions and life circumstances.

As UConn said, if you find the perfect home in the perfect place and envision staying there for a long time, buying is very likely to work out well for you in the long run. Otherwise, it's going to be a very close call. The closer it is, the more the balance tilts toward renting - a.k.a. kicking the can down the road. My advice would be to trust your gut, don't look back, and focus on making the best of your choice, not on whether you made the right one.
I would listen to steve,  
Randy in CT : 11/1/2014 8:04 am : link
and not take "don't buy" advice from people who have never bought.

If you get a price that you think is fair, even if you outgrow the house or decide to move, there are options like renting it out, so you don't have to sell it quickly and lose money.

Buying houses is fun if you research it and don't be afraid of thinking outside the box.
nyjuggernaut  
sexymoves : 11/1/2014 8:04 am : link
Assuming you are gainfully employed with some savings, I recommend you purchase a home. Every rent payment leaves you for ever, ever mortgage payment is a investment the will return to you. The market for buying a home is really good right now if you are a buyer. This is the worst housing market since the great depression.
Here is another option for you...  
EricJ (formerly Tyleraimee) : 11/1/2014 8:22 am : link
one that is a little more difficult to manage BUT truly would help you to build more wealth.

Use your down payment money to buy a multi family building. Can be in a place like Jersey City (not sure what state you are in). Then, use the positive cash flow to help pay either your mortgage or rent on a single family home.

So, what you have are tenants paying for your personal living expenses.
buy only if...  
silverfox : 11/1/2014 8:30 am : link
...you know you're going to stay put for a minimum of five years (employment, relationships, etc). Otherwise don't even think of buying.
My fiancé and I went through this dilemma recently  
Kevin in CT : 11/1/2014 8:32 am : link
We looked for about six months on and off at houses and waited patiently until we found the right house. Connecitcut, and I'm sure other states offer some nice incentives for first time homeowners that we were able to take advantage of. We are closing next month and I am looking forward to owning our first house.
A few points to consider...  
baadbill : 11/1/2014 8:47 am : link
* You can't simply compare your rent payment versus your mortgage payment. They are not the same thing for a multitude of reasons: (1) Home ownership involves dollar costs that go far beyond your monthly mortgage payments. Taxes, maintenance, upkeep and repairs, and appliances and other home improvements have to be added to the mortgage calculation to make them equivalent. (2) The income you lose on your down payment has to be included (and if you are staying there long term, that income should be based upon stock values or approx 10% per year - so if you put down $100,000 you have to add 10% of that - or $10,000 - to the annual "mortgage" cost).

So, when you add the above items to the "mortgage payment" and then compare it to the rent payment - now you are getting closer to a true comparison.

* Secondly, the idea that owning is an investment decision, is an ok way to look at things, but most professional investment advisors would warn against that thinking. From a pure investment decision, the bottom line is whether or not you would think it a good idea to purchase the property in question as an investment and not live there but rent it to someone else. That would require a very complex and sophisticated analysis by a professional who does real estate investing for a full time living. Owning versus renting does not mean that you will sell at a profit (after taking into account the interest on the mortgage and all the other costs of ownership over the years.

* IMO, the bottom line is that the decision whether to rent or own should NOT be made upon the basis that it is a better financial decision. Rather, it should be a lifestyle choice. Do you want the freedom of not having anyone control how you live or what you do with your home - and does that outweigh the cost, in dollars and TIME (and PIA things), that home ownership entails - together with the fact that home ownership is an anchor and restricts your mobility. Those are the more important factors than any financial aspects. If there are good reasons to own real estate - then you can decide to own real estate as an investment regardless of where you decide to live (i.e. you can still rent for the lifestyle reasons).
My advice, based on my personal experience only  
pjcas18 : 11/1/2014 9:11 am : link
(no financial models or extensive research done - and this depends on this city) is if you by "a home" you want a single-family house and plan to have kids and want a yard with a good school system, etc., you have a better selection, in better areas for buying vs. renting. I know from experience when we sold my house and had an issue with the house I was buying and looked into rentals for my family - in many areas there are just not a lot of options and the owners know that so it's not cheap.

If you're looking at a condo or apartment, I think you could probably look to financial models for advice, but renting seems like it would be probably as good a choice as buying simply based on inventory.
Thanks guys for the great posts on this  
nyjuggernaut : 11/1/2014 9:41 am : link
We are meeting with our financial advisor later today to go over some variables with him, and our going to two showings tomorrow. Your tips are well noted.
I bought a house in 2004.  
Exit 172 : 11/1/2014 9:49 am : link
Gigantic waste of money. And I can't just move like I could from a rental. I'm stuck here.

So if you like losing money and feeling trapped, buy.
Or you could see a house as an investment  
Blue Blood : 11/1/2014 11:48 am : link
as several people here have said there are many variables. Figure out what works best for you.
Depends on how much money you make  
eclipz928 : 11/1/2014 12:17 pm : link
and how much money you have saved. Right now, it makes more sense financially to buy a home as opposed to renting an apartment big enough to fit a family. However, if you can't afford it, you can't afford it. You shouldn't buy a house just for the sake of making a good investment - all investments are risks.

What my feelings were leading up to me and my wife buying a home, and what I continue to tell people now is this: if you don't have enough saved up to put down 20% towards the home you want, you probably can't afford that house. If you're making enough money now where you think you would eventually save up enough to amount to a 20% down payment, then it's best to wait till you get there. There's nothing wrong with renting, and doing so has plenty advantages versus buying a home.
I know we don't like to think it  
ron in new mexico : 11/1/2014 1:04 pm : link
but something in the 40-50% chance we have to.

In the case of a divorce a house is a way way difficult thing to consider. You have to buy out the other party if you want to stay there, whiich amounts to a sizeable amount of cash or another heady loan or you may decide to sell and split the proceeds which is quite a lengthy process. And then she has to agree to the sale. In a bad divorce that can be almost impossible. And who pays whose rent till it is finalized? Who maintains the house until it is? Who makes that payment?

So I know we never think that can happen but it does to about half of us.
I saw mine coming got prepared for it and it still got real real ugly mainly over the house.
A much cleaner easier break is possible without. Harsh to say but it is a fact.
I moved to Atlanta 2 years ago  
nedhiggins : 11/1/2014 1:22 pm : link
I thought about potentially buying a house or a condo. I've opted to rent. I don't know if i'll be here 5-7 years from now. I'm focusing on paying off my student loans and investing in my retirement. Good luck with your decision.
One other idea for you to consider  
steve in ky : 11/1/2014 3:16 pm : link
See if you could find a home that you like where you could lease with an option to buy. Negotiate a portion of your rents to be applied towards the purchase if you choose to exercise your buy option. Maybe sign a one year lease with two additional one year renewal options. That way you could live in the house from anywhere from one, two or three years before deciding if ownership of the home appeals to you.

I have purchased homes and lots with options and there are some nice benefits. It locks in the selling price and this does two things for you. If the prices drop you are not committed, but can renegotiate a new price if you want to pursue purchasing. However if the prices appreciate you control the option and can exercise it at any time and will have built in appreciation. This allows you to purchase for yourself at a lower than market price (plus recapture the applied portions of rents) or if there is enough appreciation you could find a buyer (get a deposit and signed contract) for a higher price, exercise your option and purchase and then immediately resell to the buyer and pocket the difference between your option buying price and selling price. I once optioned a lot and then a few years later when prices had escalated quite a bit exercised the option and resold it each transition within five minuets of the other and pocketed $50,000 in doing so.

Anyway you might consider it because leasing with an option as the name implies gives you many options which you control and most of them are to your favor. You aren't forced to do any of them and could simply walk away if you so choose and then you would have essentially just paid rent to live there.
RE: nyjuggernaut  
Stan from LA : 11/1/2014 3:35 pm : link
In comment 11950507 sexymoves said:
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Every rent payment leaves you forever...


And as an owner, every property tax payment, every HOA payment, every interest payment, every insurance payment, every repair payment also leave you forever.

And in a market that's as likely to go up as well as go down, renting looks to be a better choice for most people. As I say that as a home owner.
as Stan said  
fkap : 11/1/2014 4:07 pm : link
there's a lot of costs of owning that go out the window.

Based on what I've shelled out for my current house (taxes, upkeep) vs how much my house has appreciated, I've lost money on the value of my home.

Every month, I donate 500 bucks to the school/local gov't, and that pales in comparison to downstaters or people who have mcMansions. Then there's the new roof and new furnace, new doors, new flooring, and probably a new AC in the spring, and sooner or later new windows.



In areas of low property taxes, owning could be a viable financial decision. In NYS, it's an iffy proposition when comparing apartment to owning. renting a house is fairly limited availability and typically more expensive than a mortgage payment, but you don't have the tax/upkeep angle.



If you do buy, time the market. buying during a peak is a recipe for disaster. Unfortunately, it's often difficult to sell during a lull.

If I move again, I'm definitely investigating rentals. Being in a house has advantages. I'm not so sure owning one is a slam dunk.
Renting isn't pissing money away  
UConn4523 : 11/1/2014 4:15 pm : link
As there's no risk with that money, absolutely none. So many upside to owning, but severe consequences as well if there's any drastic life changes.

And those that suggest buying a multi family unit, that advice isn't practicle. Most people don't want to deal with being a landlord and there's even more downside of being a home owner + a landlord. That's not to say it can't be a good investment, but it applies to almost no one unless it's something they were already considering.

The best advice is be patient, weigh your options, and if you aren't dead set on buying yet, rent for a year with no risk.
the caveat to UConn's advice  
fkap : 11/1/2014 4:22 pm : link
is to gaze into your crystal ball. Housing prices are reasonable now. don't know if we're still trending upward or if the economy is starting to slide. I don't really follow the market, as there's not much I can do about it and I don't wheel and deal in stocks, but last I heard interest rates were on the rise.

Waiting may not be a wise decision if you end up paying more.
I wish I bought an apt in Brooklyn  
spike : 11/1/2014 4:30 pm : link
instead of renting. Now i'm being priced out of my neighborhood and the housing prices are too exorbitant to buy.
Hindsight is rough advice  
UConn4523 : 11/1/2014 4:33 pm : link
my point about just renting would be if he's uncertain. Of course price may rise in a year, but that doesn't mean it still wasn't the correct decision.
Specific to interest rates fkap  
ron in new mexico : 11/1/2014 4:33 pm : link
the fed has stopped the easing program but they are not going to now flood the market with bonds they own, but hold onto them, perhaps putting dribs and drabs back into the market eventually.

Actions in other nations such as the EU and just yesterday Japan will put bond buyers back into our bond market. As interest rates in those places are contiuing to drop in some cases being at a real zero.
So driving them here(the money) will likely keep demand for our rates high and correspondingly our rates low for quite some time.

2 months ago, all were predicting higher rates in the US. Right now not so much so. interest rates here for homes and such being predicated by bond interest rates overall, as you know.
fkap  
steve in ky : 11/1/2014 4:35 pm : link
Yeah, IMO trying to time the market is foolish. If you buy real estate with a conservative long term strategy in place, do your homework and use common sense it then IMO is a sound investment.

Higher bond prices demand for our bonds  
ron in new mexico : 11/1/2014 4:35 pm : link
will keep our bond rates low that sentence should read(sorry).
A lot of good answers  
Rob in NYC : 11/1/2014 6:26 pm : link
but I think the primary issue for young adults (not sure how old you are, so apologies if this doesn't apply) is that home ownership decreases mobility with respect to employment. Being tied to a home with negative equity value has been a serious hardship for many people who thought that the were in a reasonably secure position. So long as there are millions of unemployed or underemployed individuals and the economy remains anemic, the flexibility to move quickly has a very real positive value.
UConn  
fkap : 11/1/2014 6:42 pm : link
I didn't mean to naysay your advice. Merely pointing out that waiting isn't always wise IF there are obvious signs that the market is about to rise. obviously hindsight is 20/20.

Steve, while timing the market perfectly is tough, there are times when it's obvious it's in a trough or a bubble. We've been at a low for quite a while, so I wouldn't hesitate to buy now. On the other hand, if prices have been rising for a while, I wouldn't buy unless forced to. I think too many people get caught up in the housing fever during a bubble and sell because the getting is good, but then turn around and upgrade buy, and when the market falls they're caught underwater.
Nationally, the rate of home price increases  
Rob in NYC : 11/1/2014 7:30 pm : link
is decelerating...we have clearly come off the low's, the question is now one of sustainability of home price momentum, which several factors argue against, even acknowledging that there is pent-up demand among young adults.

Of course, your location may be experiencing different dynamics.
One other thing to consider  
pjcas18 : 11/1/2014 8:45 pm : link
when assessing the buy/rent decision is interest rates.

Just as an example - I am sure people have similar stories - when I bought my first house in 2002, the interest rate we got, which was competitive at the time, was 7 1/8 for a 30-yr fixed with 0 points.

I bought my 2nd house in 2013 and our rate was 3 3/8 with 0 points for a 30-yr fixed.

Normally you'd expect prices to go up or down and more or less offset interest rates increasing or decreasing, but we haven't really experienced that here (in the Boston metro area and I suspect other major cities probably haven't either - especially those in the Northeast where inventories are not as plentiful as the south or west where they can just keep building), so while i felt it somewhat when I sold my house after 11 years, I got the benefit of it when buying a house in this market.

RE: nyjuggernaut  
sexymoves : 11/1/2014 8:51 pm : link
RE: nyjuggernaut
== Stan from LA : 3:35 pm : link : reply
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And as an owner, every property tax payment, every HOA payment, every interest payment, every insurance payment, every repair payment also leave you forever.

And in a market that's as likely to go up as well as go down, renting looks to be a better choice for most people. As I say that as a home owner.==

Stan do you think when you rent your landlord is not factoring the tax, maintenance, insurance into the rental rate? All those said expenses are passed onto the tenant every time. Real estate is a great investment if you have you make good decisions.
RE: RE: nyjuggernaut  
baadbill : 11/1/2014 9:15 pm : link
In comment 11951147 sexymoves said:
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Stan do you think when you rent your landlord is not factoring the tax, maintenance, insurance into the rental rate? All those said expenses are passed onto the tenant every time. Real estate is a great investment if you have you make good decisions.


A landlord can "factor" anything he/she wants but at the end of the day, the landlord is only going to collect whatever rent the market will bear... and that changes over time ... and has nothing to do with tax, maintenance insurance etc. The bottom line is to buy low enough, keep your costs down, and pray demand stays high.

Real estate is generally not a great investment, it is a career. It is not liquid. It is very difficult to diversify without 10 million dollars to spend. And it generally requires active involvement as a landlord. And - with all of that - real estate has given returns just slightly less than the broad stock market (which is liquid, easily diversified, and doesn't take any personal time).
Well it's a good time to buy  
giantgiantfan : 11/2/2014 1:16 am : link
still. Home prices have rebounded a bit, but interest rates are still low and so are home prices (at least where I live in the Salt Lake market).

I bought my first home last year and was scared as hell to do it, but I am damn happy I did now. I didn't get the home I wanted because I was unwilling to spend beyond my comfort zone, but I am happy here and can live here for a while unless I get married and have children (have neither).

There are two factors I used to determine in buying my house. Do I like the house/area? Do I think this house can be sold quickly? I checked yes on both and bought. To rent a house in this area costs the same to own, so its a win IMO when you consider the positive impacts of: tax deduction, equity, and credit.

Nothing wrong with renting, but owning a home had been a goal of mine for the past 3 years. It's also cool learning how to do "man" shit and creating your man kingdom. I bought a hot tub last weekend and will be setting up a projector, screen, and speakers outside to watch Sunday night football and movies in the Winter while getting hammered. Fuck yeah!
Unless you are planning on making a career  
pjcas18 : 11/2/2014 1:27 am : link
out of buying and selling real estate you should disregard a lot of this advice.

Obviously you don't want the property value to decrease on a home you buy, but if you are buying a home with the intent on it being your "forever home" why would you care about short-term fluctuations and liquidity of your home as an asset? or even long(er)-term for that matter.

of course the unforeseen can happen, but if you plan on buying a forever home you can fast forward to 30+ years when your kids which haven't been born yet finish college and move out before you need to be concerned with what the real estate market has done, and the house is very likely paid off by then or has a small mortgage on it left and no one here has any clue what the market will look like then.

If you decide buying is right for you, find the right house in the right location, at the right price and pull the trigger.

If not, and renting is right for you, do the same as above, but with a rental property.

RE: Unless you are planning on making a career  
baadbill : 11/2/2014 7:09 am : link
In comment 11951378 pjcas18 said:
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out of buying and selling real estate you should disregard a lot of this advice.

Obviously you don't want the property value to decrease on a home you buy, but if you are buying a home with the intent on it being your "forever home" why would you care about short-term fluctuations and liquidity of your home as an asset? or even long(er)-term for that matter.

of course the unforeseen can happen, but if you plan on buying a forever home you can fast forward to 30+ years when your kids which haven't been born yet finish college and move out before you need to be concerned with what the real estate market has done, and the house is very likely paid off by then or has a small mortgage on it left and no one here has any clue what the market will look like then.

If you decide buying is right for you, find the right house in the right location, at the right price and pull the trigger.

If not, and renting is right for you, do the same as above, but with a rental property.


Excellent advice. If you stay in one home all your life. I'm 62 and haven't met anyone who has lived in one home for 30 years ... that was something people did in 30 or more years ago, but I don't presently know of a single person who has lived in their same place for even 20 years.
If a person selects a home where they can afford a 15 or 20 yr  
steve in ky : 11/2/2014 9:28 am : link
mortgage payment and then lives there ten or fifteen years prior to moving they would easily and safely build up some nice equity regardless of any appreciation.

And if a person does choose to live in the home past the mortgage payoff and then steadily invests the equal amount of what had been their monthly payments they really start to see some results.

Real estate is a fantastic investment if a person can be conservative, patient and disciplined.



One more thing  
Hammer : 11/2/2014 11:39 am : link
Don't buy a house if you cannot afford to take a 15 year mortgage.

If I remember correctly, the interest payments over the life of my $215,000 mortgage amounted to approximately 45K. The interest payments on a $215,000 30 year mortgage were about three times that, if not more.

I'm not sure about the accuracy of those numbers because the transaction occurred over 10 years ago and I do not have the paperwork any longer, but you get the idea.

I bought a smaller house with few amenities in exchange for the knowledge that I would pay it off well before my son went to college.

I thought it prudent. You might too.
I've been in my condo for 20 years  
njm : 11/2/2014 2:53 pm : link
When I moved in, an equivalent unit in my building rented for 1200 per month. Now the equivalent unit rents for 2250 per month. My condo association fees and real estate taxes combined have gone up about half that much. So if you plan staying there long term you need to look at future costs as well as current costs. A comparison of tax effects should also be made.
What a timely thread ironically  
jgambrosio : 11/3/2014 1:01 pm : link
My girlfriend and I are fighting right now over buying a new place... she and I are on the verge of getting engaged to start off. I bought my townhouse 3 years ago and have about $60k of equity into it, with another $60-70k of profit if I sell.

We just got another dog and she wants to move closer to her job as she commutes 80 miles per day, while I only travel about 10... so she wants to get a new place that's about twice as much as my place. I have no problem with that as selling my place would provide the down payment but the place she has fallen in love with is a 3 bedroom, which I already have. Yes, it comes with a yard and pool, but I don't see it lasting more than 3-4 years if we decide to start a family.

I wouldn't mind moving in 4 years if the damn transaction costs weren't so high.... $16k to sell my place, Palm Beach County requires the seller to pay title/deed fees of about $4k, in Broward where the new place is, the buyer pays which is another $4k or so, doc fees, lawyer fees, $8k in closing costs... $30k+ just to move? Not worth it regardless of interest and property tax write-offs.
The equity  
cjac : 11/3/2014 1:05 pm : link
is what its worth vs what you have mortgaged.


How is it 60k worth of equity and another 60 if you sell?

Is the original 60k you're talking about just what you've payed down on your mortgage?
Cjac, it may not be  
Randy in CT : 11/3/2014 1:09 pm : link
"equity" but if you get that money back, then it was better than where your rent would have gone. Hey, I don't mind people renting!
You said "your" not "our" townhouse.  
Peter in Atlanta : 11/3/2014 1:13 pm : link
I wouldn't sell/move until after the wedding.
cjac  
jgambrosio : 11/3/2014 1:17 pm : link
I meant it in saying that I have $60k in it off of original purchase price (down payment and monthly princpal) and it's appreciated to an asking price of another $60k.

Peter... I knew someone would catch that as soon as I hit submit. I just meant it that way because we weren't dating at when I bought the place and only my name is on the mortgage.
It's still yours with your money invested in it.  
Peter in Atlanta : 11/3/2014 1:25 pm : link
Is she paying for it now or is it still just yours? You're not even engaged yet. Is she bringing an equal amount to the table for the new purchase or is it all of your money but in both names? I've seen plenty of break ups just before a wedding.
jgambrosio  
steve in ky : 11/3/2014 1:54 pm : link
It's all considered equity. The amount it went up is your appreciation. So if your home has appreciated 60k and you paid down the mortgage principle by another 60k you have 120k in equity. Congrats nice way to start out with your first home.
Bought my first house 3 years ago  
Go Terps : 11/3/2014 1:56 pm : link
After renting in different places and circumstances for 13 or 14 years or so. Based on my relatively limited experience I'd agree with those saying that there isn't a ubiquitous correct answer, and what may work best for you will depend heavily on your specific circumstances.

If you buy a house, be aware that you are probably looking at two large initial expenses: the down payment AND costs of making the house your own (upkeep, furniture, etc.).

It's really worked out well for my wife and me so far, but it's easy to see how it could be a mistake for some people. The potential pitfalls are numerous...make sure you know what you're looking for in a house and stick to that when house hunting. Give your standards a lot of thought...everybody has different things that are important to them.
RE: It's still yours with your money invested in it.  
jgambrosio : 11/3/2014 2:37 pm : link
In comment 11953714 Peter in Atlanta said:
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Is she paying for it now or is it still just yours? You're not even engaged yet. Is she bringing an equal amount to the table for the new purchase or is it all of your money but in both names? I've seen plenty of break ups just before a wedding.


gotcha - thought you were implying that things were on shaky ground based on the way i worded it. what i have in the houe is going to pay the down payment so she's putting down the closing costs and that's it, if she even has enough for that (she's 6 years younger than me (i'm about to turn 33), another reason i don't know why she's so eager to basically have a house like this at her age).

and i understand that both are equity, just breaking it down to what's "guaranteed" in terms of what i have invested in the house vs. what is actual profit from increase in value.
While I am a huge fan of what ownership can do for you  
steve in ky : 11/3/2014 2:42 pm : link
nothing is guaranteed. Equity is equity and regardless if it is the result of principle being paid down or appreciation neither is more guaranteed or more valuable than the other.
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