So, I just found out (thru another friend) that one of buddy's found out a few weeks ago that his wife has been cheating on him. They've been married for a year and a half and this bloak has been f'ing her boss for a year. I had trouble sleeping last night thinking about this as to how someone can do that and trying to tell myself not to judge her but wtf!!! this morning my friend texted me and asked if he can call me tonight to share some news. He is one of the best dudes you'll ever meet and I am just not sure what to say to him when he tells me the news.
From what I hear, he even tried to "work it out" with his wife after he found out that she was cheating on him. She told him the other day that she might be pregnant with the other guys' baby and won't be upset if that was the case. Once my friend heard that, he told to GTFO out of the house and that was the end of the marriage. They don't have any kids but i really feel bad for my buddy. Any advice on what i can say? I am thinking i need to be listening more than talking but i am just amazed it how he got played.
"work it out" my ass. Married less than a year?
Tell him he damn well better have learned something.
"work it out" my ass. Married less than a year?
Tell him he damn well better have learned something.
Agreed. If kids were involved, I could see trying to work it out. But this is just a desperate move that sets him up to be consistently betrayed. He's lucky it's ending now.
lmao
seem like young whore
She sounds like a real winner.
My buddy dodged a huge bullet as his ex-wife is possibly facing criminal charges for something extremely heinous. It'll take some time, but you really need to step up to help your buddy out with whatever for a while. At least that's what worked in my scenario.
Her reason for cheating was "I needed a bad boy"...while her boss is married with kids. Good luck being a home wrecker...and yes, she does have a tramp stamp on her back.
Best of luck to your friend.
Good body and good looks, too. Just as important. Don't sell yourself short.
His friend put the pussy on a pedestal and treated her like some fucking Disney princess.
You do that with your daughters, not your wife.
Wimmin need to be told what to do.
That comment was worse than if he caught her doing belly bumps with the guy in their marital bed.
Just keep befriending him, and let him know that once she would not reconcile and try to save the marriage, she just wanted out, whatever the cost.
There are a bizillion women that have been screwed over by their husband/boyfriend that would want a what seems to be a stable guy like him.
Good luck to your friend. At some point he will realize that he is getting a pretty free(no kids, hopefully not to much debt) restart of life and anything that he wasn't happy with we gets another chance to do it all again. Until then its going to be quite the roller coaster for him.
You kick a dirty skank like that to the curb, wash your hands of it, and move the hell on.
He's learning the hard way, but better now than when children, debt, other people crashing the party pile up.
Given her apparent swift dive into cheating, and her request upon being kicked out, financial gain was most likely a key component to saying yes to marriage on her part.
Those should be real easy to find online with a who-ah like this
Her reason for cheating was "I needed a bad boy"...while her boss is married with kids. Good luck being a home wrecker...and yes, she does have a tramp stamp on her back.
Long story short, they ended up divorced and the slut told me she regretted it just as I had warned her.
ank00, this will be a tough time for your friend, but it's good that he gets this worthless POS slut out of his life sooner than later. He's lucky he doesn't have kids with the bitch.
You will be his BEST friend for Life!
Double bonus.
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His friend put the pussy on a pedestal and treated her like some fucking Disney princess.
You do that with your daughters, not your wife.
Wimmin need to be told what to do.
And if they don't do it, then you bring out the whips!
It's called a box, not a gym.
All kidding aside...you're better off, man. Those crossfitters are fucking weird.
He's learning the hard way, but better now than when children, debt, other people crashing the party pile up.
Given her apparent swift dive into cheating, and her request upon being kicked out, financial gain was most likely a key component to saying yes to marriage on her part.
This is dead nuts on target
I didn't think of that. Legally if she has a kid, it's yours and you are liable. Best get a lawyer real quick and get that straightened out.
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His friend put the pussy on a pedestal and treated her like some fucking Disney princess.
You do that with your daughters, not your wife.
Wimmin need to be told what to do.
I won't be happy in life until you get a daytime talk show.
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then she started staying late at her crossfit gym to work on some workouts.. Long story short she was going on dates with the 40+ yr old owner while I was home making dinner. They're still together, good for them lol
It's called a box, not a gym.
All kidding aside...you're better off, man. Those crossfitters are fucking weird.
Haha very weird.. I couldn't agree more, I've been a lot happier.
And ank, get your friend out of the house, doing anything to take his mind off of it will do wonders
Sorry, dude. Didn't know that was you.
Tell your friend, the cheaters usually always regret it and he'll end up much happier in the long run (assuming he's a little more selective the next time re. trustworthiness, values, etc.).
And ank, get your friend out of the house, doing anything to take his mind off of it will do wonders
Yes, definitely get him out of the house and doing something that will keep his mind off, like joining a Crossfit box. I'm sure he'll meet some fit weirdos there.
Dude...don't make Gianni cry by saying you're into Crossfit. It's P90X5000 and Insanity for you...always.
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His friend put the pussy on a pedestal and treated her like some fucking Disney princess.
You do that with your daughters, not your wife.
Wimmin need to be told what to do.
And if they don't do it, then you bring out the whips!
Heh. The last line of misogyny was for humor.
Branding, chick. It's all about branding.
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Haha very weird.. I couldn't agree more, I've been a lot happier.
And ank, get your friend out of the house, doing anything to take his mind off of it will do wonders
Yes, definitely get him out of the house and doing something that will keep his mind off, like joining a Crossfit box. I'm sure he'll meet some fit weirdos there.
Funny, I actually went on a date with a girl who crossfits and no matter how hard I tried I couldn't get her to stfu about crossfit. I ended up just getting drunk
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His friend put the pussy on a pedestal and treated her like some fucking Disney princess.
You do that with your daughters, not your wife.
Wimmin need to be told what to do.
I won't be happy in life until you get a daytime talk show.
That would be awesome.
Funny thing is that I basically said the same thing that JonC said...just Poe'd it.
Yeah...there's a joke about how Crossfit is the anti-Fight Club.
First rule of Crossfit is: You always talk about Crossfit.
Second rule of Crossfit is: You always talk about Crossfit.
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In comment 12048965 Curtis in VA said:
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His friend put the pussy on a pedestal and treated her like some fucking Disney princess.
You do that with your daughters, not your wife.
Wimmin need to be told what to do.
And if they don't do it, then you bring out the whips!
Heh. The last line of misogyny was for humor.
Branding, chick. It's all about branding.
I know Cam, I was just teasing you.
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but the pregnancy may turn this into a real pissing contest in court. As far as what you can do, initially just listen and take it from there. As the process unfolds get him out of his house on occasion, football game or something similar.
I didn't think of that. Legally if she has a kid, it's yours and you are liable. Best get a lawyer real quick and get that straightened out.
Funny, I actually went on a date with a girl who crossfits and no matter how hard I tried I couldn't get her to stfu about crossfit. I ended up just getting drunk
"How do you know if someone is into Crossfit?"
"Don't worry, they'll tell you."
I honestly don't think there are too many who fucked around in their first 6 months of a committed relationship
- Ray Rice
Well, duh.
1- Any wimmin that cheats is automatically an evil whore except your mother.
2- Any wimmin that likes to fuck is a whore until you marry her.
3- Any wimmin that has had more than 3 sexual partners (including oral and handies) is a whore.
4- Pretty much any wimmin except your wife (until she proves otherwise), daughter, and mother is a whore.
5- Guys only cheat because whores let them. There is no free will when the evil temptresses start throwing their moist bits at you.
Yeah...who would have guessed that vast majority of us are in committed relationships? I'm sure you feel left out.
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then she started staying late at her crossfit gym to work on some workouts.. Long story short she was going on dates with the 40+ yr old owner while I was home making dinner. They're still together, good for them lol
It's called a box, not a gym.
All kidding aside...you're better off, man. Those crossfitters are fucking weird.
Haha very weird.. I couldn't agree more, I've been a lot happier.
Vin, sorry to hear about that. I knew your ex from awhile back, not surprised.
And ank, get your friend out of the house, doing anything to take his mind off of it will do wonders
Yeah we are! haha.. It was rough at first but after I was able to look back I knew I was better off
Karma's a bitch. Actually, her name wasn't karma at all.
As for your friend - he really is better off knowing and moving on. Life is too short to waste on a galactic bitch like that. He'll be broken hearted for a while but he should feel free to drain his sorrows in between the legs of a sexy lady until he finds a woman that will treat him right.
Kenny plays real sports. - ( New Window )
haha can't wait!
NTTAWT, but I expected he leaned the other way.
:)
Ho Ho Ho, Merry XMas!
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but the pregnancy may turn this into a real pissing contest in court. As far as what you can do, initially just listen and take it from there. As the process unfolds get him out of his house on occasion, football game or something similar.
I didn't think of that. Legally if she has a kid, it's yours and you are liable. Best get a lawyer real quick and get that straightened out.
Is that true? Even if the child is not his? Does that mean he should try for as speedy a divorce as possible?
Absolute horseshit. The medical profession has advanced quite enough to determine parentage.
Cross fit?