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So apparantly OBJ is kind of a dick

Doom5 : 12/22/2014 7:10 pm
So I heard this from someone I trust, but as always with internet gossip, take it or leave it.

OBJ visited the Poughkeepsie Galleria last week for a St. Jude's charity fund raising autograph signing session. Apparently OBJ signed the contract back in the summer before he became the star he is now so it wasn't a lot of money.

So he showed up to the signing an hour and a half late and wasn't happy being there. He apparently charges a hell of a lot more now that he's a star. He wouldn't talk to anyone, only signed autographs. He wouldn't take pictures as he said his appearance fee didn't cover that and he wanted more money. He also wouldn't sign pictures of his infamous catch -- he wanted more money for that as well. He took a picture with a pop warner team that he'd previously agreed to, but didn't even make an effort to smile during the photo. He was just plain unpleasant.

I love what OBJ does on the field and am glad he's a giant. But it looks like character wise, he's kind of a prick. He's no Victor Cruz, Michael Strahan, Eli, etc.

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bc4life:  
kevken60 : 12/22/2014 8:24 pm : link
"The 2nd coolest thing I ever saw from a pro was Jason Sehorn."

On a rainy training camp day, after the team "scrimmage " (remember those?); Sehorn was the only player to come over to the rope by the bleachers to sign for the kids. NY State Trooper had to pick up my son's football card after he fumbled it just before Jason signed it.
generally a good guy  
bc4life : 12/22/2014 8:39 pm : link
used to donate homes to single Mothers.

Who cares?  
Go Terps : 12/22/2014 8:52 pm : link
Will this affect his availability for games? Will it affect his speed or ability to catch the ball? No? Good, because that's the only way he is affecting our lives.
I second the comment on Zeke Mowatt  
RobCarpenter : 12/22/2014 8:59 pm : link
He would not sign an autograph for me after a charity bball game in 1985. It's not like he was mobbed, my friend and I were asking him for an autograph and he kept saying no.

That was also the only time I ever saw LT in person when he wasn't playing football. Even with a long sleeve t-short he was a sight to behold. What a physical specimen he was.
infamous means more than famous  
mattlawson : 12/22/2014 9:15 pm : link
pretty sure...


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RE: Who cares?  
Blue Blood : 12/22/2014 9:17 pm : link
In comment 12050268 Go Terps said:
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Will this affect his availability for games? Will it affect his speed or ability to catch the ball? No? Good, because that's the only way he is affecting our lives.



Thank you.. stop expecting more out of athletes than you do out of regular people..
RE: Who cares?  
B in ALB : 12/22/2014 9:18 pm : link
In comment 12050268 Go Terps said:
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Will this affect his availability for games? Will it affect his speed or ability to catch the ball? No? Good, because that's the only way he is affecting our lives.


Exactly.
Be careful putting any celebrities on a pedestal  
mfsd : 12/22/2014 9:22 pm : link
They're human, and once they're famous everyone wants a piece of them...not uncommon for some to be abrasive. No idea of this is true, but if an athlete being a sweetheart is a prerequisite for appreciating their play on the field, you're going to be left with a pretty short list

I've heard people say Shockey was a dick in public. I met him in a bar once on a Saturday afternoon, and he couldn't have been nicer

The nicest athlete I ever met was Kirby Puckett, when I was a kid, signed autographs forever and chatted nicely with everyone. And we all know what kind of guy he turned out to be
Yeah if he is a dick but still continues to kick ass  
montanagiant : 12/22/2014 9:26 pm : link
Then he can continue to Dick-away as far as I am concerned.

Could have been a long day with a ton of travel and meetings and he was just tired
I am pretty sure everyone acts like that...  
SB : 12/22/2014 9:38 pm : link
...when they are in Poughkeepsie.
any video can be edited in a way to make a point  
Peter from CT : 12/22/2014 10:45 pm : link
it was interesting that he started to smile as he was signing an autograph and they cut away from that. Most of the rest of the time he is sitting waiting around. Seems like a third/fourth rate nobody reporter doing a hit job on the kid.
Poughkeepsie?  
Optimus-NY : 12/22/2014 10:53 pm : link
I don't blame him for being pissed off being there around those jock sniffers.
good thing the event wasn't in Ravena  
Stephen in SoFla : 12/22/2014 11:16 pm : link
Just sayin'
When I was around 7,  
Turn Your Head And Coughlin : 12/22/2014 11:28 pm : link
Dave Meggett declined to give me an autograph at camp because "he had to take a nap". What a prick.
Since none of us are planning to be his friend  
dpinzow : 12/22/2014 11:30 pm : link
it shouldn't matter. We're just fans and there should always be a barrier of sorts between the players and the fans.

I once had dinner at a pretty nice NYC restaurant and the waiter and I were talking about the Giants. He said that lots of players come to the restaurant all the time, and that Eli specifically was extremely private and didn't want any extra attention from other customers because he was so recognizable
RE: When I was around 7,  
Chris in Philly : 12/22/2014 11:40 pm : link
In comment 12050458 Turn Your Head And Coughlin said:
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Dave Meggett declined to give me an autograph at camp because "he had to take a nap". What a prick.


That's probably about the nicest thing Meggett ever did in his life...
RE: Like I said  
Bramton1 : 12/23/2014 12:16 am : link
In comment 12050184 Big Rick in FL said:
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Eli is great, Tiki was extremely nice, LT is pretty good to his fans, Jacobs is too.


Just don't mention fantasy football to Jacobs. I hear he's not a fan. Probably something to do with he and his family being threatened if he didn't produce enough. That tends to put a damper on the whole thing.
do you know how far  
sshin05 : 12/23/2014 12:42 am : link
poughkeepsie is? I would be pissed going up there too.
Nicest athletes I've met were Plaxico, Billups  
Vin R : 12/23/2014 12:47 am : link
And... Chris Dudley.

Big Rick, Aaron Rodgers? Really?
lolpoughkeepsie  
Davisian : 12/23/2014 12:48 am : link
..

Sehorn  
SHO'NUFF : 12/23/2014 12:56 am : link
I can vouch for Sehorn being one of the nicest and truest gentlemen I've ever met.
Werd  
Davisian : 12/23/2014 1:01 am : link
-Danny Kannell
At least his mom's not a whore  
Kulish29 : 12/23/2014 1:02 am : link
- Jeff Ireland
RE: Be careful putting any celebrities on a pedestal  
nedhiggins : 12/23/2014 3:22 am : link
In comment 12050312 mfsd said:
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They're human, and once they're famous everyone wants a piece of them...not uncommon for some to be abrasive. No idea of this is true, but if an athlete being a sweetheart is a prerequisite for appreciating their play on the field, you're going to be left with a pretty short list

I've heard people say Shockey was a dick in public. I met him in a bar once on a Saturday afternoon, and he couldn't have been nicer

The nicest athlete I ever met was Kirby Puckett, when I was a kid, signed autographs forever and chatted nicely with everyone. And we all know what kind of guy he turned out to be


I second that. I spotted him eating lunch with Rosenhaus in South Beach in 2012. He could have told me to piss off, and I wouldn't have held it against him. But he was super nice and he took a pic with me
eh didn't get douchey vibe  
LedHeded : 12/23/2014 7:18 am : link
all he looked like to me was tired in that video & I did see smiles, but OBJ does not seem to be the smiley guy that say someone like Cruz is. He is still young & adjusting & he seems to be pretty intense.

I went to one of Eli's early signing gigs as a rookie & he did not look up once or talk nor were we allowed to take pictures, but you can tell it's simply because he was shy & uncomfortable.

These appearances is just a small glimpse of these players, look at Tiki, was outwardly an affable guy & well....

That being said, all I want from these players is to put out their best on the field every game

Long time ago I was given the advice  
Headhunter : 12/23/2014 7:30 am : link
to admire the art, not the artist. It's served me well, because If I had access to be who I love seeing perform, I might be disappointed with them as people. I don't want to know them
I would imagine that in this day and age  
alligatorpie : 12/23/2014 7:37 am : link
a pro athlete can do much more for charity...options that do not include the old fashioned 'show up and sign' events.

in fact, doing -events- at all may be really an option, not a must, since, like any wealthy people, they could donate money directly, or, as celebrities, lend voice or video appearances during the off season and so on.

the 'show and sign' seems like something from an earlier era.

I would not read too much into it.
I know videos can be edited to show  
mrvax : 12/23/2014 8:08 am : link
just about anything you want but Beckham clearly looks out of it even as he makes his entrance. Who knows, maybe he was exhausted. I know I'm pissy when very tired.

At least he wasn't a no-show. If he becomes an ass, you will certainly know it as sure as everyone knew Shockey was a douchebag.

Surprised to hear Strahan was a dick because of his TV persona. Believable though, based on what a MLB player said to me when I was 12.
Meh  
JonC : 12/23/2014 9:23 am : link
A majority of celebrities you meet are likely to act in a manner a regular Joe finds off-putting or abrupt. It is what it is, these people are watched and approached and pestered constantly. Some react well to it, many do not. They're like a hot female, how many react well to being approached all day and night everyday?
Put yourself in his shoes  
Go Terps : 12/23/2014 9:29 am : link
I don't know why people think it's OK to bother these people. If Beckham made a mistake it was offering to go to this or any other event on his own time, because his reward for doing so was someone starting a thread calling him a dick.

These guys owe NOTHING to the "community". And the "community" certainly doesn't deserve the time they do donate.
Well, so and so was a dick to me...  
rsjem1979 : 12/23/2014 9:35 am : link
Your anecdotal evidence is proof only that athletes are humans who sometimes have bad days. Maybe you were acting like a dick and just didn't realize it because you're just a dick.

this thread should be deleted  
upstatenyg : 12/23/2014 10:06 am : link
now you want him to be nice also. who cares??

first off, he signed stuff, and can't really be expected to take pics with each person, especially is 10x as many people show up than they probably planned for.

who said this was a charity event? this is a sporting goods store, not charity.

i have met strahan, he wasn't a prick to me. i have been to many training camps, and had tons of players sign for me.

OBJ is a beast, we should be happy he is a Giant, who cares if he was nice to people in a mall.
RE: Put yourself in his shoes  
Vin R : 12/23/2014 10:30 am : link
In comment 12050875 Go Terps said:
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I don't know why people think it's OK to bother these people. If Beckham made a mistake it was offering to go to this or any other event on his own time, because his reward for doing so was someone starting a thread calling him a dick.

These guys owe NOTHING to the "community". And the "community" certainly doesn't deserve the time they do donate.


Terps, was it you who had some good stories about some athletes that you ran into?
But, Ding dong dang,  
oldog : 12/23/2014 10:58 am : link
he catches everything.
RE: Put yourself in his shoes  
Doom5 : 12/23/2014 11:06 am : link
In comment 12050875 Go Terps said:
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I don't know why people think it's OK to bother these people. If Beckham made a mistake it was offering to go to this or any other event on his own time, because his reward for doing so was someone starting a thread calling him a dick.

These guys owe NOTHING to the "community". And the "community" certainly doesn't deserve the time they do donate.


He was paid to show up to the event. He wasn't doing it solely out of the goodness of his heart.
I'm with Jay on this one  
Blue Baller : 12/23/2014 11:12 am : link


RE: RE: Put yourself in his shoes  
Go Terps : 12/23/2014 11:15 am : link
In comment 12051056 Vin R said:
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In comment 12050875 Go Terps said:


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I don't know why people think it's OK to bother these people. If Beckham made a mistake it was offering to go to this or any other event on his own time, because his reward for doing so was someone starting a thread calling him a dick.

These guys owe NOTHING to the "community". And the "community" certainly doesn't deserve the time they do donate.



Terps, was it you who had some good stories about some athletes that you ran into?


You're probably thinking about someone else. I've met a few through a buddy of mine in that industry, but nothing crazy.
Someone sounds like he didn't get his chance  
RC02XX : 12/23/2014 11:26 am : link
at a photo with OBJ.
obj a dick?  
mirwin : 12/23/2014 5:15 pm : link
Terrell Thomas once told me i should never be a receiver back in HS a week later i watched jpp kick his knee and blow out his knee,the next year he seemed nicer,tore it again,third year he was finally different like a changed man.
Traffic in Jersey  
Torn Tendon : 12/23/2014 6:59 pm : link
around holiday time especially, can't blame a guy for being late and maybe a crappy mood with east coast traffic.
RE: infamous means more than famous  
Great White Ghost : 12/24/2014 1:21 am : link
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pretty sure...

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Infamous means famous scumbag.
Like in FDRs speech about Pearl Harbor when he announced we were at war with Japan started "Yesterday, December 7th,a day that will live in Infamy"...

Infamy and infamous are not good things to be. Hitler is infamous.Think Jeffrey Dahmer.
Terps -  
Exit 172 : 12/24/2014 8:45 am : link
Didn't you wait tables and get stiffed by cheap shitheads like Tom Gordon?
Yeah, I'm just gonna call suspect on this.  
Ten Ton Hammer : 12/24/2014 8:46 am : link
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Go Terps : 12/24/2014 9:02 am : link
In comment 12052526 Exit 172 said:
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Didn't you wait tables and get stiffed by cheap shitheads like Tom Gordon?


I did wait tables down in DC and encountered a few well known people. Not Tom Gordon though. Must have been another BBIer.
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Vin R : 12/24/2014 9:09 am : link
In comment 12052544 Go Terps said:
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In comment 12052526 Exit 172 said:


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Didn't you wait tables and get stiffed by cheap shitheads like Tom Gordon?



I did wait tables down in DC and encountered a few well known people. Not Tom Gordon though. Must have been another BBIer.


lol glad I wasn't the only one who thought that!
Why is Terps...  
Chris in Philly : 12/27/2014 3:36 pm : link
hiding his past as Tim Gordon's waiter? Inquiring minds want to know.
he did an autograph  
MookGiants : 12/30/2014 11:20 pm : link
signing at the steamtown mall in scranton, pa tonight and from what im reading it did not go very well. Showed up over 90 minutes late, left early, wouldn't take pictures, etc. I wasn't there so it's not 1st hand information, paying for someones autograph is not something that appeals to me and the promoters and organizers of these events really creep me out. I guess the guy running it was a real slime and was letting people cut the line if they paid more.

in the interviews of his parents/family  
Osi Osi Osi OyOyOy : 12/31/2014 2:14 am : link
one of the things you notice is how big the ego is on pretty much every one of them. Even his grandma came off a little cocky.

Wouldn't shock me if he did have a bit of an ego on him, especially since his rise to fame has been so damn fast. Who was the last non-QB to become one of the most popular players in the game within the first 8 games of his career?

I mean I care a little bit if my favorite athlete is a good person or a dick. So I hope Beckham matures a little. But being a bit of a dick during autograph sessions doesn't really matter to me if keeps on playing like a star.

I think Eli is a great presence for him and will help make sure he stays on the right path.
I don't give a rat's arse how big his ego is or how much of a schmuck  
BlueLou : 12/31/2014 2:42 am : link
he might be, so long as it doesn't keep him from working his ass off to be the best player he can be in every regard.

I don't want to see the kid start to rest on his laurels or his talent alone. Oh and blocking for his team mates when THEY have the ball is part of being "the best."
Biggest dick is Dan Marino.  
Stu : 12/31/2014 4:41 am : link
Nicest I've met is Joe Namath.
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