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UConn4523 : 5/17/2015 1:28 pm
is tonight at 10, looks like it's 75 minutes according to my DVR. I've watched this season later in the week but will stay up so there are no spoilers.

I'm thinking The entire episode will be Don centric with a few 3-5 minute scenes to wrap up Roger, Peggy, and Joan. The big question for me is whether Don returns home or not; no idea what route they will take. I'm in the camp the camp that thinks he's trying to shed Don Draper but will ultimately get sucked back in once he reaches some semblance of happiness as DW.
suicide  
data_stata : 5/17/2015 1:42 pm : link
Rumours for him too. Marathon on all day ive been watching. Got game of thrones right before too.

I see what your saying but you dont see any big splash?
UConn  
SanFranNowNCGiantsFan : 5/17/2015 1:51 pm : link
I usually watch it Monday night, but I'll be up for it live tonight because odds are I'll here/see something about it tomorrow & I don't want to take the chance.

My guess is that Don ends up back in NYC, Peggy continues her ascent, & Roger moves on.
I used to think don would kill himself  
UConn4523 : 5/17/2015 1:57 pm : link
but I honestly don't expect a big splash. After loving it out west only to have that halted by the death of his ex wife, forcing him back to NYC as Don Draper seems the most likely outcome for me. He will arrive with Sally not needing him, and his two sons already being cared for. Something will keep him in NYC to continue his misery (another waitress, perhaps).

I can't see Weiner doing a heel turn and making it a happy ending. At this point, I don't think I want to see that either.
RE: I used to think don would kill himself  
data_stata : 5/17/2015 2:05 pm : link
In comment 12289999 UConn4523 said:
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but I honestly don't expect a big splash. After loving it out west only to have that halted by the death of his ex wife, forcing him back to NYC as Don Draper seems the most likely outcome for me. He will arrive with Sally not needing him, and his two sons already being cared for. Something will keep him in NYC to continue his misery (another waitress, perhaps). Hour n a half you said? Wow

I can't see Weiner doing a heel turn and making it a happy ending. At this point, I don't think I want to see that either.
Roger has heart problems for years  
tommy boy : 5/17/2015 2:18 pm : link
so I think his demise tonight will greatly hurt Don
Also I don't know if Betty will pass in tonights episode
but that's possible also

Joan and Don will realize they are good together

and Peggy and Stan will get together
Don has evolved  
Alan in Toledo : 5/17/2015 2:50 pm : link
and it could be said his personal growth is at the heart of the series. He seems ready to move towards a career of his own choosing (as opposed to his haphazardly obtained position in advertising).
I hope that Don Drap dies in the metaphorical sense  
JerryNYG : 5/17/2015 2:51 pm : link
That he continues the process of shedding the trappings of his life built on lies and that he finds some form of peace out on the West Coast.

I think that Betty is already dead...  
BMac : 5/17/2015 3:10 pm : link
...by her own hand. Peggy, Joan, and Pete are done. Roger dies, one way or another. Sally makes a last appearance, probably via telephone.

The last shot will be Don at Big Sur, staring out at the ocean. Perhaps someone comes along and says hello. Don greets them with his name, but it isn't Draper or Whitman.

Fade to black. End music is Carole King, "It's Too Late."
RE: I think that Betty is already dead...  
data_stata : 5/17/2015 3:26 pm : link
In comment 12290053 BMac said:
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...by her own hand. Peggy, Joan, and Pete are done. Roger dies, one way or another. Sally makes a last appearance, probably via telephone.

The last shot will be Don at Big Sur, staring out at the ocean. Perhaps someone comes along and says hello. Don greets them with his name, but it isn't Draper or Whitman.

Fade to black. End music is Carole King, "It's Too Late."

If that happens your a prophet
Yeah, I think they're going to do a time jump for the last episode...  
Crispino : 5/17/2015 3:50 pm : link
6 months, maybe a year after the last episode. Betty my be dead already. Joan is married. I don't think they'll kill off Roger. He'll just move on to something else because he's one of those people who always lands on his feet. The final focus will be on Don, Peggy, and Sally.
My bet  
ThreePoints : 5/17/2015 6:06 pm : link
Peggy creates the famous "It's the real thing" Coke ad.

Don returns to NYC and work after Betty dies. Don steps up as a father, but the kids remain with Henry. Don goes back to work.
Agree that it will jump ahead  
bluepepper : 5/17/2015 7:01 pm : link
a few years. The last scene will be a homage to the final scene of S1E1 when Don took the train home after a day of womanizing and carousing. That one was a shocker since he seemed anything but the family man. Now, we'll see the same basic sequence but think he's a typical suburban dad. Working a boring (non-ad) job in the city and coming home to his kids and maybe a new unglamorous 3rd wife.
Not sure about it jumping ahead  
UConn4523 : 5/17/2015 7:43 pm : link
atleast not far enough for significant life changes that we don't already know about. I can see it picking up at Betty's funeral, but no further than that.
Don't forget Pete's plane  
mikeygiants : 5/17/2015 7:45 pm : link
crash, I banked it last week. I'd hope that it's mostly about Draper, but there are a lot of loose ends to tie up. It'll be 75 minutes of bouncing around and then a final 10 minutes of wrapping up Don. I don't see suicide as his final act, but I agree that it could involve an identity change. He could burn the bridge to his life and start anew with the waitress.
Don hooks up with  
B in ALB : 5/17/2015 7:55 pm : link
Conrad Hilton again. Piggy becomes the first female Creative Director. Roger retires with his cash only to die alone from liver failure. Pete and the hotness that is Trudy live happily ever after. Other than when she met me and I took her ass to town. IM goin to Wichita!

Doesn't matter as long as Dons busted ex wife and her junk mouth tic tacs don't make another appearance.

Sadly, Birdie dies. But Don steps up to be a dad.
RE: RE: I think that Betty is already dead...  
BMac : 5/17/2015 8:07 pm : link
In comment 12290060 data_stata said:
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In comment 12290053 BMac said:


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...by her own hand. Peggy, Joan, and Pete are done. Roger dies, one way or another. Sally makes a last appearance, probably via telephone.

The last shot will be Don at Big Sur, staring out at the ocean. Perhaps someone comes along and says hello. Don greets them with his name, but it isn't Draper or Whitman.

Fade to black. End music is Carole King, "It's Too Late."


If that happens your a prophet


If that happens, I'll be the luckiest guesser on the face of the Earth.
I got the feeling he is going to go back  
Essex : 5/17/2015 8:50 pm : link
And take care of kids. The conversation with the guy who stole the money last week convinced me of it. Don put himself over his family in the first couple of episodes, when his brother came. I don't think he will abandon his kids. With that said, it would be totally out of character for him to do put his family first, because it was never important to him.
Maybe they all become the  
mikeygiants : 5/17/2015 8:52 pm : link
Whitman family.
Every story but dons is compelling right now  
UConn4523 : 5/17/2015 10:56 pm : link
really hope the last 20 minutes delivers.
is Don in a coma or something  
B in ALB : 5/17/2015 11:09 pm : link
from the war? This sucks so far.
That sucked until the last minute  
Essex : 5/17/2015 11:16 pm : link
When it turned brilliant on a dime
Not a fan of that ending...  
jcn56 : 5/17/2015 11:17 pm : link
.
Wow  
UConn4523 : 5/17/2015 11:18 pm : link
epically corny. Brilliant is not the word I would use.
Pointless  
HomerJones45 : 5/17/2015 11:19 pm : link
Brilliantly pointless. It's like they had no idea how to tie up Draper. He abandons his kids, maintains his stolen identity, and goes out with a smirk.
Bad last show...  
Jimmy Googs : 5/17/2015 11:20 pm : link
but good ending of the last show.
No  
Essex : 5/17/2015 11:21 pm : link
He went back and used his journey to create an iconic commercial
Wish I just watched it tomorrow  
UConn4523 : 5/17/2015 11:22 pm : link
I didn't miss anything and stayed up for nothing.
Ugh.  
ThreePoints : 5/17/2015 11:23 pm : link
Disappointing. The best relationship in this show -- Don and Sally -- ends with her hanging up on Don. Joan gets more air time than needed in this last episode, and for what?

This season should have flipped -- Don starting in California, ending in NYC. But nope.

Never missed an episode  
steviej : 5/17/2015 11:23 pm : link
This one I should've MISSED
Even worse  
HomerJones45 : 5/17/2015 11:24 pm : link
so, all that stuff at the end about new identity and this catharsis with hugging that sad sack had nothing to do with growth- it was just grist for another ad?
Did Weiner also write  
steviej : 5/17/2015 11:26 pm : link
That brilliant Sopranos last episode also
Wasn't Don kind of a user  
Essex : 5/17/2015 11:26 pm : link
He didn't need to grow; he started the series on top and by the end it appears he remains on top.
The retreat  
UConn4523 : 5/17/2015 11:26 pm : link
was the laziest way imaginable to show Don hit rock bottom and stumble on an ad, of all things.
well it couldn't have ended any worse than that for the don story  
GMenLTS : 5/17/2015 11:27 pm : link
Like the way they tied things up for everyone else but that's one lame ass ending for don.
The sopranos sucked  
Essex : 5/17/2015 11:27 pm : link
For the exact opposite reason this didn't. You know he is going back to being don draper. The sopranos had no ending
Honestly, I thought he might throw himself off the cliff  
ThreePoints : 5/17/2015 11:28 pm : link
And I might have preferred that.
Along with whoever  
HomerJones45 : 5/17/2015 11:29 pm : link
told Weiner this was a good way to end it.
Again, it's incredibly sad  
ThreePoints : 5/17/2015 11:33 pm : link
that the best relationship on the show, Don and Sally who had perhaps the highest moment (Valentine's Day) and one of the lowest moments (the bus stop) was reduced to a phone call in the last episode.

Joan and Mr. Rich Guy had more screen time than Don and Sally in Season 7B, and that's criminal.
what  
giantfan2000 : 5/17/2015 11:33 pm : link
thought it was amazing

Don used his spiritual journey to create one of the most iconic advertising campaigns of all time

the only false note was stan and peggy it was very rom com
RE: what  
ThreePoints : 5/17/2015 11:36 pm : link
In comment 12290399 giantfan2000 said:
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thought it was amazing

Don used his spiritual journey to create one of the most iconic advertising campaigns of all time

the only false note was stan and peggy it was very rom com


Yeah, but Peggy deserved creating it. Or, it would have been nice to see Don actually, ya know, work.
well the timing is correct  
HomerJones45 : 5/17/2015 11:37 pm : link
that ad had its debut in 1971. I can't believe they had episode on episode of tortured Don and this catharsis - to produce a fucking commercial iconic or not.
RE: what  
Ten Ton Hammer : 5/17/2015 11:39 pm : link
In comment 12290399 giantfan2000 said:
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thought it was amazing

Don used his spiritual journey to create one of the most iconic advertising campaigns of all time

the only false note was stan and peggy it was very rom com


Is the implication that he wrote it?
McCann Erickson  
HomerJones45 : 5/17/2015 11:45 pm : link
was the ad agency that produced the commercial and the ad came out in July, 1971. We know the show ends in November, 1970 because Joan had a calendar in back of her.

I just don't believe all the hysterics with Don brought out something as banal as a Coke ad.
I think the ending moral is  
Jim in Fairfax : 5/17/2015 11:52 pm : link
You can't run from yourself and be what you're not. Pete realized that being a husband and father was who he should be, and he had to grasp it. Joan realized that she had to stop letting men get in the way of her dreams. Roger finally found a kindred spirt with whom he could be his real self, warts and all. Peggy realized she needed someone to share her life and passions with in order to achieve true fulfillment. And Don realized that he IS Don Draper -- that's what he made himself into, and that's who he is. He stops feeling guilty about leaving Dick Whitman behind, because that's not who he really was. You're what you make yourself, not what you're born as.

That doesn't necessarily mean he has to be a cad. Really that's part of the Dick Whitman that he's leaving behind anyway. Well never know exactly how his personal life worked out, but owning who you are probably puts him on good ground to straighten it out.

Night all!
well the hints  
giantfan2000 : 5/17/2015 11:53 pm : link
peggy goes
"come back .. people missed you
and there is coke "

so the implication is he did come back
and that is the results
I liked it  
sb from NYT Forum : 5/17/2015 11:53 pm : link
...it was compelling, and you know what happens in his future without getting hit over the head with a club.
more proof  
giantfan2000 : 5/18/2015 12:01 am : link


left girl at desk
right girl in coke commercial
RE: I think the ending moral is  
HomerJones45 : 5/18/2015 12:13 am : link
In comment 12290412 Jim in Fairfax said:
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You can't run from yourself and be what you're not. Pete realized that being a husband and father was who he should be, and he had to grasp it. Joan realized that she had to stop letting men get in the way of her dreams. Roger finally found a kindred spirt with whom he could be his real self, warts and all. Peggy realized she needed someone to share her life and passions with in order to achieve true fulfillment. And Don realized that he IS Don Draper -- that's what he made himself into, and that's who he is. He stops feeling guilty about leaving Dick Whitman behind, because that's not who he really was. You're what you make yourself, not what you're born as.

That doesn't necessarily mean he has to be a cad. Really that's part of the Dick Whitman that he's leaving behind anyway. Well never know exactly how his personal life worked out, but owning who you are probably puts him on good ground to straighten it out.

Night all!
Eh, I can see some of that. Pete tried to be his father and it didn't work out as it is not really him. Roger stops trying to bang younger women and settles down with someone his own age. I think you got Joan right. Peggy has wanted a man since day one and she got one-you could see that story line coming a million miles away.

The only one who did something different was DD. He was able to run away from his identity and re-invent himself. For all his preaching to the kid about not running away from yourself, that is exactly what he did.
agreed  
giantfan2000 : 5/18/2015 12:19 am : link
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He stops feeling guilty about leaving Dick Whitman behind, because that's not who he really was. You're what you make yourself, not what you're born as.


Exactly this last season He left his job , family , car ,kids
the implication that Don Draper was going to disappear
in fact it is Dick Whitman who is the one that disappears

The guru at the retreat had the last words in the episode "Embrace the New You" . the new you is not Dick Whitman but Don Draper.
not a big fan  
bluepepper : 5/18/2015 12:36 am : link
of that ending. Too corny. And everyone lives happily ever after (save Betty). Joan gets her business going. Pete living large and back with Trudy. Peggy flourishing at McCann and in love. Roger with a woman his own age and a real match for him. And Don I suppose creating the best commercial of all time.

Maybe it will grow on me but first impression is it was not consistent with what we've been watching for seven years.
yes I agree  
Bake54 : 5/18/2015 12:37 am : link
I think it was a very poignant ending to the series. Don finally understands he IS Don Draper. Save for Betty, you could see the future in all the other characters. Brilliant IMO.
I thought it was great.  
Crispino : 5/18/2015 6:21 am : link
Since so many people are dissatisfied, how do you think it should end for Don? It was subtlety brilliant IMO. What, you watched for 7 years and thought he was suddenly going to become some kind of pat reformed character? Nope. He IS Don Draper, the adman.
But he did suddenly change  
jcn56 : 5/18/2015 8:06 am : link
He spent an entire season trying to find himself, looking for catharsis, abandoning both work and family in an attempt to try to shed the guilt of assuming Don Draper's name and all the wrong he had done to people over the years.

And that entire trip, down to him crying and sounding almost suicidal on the phone with Peggy, apparently gets cut to an abrupt end when he has an idea for a Coke commercial.

I would've been just fine with Draper going back to being his old self, I just think the way they went about it was lazy, and leaving it open to interpretation (although I don't see how you can really make a case for things ending differently) was just CYA by the writers.

The other characters had obvious, quick and definite resolutions to their future. Joan dumps the guy to go into business for herself. Pete gets Trudy back, Peggy finally lands Stan, Betty's dead - everyone else is sorted out, but apparently Don, who spent all this time trying to discover himself, who got himself knocked around in east buttfuck trying to help out a kid looking to start out the same way Don did - all this time, and he ends up right back where he started, no worse for the wear, with nothing more than a 'ding' and the start of the Coke commercial.

To each his own, but I thought it was lazy.

I liked the Don ending  
Deej : 5/18/2015 8:16 am : link
but really disliked that ALL these rotten people got happy endings.
Peggy totally wrote the Coke ad  
GentleGiant : 5/18/2015 8:36 am : link
Don's contribution was "Coke: the cure for the common suicide."
I thought it was fantastic  
PaulBlakeTSU : 5/18/2015 9:31 am : link
The execution of some parts of the finale were choppy, but overall, I thought it was an excellent ending, with some brilliant, beautiful writing and acting.
RE: But he did suddenly change  
HomerJones45 : 5/18/2015 10:18 am : link
In comment 12290482 jcn56 said:
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He spent an entire season trying to find himself, looking for catharsis, abandoning both work and family in an attempt to try to shed the guilt of assuming Don Draper's name and all the wrong he had done to people over the years.

And that entire trip, down to him crying and sounding almost suicidal on the phone with Peggy, apparently gets cut to an abrupt end when he has an idea for a Coke commercial.

I would've been just fine with Draper going back to being his old self, I just think the way they went about it was lazy, and leaving it open to interpretation (although I don't see how you can really make a case for things ending differently) was just CYA by the writers.

The other characters had obvious, quick and definite resolutions to their future. Joan dumps the guy to go into business for herself. Pete gets Trudy back, Peggy finally lands Stan, Betty's dead - everyone else is sorted out, but apparently Don, who spent all this time trying to discover himself, who got himself knocked around in east buttfuck trying to help out a kid looking to start out the same way Don did - all this time, and he ends up right back where he started, no worse for the wear, with nothing more than a 'ding' and the start of the Coke commercial.

To each his own, but I thought it was lazy.
I could see the "overcoming Dick Whitman" guilt if there was any sign that he was guilty about it or that it mattered. It's not exactly a secret- Pete knew, Betty knew, Cooper knew and Meghan knew. Actually, after season two, it was hardly ever even mentioned and there were never any conseqences from it. I think they abandoned the plot device after season two. Now his guilt over it becomes the central theme of the final episode? Like you said- lazy.
It's not as much what happened at the end that frustrates me  
AJ23 : 5/18/2015 10:36 am : link
as it is how it happened.

The finale really could have used an extra 15 minutes to show Don flying back to NYC, shaving, putting on his suit, walking into McCann Erickson, into the board room and delivering an epic pitch for Coke. One last Don Draper signature pitch and when he completes the pitch - cut to Coke commercial, end scene.

If Weiner's going to end it like he did - seemingly tying up all these loose ends, why leave it up to us to think for a second, check online and go "Ohh, Don wrote that Coke commercial." It's not some deep ending that left me stroking my chin hairs, pondering life like so many episodes in the early seasons did.

And despite so much wasted air time throughout the final season, the ending felt rushed to me. If that's where you're going, why end the series with Don still at this commune with that naked fat guy that plays the same role in shitty comedies?
RE: I thought it was great.  
BMac : 5/18/2015 11:17 am : link
In comment 12290454 Crispino said:
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Since so many people are dissatisfied, how do you think it should end for Don? It was subtlety brilliant IMO. What, you watched for 7 years and thought he was suddenly going to become some kind of pat reformed character? Nope. He IS Don Draper, the adman.


The problem is that he IS a pat, reformed character and his name is Don Draper.
I didn't expect a reformation  
UConn4523 : 5/18/2015 11:34 am : link
I expected this final season to actually mean something to his character and it really didn't. I still can't get over that retreat, just absolutely awful. It's like Weiners son wrote it.
You're missing a key moment  
schnitzie : 5/18/2015 11:57 am : link
It was in that exercise, when the group leader has Don stand in front of the elderly woman and tells the people to communicate their perception of the other person without speaking: BOOF! She shoves him away.

That is what Don has been doing in all of his relationships from the very beginning of the series. It's all over the first episode:

He pushes away Rachel Menken. Walks out of the meeting.
He pushes away the Old Gold clients and only has his epiphany as they're walking out the door.
He pushes away Pete: No, I won't go to your bachelor party.
He pushes away Peggy: "I'm not your boyfriend."

I need to go back and watch it again to see if he pushes away Roger. Pretty sure he does.

His epiphany in the final episode is that moment when the old lady pushes him away. Suddenly he realizes what he's been doing his whole life: Pushing everyone, including himself (and his brother), away.

Once he embraces "the new You," himself, he will be able to embrace his life and everyone in it. It had to start with himself.

I, too, wanted to puke at the touchy-feely California angle -- "White people problems." MLK and the black secretaries didn't get to go on woo woo retreats. But Don wasn't a God or Jesus kind of guy. Still, he needed some kind of spiritual renewal. He had always found renewal, acceptance and inspiration in California....but always returned to NYC because it was and is, as Roger said, "The Center of the Universe."
RE: It's not as much what happened at the end that frustrates me  
steve in ky : 5/18/2015 12:14 pm : link
In comment 12290651 AJ23 said:
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as it is how it happened.

The finale really could have used an extra 15 minutes to show Don flying back to NYC, shaving, putting on his suit, walking into McCann Erickson, into the board room and delivering an epic pitch for Coke. One last Don Draper signature pitch and when he completes the pitch - cut to Coke commercial, end scene.

If Weiner's going to end it like he did - seemingly tying up all these loose ends, why leave it up to us to think for a second, check online and go "Ohh, Don wrote that Coke commercial." It's not some deep ending that left me stroking my chin hairs, pondering life like so many episodes in the early seasons did.



It may be an age thing. I'm older and the instant it faded from him smiling into that iconic coke commercial I knew that they were saying that he wrote it and he (Don Draper) ended up just fine. Maybe you had to have been old enough to remember the moment that commercial aired for real to get it in that way, I don't know.

If you had to think about it a little plus go online before really getting it then I would agree that the ending would have lost it's immediate impact and your correct showing him going home and actually doing it probably would have been better to watch. But for me it would have lost it's ahha moment that instantly wrapped up everything for Don Draper in our minds and not been near as good.

I guess the writer couldn't have it both ways, either not as good for those that didn't instantly get it or have it lose something for those that did.

I do agree though that much of the last episode could have been better. IMO it was only the very ending that saved it.
schnitzie  
steve in ky : 5/18/2015 12:57 pm : link
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His epiphany in the final episode is that moment when the old lady pushes him away. Suddenly he realizes what he's been doing his whole life: Pushing everyone, including himself (and his brother), away.


While I agree I also think it took when the niece let him have it when he tried to console her and give her the jewelry "family heirloom". The only historical family he connected with over the years as Don Draper had been with her aunt, he even rejected his kid brother who hung himself as a result. The niece rejecting him so absolutely in any way as "family" was his true rock bottom and imo and allowed him to relate with the man in the meeting who felt distant and unloved by his immediate family.
and the result of this epiphany  
HomerJones45 : 5/18/2015 1:25 pm : link
about his relationships was a Coke commercial?

If the point was to show Don not running out on relationships anymore, what about having Don showing up at the Francis house, giving Sally a hug and saying we are all in this together? I think that makes the point without hitting everyone over the head with it and still leaving it up in the air as to whether he went back to ME.

What the final clip revealed  
RB^2 : 5/18/2015 1:32 pm : link
Is that the "new" Dick, i.e. Don, is a mad man. That's the guy he's just learned to embrace and come to terms with, even if he repels people, like the woman pushing him away. Family man? Maybe. But Don is a mad man first and everything else second from now on.

The dude who broke down hit a nerve with Don not because he was talking about not being loved by family. He hit a nerve with Don because he was talking about being lost, irrelevant and forgotten. That's how Don was beginning to feel at McCann.

Don Draper is back. For better and worse.
I don't see how anyone thought the ending was subtle  
jcn56 : 5/18/2015 1:34 pm : link
They tried to make it a little ambiguous, but it's consensus that Don goes back, writes the Coke ad and lives happily ever after.

About as subtle as a Mack truck. And in an episode that featured some great acting (Don on the phone with Sally or Betty), bailing out on the ending sucked. I'm with AJ, I'd rather have seen Don sitting in the conference room, pitching the Coke ad, with a smile on his face realizing that he is who he is and will never change, no matter how many hippie retreats he goes to.

It was a sloppy episode filled with saccharin happy endings, with a few great moments of acting and writing mixed in. The show had jumped the shark a long time ago, and unfortunately this last season did nothing to reverse that trend. Definitely doesn't measure up to the Sopranos very well.
RE: and the result of this epiphany  
steve in ky : 5/18/2015 1:36 pm : link
In comment 12290934 HomerJones45 said:
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about his relationships was a Coke commercial?

If the point was to show Don not running out on relationships anymore, what about having Don showing up at the Francis house, giving Sally a hug and saying we are all in this together? I think that makes the point without hitting everyone over the head with it and still leaving it up in the air as to whether he went back to ME.


IMO the Coke commercial told us he was done running from, finally accepted being, and returned as Don Draper. I'm not sure it was intended to show us how good of a husband or father he ended up being in the future.

From the ending I just think he was done running from himself as Don, I'm not reading anything more into it.
there were multiple points in the finale  
PaulBlakeTSU : 5/18/2015 1:37 pm : link
at the retreat that contributed to Don's complete breakdown-- including the woman pushing him away, but more importantly, the woman chastising Stephanie (which was also chastising him) and sitting in the group listening to the guy in the suit talk about how he felt like an unused item in the refrigerator. Whereas the guy was sharing his deep-seated depression about going completely unnoticed, it resonated with Don who actually had the opposite problem yet felt alone like a fraud.

The interesting part of the finale is that for several episodes, we watched Don takes steps to try and shed himself of Don Draper, but what really happened, is that he realized that he could actually shed himself of Dick Whitman and be Don Draper and be happy.

The show, since the very first episode, was about finding happiness. Don never really accepted the idea that he could be happy because he considered himself a fraud. But anyone who had any connection to Dick Whitman or to the identity shift was either gone or didn't care. But what he's created as Don Draper is an actual identity, and it is an existence that could have happiness. He has people who care about him (those at SCDP imploring him to "come home") and he has a family who will need him, and that was a product of the Don Draper that he created.

Now, it's open-ended as to what Don does with this revelation/internalization going forward. Is he forever changed by his new outlook and continues to be the pitch man that he loves to be but perhaps more open to the ideas of actual happiness and contentment? Maybe. But it may also be possible that it's just a micro-revelation, a short-lasting feeling of contentment that will eventually fade back into his misery as part of the same cycle that we've seen with him before.


Some interesting things of note:

In the season 2 (?) finale, he wanders into the Pacific with his clothes on as if he were shedding his Don Draper albatross. But here, it's with his back to the Pacific Ocean, facing East-- facing home, that he shows that smile of contentment, and we hear the "dings" of a typewriter-- the dings of an idea/epiphany as we cut to the Coke commercial.

Also, what made the group discussion more compelling was the man in the suit talking about how maybe he did have people who cared, but he just couldn't recognize it it and didn't se it in front of him. This is a common thread we saw in the conclusion for all of the characters-- recognizing that what was going to make them happy was in front of them and that they just had to see it and accept it.
RE: What the final clip revealed  
jcn56 : 5/18/2015 1:39 pm : link
In comment 12290946 RB^2 said:
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Is that the "new" Dick, i.e. Don, is a mad man. That's the guy he's just learned to embrace and come to terms with, even if he repels people, like the woman pushing him away. Family man? Maybe. But Don is a mad man first and everything else second from now on.

The dude who broke down hit a nerve with Don not because he was talking about not being loved by family. He hit a nerve with Don because he was talking about being lost, irrelevant and forgotten. That's how Don was beginning to feel at McCann.

Don Draper is back. For better and worse.


Although I agree that's what happens, I don't see how it fits with his big hug with the ignored family man. Don's been a shitty human being to everyone around him, his family first and foremost. If he's just resolved to that fact, wouldn't his reaction to that guy been a lot more indifferent? If not, wouldn't it have driven Don to change?

Would've made more sense to me if Don had smacked the guy, returned to NYC, accepted who he was and went back to the old Don Draper.
I liked the ending  
RB^2 : 5/18/2015 1:42 pm : link
I understand the desire for Don doing another Kodak-type pitch but the show's done that already.

Don made the decision to go back. You don't need to see him traveling cross-country to NY, getting drunk with Roger or having a dick measuring contest with Hobart. It's well established that if Don get's an idea in his head, he pulls it off.. Watching him go through the motions again would be superfluous, IMO. All you need to see is him work out the inner turmoil in his head.
RE: I don't see how anyone thought the ending was subtle  
speedywheels : 5/18/2015 1:44 pm : link
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Definitely doesn't measure up to the Sopranos very well.


Why should it have to compete with the Sopranos? Simply because Weiner was involved with both?

Not to mention that lots of people out there who think the Sopranos ending was terrible (though I'm not one of them).

I thought the ending was very solid. Not on the level of Six Feet Under, but not on Seinfeld level of bad, either. Don is who he is. He longer has any guilt re Dick Whitman, and is back to doing what he loves to do/is great at. Even though it faded this season, overall it was a terrific show...
RE: I liked the ending  
steve in ky : 5/18/2015 1:45 pm : link
In comment 12290981 RB^2 said:
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I understand the desire for Don doing another Kodak-type pitch but the show's done that already.

Don made the decision to go back. You don't need to see him traveling cross-country to NY, getting drunk with Roger or having a dick measuring contest with Hobart. It's well established that if Don get's an idea in his head, he pulls it off.. Watching him go through the motions again would be superfluous, IMO. All you need to see is him work out the inner turmoil in his head.


Agreed and that was my original point. We have seen him make a pitch hundreds of times showing the entire process to warp up the series would have been the easy way out. Doing it the way they did it was more impactful and left it to the viewers to fill in the pieces. Much better IMO.
RE: RE: What the final clip revealed  
RB^2 : 5/18/2015 1:47 pm : link
In comment 12290966 jcn56 said:
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In comment 12290946 RB^2 said:


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Is that the "new" Dick, i.e. Don, is a mad man. That's the guy he's just learned to embrace and come to terms with, even if he repels people, like the woman pushing him away. Family man? Maybe. But Don is a mad man first and everything else second from now on.

The dude who broke down hit a nerve with Don not because he was talking about not being loved by family. He hit a nerve with Don because he was talking about being lost, irrelevant and forgotten. That's how Don was beginning to feel at McCann.

Don Draper is back. For better and worse.



Although I agree that's what happens, I don't see how it fits with his big hug with the ignored family man. Don's been a shitty human being to everyone around him, his family first and foremost. If he's just resolved to that fact, wouldn't his reaction to that guy been a lot more indifferent? If not, wouldn't it have driven Don to change?

Would've made more sense to me if Don had smacked the guy, returned to NYC, accepted who he was and went back to the old Don Draper.

I don't think it's the family part that resonated with Don. I think it was being ignored and irrelevant in general.
I also  
PaulBlakeTSU : 5/18/2015 1:50 pm : link
think that it's interesting to go back to the beginning of the season. The very first scene is zoomed in on Freddy Roman's face, as he prepares to make a pitch (which was actually a pitch that Dan created). Pay attention to the very first line, and then notice what happens at around 0:58 into the clip.

I also like to think about the line from the very first episode in the series, during the meeting with Lucky Strike: "Advertising is about one thing: happiness."
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SSNVy7FeL3g - ( New Window )
Wow Paul  
Deej : 5/18/2015 1:54 pm : link
great clip. I cant imagine that the interesting man and hum thing is a coincidence.
RE: RE: What the final clip revealed  
HomerJones45 : 5/18/2015 2:02 pm : link
In comment 12290966 jcn56 said:
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In comment 12290946 RB^2 said:


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Is that the "new" Dick, i.e. Don, is a mad man. That's the guy he's just learned to embrace and come to terms with, even if he repels people, like the woman pushing him away. Family man? Maybe. But Don is a mad man first and everything else second from now on.

The dude who broke down hit a nerve with Don not because he was talking about not being loved by family. He hit a nerve with Don because he was talking about being lost, irrelevant and forgotten. That's how Don was beginning to feel at McCann.

Don Draper is back. For better and worse.



Although I agree that's what happens, I don't see how it fits with his big hug with the ignored family man. Don's been a shitty human being to everyone around him, his family first and foremost. If he's just resolved to that fact, wouldn't his reaction to that guy been a lot more indifferent? If not, wouldn't it have driven Don to change?

Would've made more sense to me if Don had smacked the guy, returned to NYC, accepted who he was and went back to the old Don Draper.
Thank you. Would have also made sense if occasionally over the last 5 years, the Whitman/Draper guilt trip had actually reared its ugly head so as to be resolved in the finale.
RE: RE: RE: What the final clip revealed  
speedywheels : 5/18/2015 2:10 pm : link
In comment 12291036 HomerJones45 said:
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Would have also made sense if occasionally over the last 5 years, the Whitman/Draper guilt trip had actually reared its ugly head so as to be resolved in the finale.


But that's the thing; it was ALWAYS there. It didn't need to "rear its ugly head", because it was one of the basic tenets of who Don was, what he was struggling with - his identity. It's why he cuts/runs when things get tough, why he's a (borderline) alcoholic; he's trying to forget, but at the same time always worried it would catch up to him. But now he has embraced it head on, and shed it completely.

He is Don Draper.
This guy nailed the finale  
Alan in Toledo : 5/18/2015 2:20 pm : link
and Bmac got it pretty well too:
"The last shot will be Don at Big Sur, staring out at the ocean."
Link - ( New Window )
Family  
steve in ky : 5/18/2015 2:20 pm : link
I think it has always been about the love of family.

Think back to the Carousel Kodak commercial where he showed all the pictures of his family from the wedding to the children growing up. Think back to his last visit with Anna Draper and the things that were said. He tells her that her annoying sister is still family and that "not everyone has that". She mentions though "he has his children and she bets that's better" and he says how "that's different".

As Don he rejected Dick and what little semblance of family he had of the Whitman's. Never getting past being a fraud he never allowed himself that as Don other than with Anna and the connection he felt with her family. (which was soundly rejected at the end with the niece)

In that last visit when he told Anna about telling Betty "everything" he said that the moment he did he could tell she would never look as him the same way and that was why he had never told her. He never allowed himself to truly feel that Don's family was his family the way a person normally would. Remember one of Sally's early birthday parties when he went to pick up the cake and then simply couldn't return with it and drove off? The guy was a mess and family had a lot to do with it.

I don't think the finale episode tells us if he ends up a good father or eventually a good husband or not but I do think it tells us that he will allow himself to embrace his (Don's) family where he couldn't do so prior to this.
I don't know if Don/Dick feels guilty about it  
RB^2 : 5/18/2015 3:32 pm : link
But he is certainly conflicted. That's enough to make the final handful of episodes make sense.
It did it for me  
liteamorn : 5/18/2015 3:55 pm : link
Along with the great story I enjoyed the nostalgia of the show.

As stated earlier he embraced his "new me (Don)". In the blink of an eye I went from WTF is this? To WOW!

That commercial touched another nostalgic nerve for me and wrapped the show up beautifully. And we know he had that Carousel moment in the board room, we just don't get to see it.

Does he become Daddy Draper? We don't know, but he does become, once and for all Don Draper... Mad-Man.
Maybe it's just me, but I cannot just jump to the conclusion that Don  
Ten Ton Hammer : 5/18/2015 4:02 pm : link
changed and became a better person.

The entire show features him relapsing into his old formula constantly. It's a constant cycle.

I didn't see anything in the last episode that makes me think that just because he hit a new low at the retreat that he became a changed man. Did he really accept anything about himself, or are we just assuming that?

The only thing I saw is that all his old ties are finally gone from his life. Anna made it clear he wasn't family, Betty is dead. He still has his kids, but he only gave lip service to actually caring about them. He never sees them.
Ten Ton Hammer  
steve in ky : 5/18/2015 4:48 pm : link
Long thread so maybe I missed it but I didn't get the impression too many are concluding he must have become a better person. I don't think we can know one way or another. Can't speak for anyone else but for myself the ending didn't even raise or made me really care about that question.
I'd just add  
Daniel in MI : 5/18/2015 5:06 pm : link
one thing about the scene where Don hugs the sweater guy in group.

The thing the guy was saying before he broke down was that maybe his family loved him, or tried. But, he didn't even know what that meant.

I think he's saying that he's been pining for something but he realizes he didn't know what it was or what it would look like if he had it. HE didn't know what love was, so he can't get it from others because the void is in him.

I think this speaks to Don/Dick. Based on his Fed up childhood, he doesn't know what love really is, so he's searching for something but the emptiness is in him so that's why the emptiness follows him through relationships, flings, and across continents.
Also,  
PaulBlakeTSU : 5/18/2015 6:59 pm : link
I think it's worth revisiting the speech that Leonard gave in the group therapy scene-- the speech that caused Don/Dick to have one of the biggest breakdowns we have seen from his character. Mad Men was such a meticulously crafted show and the dialogue was always such an integral part of the show. Matt Weiner didn't put this scene into the show, let alone the finale, without an important reason.

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My name's Leonard. I don't know if there's anything that complicated about me. Which is why I should be happier I guess. It's good for him, he's interesting. but I've never been interesting to anybody. I work in an office, people walk right by me and I know they don't see me.

Then I go home and I watch my wife and my kids - they don't look up when I sit down. It's like no one cares that I'm gone. They should love me, maybe they do, but, I don't even know what it is.

You spend your whole life thinking you're not getting it, people aren't giving it to you. Then you realize they're trying, and you don't even know what IT is.

I had a dream I was on a shelf in the refrigerator. Someone closes the door and the light goes off, and i know everybody's out there eating. And then they open the door, and you see them smiling. They're happy to see you. But maybe they don't look right at you, and maybe they don't pick you.

Then the door closes again. The light goes off.


Notwithstanding the direction of the finale, I thought it was a beautiful piece of dialogue that captured some of the feelings of depression tremendously well. The wanting to be loved and wanting happiness being described an item on a shelf in the dark that wants to be chosen when the refrigerator door is opened was the perfect metaphor for the show to conclude with the "I'd Like to Buy the World a Coke" commercial.
Mixed feelings on the ending  
SanFranNowNCGiantsFan : 5/18/2015 8:43 pm : link
I don't doubt that Don goes back to NYC & helps produce that Coke ad. His genius as a creative mind was never in doubt, but I still don't think he ends up happy. The last scene he has with his family is Sally & Betty telling him that they want Bobby & Gene (he speaks?) to live with their Uncle & Aunt. The only person who wants him back is Peggy, who is, at the end of the day, his co-worker.
NYT Arts Beat Interview with Jon Hamm on the finale  
PaulBlakeTSU : 5/19/2015 11:03 am : link
While he isn't in Matt Weiner's head, I think he does offer a unique insight into the finale.

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Do you have an interpretation of it?

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I do. When we find Don in that place, and this stranger relates this story of not being heard or seen or understood or appreciated, the resonance for Don was total in that moment. There was a void staring at him. We see him in an incredibly vulnerable place, surrounded by strangers, and he reaches out to the only person he can at that moment, and it’s this stranger.

My take is that, the next day, he wakes up in this beautiful place, and has this serene moment of understanding, and realizes who he is. And who he is, is an advertising man. And so, this thing comes to him. There’s a way to see it in a completely cynical way, and say, “Wow, that’s awful.” But I think that for Don, it represents some kind of understanding and comfort in this incredibly unquiet, uncomfortable life that he has led. There was a little bit of a crumb dropped earlier in the season when Ted says there are three women in every man’s life, and Don says, “You’ve been sitting on that for a while, huh?” There are, not coincidentally, three person to person phone calls that Don makes in this episode, to three women who are important to him for different reasons. You see the slow degeneration of his relationships with those women over the course of those phone calls.

http://artsbeat.blogs.nytimes.com/2015/05/18/mad-men-finale-jon-hamm-interview/?module=BlogPost-Title&version=Blog%20Main&contentCollection=Arts&action=Click&pgtype=Blogs®ion=Body&_r=0 - ( New Window )
Mad Men versus Mad Max: Discuss.  
manh george : 5/19/2015 1:02 pm : link
I think the bottom line is that women were treated with more respect in Mad Max.

More seriously, also from a John Hamm interview:

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There’s people saying, oh, it’s so pat, and it’s rom-com-y, or whatever it is. But it’s not the end of anything. The world doesn't blow up right after the Coke commercial ends. No one is suggesting that Stan and Peggy live happily ever after, or that Joan’s business is a rousing success, or that Roger and Marie come back from Paris together. None of it is done.


I liked the Joan part of the ending particularly. She had an interesting new boyfriend, but he seemed to only want her on his terms. Joan came of as wistful, but not devastated.

As far as the rest of what Hamm described above, it pretty much comes down to Wiener's decision to leave an awful lot open-ended--like life, not like a movie or TV show with a complete arc that ends in a comprehensive conclusion. I like that, at the same time as it frustrates me. Living with a character like Peggy for so long, I wanted some more of an idea as to where she was headed.
One of the things that always frustrated me about Don  
schnitzie : 5/19/2015 2:05 pm : link
(and about my own father, IRL, btw) was that every time someone opened up and reached out to him in a vulnerable way, he ALWAYS shut down and rebuffed them or pretended like "Nothing to see here! Move along...move alone...(Freudian slip there, that I will not correct, as it is instructive.)

When Don hugs that guy, it's the first time he actually behaves in an empathetic way in response to someone else's neediness. It's the first time he moves towards someone's neediness...embracing it and bringing comfort to is.

Also, that guy he hugs might as well have been Don's own empty invisible core staring right back at him. Don finally looked into the gaping void at the center of his very being and embraced it. He stopped being ashamed of his own neediness. Don finally had compassion for his own pain at being rejected, unseen and unloved...and wanting love.

So he finally reached out and hugged someone. He really hugged himself. The earlier, unevolved Don would have regarded that guy in the group as a whiny pussy and told him to snap out of it.

Once he embraced the guy/himself, he could then embrace everyone else in his life. I don't think it's fair to say that Don didn't care about his kids. It's just that if he could not relate to himself in an authentic way, he could not relate to his kids or anyone else, for that matter, in an authentic way.

Don always gave off glimmers of actually being cool...like when he was taking photographs while hanging out with Midge and her Village hipsters... Or when Betty was being a cruel, horse's ass about their kids, wanting to punish the children, particularly Bobby, for being a kid, Don didn't see the sense it that. He was much more accepting, less rigid, than Betty.

When Betty talked about how horrible it would be if Sally got a scar on her face, Don's reaction and expression indicated that he just couldn't relate to this bullshit societal convention. It's what enabled him to mentor Peggy, who, while cute, let's face it, is pretty average in the looks department. Peggy spends the latter half of the first (second?) season being somewhat "fat" but successful in her career.

There were glimmers that an authentic Don would be an amazing fellow.... And it's not ONLY that he produces one of the greatest ads of all time. What *that* indicates is that while he was emptying out, rejecting rejecting rejecting himself, his creativity was SHOT. He SUCKED as a Mad Man.

Footsteps in the sand, leading into the sea? Come to Hawaii and kill yourself?

Remember the German researcher who talked about Freud's Death Wish in the first episode of the first season? Back then, Don knew that an angle like that would be Dead on Arrival with the clients. He wasn't wrong about that when he seemed to forget himself and presented that morbid Hawaii campaign and SHAT the bed.



Oops...anyway...  
schnitzie : 5/19/2015 2:10 pm : link
Once Don reached that place of self-acceptance, his channel of creativity opened up again. He stopped sucking. The artistic flow returned.

I would have really liked to have seen what Don became capable of beyond his ad work. I suspect he would have been a marvelous photographer, like my Dad was, and a wonderful artist for the sheer love of it, as my Dad could have been.

I really missed my Dad during this series. There is SO MUCH he would have related to and so much that would have challenged him.
One of my clients  
SwirlingEddie : 5/19/2015 2:20 pm : link
(he passed away several years ago) was the managing executive for Ogilvy Mather in the 60s and then DDB in the 70s. But he was always much more the Jim Hobart role - David Ogilvy was the creative guy who knew enough to know to partner with someone who offset his own weaknesses. It was always fun to imagine my client in the Mad Men universe and it was of course odd to him that anyone found the whole thing remotely entertaining!
disagree a bit  
giantfan2000 : 5/19/2015 4:01 pm : link
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Footsteps in the sand, leading into the sea? Come to Hawaii and kill yourself?


I read interviews with Weiner where he mentions this ad and while the client shot it down in mad men .. it is actually a brilliant ad and ahead of it's time . (In the mad men universe) .

His point was Don is an amazingly talented creative director .. even when He was losing it in his personal life .

the other interesting thing about finale is that Don was never a touchy feely person , unless it involved sex or if he was drunk

so the fact that he hugged a complete stranger after he told this story
signified the break thru don made
i enjoyed the ending  
Les in TO : 5/20/2015 5:30 pm : link
don, who was on the verge of suicide, finds peace within himself at the retreat, which provides him the clarity and inspiration to create a legacy television ad. things don't work out perfectly for joan in her love life, but at least she is pursuing her dream. betty is going to die and sally is sacrificing her college experience to be there for her mom and younger brothers. peggy had a rough ride professionally and personally, but ends the show on a high note.

all of the characters on their journeys experienced both success and sorrow, to varying degrees.

I think one day down the road when I have more time I would like to re-watch the entire series and re-read all of the great TIME and Grantland essays about the show. there are so many different themes, metaphors, historical periods, literary references, etc.
I liked the ending.  
Walt in MD : 5/21/2015 6:51 am : link
I could have done without the whole Joan/California guy thing. Are we to believe that they were about to spend the rest of their lives together, and 3 minutes after hearing about her thoughts about opening a business, he's out the door forever? Goodbye Joan. Really? Waste of valuable show time IMHO. The only other thing I thought was a bit strange was Don test driving the car on the salt flats. That whole angle seemed to come out of nowhere, unless I missed something. All in all though, I enjoyed the series, and didnt have a problem with the way it ended.
RE: I liked the ending.  
Jim in Fairfax : 5/21/2015 10:24 am : link
In comment 12295915 Walt in MD said:
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I could have done without the whole Joan/California guy thing. Are we to believe that they were about to spend the rest of their lives together, and 3 minutes after hearing about her thoughts about opening a business, he's out the door forever? Goodbye Joan. Really? Waste of valuable show time IMHO. The only other thing I thought was a bit strange was Don test driving the car on the salt flats. That whole angle seemed to come out of nowhere, unless I missed something. All in all though, I enjoyed the series, and didnt have a problem with the way it ended.

I disagree - I think his reaction was well established. He's retired and wants to have a life of travel and leisure. Finding out she had a small kid was nearly a deal breaker for him. Finding out she's starting a company and will have no time to spend with him was too much.

And there was a point to it: it was to show that Joan had grown to where she wasn't going to let her desires take a back seat for a man.
RE: I liked the ending.  
Les in TO : 5/21/2015 10:54 am : link
In comment 12295915 Walt in MD said:
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Waste of valuable show time IMHO.
that scene was arguably my favourite mad men scene of all time...someone needs to post a gif of Joan and the Peruvian marching powder...after seven seasons, her puppies could finally breathe :)

I think Joan  
PaulBlakeTSU : 5/21/2015 12:35 pm : link
also wore pants in that final scene-- whereas in the first episode, she was telling Peggy to show more leg and she just may land a husband.
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