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Del Shofner : 7/2/2015 2:10 pm
Wasn't this possibility discussed on BBI i/c/w the gay marriage decision?

HELENA, Mont. — A Montana man said Wednesday that he was inspired by last week's U.S. Supreme Court decision legalizing gay marriage to apply for a marriage license so that he can legally wed his second wife.

Nathan Collier and his wives Victoria and Christine applied at the Yellowstone County Courthouse in Billings on Tuesday in an attempt to legitimize their polygamous marriage. Montana, like all 50 states, outlaws bigamy — holding multiple marriage licenses — but Collier said he plans to sue if the application is denied.

"It's about marriage equality," Collier told The Associated Press Wednesday. "You can't have this without polygamy."

County clerk officials initially denied Collier's application, then said they would consult with the county attorney's office before giving him a final answer, Collier said.


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not sure how that's  
pjcas18 : 7/2/2015 4:56 pm : link
relevant other than providing recreation sex opportunities for the citizens of UAE.
RE: Polygamous relationships  
baadbill : 7/2/2015 4:59 pm : link
In comment 12353848 Rob in CT/NYC said:
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have demonstrated negative consequences for women - the analogy breaks down there.


Technically, in light of the recent SCOTUS decision, don't you need to specify "heterosexual polygamous relationships" to make that argument? I presume 3 women (or 3 men) who want to get married as a group wouldn't have the same negative consequences.

And I'm not sure the "incest" argument holds water anymore - at least if the "marriage" isn't a heterosexual marriage. My wife's two sisters lived together for 40 years. Why shouldn't they be allowed to marry and benefit from all the financial and other advantages of marriage? Marriage certainly can no longer be defined as being for the primary purpose of procreation. So incest laws must fall by the wayside so long as the people getting married are of the same sex.
pj  
Headhunter : 7/2/2015 5:01 pm : link
nothing, it's just one of those fun facts to throw out
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pjcas18 : 7/2/2015 5:08 pm : link
In comment 12354267 Headhunter said:
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nothing, it's just one of those fun facts to throw out


Dubai is on my list of places to visit.
Hey if they all love each other  
montanagiant : 7/3/2015 2:14 am : link
And all parties are of age with no applied coercion forcing any of them to do it, why the hell not?
RE: RE: Polygamous relationships  
montanagiant : 7/3/2015 2:17 am : link
In comment 12354261 baadbill said:
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have demonstrated negative consequences for women - the analogy breaks down there.



Technically, in light of the recent SCOTUS decision, don't you need to specify "heterosexual polygamous relationships" to make that argument? I presume 3 women (or 3 men) who want to get married as a group wouldn't have the same negative consequences.

And I'm not sure the "incest" argument holds water anymore - at least if the "marriage" isn't a heterosexual marriage. My wife's two sisters lived together for 40 years. Why shouldn't they be allowed to marry and benefit from all the financial and other advantages of marriage? Marriage certainly can no longer be defined as being for the primary purpose of procreation. So incest laws must fall by the wayside so long as the people getting married are of the same sex.


Are the sisters twins? Because you know, that could be somewhat hot.
RE: RE: RE: why is the government in the marriage business in the 1st place?  
BMac : 7/3/2015 3:48 am : link
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why is a religious/cultural institution a matter of federal law?



It is, above all, a legal matter that directly impacts matters pertinent to the State.



what are the pertinent matters? not being a smartass. I understand the old argument of the govt wanting a stable society for raising families etc, but that IMO is antiquated. I can't remember anyone saying "well I won't get a divorce because of the gov't".


No problem. Here's one example that can lead you to more info by searching on the topic.

There are 1,138 benefits, rights, and protections provided on the basis of marital status in Federal law. Until gay marriage was legalized on a national basis, gay couples were denied these benefits, rights, and protections.

Marriage is a secular legal contract that also has some connections to various religions as a ceremony within that set of beliefs. But it isn't the religious ceremony that confers legality and the rights, benefits, and responsibilities covered by secular law.
RE: I hear Neanderthal women were hot.  
BMac : 7/3/2015 3:52 am : link
In comment 12354067 Big Al said:
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Wonder how it would be handled if they were still around.


They couldn't hold a candle to the Denisovans.
RE: RE: I hear Neanderthal women were hot.  
Big Al : 7/3/2015 8:27 am : link
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Wonder how it would be handled if they were still around.



They couldn't hold a candle to the Denisovans.
You must be into Asian women.
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buford : 7/3/2015 8:33 am : link
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multiple wives and never a woman with multiple husbands?



Because unlike men, women know their limitations. Trying to run one man's life for him is hard enough.


HA! I was going to say much the same thing.

Just one thing, the 'tax breaks' for married people only works if one spouse doesn't work or makes a small salary. Other wise it is known as 'the marriage penalty'.
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buford : 7/3/2015 8:36 am : link
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have demonstrated negative consequences for women - the analogy breaks down there.



And to society in general. Creates large groups of young men who have little chance of finding a mate, and young sexually frustrated men tend to be more prone to violence.



It also creates a family unit that has a greater potential of not being sustainable from a financial or social prospective. Inability to care for all children thereby putting burden on society as a whole.


Yeah, but we pretty much have that now without the legal marriage aspect. In fact, it could make it easier to hold a legal husband financially responsible for all of his children from different mothers than just a random guy.
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LauderdaleMatty : 7/3/2015 9:28 am : link
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have demonstrated negative consequences for women - the analogy breaks down there.



And to society in general. Creates large groups of young men who have little chance of finding a mate, and young sexually frustrated men tend to be more prone to violence.



It also creates a family unit that has a greater potential of not being sustainable from a financial or social prospective. Inability to care for all children thereby putting burden on society as a whole.


Like single patents? Oh but that's different because….. Adding the societal burden works many ways.
I'm not opposed to plural marriage per se  
Gary from The East End : Admin : 7/3/2015 10:17 am : link
If some grouping of people want to commit themselves to each other, live together, have sex, raise children, etc. I think that's fine. I read a lot of Robert Heinlein growing up and I can see the upside if the people involved are evolved enough to deal the with concomitant issues (a big if).

But marriage is a legal framework that outlines the rights and responsibilities each married person has with and for the other. Once you add more people to the group it changes things quite a bit.

Gay marriage is pretty much the same thing as marriage. It's just instead of a dude and a lady you have two dudes or two ladies. Otherwise it works almost exactly the same.

Plural marriage is a very different thing than regular marriage. It requires a whole different set of laws and regulations.
RE: RE: RE: I hear Neanderthal women were hot.  
BMac : 7/3/2015 10:28 am : link
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Wonder how it would be handled if they were still around.



They couldn't hold a candle to the Denisovans.

You must be into Asian women.


I can't afford to be picky.
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