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Pego61 : 8/28/2015 2:42 pm
I bring this question up because of the just-in verdict in the Owen Labrie case in New Hampshire.

For those unaware, a then 18 year old student at a prep school in New Hampshire was just found guilty of several statutory sexual contact misdemeanors and one felony luring of a minor over the computer charge after having sex with a 15 year old freshman at the school. He was acquitted of the serious rape felonies. Essentially, she said she didn't consent, he said they only fooled around and didn't even have sex. It was all part of a sex competition between the senior boys at the school. You can all Google this and find out more.

Anyway, my question is this. In New Hampshire, the age of consent is 16. I think that's the right age for it. But, I always struggle with the idea of two students in the same school being unable to have sex, assuming it was consensual. We treat the 15 year old and the 18 year old the same by having them in the same school, but there is a fundamental difference in those two ages, based on the legal code. Maybe the freshman age group doesn't belong in high schools, but rather middle schools. High school students are not mature and will make terrible mistakes. This could eliminate one such potential mistake.

Should a high school student, let's say 18 years old, face statutory rape charges on one of his peers in the same school? Again, if she says no, it's a no brainer. But, this is like the Marcus Dixon case. Should high school students face the same types of charges as real adults in these sexual assault cases?
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I don't even like going into public bathrooms to piss  
Greg from LI : 8/28/2015 3:56 pm : link
So the idea of sex in one is utterly repellent.
forgot to add...  
Dan in the Springs : 8/28/2015 3:56 pm : link
my question: am I wrong to think this is something that a private business cannot be expected to control? I made it clear that we could not be held accountable, and they still acted like we should be managing those behaviors there. Thoughts?
Dan  
Matt M. : 8/28/2015 3:56 pm : link
I think the principal was out of line. It is not your responsibility to monitor that. it may be in your best interests to curb that behavior for other reasons (health code, etc.) but it is not his place to tell you what to do.
RE: I don't even like going into public bathrooms to piss  
Victor in CT : 8/28/2015 3:58 pm : link
In comment 12440324 Greg from LI said:
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So the idea of sex in one is utterly repellent.


You said it bro. And eating pizza from a known high school jism depository is even more repellent. Don't order the extra cheese pie.
RE: forgot to add...  
Greg from LI : 8/28/2015 4:00 pm : link
In comment 12440325 Dan in the Springs said:
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my question: am I wrong to think this is something that a private business cannot be expected to control? I made it clear that we could not be held accountable, and they still acted like we should be managing those behaviors there. Thoughts?


What did they want you to do, station an employee in there on kid sex patrol??
Dan in the springs  
Route 9 in LEH : 8/28/2015 4:00 pm : link
With an underground and underground sex ring. I think he wins the thread.

I get those kids will be...skipping detention..
Well we obviously don't condone it...  
Dan in the Springs : 8/28/2015 4:01 pm : link
and my building was only 3 years old at the time, so the bathroom was still in very, very good shape. Not some 50 year old dump.
and pizza too  
Route 9 in LEH : 8/28/2015 4:01 pm : link
how could I leave that out?
RE: I haven't banged a 15 year old girl  
EricJ : 8/28/2015 4:02 pm : link
In comment 12440231 RB^2 said:
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since I was 15, so I'm a little rusty


LMAO.... Rusty Trombone!
hey hey hey  
Route 9 in LEH : 8/28/2015 4:03 pm : link
I gave you a compliment and I don't expecting bragging about free from dirt toilet seats and upstanding relationship with pizza and principals
A good friend of mine...  
EricJ : 8/28/2015 4:04 pm : link
is a principal at a high school in the NY area. The girls were basically in competition with one another as to how many of the boys they could blow in a school year.

So, the girls on occasion would offer money to the boys to let them get a BJ.

Imagine that...
....  
Route 9 in LEH : 8/28/2015 4:05 pm : link
Damn it that second one was supposed to be underage. A few more 100 views and this is the most viewed topic on BBI besides the welcome to the corner forum post..
I don't agree at all with charging high school kids with rape  
PatersonPlank : 8/28/2015 4:06 pm : link
for consensual sex. 18, 17, 16, when your in H.S. its all the same. Its B.S. in my book. You ruin a kids life for being a teenager.
RE: A good friend of mine...  
speedywheels : 8/28/2015 4:15 pm : link
In comment 12440345 EricJ said:
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is a principal at a high school in the NY area. The girls were basically in competition with one another as to how many of the boys they could blow in a school year.

So, the girls on occasion would offer money to the boys to let them get a BJ.

Imagine that...


Huh? Why would a girl have to offer money? If a girl said "can I blow you?", wouldn't 99% of the guys have their pants around their ankles before she even finished the sentence?
22k  
RC02XX : 8/28/2015 4:17 pm : link
and counting.
....  
Route 9 in LEH : 8/28/2015 4:18 pm : link
Haha they have their pants down before she finished "can I blow up...your house"
As a male  
pjcas18 : 8/28/2015 4:21 pm : link
who as a 17 year old senior in high school had a 15 year old sophomore as a girlfriend I think the laws are a joke. We dated for over two years (until I went to college).

As a father of three daughters that law needs to be enforced much tighter. Jail or the death penalty is getting off easy in my book for anyone who puts their hands on my daughters consensual or not.
what's the deal with the views on this thread  
micky : 8/28/2015 4:21 pm : link
someone go overboard?
....  
Route 9 in LEH : 8/28/2015 4:22 pm : link
Look at the thread title
RE: ....  
micky : 8/28/2015 4:23 pm : link
In comment 12440374 Route 9 in LEH said:
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Look at the thread title


I did and thought someone might've said or posted something that shouldn't
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Route 9 in LEH : 8/28/2015 4:31 pm : link
For the life of me
I can not remember
What made us think that we were wise and we'd never compromise
For the life of me
I can not believe we'd ever die
For these sins
We were merely freshmen
why the hell does this thread  
Maccorkles667 : 8/28/2015 4:34 pm : link
have so many views?

A lotta sick freaks on this site
I betcha  
antdog24 : 8/28/2015 4:38 pm : link
that the google is directing various pervs to this thread. No way just memebers of this site are hitting it.
sweet creamery butter!  
Greg from LI : 8/28/2015 4:39 pm : link
I didn't even notice how ridiculous the view count was. That's crazy.
Holy shit  
pjcas18 : 8/28/2015 4:41 pm : link
there are some loser perverts out there (besides the people on this site).

Delete this thread.
RE: I betcha  
Greg from LI : 8/28/2015 4:43 pm : link
In comment 12440399 antdog24 said:
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that the google is directing various pervs to this thread. No way just memebers of this site are hitting it.


Yup. It's going up by a thousand every few minutes. Apparently Jared Fogle still has internet access.
ah youth, there were no Rainbow Parties back in the day  
gtt350 : 8/28/2015 4:45 pm : link
.
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arcarsenal : 8/28/2015 4:48 pm : link
Yeah, the thread title is definitely directing google traffic here. It's not just regular BBIers. Wouldn't be possible to spike a thread count like that.

People are fucked up.
40k lol  
Route 9 in LEH : 8/28/2015 4:52 pm : link
...
Now 43.9K  
WideRight : 8/28/2015 4:56 pm : link
Thats about 1,000 hits a minute
Highschoolers looking for sex?  
WideRight : 8/28/2015 4:57 pm : link
Tinder?
But are all of these hits helping Eric?  
RC02XX : 8/28/2015 4:57 pm : link
If so, there's a bit of good, no?
So he should change some of the content on the site?  
WideRight : 8/28/2015 4:59 pm : link


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RE: As a male  
BurberryManning : 8/28/2015 4:59 pm : link
In comment 12440371 pjcas18 said:
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who as a 17 year old senior in high school had a 15 year old sophomore as a girlfriend I think the laws are a joke. We dated for over two years (until I went to college).

As a father of three daughters that law needs to be enforced much tighter. Jail or the death penalty is getting off easy in my book for anyone who puts their hands on my daughters consensual or not.

+1
But stats show there are only 3415 active users on the site  
WideRight : 8/28/2015 5:01 pm : link
so something else is going on

Well if the Feds weren't already monitoring BBI, now they are...  
BurberryManning : 8/28/2015 5:03 pm : link
I always thought that it was an unwritten rule in HS that you had to stay within three grades for hookups. The only seniors that I recall fishing for freshmen were the losers that couldn't pull any of the mature chicks in the grades above.

Although we had a senior lax goalie named Sartorius that was nicknamed Statitorius because his girlfriend was a freshman.
I mean, I wanted  
Pego61 : 8/28/2015 5:10 pm : link
people to talk about the topic. I didn't want people looking for porn to end up here. I guess you take the good with the bad. It really was a great thread title.

This might be might greatest achievement on BBI. I'm both proud and sad.
RE: I mean, I wanted  
RC02XX : 8/28/2015 5:11 pm : link
In comment 12440436 Pego61 said:
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people to talk about the topic. I didn't want people looking for porn to end up here. I guess you take the good with the bad. It really was a great thread title.

This might be might greatest achievement on BBI. I'm both proud and sad.


Eric owes you a steak dinner and an ass kicking for this thread.
RE: I mean, I wanted  
pjcas18 : 8/28/2015 5:16 pm : link
In comment 12440436 Pego61 said:
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people to talk about the topic. I didn't want people looking for porn to end up here. I guess you take the good with the bad. It really was a great thread title.

This might be might greatest achievement on BBI. I'm both proud and sad.


I think you should delete the thread, really. It's creepy.
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Greg from LI : 8/28/2015 5:18 pm : link

I agree this thread may need to go...  
okiegiant : 8/28/2015 5:18 pm : link
probably drawing a lot of perverts and a few data bases.
These lurkers are kind of rude  
WideRight : 8/28/2015 5:19 pm : link
they haven't read the welcome to BBI thread.
I don't really think it's a creepy thread.  
Pego61 : 8/28/2015 5:21 pm : link
It's a newsworthy issue. One of the major stories of the day was about this very issue. If the view count wasn't so high, no one would be making a big deal. Yes, it's a difficult issue to speak about. Rape is one of those third rail things you don't want to talk about. But the idea of two high school students having sex and it being considered rape, no matter the consensual nature of it, is a difficult legal issues and I see no reason why it can't be discussed by mature adults. Most of the thread has been very levelheaded.
I just want it deleted  
pjcas18 : 8/28/2015 5:24 pm : link
because I posted personal information (nothing detailed) on a thread that is probably being viewed by perverts and pedophiles. That is what I find creepy.

I normally am more cautious than that.
...  
Route 9 in LEH : 8/28/2015 5:42 pm : link
In comment 12440431 BurberryManning said:
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The only seniors that I recall fishing for freshmen were the losers that couldn't pull any of the mature chicks in the grades above.



They were boning college dudes. What senior girls in your high school were macking it with 10th grade boys? Talk about losers...
RE: I agree this thread may need to go...  
Route 9 in LEH : 8/28/2015 5:47 pm : link
In comment 12440443 okiegiant said:
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probably drawing a lot of perverts and a few data bases.


Only 4 weeks left in BBBI Contribution Campaign!!!
RE: I just want it deleted  
MookGiants : 8/28/2015 5:56 pm : link
In comment 12440455 pjcas18 said:
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because I posted personal information (nothing detailed) on a thread that is probably being viewed by perverts and pedophiles. That is what I find creepy.

I normally am more cautious than that.


pj, email one of the mods and ask them to delete your post
This thread is ridiculous: It has nothing to do with age  
Ron from Ninerland : 8/28/2015 5:56 pm : link
The girl says he forcibly raped her. He says he didn't. Its a he said she said. I'm not making a judgement on who is telling the truth but this has nothing to do with age. The issues would be the same if this case involved two adults. If the man forcibly raped the woman he's guilty
Hah  
CromartiesKid21 : 8/28/2015 6:15 pm : link
this might break the Jersey Shore thread of a few years ago
These threads make me think of that old Grand Funk R/R song  
steve in ky : 8/28/2015 9:01 pm : link
She Got to Move Me
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