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NFT: Sad Times; Putting My Dog to Sleep

pganut : 11/25/2015 5:46 pm
Sorry for another thread on the topic, but I think I now understand it's cathartic to be able to talk about it, to come to grips with it.

My wonderful and faithful companion, Tiki, our West Highland Terrier, has fought a good fight against inoperable bladder cancer for the better part of a year. He was diagnosed almost a year ago to the day with his affliction, and at the time, we were told it could be a few weeks to a few months. So, we've been fortunate he retained his spirit, his appetite and his feisty Westie attitude until recent days. He's steadily declined since last Saturday where he has almost stopped eating; he shakes frequently; has lost a significant amount of weight and is grumpy more often...which I know is because he is now in pain. We never thought the day would come, but we'd always been in agreement that when his quality of life was impacted, we'd do right by him. And today, we reached that conclusion.

I love him dearly, and he's been with us almost 12 years; wonderful years. He's been a great "big brother" to our triplets, who are a year to the day younger than him. He's gotten to see two Super Bowl wins, run on the beach in the Outer Banks, ride in boats, and chase all the squirrels, chipmunks and rabbits a puppy could ever want. We'll be taking him in Friday at 1pm, after getting to (hopefully) enjoy a turkey dinner tomorrow followed by a king's lunch Friday (assuming he wants to partake!). I will miss him dearly. My sweet puppy is pictured below with my son, Ryan.

It is a hard thing to go through, sorry your having to  
steve in ky : 11/25/2015 6:04 pm : link
They are sure worth it though.
So sorry  
halfback20 : 11/25/2015 6:09 pm : link
I know how hard this is. I've been through it. Know that you are doing what's best for your pup. Enjoy your time left together and remember all the good times.
I  
AcidTest : 11/25/2015 6:21 pm : link
am very sorry for your dog's suffering. It is heartbreaking to have to put a pet down. We did it for my dog twenty years ago next month.
Sorry to hear, bud  
redbeard : 11/25/2015 6:23 pm : link
Just gotta know that you are doing right by your old friend
Condolences to you and your family.  
Mike in Philly : 11/25/2015 6:27 pm : link
I didn't grow up with pets and never understood the emotional attachment you develop with them. When I got married my wife was a pet lover, and I now know the heart brake of losing a devoted friend. Again, my sympathies to you and your family.
There is almost nothing...  
Johnny5 : 11/25/2015 6:33 pm : link
... I have experienced that is harder than putting down a furry companion. So sorry bud, for the loss of your friend.
Sorry for your loss  
David in LA : 11/25/2015 7:06 pm : link
best wishes to your family this Thanksgiving.
Sorry, pganut. Really sucks.  
BrettNYG10 : 11/25/2015 7:08 pm : link
Dogs are the best.
The  
AcidTest : 11/25/2015 7:25 pm : link
dog was actually thirty years ago. We put a cat down twenty years ago. Devastating.
So sorry for this  
Walt in MD : 11/25/2015 7:29 pm : link
It's very tough to do it, but it has to be done. God bless you and yours.
So sorry P  
timintey : 11/25/2015 7:30 pm : link
We had to put our golden down last year. Sucks big time. Remember the great memories. Peace bro!
Sorry man.  
mattlawson : 11/25/2015 7:42 pm : link
Don't look forward to the day we'll have to do it with ours.
Did it Yesterday for the First Time  
iMatt : 11/25/2015 7:42 pm : link
She went very quickly and very peacefully. It was for the best. Hang in there.
Im so sorry...hang in there.  
Bold Ruler : Mod : 11/25/2015 7:44 pm : link
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I've done this three times  
Upstate_Giants_fan : 11/25/2015 7:58 pm : link
It never gets easier.

My sincere sympathies

Anyone who thinks Bill Simmons can't write should read his article about putting his dog, Dooze, to sleep. Just heartbreaking and speaks for all dog owners..

take  
blue42 : 11/25/2015 8:02 pm : link
comfort in the fact that you are ending his suffering.Many people wait to long.It's tough.
So sorry to hear.  
ctc in ftmyers : 11/25/2015 8:09 pm : link
It's never easy.
Very sorry for you and your family.  
Tittle 9 20 64 : 11/25/2015 8:15 pm : link
But it sounds like it's time.
Sad day for your family...  
Torrag : 11/25/2015 8:50 pm : link
...but you know when it's time. Few things equal the loyalty and unconditional love of man's best friend. Best wishes from our family.
I've been a dog person all my life  
NorwoodWideRight : 11/25/2015 9:16 pm : link
and lost many companions, best buds, protectors due to the ravages of time and disease. We share a bunch of good years but the end is never easy to bear even though we, as humans, understand the difference in our lifespans. I absolutely feel your pain.
Sorry to hear this pganut  
Optimus-NY : 11/25/2015 9:25 pm : link
You're one of my favorite posters here by far, so it pains me to hear this. I'm taking care of an old cat now who is rapidly declining. I don't have the emotional attachment with her, but I can see how feelings can be built up over the course of many years because I've seen it up close and personal with my brother's and ex-sister-in-law's cats and his son. Very difficult thing to go through indeed.

Hang in there dude and Happy Turkey Day to you all back in America.
Been there. Very sad  
Dave in Buffalo : 11/25/2015 9:59 pm : link
Hang in there.
Thanks, guys  
pganut : 11/25/2015 10:10 pm : link
The support and perspective means a lot. Special appreciation to my hockey guys here and to my old friend Optimus. Means a lot. I'll probably have some thoughts Friday after the goodbye. Happy Thanksgiving to you all.
Sorry, bud  
Danny Kanell : 11/25/2015 10:31 pm : link
I've been through it. It's the toughest thing ive ever had to do.
So sorry dude  
RodneyHamp : 11/25/2015 11:01 pm : link
I know how tough it is.
So very sorry to read this...  
okiegiant : 11/25/2015 11:33 pm : link
hang in there, my friend. I know how tough this must be.
Tough news.  
Patrick : 11/26/2015 12:42 am : link
Sorry for your loss, my friend.

Losing the two dogs I've had over the course of my 41 years was as tough as any friend or relative I've had to bury.

No other friend (and most family) can ever love unconditionally more than a dog.

Remember the good times and smile.
Very sorry to hear about this pga  
B in ALB : 11/26/2015 12:46 am : link
One of the toughest decisions and situations for a young family to experience together. Best wishes my friend. You're an awesome guy and I'm sure you'll shepherd the fam thru this like a champion. Hang in there my friend.
Sorry pga..  
Chris in Philly : 11/26/2015 1:36 am : link
Good luck and best wishes.
Beautiful sweet dog pganut.  
BlueLou : 11/26/2015 4:00 am : link
Sympathy for your family's loss.
Sry for your loss  
Giants2012 : 11/26/2015 4:03 am : link
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My dog as a child was a Westy. Putting down dogs  
Jimmy Googs : 11/26/2015 7:59 am : link
hasn't gotten any easier as I have aged either. The last one I spent the night on the couch drinking martinis until midnight. Dogs are so much cooler than people.

Sorry for your loss man...
Sorry for your loss  
5BowlsSoon : 11/26/2015 9:18 am : link
I do not look forward to do this again (mine is 10) and it about killed me when we put his predecessor down 10 years ago. I hope the memories far exceed this pain.
Sorry  
NJGiantFan84 : 11/26/2015 10:47 am : link
For your loss. It is the hardest thing to do but also the right thing to do. As pet owners, we recognize when it's the right time. Sorry and best of luck.
feel for you, pganut,  
ColHowPepper : 11/27/2015 9:47 am : link
it's the worst, cuts to the quick, it's almost as if you you are going with him. I still remember the day we put our lab James down.

It does get better, though, and loving, fun, and intimate memories of Tiki will live with you and your family forever, he'll be there with you.
Thank you all  
pganut : 11/27/2015 3:57 pm : link
The final update on this front is that Tiki slipped the surly bonds of earth just after 1pm today. He was as peaceful as I've ever seen him at the vet. Had a last meal of pancakes for breakfast this morning and some McDonalds hamburgers for lunch, which I think he choked down just to make us happy. Spent his last hour basking in the bright sun on an unseasonably warm day here in MD, like it was tailor-made for his grand exit. He went very peacefully once the doc administered his injection, and I held his paw till the end. Farewell to my sweet, loving boy.

I sincerely thank all of you for your thoughts. This is what makes BBI great; the sense of community, fellowship and brotherhood. You have my gratitude.
Well said  
Fish : 11/27/2015 4:43 pm : link
Man
sorry for your loss  
MookGiants : 11/27/2015 4:47 pm : link
a little over a month since I had to put one of mine down, it sucks but you did the right thing. Hang in there
Sorry for your loss PGA  
BlueHurricane : 11/27/2015 6:50 pm : link
Its amazing how much pups are members of the family.
Sorry to hear - RIP  
TD : 11/28/2015 12:34 am : link
Glad he traveled well to the other side. I'm sure he was surrounded by a lot of love his whole life. Not much more he could have asked for.
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