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Greg from LI : 2/11/2016 7:50 pm
I got home yesterday and my wife greeted me at the door with the news that something was very wrong with our older dog. She was vomiting almost continuously, not eating or drinking, and hunched over in pain. Our vet has walk-in hours late on Wednesday so I took her right in. The vet examined her, took some x rays, and noted that her spleen and liver are huge. We leave her there overnight for observation and bloodwork. Today we get the word that her liver enzymes are sky-high, that she needs an ultrasound and biopsy because she likely has advanced liver cancer. It was just devastating. We woke up one morning with a dog that seemed perfectly healthy - getting a bit creaky and sedentary in her advancing age, but happy and normal. 24 hours later, she is rapidly approaching the end. Apparently, this suddenness is typical of liver cancer - they don't show symptoms until the cancer is in advanced stage, and then they deteriorate rapidly. We'll get the official diagnosis tomorrow when they get the biopsy results, but the vet didn't give us any other possibilities.

She's not a young dog, but she's a small one so we assumed she still had some years left. The idea that her remaining time is going to be measured in days, not years, is hard to take. I think the missus and I are taking it even harder than the kids, and seeing her in such pain was enough to make anyone cry.

It just really really sucks.
Sorry about that, buddy  
pganut : 2/11/2016 7:54 pm : link
No matter how you prepare, no matter how much you know where things are heading, it's never easy saying goodbye. I lost my best pal in late November, and I miss him every day. Our dogs are family in every sense. Good luck and I hope you draw strength from each other.
Start feeding her  
OBJXIII : 2/11/2016 7:55 pm : link
fresh veggies, grains, and meats instead of normal bagged dog food. I'm convinced that dog food killed our last dog, a small terrier mix.

let thy food be thy medicine...but for real, try feeding her better stuff and maybe she will turn around in health a little, or atleast feel better in the twilight of her life.
i lost my friend Harvey  
tommy boy : 2/11/2016 7:57 pm : link
on December 23rd

he was a bassett hound-all white with black spots

he was a character and lovable

I miss him and always will

ps he was 12
Best of luck Greg  
dune69 : 2/11/2016 7:58 pm : link
I've had to put down a couple in my time and it was very difficult. They become family very quickly and it hurts to lose family.
Sorry to hear, my friend  
Rob in CT/NYC : 2/11/2016 8:01 pm : link
I will go out on a limb and say we are alike and recognize our dogs are better than most people we know, and the world becomes a sadder place without them in it.

Sorry to hear  
ctc in ftmyers : 2/11/2016 8:01 pm : link
Greg. It's never easy.
Sorry to hear Greg  
David in LA : 2/11/2016 8:02 pm : link
One of my friends had to put his dog down recently for the same exact reason. The dog woke up one day just dragging ass, no appetite at all. It's crazy how it happens all of a sudden. I'm dreading the day that happens with my dog, he's already 8 years old.
Sorry to hear it Greg.  
Shepherdsam : 2/11/2016 8:07 pm : link
I'm sitting on the couch right now, my little girl is snoring with her head in my lap.

They absolutely are better than most people.
Best wishes  
Pascal4554 : 2/11/2016 8:13 pm : link
To you and your family. Sounds like your dog has a wonderful loving home.
Sorry to hear  
schabadoo : 2/11/2016 8:14 pm : link
There's few things worse.
Toughest day of my life  
SHO'NUFF : 2/11/2016 8:16 pm : link
and that includes a lot of humans that died in my life.
RE: Toughest day of my life  
Danny Kanell : 2/11/2016 8:29 pm : link
In comment 12811534 SHO'NUFF said:
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and that includes a lot of humans that died in my life.


Same here.

So sorry Greg. Hang in there, bud.
Sorry to hear, Greg.  
BrettNYG10 : 2/11/2016 8:37 pm : link
Is this your dachshund?
Sorry to hear that Greg  
Matt in SGS : 2/11/2016 8:53 pm : link
a couple years back I noticed the same thing about our family beagle. She was sort of just sitting there at an outside bbq and wasn't bothering people to eat their food. Got more listless. So we took her to the vet and she had kidney failure and would just kind of lay down and not move anymore. It's heartbreaking.
Thanks fellas  
Greg from LI : 2/11/2016 8:59 pm : link
And yes, I'd take her over 90% of the humans I know. She never demanded anything more than some belly rubs and a place on the couch to curl up. We gave up on keeping her off the furniture by he third year once we realized it was a battle we were never going to win!

Brett, no, the mutt. Actually had to take the doxie into the vet today, believe it or not. She was whimpering and limping this morning, and it turns out that she has a calcifying disk in her spine, a common ailment in older dachshunds. Painful but treatable with some painkillers and anti-inflammatories.
Sorry to hear that  
Ten Ton Hammer : 2/11/2016 9:01 pm : link
I hate to hear a dog is in pain.
The good news is  
Stealer of Best Friend : 2/11/2016 9:31 pm : link
that it's just a dog. Did you think it was gonna outlive you?
RE: The good news is  
Padiwan15 : 2/11/2016 9:41 pm : link
In comment 12811588 Stealer of Best Friend said:
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that it's just a dog. Did you think it was gonna outlive you?


Is this serious?
Greg  
Padiwan15 : 2/11/2016 9:48 pm : link
I'm so sorry to hear what you're going through. I've been there and I know I'll be there again. So, your thread title absolutely resonates with me. Best wishes, and best of luck. In the end, you know you'll get through it.
The absolute worst part about owning a pet.  
Crispino : 2/11/2016 9:55 pm : link
There's never an easy end. Sorry to hear this, Greg.
That's tough Greg  
Vanzetti : 2/11/2016 10:02 pm : link
I still remember vividly when I had to put my dog down. His kidneys and liver went and he was regurgitating blood. The fur all around the mouth was red.

It happened really quickly, just like with your dog. I was petting his head when they gave him the shot. He seemed happy feeling my hand. It was like 5 seconds and he was gone.
Really tough. But it was the right thing to do. You don't want them to suffer.
Greg so sorry about your dog.  
Watson : 2/11/2016 10:14 pm : link
Don't know what else to say.
Very sorry to hear Greg  
B in ALB : 2/11/2016 10:23 pm : link
It's not going to be easy but you'll push thru I'm sure. Dogs are awesome and this point in their lives is really hard.
I'm  
AcidTest : 2/11/2016 10:23 pm : link
very sorry for what is happening to your dog. God bless. Dogs are great.
Thats very tough to hear  
Ron from Ninerland : 2/11/2016 10:30 pm : link
We have a 10 and an 8 year old Chihuahua mix. Right now they're both healthy, in fact the 10 year old is as active as some puppies. My wife and I almost consider these dogs our children. I'm much closer to these dogs than the German Shepard my family had when I was a kid. I'm dreading the day that they leave us. It must be horrible that this is happening so quickly and you never saw it coming. I hope there's some treatment for your dog that will allow him to live a little longer pain free.
Sorry to hear Greg  
smshmth8690 : 2/11/2016 10:36 pm : link
Best to you and your family.
Sorry to hear about this Greg.  
napoleon : 2/11/2016 10:46 pm : link
I've lost 3 dogs over the years. 1 died naturally and the other 2 we had to put down. I am sorry you and your family are going through this. It's something no dog owner can ever really prepare for emotionally.
very sorry to hear this, Greg.  
Del Shofner : 2/11/2016 11:28 pm : link
We lost our older Westie last August. She was almost 18, which was crazy old for a dog of this breed. I saw her more day to day and knew it was time for her to go. But Mrs S had a hard time accepting it despite how old the dog was. We still have our younger who's 7 and a feisty piece of work.

Anyway ... never easy to lose a dog. I saw a great saying and I don't have it quite right, but it went something like the only reason dogs live 10-15 years is that if they lived longer we'd have an even harder time parting with them.

Hang in there and remember that you gave this dog a good life.
Greg  
MookGiants : 2/12/2016 12:09 am : link
sorry to hear this news Pal. I had to put down one of my two dogs in October, it really sucks.
So sorry  
WillieYoung : 2/12/2016 7:37 am : link
How is your other dog reacting? Can he/she sense something is. Happening?
Yes, Baby knows something is going on  
Greg from LI : 2/12/2016 8:14 am : link
She keeps sniffing around Lucy's bed, as if she's wondering where Lucy is. We got Baby as a very young puppy, so she's spent virtually every minute of her life with Lucy.
It does suck  
Chef : 2/12/2016 8:33 am : link
Last Christmas Eve I found out that my Lab had cancer.. Like you said he was fine until one day he neck blew up like a balloon.. was his glands responding to the cancer. After a stint on steroids he died shortly thereafter... We did a nice memorial for him.. got his paw prints in a clay and cement mold.. it is very tough.. think about Duke every day.. Best wishes
in happier times....  
Greg from LI : 2/12/2016 9:19 am : link
I forgot how black her face used to be - been pretty gray for a while now

Sorry Greggie  
gidiefor : Mod : 2/12/2016 9:20 am : link
I had to go through this last year -- It Sux!!!
Sorry pal  
Fish : 2/12/2016 9:23 am : link
My boy is 5 and we are not looking forward to something like this. Hope it never happens. Keep your head up.
Just terrible  
figgy2989 : 2/12/2016 9:25 am : link
I am dreading the day I have to go through this. Heads up Greg, just make sure when you get her home you and your family enjoy every minute with her.
Sorry Greg  
Kevin in Annapolis : 2/12/2016 9:26 am : link
it's never easy.
Sorry to hear.  
drkenneth : 2/12/2016 10:16 am : link
Hang in there.
it sucks  
haper : 2/12/2016 10:33 am : link
Lost my 13 year old Lab last year; no matter the circumstances it's a horrible process.

I loved having him around so I wanted to make sure I didn't prolong his life and suffering for selfish reasons. I had discussions w our vet abt it for a few years so when the time came I was confident in the decision.

Good Luck . . .
Well, we may yet have a miracle  
Greg from LI : 2/12/2016 11:56 am : link
The vet was surprised to get back negative results on the biopsy. Whatever is wrong with her, it isn't cancer. the vet, actually isn't sure what it actually is, but we can try to treat it with anti-inflammatories. She still has pancreatitis as well. We'll take her home, give her the drugs, try to get her to eat some bland food (she hasn't eaten in three days now). This should knock out the pancreatitis. The vet is hopeful that the liver issues will subside when she recovers from the pancreatitis.

Not out of the woods yet, she's still very sick, but any reason for hope is a relief.
I know what you mean,  
Doomster : 2/12/2016 12:07 pm : link
over time, they become part of the family....
Sorry to hear about your troubles with your pup...  
Torrag : 2/12/2016 12:12 pm : link
...but glad to hear there is some hope. Good luck going forward.
RE: Well, we may yet have a miracle  
Ron from Ninerland : 2/12/2016 12:19 pm : link
In comment 12812256 Greg from LI said:
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The vet was surprised to get back negative results on the biopsy. Whatever is wrong with her, it isn't cancer. the vet, actually isn't sure what it actually is, but we can try to treat it with anti-inflammatories. She still has pancreatitis as well. We'll take her home, give her the drugs, try to get her to eat some bland food (she hasn't eaten in three days now). This should knock out the pancreatitis. The vet is hopeful that the liver issues will subside when she recovers from the pancreatitis.

Not out of the woods yet, she's still very sick, but any reason for hope is a relief.


That's great news. Your dog is going to live a little longer and with some luck, a lot longer. Is it possible she ate something she wasn't supposed to ?
Anything's possible, but I don't know what it could have been  
Greg from LI : 2/12/2016 12:31 pm : link
Didn't find any evidence around the house of her getting into anything.
Good deal.  
Randy in CT : 2/12/2016 12:34 pm : link
I'd agree with the idea of trying a super clean food change and see what results you get.
I'm glad  
EricNY33 : 2/12/2016 12:43 pm : link
things are looking up Greg. I am dreading the day when my dog's health gets to that point too.
that's awesome news!  
santacruzom : 2/12/2016 2:06 pm : link
Congrats.

Our dog is aging, and I've found myself wondering how much of a difference a food upgrade would make. People are kind of predisposed to save money on food for themselves at the expense of their own health, and we probably do the same for our pets. But if we pay, I dunno, 100 bucks for a two month supply of food instead of 50, would the benefits manifest themselves in a longer, healthier life?
So sad to hear  
TD : 2/12/2016 3:07 pm : link
Shower the lil guy with love and treats however long he has left and do what's right by him in the end - even if it means the end comes sooner than you'd like.
Glad to read this, good luck with her.  
Shepherdsam : 2/12/2016 5:24 pm : link
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So glad to hear  
ctc in ftmyers : 2/12/2016 6:31 pm : link
Greg. At least you'll catch a little more time.
Just saw the update  
TD : 2/12/2016 7:54 pm : link
Hope she recovers..
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