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B in ALB : 5/2/2016 12:35 am
Baby Boxes. I don't know what to say. Bizarre.
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Better option than a dumpster  
AnnapolisMike : 5/2/2016 7:22 am : link
It's sad that they are apparently needed, but perhaps it's better than the alternatives?
Thought they had places in hospitals  
madgiantscow009 : 5/2/2016 7:27 am : link
you could leave your baby.
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Moondawg : 5/2/2016 8:18 am : link
In comment 12940011 AnnapolisMike said:
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It's sad that they are apparently needed, but perhaps it's better than the alternatives?


If you are the kid, of course. A fighting chance is better than no chance.
It's a shame that they're necessary, but they're probably  
jcn56 : 5/2/2016 8:23 am : link
necessary. There have been more than a few cases of mothers abandoning (if not outright killing) their children because they didn't want to deal questions handing them over (IIRC, both police stations and hospitals have 'don't ask' policies for people who want to surrender a child).
Perhaps, a better focus shoukd be on not having kids  
SomeFan : 5/2/2016 8:28 am : link
when you cannot take care of yourselves. Maybe a national campaign as intense as the anti-cigarette campaign except this would be the antipregnancy campaign when you cannot afford it or are a drug addict or the father is no where to be found. At least we'd get some bang for the buck with that.
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I Love Clams Casino : 5/2/2016 8:32 am : link
In comment 12940012 madgiantscow009 said:
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you could leave your baby.


The type to consider leaving a baby in a dumpster may not be the person who you'd rely on to know whether or not that is an option.

You're not even sure.

RE: Perhaps, a better focus shoukd be on not having kids  
schabadoo : 5/2/2016 8:41 am : link
In comment 12940084 SomeFan said:
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when you cannot take care of yourselves. Maybe a national campaign as intense as the anti-cigarette campaign except this would be the antipregnancy campaign when you cannot afford it or are a drug addict or the father is no where to be found. At least we'd get some bang for the buck with that.


Abstinence programs have been ineffective. I can't see free long term contraception being politically viable for a segment of our society. So what option you going for?
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Cam in MO : 5/2/2016 8:52 am : link
In comment 12940084 SomeFan said:
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when you cannot take care of yourselves. Maybe a national campaign as intense as the anti-cigarette campaign except this would be the antipregnancy campaign when you cannot afford it or are a drug addict or the father is no where to be found. At least we'd get some bang for the buck with that.


You must not know any middle/high school aged kids. The "anti-pregnancy" campaign has been going on for decades.

You seem to be implying that it can be only one or the other. No education campaign is going to be 100% effective, ever. So you do the education campaign along with other initiatives and still have a safe option available for those folks that you aren't able to reach.

What you're looking for is "perfect world". I'm sure we all agree that it would be fabulous if folks that couldn't take care of a kid/don't want a kid wouldn't have them. Unfortunately, that's not the world we live in.

The good new is that teen pregnancy rates are basically the lowest across the board that they have been in basically forever.






This has been used by other countries with success.  
Watson : 5/2/2016 9:02 am : link
It's preferable that the mother hands over the baby in person since she may need medical assistance herself. Unfortunately, situations occur where too fearful of authorities despite safe haven laws; teenage pregnancies particularly those in denial, or mother with mental health or addiction issues. So if these boxes can help prevent additional tragedies, why not?

As to teenage pregnancies, they have been going down the last two decades. However, US teenage pregnancies still higher than many other developed countries.
the bad news is  
J : 5/2/2016 9:06 am : link
not only teens aged 15-19 can get pregnant
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Cam in MO : 5/2/2016 9:10 am : link
In comment 12940176 J said:
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not only teens aged 15-19 can get pregnant


Not sure why that would be bad news.


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Moondawg : 5/2/2016 9:25 am : link
In comment 12940193 Cam in MO said:
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In comment 12940176 J said:


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not only teens aged 15-19 can get pregnant



Not sure why that would be bad news.



Nobody wants to see a pregnant granny. (Excepting rule 35).
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Moondawg : 5/2/2016 6:17 pm : link
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madgiantscow009 : 5/2/2016 6:24 pm : link
In comment 12940094 I Love Clams Casino said:
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In comment 12940012 madgiantscow009 said:


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you could leave your baby.



The type to consider leaving a baby in a dumpster may not be the person who you'd rely on to know whether or not that is an option.

You're not even sure.


I am sure they have them in AZ, but not sure about NJ/NY, but you are right it is not common knowledge.
You can go to any hospital Emergency Room  
Shadow : 5/2/2016 6:48 pm : link
And legally surrender your baby in the United States.
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Cam in MO : 5/2/2016 6:52 pm : link
In comment 12941937 Shadow said:
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And legally surrender your baby in the United States.


Right.

Unfortunately, even if this was common knowledge, the fear and shame involved in giving up your baby face to face is one hell of a deterrent.


^^^^YUP^^^^  
I Love Clams Casino : 5/3/2016 8:34 am : link
for as stupid as the thing looks and how outrageous it's purpose seems, I think it's a good idea
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