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Zebrka : 5/24/2016 7:02 am
This is bullshit. My son graduatedd college in May and he only got 40 likes on Facebook picture of him with the degree and his best friend (Joel) on the same day posted he was clean for one year and Joel got 233 likes for his drug free announcement.

Why do we live in a day and age where we praise someone for once using drugs and not using them but someone with a degree gets left out in the cold.w anna know something funny? My son has 340 more friends than my friend Joel has and they have 280 mutual friends so basically the same people are seeing this. All of my sons friends from high school seem like their jealous countless countless.

I left a little comment and everyone called me an asshole, i guess common sense isn’t a thing of today...or maybe I sense a bit of jealously in the whole conditoning. this whole little thing says a lot of noticing about society. i guess im just a grumpy old man.
One thing it might be ...  
FStubbs : 5/24/2016 7:03 am : link
Not to insult you or your son, but this Joel fellow might simply be more popular with his circle of friends than your son is with his.
Joel has stolen money and ditched my boy  
Zebrka : 5/24/2016 7:05 am : link
from his money for fantasy football back in my day we called that something else, he's a bitch like tom brady but look you cant say what I meant to say because youll get in trouble in this PC world
grow up  
terz22 : 5/24/2016 7:09 am : link
Who gives a shit if person A has more likes than person B. Talk about getting upset over nothing.
...  
christian : 5/24/2016 7:10 am : link
Was not graduating going to potentially kill your son and/or lead to a damaged life for he and those around him?
So your sons a college  
ctc in ftmyers : 5/24/2016 7:11 am : link
grad and your pissing a fit over his social media life?

Think about that a little.


You're trying too hard.  
PeterinAtlanta : 5/24/2016 7:11 am : link
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ever since  
fkap : 5/24/2016 7:13 am : link
Tim in Mystic was outted, it's hard to take these things seriously, but...
yeah. you're an asshole. Pissed that son didn't get enough likes? this is what passes for a social crisis these days?

Plus, if your son is anywhere near average, he probably drank when he shouldn't have or done drugs. he didn't get addicted, luckily. addiction is far, far harder to overcome than getting a college degree.
just a little looking whats wrong with that?  
Zebrka : 5/24/2016 7:13 am : link
he graduated almost two weeks ago...Joel's the idiot that fucked with drugs (started smoking lil bit of pot with ricky g) then became Mr. Drugs ...it's amazing how we still stick up for the junkie but put aside someone who does something with their life (and has never done drugs to boot)
Being a junkie is harder than going to school for  
Zebrka : 5/24/2016 7:14 am : link
being a lawyer? oh ok
RE: You're trying too hard.  
Zebrka : 5/24/2016 7:18 am : link
In comment 12968881 PeterinAtlanta said:
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no efforts just a flick of the back and yor on your wrist crying
being a junkie  
fkap : 5/24/2016 7:18 am : link
is easy.
Stopping being a junkie is hard.
Don't feed the troll.  
Big Blue Blogger : 5/24/2016 7:19 am : link
Does anyone actually think this thread is legit?
who cares? What does Eli Apple’s mom got to  
Route 9 : 5/24/2016 7:21 am : link
Say about this?
Pretty sure if you have 350.friends  
aquidneck : 5/24/2016 7:21 am : link
You really have none. Facebook is not reality.

Congrats to your son for graduating college. Now tell him to get off the computer and go make a friend or two, hunh?
RE: RE: You're trying too hard.  
PeterinAtlanta : 5/24/2016 7:21 am : link
In comment 12968885 Zebrka said:
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In comment 12968881 PeterinAtlanta said:


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no efforts just a flick of the back and yor on your wrist crying


Next time, try using English.
RE: Don't feed the troll.  
ctc in ftmyers : 5/24/2016 7:22 am : link
In comment 12968887 Big Blue Blogger said:
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Does anyone actually think this thread is legit?


Is there a person on here who does?
Does anyone have a link to Joel's post?  
Big Blue Blogger : 5/24/2016 7:23 am : link
If it's public, let's all like it.
Did you also rant on FB when he got dumped by a girlfriend?  
montanagiant : 5/24/2016 7:48 am : link
Let him live his own life instead of you trying to live it for him. Maybe your actions are why he has limited friends
I know I'm feeding the troll...  
John in Loudoun : 5/24/2016 7:49 am : link
But seriously, you need to get a life. Your boy is a grown man now. He can handle his own business without his daddy protecting him.
Hanging out with Ricky G  
bigbluehoya : 5/24/2016 7:52 am : link
Will get you every time.
Seems to me  
Big Al : 5/24/2016 7:57 am : link
that this is some bizarro world version of the prodigal son.
Big Troll Interactive...  
Chris in Philly : 5/24/2016 8:00 am : link
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Just throwing this out there...  
Gmaniac1 : 5/24/2016 8:13 am : link
... it's probably easier to graduate from college than it is to k!ck hardcore drug use.

I'd even go so far as to say it is a lot easier.
RE: Seems to me  
Gmaniac1 : 5/24/2016 8:15 am : link
In comment 12968914 Big Al said:
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that this is some bizarro world version of the prodigal son.

+1
Luke 15: 11-32 - ( New Window )
LOL..  
FatMan in Charlotte : 5/24/2016 8:15 am : link
even the troll can't keep his priorities straight.

Last week you were bitching about social media. This week, you are pissed not enough Facebook recognition has been given.

Trying hard and failing at the trolling thing.
RE: You're trying too hard.  
Moondawg : 5/24/2016 8:34 am : link
In comment 12968881 PeterinAtlanta said:
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+1
Welcome to tonight's epsiode of...  
Chris in Philly : 5/24/2016 8:39 am : link
"Name That Troll"! Now please give a big hand to your host, Wink Martindale!
...  
FatMan in Charlotte : 5/24/2016 8:41 am : link
how  
PaulBlakeTSU : 5/24/2016 9:06 am : link
do you go to college to be a lawyer?
Joel is a nice person.  
Randy in CT : 5/24/2016 9:10 am : link
Your son is an asshole. Can I help with anything else?
How many times did you like your sons post?  
pjcas18 : 5/24/2016 9:11 am : link
maybe you should look in the mirror Zebra. Look in the mirror!!!

If it were me I'd say


I’m starting with the man in the mirror
I’m asking him to change his ways
And no message could have been any clearer
If you wanna make the world a better place
Take a look at yourself, and then make a change
By the way  
Big Al : 5/24/2016 9:34 am : link
if you post his name, I will give him a pity like and even urge others to do the same.
RE: Welcome to tonight's epsiode of...  
Greg from LI : 5/24/2016 9:37 am : link
In comment 12968964 Chris in Philly said:
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"Name That Troll"! Now please give a big hand to your host, Wink Martindale!


Uh oh, a Whammy!

...  
Lafferty, Daniel : 5/24/2016 9:37 am : link
.  
Vin R : 5/24/2016 9:37 am : link
We need better trolls.  
Cam in MO : 5/24/2016 9:39 am : link
This new breed of millennial trolls suck ass.


Put some thought and effort in for fuck's sake. Where is your pride?






Joel sounds like a god damn hero  
Patrick77 : 5/24/2016 9:51 am : link
I like the guy already. Probably way cooler than your boring virgin son.
We should all scrape some money together and send it to Joel.

I'm actually surprised your loser fake son has 40 friends on Facebook.
RE: RE: Seems to me  
Big Al : 5/24/2016 9:56 am : link
In comment 12968931 Gmaniac1 said:
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In comment 12968914 Big Al said:


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that this is some bizarro world version of the prodigal son.


+1 Luke 15: 11-32 - ( New Window )
interesting that he complains about how people react today while the same theme took place in the Bible from the distant past. Guess he is not a Church goer or not very good at picking up the lessons put forth there.
There's no way  
AP in Halfmoon : 5/24/2016 10:03 am : link
This moron raised a kid who graduated from college
same people who feed the troll are liking Joel  
WideRight : 5/24/2016 10:05 am : link
Society can be separated from the individuals in that society. Society is in fact very impressed with your sons accomplishments and optomistic about his future. That is absolutely fantastic.

Individuals within the group are inadequate envious pricks who want to feel good about them themselves on social media. They are not liking Joel for going sober. Its a combination of condescension to make themselves feel better, and hopping on the bandwagon for the 50% chance that he relapses so that they can pity him some more.

And complementing your son doesn't make them feel good about themselves.

RE: There's no way  
Big Al : 5/24/2016 10:07 am : link
In comment 12969118 AP in Halfmoon said:
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This moron raised a kid who graduated from college
My experience tells me that some kids can overcome moron parents (not talking about mine if anyone makes that assumption).
Could this guy be  
Randy in CT : 5/24/2016 10:09 am : link
Rich from Houston?
I will gladly like your son's post  
GiantsLaw : 5/24/2016 10:51 am : link
please post link
Like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like.....  
GiantJake : 5/24/2016 11:34 am : link
You have my condolences in this obviously sad time for your family. It's horrible that all of your son's hard work has been nullified by a drug addict's obvious attempt to steal his thunder. I dream of the day my son graduates from college so he can reap the benefit of all the fucking likes on social media, but I am hesitant to even send him now after hearing of this travesty of justice. I hope you and your son can someday get past this. Good luck.
Hey, Joel...  
BMac : 5/24/2016 12:04 pm : link
...When you stole that cow, and your friend tried to make it with the cow. I want to party with you, cowboy! I can see why you get lots more likes than that little twat Zebrka Jr.
Wow,  
NJGiantFan84 : 5/24/2016 12:12 pm : link
You obviously have no understanding of addiction. You should do some research about the topic so you do not sound so foolish when discussing it.

I also think you need to look into this need for acceptance. Getting likes on facebook shouldnt matter to anybody the day their son graduates. Pretty sad if you ask me. Enjoy the moment, letting something so childish bother you so much that you comment on it is not a way you want to go through life. Likes on facebook shouldnt make you more or less proud of any accomplishment.

Why the fuck...  
Chris in Philly : 5/24/2016 12:21 pm : link
are people still responding seriously?
It sounds like your son kinda sucks.  
Mike in Long Beach : 5/24/2016 12:22 pm : link
Tell him to be more popular and maybe that piece of paper will get more likes.
RE: Why the fuck...  
Greg from LI : 5/24/2016 12:28 pm : link
In comment 12969367 Chris in Philly said:
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are people still responding seriously?


Never bet against the stupidity of the American public.
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T in NJ : 5/24/2016 1:50 pm : link
a few thoughts  
Les in TO : 5/24/2016 4:39 pm : link
- the # of relative facebook likes does not equal "importance"

- comparison is the antithesis of joy - if you are constantly comparing yourself to others, whether it's money, size of your house, # of likes, you will never truly be happy

- 40 facebook likes (what your son received) is nothing to sneeze at

- generally speaking, facebook friends are less likely to "like" a self-congratulating post for a nice but "normal" achievement (look at me, I got my degree!/won an ultramarathon!) than a post admitting to overcoming weakness/sadness due to challenges and obstacles in their life (and in both cases), a lot less than a great picture

- drug addicts can face some pretty dire consequences (homelessness, jail, deterioriation, death) and so progress to overcoming that is likely going to generate sympathy and support
Holy fuck...  
Chris in Philly : 5/24/2016 5:05 pm : link
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lol in the day and age of America today  
Zebrka : 5/24/2016 6:13 pm : link
We bash the kid who went to school and got his degree and negelect the fact he never did drugs by saying "he isn't cool" but praise someone for DOING drugs, being a theif piece o shit, taking fantasy football $ and oh look he was recovering back to semi-useless...

maybe we don't understand addiction because we weren't stupid and knew better...to not to fucking do drugs?

i bet you all love narcan like a bunch of "free thinking liberals" do ...no wonder the Chinese and everyone else hates us (USA)
It's possible that you're actually the reason  
Bill L : 5/24/2016 6:18 pm : link
That the Chinese and everyone else hates us (the USA).
I for one welcome our Chinese overlords  
Patrick77 : 5/24/2016 6:21 pm : link
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.....  
ctc in ftmyers : 5/24/2016 6:39 pm : link
"i bet you all love narcan"

Hell yes!!!!. How else to come down when you OD on heroin?

Except please don't call me a liberal. That's like banning material.

Many on here can attest to that.
I have consumed a metric fuck-ton of drugs and will continue to do so.  
Shepherdsam : 5/24/2016 6:56 pm : link


That is all.
RE: lol in the day and age of America today  
Big Al : 5/24/2016 6:59 pm : link
In comment 12969754 Zebrka said:
[quote] We bash the kid who went to school and got his degree and negelect the fact he never did drugs by saying "he isn't cool" but praise someone for DOING drugs, being a theif piece o shit, taking fantasy football $ and oh look he was recovering back to semi-useless...

maybe we don't understand addiction because we weren't stupid and knew better...to not to fucking do drugs?

i bet you all love narcan like a bunch of "free thinking liberals" do ...no wonder the Chinese and everyone else hates us (USA) How did you find out about this? Is your son whining about this great injustice or just you? Does he know you posted this and if so does he approve?
RE: lol in the day and age of America today  
Big Al : 5/24/2016 7:05 pm : link
In comment 12969754 Zebrka said:
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We bash the kid who went to school and got his degree and negelect the fact he never did drugs by saying "he isn't cool" but praise someone for DOING drugs, being a theif piece o shit, taking fantasy football $ and oh look he was recovering back to semi-useless...

maybe we don't understand addiction because we weren't stupid and knew better...to not to fucking do drugs?

i bet you all love narcan like a bunch of "free thinking liberals" do ...no wonder the Chinese and everyone else hates us (USA)

How did you find out about this? Is your son whining about this great injustice or just you? Does he know you posted this and if so does he approve?
RE: lol in the day and age of America today  
Kulish29 : 5/24/2016 7:22 pm : link
In comment 12969754 Zebrka said:
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We bash the kid who went to school and got his degree and negelect the fact he never did drugs by saying "he isn't cool" but praise someone for DOING drugs, being a theif piece o shit, taking fantasy football $ and oh look he was recovering back to semi-useless...

maybe we don't understand addiction because we weren't stupid and knew better...to not to fucking do drugs?

i bet you all love narcan like a bunch of "free thinking liberals" do ...no wonder the Chinese and everyone else hates us (USA)


Your 'son', just like you, is a giant, whiny, pulsating vagina.
to the original OP  
ed90631 : 5/24/2016 7:34 pm : link
your son's reward will accrue over the next sixty years of his life as he works his way through his career, marries a decent woman, raises wonderful kids and lives out his waning years in comfort.

the other guy will only ever get a pat on the back, and the false comraderie of other junkies, slip back into his drug addled life style, spend his middle age panhandling and sleeping under freeway bridges and die alone in a drainage ditch on a cold and wet night.

so cut the other guy some slack and live with the satisfaction that your son's rewards are all in his future.

and be satified that even if others dont know, you and your son do.
RE: .....  
BMac : 5/24/2016 7:37 pm : link
In comment 12969789 ctc in ftmyers said:
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"i bet you all love narcan"

Hell yes!!!!. How else to come down when you OD on heroin?

Except please don't call me a liberal. That's like banning material.

Many on here can attest to that.


This schmuck's idea of a liberal is so far removed from the reality that we need not even consider it. By the way, his son is gay and gets it on with Friesian horses.
Those are  
ctc in ftmyers : 5/24/2016 8:13 pm : link
some good looking horses though. Not in a sexual way of course.

So is he that guy caught in the NW screw'n horses a few years ago?
RE: Those are  
BMac : 5/24/2016 8:27 pm : link
In comment 12969902 ctc in ftmyers said:
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some good looking horses though. Not in a sexual way of course.

So is he that guy caught in the NW screw'n horses a few years ago?


I suspect the he is. Like Father, like Son. Or perhaps, monkey see, monkey do.
Why is anyone surprised  
JayBinQueens : 5/24/2016 10:07 pm : link
he's a Penguins fan
RE: Why the fuck...  
RC02XX : 5/24/2016 10:54 pm : link
In comment 12969367 Chris in Philly said:
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are people still responding seriously?


Because BBI is full of kind hearted but gullible people? Or...people are stupid?
Your son will probably get addicted to drugs  
RC02XX : 5/24/2016 10:58 pm : link
As result of this injustice. Then he'll get clean just so he can get "likes" of his own. But since he's your son, he'll probably never get clean. I mean failure as a father usually leads to failure as an offspring. Unless, of course, he isn't your real son because your wife got it on with the mailman. Have you looked at your mailman lately? PLOT THICKENS!
RE: RE: Why the fuck...  
Chris in Philly : 5/24/2016 11:40 pm : link
In comment 12970108 RC02XX said:
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In comment 12969367 Chris in Philly said:


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are people still responding seriously?



Because BBI is full of kind hearted but gullible people? Or...people are stupid?


B.
I'm disappointed  
Mike from SI : 5/25/2016 4:31 am : link
that anybody on this board took this seriously.
RE: Your son will probably get addicted to drugs  
BMac : 5/25/2016 6:36 am : link
In comment 12970109 RC02XX said:
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As result of this injustice. Then he'll get clean just so he can get "likes" of his own. But since he's your son, he'll probably never get clean. I mean failure as a father usually leads to failure as an offspring. Unless, of course, he isn't your real son because your wife got it on with the mailman. Have you looked at your mailman lately? PLOT THICKENS!


As Rodney Dangerfield said, "I told my kids, 'Someday, you'll have kids of your own.' One of them said, 'Someday, so will you.'"
RE: I'm disappointed  
Route 9 : 5/25/2016 7:16 am : link
In comment 12970188 Mike from SI said:
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that anybody on this board took this seriously.


Does it even matter? It’s the same old shit. Troll posts are an easy one on BBI, old timers come and insult the people who “fall for it” or someone posts a “this troll post sucks” jab at the OP and gives them a low trolling grade.

Sometimes, I guess the topic presented by the troll was engrossing enough for people to respond whether they believe "the story" or not. I’m actually questioning my daily life because I’ve never done drugs and nobody likes my Facebook posts as much either (sad face) …and now I’m worried why the “The Chinese” doesn’t like me/us…

Hint: This BBI entry on May 25th, 2016 was mostly sarcasm.
.....  
Route 9 : 5/25/2016 7:17 am : link
Prob soda man or every4years again
or the "fake marine"  
Route 9 : 5/25/2016 7:20 am : link
LOL
Tim in Mystic  
Big Al : 5/25/2016 7:37 am : link
was one of the best bits ever done here. Weeks of advice for someone we all knew was fake.
RE: or the  
RC02XX : 5/25/2016 7:39 am : link
In comment 12970217 Route 9 said:
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LOL


Dude...don't talk about Greg like that.
It's actually not...  
Chris in Philly : 5/25/2016 8:27 am : link
that people are stupid. It's that people are narcissistic. They don't read anything except the OP because they have to get their post in because we can't wait. There could be 500 identical posts following from Eric and Gary saying "This is yet another Rich Houston/soda man dupe"'and people would just skip all that and post their hot take.

How many times a day do we read "I didnt read the whole thread, but here's what I think"? A lot. That hot take is clearly more important than the others.

Anyway, I guess dupes and trolls must be good for business.
RE: It's actually not...  
RC02XX : 5/25/2016 9:19 am : link
In comment 12970270 Chris in Philly said:
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that people are stupid. It's that people are narcissistic. They don't read anything except the OP because they have to get their post in because we can't wait. There could be 500 identical posts following from Eric and Gary saying "This is yet another Rich Houston/soda man dupe"'and people would just skip all that and post their hot take.

How many times a day do we read "I didnt read the whole thread, but here's what I think"? A lot. That hot take is clearly more important than the others.

Anyway, I guess dupes and trolls must be good for business.


You have to admit...some of the longest threads have been started or at least dominated by trolls and dupes because most of us can't help but engage them. And long threads are always good for business.
Chris  
Route 9 : 5/25/2016 9:24 am : link
I agree and good points, but a deep dark side of my me finds the troll posts and especially the responsive bashing-of-the-troll posts a captivating read. I hate to say it, but at a time like this with hockey dwindling down and nothing else much going on, a thread like this is nice break because it’s better than another uninteresting OTA article in May (well good, because that means nobody got hurt). The responses are funny, but I don’t beg for nonsense like this every single day on here.

A thread like this is, though, is so fucking stupid but sometimes you get those “troll aside” posts and an actual good interaction between quality BBI members.
RE: RE: or the  
Greg from LI : 5/25/2016 9:26 am : link
In comment 12970226 RC02XX said:
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Dude...don't talk about Greg like that.


Man, is that any way to talk to someone with the kind of rack I've got??

RE: RE: RE: or the  
RC02XX : 5/25/2016 9:28 am : link
In comment 12970350 Greg from LI said:
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In comment 12970226 RC02XX said:


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Dude...don't talk about Greg like that.



Man, is that any way to talk to someone with the kind of rack I've got??



My apology. I stand corrected. Nice 'stache.
Thank you - was that so hard?  
Greg from LI : 5/25/2016 9:35 am : link
Look, I've got an EOD badge and a SEAL trident and everything!
RE: Thank you - was that so hard?  
RC02XX : 5/25/2016 9:51 am : link
In comment 12970370 Greg from LI said:
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Look, I've got an EOD badge and a SEAL trident and everything!


I wonder how many "likes" you've received with that picture. Most definitely more than some douchebag graduating from some shit school with a shit degree.
Being on BBI Douchebag list and topping Chris r  
Route 9 : 5/25/2016 9:55 am : link
is all I need. Fuck college.
377 likes  
Greg from LI : 5/25/2016 9:58 am : link
Everyone loves the Round Marine.
trolls  
Les in TO : 5/25/2016 10:03 am : link
there is a spectrum of trolls. on the far end, these are people who post inflammatory things seeking to upset and offend others in the community. on the other end, there are trolls like zebrka or rich in Houston who are real/authentic people with a few screws loose and don't have any online filter. I can handle the zebrka's/rich in Houston's but I understand why others don't suffer them gladly.
I wonder what the fake former marine  
Route 9 : 5/25/2016 10:20 am : link
Is doing with his life now. Can't think of that handle...?
RE: I wonder what the fake former marine  
Big Al : 5/25/2016 10:41 am : link
In comment 12970469 Route 9 said:
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Is doing with his life now. Can't think of that handle...?
i think he lives in Hawaii and sometimes sings at car races.
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Chris in Philly : 5/25/2016 11:10 am : link
RE: I wonder what the fake former marine  
RC02XX : 5/25/2016 11:20 am : link
In comment 12970469 Route 9 said:
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Is doing with his life now. Can't think of that handle...?


So if you aren't talking about Greg...who are you talking about? Maybe leatherneck570...I heard that dude is all full of shit.
RE: Holy fuck...  
Mike in Long Beach : 5/25/2016 11:25 am : link
In comment 12969697 Chris in Philly said:
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Hahaha, I'm hoping people keep giving Zebrka advice just to get at Chris :D
yeah, most air wingers are full of shit  
Greg from LI : 5/25/2016 11:31 am : link
Wait, what??
RE: RE: Holy fuck...  
RC02XX : 5/25/2016 11:39 am : link
In comment 12970600 Mike in Long Beach said:
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In comment 12969697 Chris in Philly said:


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Hahaha, I'm hoping people keep giving Zebrka advice just to get at Chris :D


My friend...this is why we can't have nice things...:(
RE: RE: I wonder what the fake former marine  
Route 9 : 5/25/2016 11:42 am : link
In comment 12970593 RC02XX said:
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In comment 12970469 Route 9 said:


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Is doing with his life now. Can't think of that handle...?



So if you aren't talking about Greg...who are you talking about? Maybe leatherneck570...I heard that dude is all full of shit.


Idk he was around last football season and reminded us he was a marine in ...every single post he made had a weird name lol
here  
Route 9 : 5/25/2016 11:48 am : link
...
This shit head - ( New Window )
huh....don't remember that guy at all  
Greg from LI : 5/25/2016 12:33 pm : link
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RE: here  
RC02XX : 5/25/2016 12:52 pm : link
In comment 12970651 Route 9 said:
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... This shit head - ( New Window )


Ah...I remember him sort of. But my previous post stands, leatherneck570 is still full of shit.
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