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NFT: Daddy, Don't Be a Police Officer Anymore

pjcas18 : 5/27/2016 2:37 pm
Powerful picture and story making the rounds. Happened a few towns over from me. Pictures that capture raw emotion like this are rare IMO.


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My brother-in-law is a Sergeant in the NYPD and one of my best friends  
Ben in Tampa : 5/27/2016 3:07 pm : link
worked in violent street crimes in the hillsborough county Sheriff's office down here. There's plenty of times I feel like telling them the exact same thing, but heroes don't do the easy work, ya know?

Powerful picture.
Maybe a fisherman?  
Jim in Fairfax : 5/27/2016 3:24 pm : link

Jim...  
Mike in St. Louis : 5/27/2016 3:51 pm : link
maybe try accidental deaths vs. homicide???
RE: Jim...  
Jim in Fairfax : 5/27/2016 4:18 pm : link
In comment 12973977 Mike in St. Louis said:
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maybe try accidental deaths vs. homicide???

Dead is dead.
why did he bring his young son to the funeral?  
Greg from LI : 5/27/2016 4:24 pm : link
Seems odd, no?
Great, my lifelong dream of being a mining machine operator is dealt  
jcn56 : 5/27/2016 4:32 pm : link
another blow.
RE: Jim...  
njm : 5/27/2016 4:39 pm : link
In comment 12973977 Mike in St. Louis said:
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maybe try accidental deaths vs. homicide???


It's not worth sending the thread off the rails.
RE: why did he bring his young son to the funeral?  
SomeFan : 5/27/2016 5:44 pm : link
In comment 12974026 Greg from LI said:
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Seems odd, no?


I don't view it as odd. I think kids should understand danger and death. Of course, we don't want them fixating on it but I would not hide it including its finality.
RE: RE: Jim...  
Svengali : 5/27/2016 6:03 pm : link
A accidental work injury vs getting murdered by some scumbag is not the same thing. I'm sorry.


In comment 12974018 Jim in Fairfax said:
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In comment 12973977 Mike in St. Louis said:


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maybe try accidental deaths vs. homicide???


Dead is dead.
RE: why did he bring his young son to the funeral?  
pjcas18 : 5/27/2016 6:16 pm : link
In comment 12974026 Greg from LI said:
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Seems odd, no?


I don't think the boy went to the funeral. From the sounds of the article they were transporting the body to the funeral home in preparation for the funeral.

the transportation was made into a show of respect and the hearse was given a police escort and officers had their sirens on and were saluting as the hearse went by. A lot of the town came out to pay their respects to the family of the fallen officer, and my assumption was the family with the little boy was among the townspeople paying their respects and the boy spotted his dad in the police detail.

it doesn't seen that odd if my assumptions are correct.
RE: RE: RE: Jim...  
Jim in Fairfax : 5/27/2016 6:26 pm : link
In comment 12974131 Svengali said:
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A accidental work injury vs getting murdered by some scumbag is not the same thing. I'm sorry.


I agree, it's not the same. That doesn't make it worse, IMO. In fact I would probably feel better knowing my father died protecting people vs. falling asleep driving a truck or being run over by a forklift.
RE: RE: RE: RE: Jim...  
pjcas18 : 5/27/2016 6:27 pm : link
In comment 12974143 Jim in Fairfax said:
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In comment 12974131 Svengali said:


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A accidental work injury vs getting murdered by some scumbag is not the same thing. I'm sorry.



I agree, it's not the same. That doesn't make it worse, IMO. In fact I would probably feel better knowing my father died protecting people vs. falling asleep driving a truck or being run over by a forklift.


I'm not sure it makes much difference to a small child. losing a parent sucks and the point of the thread wasn't a pissing match about most dangerous jobs.
Since death is rather ubiquitous....  
WideRight : 5/27/2016 6:40 pm : link
Maybe we should just say "Daddy don't die anymore" and leave the judgement about profession out of it.
Do we love our law enforcement officers or what?  
BurberryManning : 5/27/2016 7:07 pm : link
(Rhetorically)
A police officer I did a football podcast with  
madgiantscow009 : 5/27/2016 7:17 pm : link
was shot in the head last week and died.
RE: Since death is rather ubiquitous....  
madgiantscow009 : 5/27/2016 7:38 pm : link
In comment 12974151 WideRight said:
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Maybe we should just say "Daddy don't die anymore" and leave the judgement about profession out of it.


or maybe we should.

it's appropriate to that child and that father.

RE: Since death is rather ubiquitous....  
pjcas18 : 5/27/2016 7:49 pm : link
In comment 12974151 WideRight said:
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Maybe we should just say "Daddy don't die anymore" and leave the judgement about profession out of it.


Of course though that was not the point of the thread, it was about this picture and this child and this police officer.

I didn't expect it to become contentious, apparently I had too high expectations.
Odd that people are responding as if the OP  
steve in ky : 5/27/2016 8:10 pm : link
stated police work it's the most dangerous thing a father can do.

He posted picture that displays the emotions of this boy and his father who happens to be a policeman, not much to really take exception with.
Yeah, there must be something wrong with some of you  
buford : 5/27/2016 8:26 pm : link
a child sees his dad's friend, who has the same job as his dad, get killed doing that job, and realizes that could happen to his dad. And all some of you can respond with is snark?
RE: A police officer I did a football podcast with  
Exit50 : 5/27/2016 9:15 pm : link
In comment 12974172 madgiantscow009 said:
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was shot in the head last week and died.

I am sorry for your loss!
RE: Maybe a fisherman?  
halfback20 : 5/27/2016 9:41 pm : link
In comment 12973927 Jim in Fairfax said:
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This is genius, aside from the fact that it doesn't count for all the police who have been shot, stabbed, shot at, been in a fight, been hit by cars, etc and lived to tell about it. It doesn't take into account the ones who were lucky.

How many people are willing to drive down a long dark driveway knowing theres a crazy person armed with a rifle at the end, possibly waiting to ambush and kill you? I have some loggers in my family who would tell you themselves they aren't.

Pissing match, really?  
RC02XX : 5/27/2016 10:22 pm : link
All deaths are tragic, no matter the profession. Leave it at that.
RE: Pissing match, really?  
Optimus-NY : 5/29/2016 9:00 am : link
In comment 12974291 RC02XX said:
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All deaths are tragic, no matter the profession. Leave it at that.


Exactly.
I've said for years, we engineers are the real American Heros!  
x meadowlander : 5/29/2016 10:48 am : link
Far greater likelihood of dying on the job than cops and foremen! We walk into the jaws of death every day and get little credit for our heroically heroic heroism!
Dying by bullet on the job  
xman : 5/29/2016 11:14 am : link
is the exclusive domain of police
I was in Boston last week  
AP in Halfmoon : 5/29/2016 11:20 am : link
The support for the family by the police community was impressive.
xman  
fkap : 5/29/2016 11:41 am : link
actively engaging in (heading towards) work activities where bullets might fly is the domain of the police. being shot while on the job (mostly robbery, but some disgruntled work aggression) can happen lots of places.
RE: xman  
x meadowlander : 5/30/2016 3:15 pm : link
In comment 12975311 fkap said:
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actively engaging in (heading towards) work activities where bullets might fly is the domain of the police. being shot while on the job (mostly robbery, but some disgruntled work aggression) can happen lots of places.
wrong. Cops are wimps compared to the heroes of the engineering world! A cop 'MIGHT' have to deal with a true life or death situation occasionally - an armed perp, a dangerous chase - but the engineer is far more likely to face the INVISIBLE ENEMY - heart attack, aneurism, stroke!!! Armed only with the PC and iron balls, handicapped by high cholesterol and poor eyesight, the engineer rules the day, walking into a wall of fire, eyes wide open!
Wow  
ctc in ftmyers : 5/30/2016 5:51 pm : link
Is all I have to say about this thread.

That a son, at that early an age, wants his father to live forever is the point.

The occupation doesn't matter.
RE: Dying by bullet on the job  
RC02XX : 5/30/2016 8:15 pm : link
In comment 12975290 xman said:
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is the exclusive domain of police


Yeah...1.2 million men and women we honor today may argue against that.
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