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Britt in VA : 4/26/2017 9:48 am
look like?

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The easiest starting point may be to just look back at life before 1990—a time of landline telephones, 9-to-5 work schedules, and VHS-rental stores. But that historical reality doesn’t really answer the question, because in an alternate history, we wouldn’t have known what we were missing. “The Internet has so permeated our lives that its influence is becoming impossible to see,” says the philosopher Clay Shirky. “Imagining today minus the Net is as content-free an exercise as imagining London in the 1840s with no steam power, New York in the 1930s with no elevators, or L.A. in the 1970s with no cars. After a while, the trellis so shapes the vine that you can’t separate the two.”


Ultimately, do you think society would be better or worse off, and why?


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I think it would be better in some ways  
DC Gmen Fan : 4/26/2017 9:52 am : link
Too much information is not necessarily a great thing. And I believe the internet has the tendency to allow us to see idealistic things which makes us not appreciate what we have, constantly makes us want more, and ultimately leads to unhappiness.

on the flip side it has made life convenient, allowed us to connect with others we might not otherwise connect with, allows injustices to be brought to light, and allows us more insight into the world.
SIlly  
WideRight : 4/26/2017 9:53 am : link
Obviously worse off without.

Whatever the negative effects, that fact that we have developed a society capable of creating something like the internet is testament to incredible progress. No one would ever give that up for anything.
The benefits of technical innovations  
NNJ Tom : 4/26/2017 10:09 am : link
like banking from home, online trading and the like are more than offset by the blight that is social media.



in a day or two span  
UConn4523 : 4/26/2017 10:13 am : link
I think life would be fun without being connected at all (like on vacation out of the US) but in the grand scheme of things life is a lot easier with it. Social Media is a massive turnoff for me but the upside of everything else makes it not really matter.
Internet is great...  
bradshaw44 : 4/26/2017 10:15 am : link
Social media is what we could do without.
No way people  
pjcas18 : 4/26/2017 10:16 am : link
could go back to hard copy porn.

and I say people, not meaning me of course.
Without the internet  
Beer Man : 4/26/2017 10:21 am : link
there would be no BBI, "Inside Football" would go back to the days of being a cheesy newsletter, draft coverage would be what you could get off ESPN and NFL Network, there would be no Asshats, and this thread would not exist.
For me I think better without.  
Giant John : 4/26/2017 10:21 am : link
Society not going backwards though.
On the whole social media  
giantsfan44ab : 4/26/2017 10:29 am : link
What's ironic to me is how I see older people complain about social media and yet they use it FAR more often than I or my peers do.

The beauty of it all is if you don't like it, no one is forcing you to use it.

I'm in my early 20s and yes I'm probably an anomaly with how little I use social media platforms, but I feel like most of my friends are somewhat similar. My dad uses Facebook more than me. I just use FB as a way to keep up with everyones birthdays. Twitter I don't even have under my own name, I'll use it to track breaking news stories .

Snapchat is probably the predominant form of social media among my age group, but it boggles my mind how anyone would get upset about that since it's not as "social" as other platforms (it's more intimate but among a closer, inner circle of friends, unlike how you "friend" practically everybody on FB).

Just my two cents.
are you kidding me?  
Les in TO : 4/26/2017 10:31 am : link
the fact that I can have the sum of human knowledge in a phone in muy pocket, that I can videochat for free with relatvies all over the world, always have something to read/watch while I'm waiting or travelling, keep my kids quiet and entertained, buy anything I want at dirt cheap prices online and have it delivered to my door the same day, be able to work from home instead of the office.

I would never go back.
What Instagram boils down to  
giantsfan44ab : 4/26/2017 10:33 am : link
is just a way to check out attractive people. Overall pretty harmless too, unless someone exposes you.
More local jobs available  
spike : 4/26/2017 10:33 am : link
Without amazon and other big internet stores
You mean  
well...bye TC : 4/26/2017 10:38 am : link
Id actually have to talk to people in person?
All of the negatives notwithstanding...  
RC02XX : 4/26/2017 10:45 am : link
in terms of cyberbullying, hacking, etc., to say the world would be a better place without the Internet is to pine for the days of insular communities and stagnation of ideas. Far far more benefits came about with the advent of the Internet than cost.
I think it would be pretty cool (I think?)  
Beezer : 4/26/2017 10:48 am : link
if the Internet was shut down every week from, say, 11 p.m. Friday to 6 a.m. Monday.

:)
RE: Without the internet  
Britt in VA : 4/26/2017 10:58 am : link
In comment 13442586 Beer Man said:
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there would be no BBI, "Inside Football" would go back to the days of being a cheesy newsletter, draft coverage would be what you could get off ESPN and NFL Network, there would be no Asshats, and this thread would not exist.


Just commenting on this point, alone....

I'm not sure if I like football any more now because of the internet. In fact, I may like it less. Fantasy Football, advanced metrics, mock drafts, 24/7 draft coverage, just 24/7 coverage in general, and constant influx of opinion both talking head and fan, too much information in general.... These things have actually turned me off to the game a bit.
Along with a lot of others, it's purely the social aspect that I could  
Britt in VA : 4/26/2017 11:05 am : link
probably do without.

I have kids right now, 5 and 2. The Ipad is like crack to them, almost in a scary way in that they lose their sh-t if we take it away. We use it in extreme moderation, always under supervision, and never at social functions of any sort or at the dinner table.

A couple of weeks ago we went out to dinner. It was a Friday night and there was a table with about 3 or 4 couples seated at one end, and all of their children at the other. Probably about six or seven kids total, age range about 6-10. I kid you not when I tell you that each kid had their own screen of some sort, phone, tablet, etc.... and sat in complete silence with headphones on for the entire hour duration of dinner. Dead silence, never looked up from their screens, never spoke, never even looked at each other while their parents socialized.

Just struck me funny because when I was a kid, if I was getting a chance to go out to dinner with all of my friends on a Friday night not in a school enviroment or whatever, which was a treat, we would have been out of control.

Now that may be a good thing for the parents, to have that virtual babysitter, but it's just weird, to me, to see a group of kids out on the town and wanting nothing to do with each other. Save the ipad for home when you're by yourself, you know?
I was having a conversation with a friend the other day  
Bill L : 4/26/2017 11:06 am : link
about skype and how we all used to do it nearly every day with our sons when they were overseas in the military.

Think about the servicemen in past wars where their wives and parents would wait days or weeks or whatever for a letter. Always nervous, always afraid, not knowing what was going on and whether their loved one was safe. Maybe sometimes, the first word they got was a couple uniformed guys ringing their doorbells.

What a huge difference and I can only surmise relief in just being able to have frequent contact. And it likely works the other way too where the soldier knows people are thinking about him and can lift him up when he gets down. (I say he, but insert she as well).
RE: No way people  
Bill L : 4/26/2017 11:08 am : link
In comment 13442566 pjcas18 said:
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could go back to hard copy porn.

and I say people, not meaning me of course.
The internet is really really great...

For porn

I have a fast connection, so I don't have to wait...

For porn

I browse all day and night...

For porn...
RE: I was having a conversation with a friend the other day  
Britt in VA : 4/26/2017 11:09 am : link
In comment 13442706 Bill L said:
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about skype and how we all used to do it nearly every day with our sons when they were overseas in the military.

Think about the servicemen in past wars where their wives and parents would wait days or weeks or whatever for a letter. Always nervous, always afraid, not knowing what was going on and whether their loved one was safe. Maybe sometimes, the first word they got was a couple uniformed guys ringing their doorbells.

What a huge difference and I can only surmise relief in just being able to have frequent contact. And it likely works the other way too where the soldier knows people are thinking about him and can lift him up when he gets down. (I say he, but insert she as well).


There are clearly many positives. I wonder if the same technology could be employed without the internet, though.
I did just fine without it and would again  
PatersonPlank : 4/26/2017 11:09 am : link
I hate social media so much I'd be willing to:
- have to go to the bank live
- use my phone for international calls
- go to stores to buy things
- etc, etc.

Oh the horror.
RE: I think it would be pretty cool (I think?)  
Britt in VA : 4/26/2017 11:09 am : link
In comment 13442666 Beezer said:
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if the Internet was shut down every week from, say, 11 p.m. Friday to 6 a.m. Monday.

:)


Wouldn't actually be a bad idea. Force people to get off the screen and talk to each other on the weekends.
The Internet has made telecommuting possible...  
tony stg : 4/26/2017 11:13 am : link
... which allowed me to move out of the DC metro area yet keep my job.
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arcarsenal : 4/26/2017 11:14 am : link
I definitely miss the way things were when I was a kid sometimes. The simplicity of calling friends on the landline phone, etc.

But we just didn't know what the internet would was going to be a couple of decades later back then. So it was different.

Going back to a world like that now, knowing what we know, would be a much different experience.

The internet is way more useful than not. Technology has simplified so many aspects of living - but in turn, has also made a lot of things more complex. It's a double-edged sword.

I always wonder what my adult life would be like in a world where I didn't always know what everyone else was doing because of the internet. A world where I actually had to see people in person and talk to them to find out what they've been up to, etc.

It's an interesting subject - I actually think about it often.
This is just a thought....  
Britt in VA : 4/26/2017 11:16 am : link
but I wonder if we'd be able to take all of the good things about the internet, knowing what we now know, and use new technologies to circumvent the use of the internet to keep all of the good things, while eliminating the bad.

Sort of a hybrid of the good things about pre-internet (social) and combining all of the technological advances of the post-internet era (medical, professional, science) of society.
I guess the question you have to ask yourself is....  
Britt in VA : 4/26/2017 11:25 am : link
Would my life drastically change much if the internet ceased to exist tomorrow, and would you be okay with that, or can you and your family not live without it?
I think a lot of the things mentioned on this thread....  
Britt in VA : 4/26/2017 11:26 am : link
banking, telecommuting, etc... would continue on with some new technology, and the conveniences of the internet in regards to these things would probably be forgotten fairly quickly as people adapted to new routines.
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arcarsenal : 4/26/2017 11:29 am : link
I think almost everyone's life would drastically change. People don't realize how many things they use/do rely on the internet.

On the surface, most people probably just think "yeah, I could live without Facebook.. easy!" But it goes so, so far beyond that.

Sure, we'd all be able to live without it - people did it for hundreds of years. But when all is said and done, I'd prefer the internet world to one completely devoid of it.
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Britt in VA : 4/26/2017 11:33 am : link
In comment 13442764 arcarsenal said:
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I think almost everyone's life would drastically change. People don't realize how many things they use/do rely on the internet.

On the surface, most people probably just think "yeah, I could live without Facebook.. easy!" But it goes so, so far beyond that.

Sure, we'd all be able to live without it - people did it for hundreds of years. But when all is said and done, I'd prefer the internet world to one completely devoid of it.


I think that's my main question, though. I wonder if all of the conveniences could continue with non-internet technology? It's not like we would return to pre-1994 tech.
Another thought....  
Britt in VA : 4/26/2017 11:39 am : link
what about limiting internet technology to static locations. Within the home, school, or business?

Leave the technology at home or work. Force people to interact with the world and each other when not at home or work.
We were in Philly a few weekends ago for a hoops tourney.  
Beezer : 4/26/2017 12:09 pm : link
Before we left town on Sunday we stopped in to a restaurant. I was surprised I got no friction from my kids (now 19 and 16) when I suggested all 4 of us leave our phones in the car.

It was really nice. But I commented that within 5 minutes at the table, I had already thought to reach for my phone for one reason or another - mainly to take a pic or two of the cool decor in the place.

It's really astounding how connected to the phone (and thus, the Internet) I find myself.

Need more self-imposed days/evenings where I shut it off and leave it somewhere in the house where I don't feel tempted to look at it.
Jesus  
Peter from NH (formerly CT) : 4/26/2017 12:11 pm : link
One would think the writer would simply talk to some of us who lived before the internet and ask us. Comparing to 1840s London? Really? 1970s America wasn't much like 1840s London. You really don't need to do a though experiment on this. Its not that long ago.
RE: Jesus  
Britt in VA : 4/26/2017 12:17 pm : link
In comment 13442839 Peter from NH (formerly CT) said:
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One would think the writer would simply talk to some of us who lived before the internet and ask us. Comparing to 1840s London? Really? 1970s America wasn't much like 1840s London. You really don't need to do a though experiment on this. Its not that long ago.


I think his point was that as a society, we have become as reliant on the internet as those other places and eras that he states were reliant on the innovations that he cited for each one.

It's not so much what would it look like if it never happened, which is what you're referring to, but more so what would it look like if it went away.

Be mindful that we are now a generation or two deep of people who don't know what life is like without it.
RE: All of the negatives notwithstanding...  
HomerJones45 : 4/26/2017 12:22 pm : link
In comment 13442662 RC02XX said:
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in terms of cyberbullying, hacking, etc., to say the world would be a better place without the Internet is to pine for the days of insular communities and stagnation of ideas. Far far more benefits came about with the advent of the Internet than cost.
Nonsense. Some of you are too young to remember pre-Internet. People got together at clubs, taverns, meetings, pubs, house parties, phone calls. There was plenty of idea exchange, and people were actually less insular because you had to actually talk to people instead of e-mailing.
Describing my childhood summers  
Beezer : 4/26/2017 12:26 pm : link
to my kids, when they say they're bored, is startling even for me. lol

Let's see ... we rode bikes ... played softball, baseball, whiffleball, football, basketball, kickball ... fished in the river, swam there and in the local creek ... hiked through wooded areas ... played Army and cops & robbers (on foot and on bikes) ... watched a little TV but not much (because there wasn't a hell of a lot on during the days other than soaps) ... and when the sun went down, it was time for neighborhood hide & seek, manhunt, and/or some other variation, until the Moms all started yelling to come in.

My kids also stare at me funny when they complain about food options in the house and I mention I'd eat 5-6 bowls of Corn Flakes or Wheaties a day on summer vaca. lol

We didn't KNOW we were bored!
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arcarsenal : 4/26/2017 12:31 pm : link
In comment 13442772 Britt in VA said:
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In comment 13442764 arcarsenal said:


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I think almost everyone's life would drastically change. People don't realize how many things they use/do rely on the internet.

On the surface, most people probably just think "yeah, I could live without Facebook.. easy!" But it goes so, so far beyond that.

Sure, we'd all be able to live without it - people did it for hundreds of years. But when all is said and done, I'd prefer the internet world to one completely devoid of it.



I think that's my main question, though. I wonder if all of the conveniences could continue with non-internet technology? It's not like we would return to pre-1994 tech.


I think a good deal of them would have to cease - there are a lot of internet-reliant conveniences that I don't think have any viable operating alternative. No internet would mean a lot of those things would be gone.
it's not better  
fkap : 4/26/2017 12:33 pm : link
not worse.

it would be different.

I grew up in an age without it. Was I happier or less happy than kids today? Was my life more or less meaningful?
RE: RE: All of the negatives notwithstanding...  
RC02XX : 4/26/2017 12:47 pm : link
In comment 13442863 HomerJones45 said:
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In comment 13442662 RC02XX said:


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in terms of cyberbullying, hacking, etc., to say the world would be a better place without the Internet is to pine for the days of insular communities and stagnation of ideas. Far far more benefits came about with the advent of the Internet than cost.

Nonsense. Some of you are too young to remember pre-Internet. People got together at clubs, taverns, meetings, pubs, house parties, phone calls. There was plenty of idea exchange, and people were actually less insular because you had to actually talk to people instead of e-mailing.


Eh...communities of interest were formed based on proximity more than anything else, which usually led to echo chambers forming more than anything else with regards to ideas (especially those unpopular ideas that went against the norm of the community). And many communities without much access to the Internet remain insular to this day. The fact that we can have people from across the country and the globe be part of a large social community based on shared common interests makes the Internet a game changer (even with its own ability to form echo chamber realms).
Anyway...without the Internet...  
RC02XX : 4/26/2017 12:49 pm : link
who you would bitch to about your shitty students or crumbling American education system? It's easier to vent to strangers than to your significant other sometimes.
RE: Anyway...without the Internet...  
Britt in VA : 4/26/2017 12:53 pm : link
In comment 13442917 RC02XX said:
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who you would bitch to about your shitty students or crumbling American education system? It's easier to vent to strangers than to your significant other sometimes.


Was this necessary?
Perfectly reasonable discussion going here....  
Britt in VA : 4/26/2017 12:54 pm : link
and you feel the need to take a shot at me.
To give you an answer to your backhanded question, though...  
Britt in VA : 4/26/2017 12:59 pm : link
I would talk to my colleagues or friends about it, same as I do now.

I share it on BBI sometimes because there might be parents out there interested in the inner workings of what's going on in their kids school. Everybody wants inside information on everything else, why not Education?

In the spirit of the thread, though, I certainly would not bat an eye about not posting about education on BBI again.
I actually think it's pretty bad for a lot of people.  
Motley Two : 4/26/2017 1:04 pm : link
It has a psychologically overwhelming impact on a lot of people.

It has shrunk the world and created a global culture shock in many ways.

It came along at a time when the world still had not recovered from the previous global culture shock that came with things like railroads, steam ships, telegraph, industrial revolution. That shit lead to WWI & WWII.

I'm not sure the stupidest people on the planet need a tool at their finger tips where they can find their worst thinking reinforced a hundred times over a day and also see examples of things they hate the most a hundred times over a day.

RE: RE: Anyway...without the Internet...  
Jonald : 4/26/2017 1:09 pm : link
In comment 13442922 Britt in VA said:
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In comment 13442917 RC02XX said:


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who you would bitch to about your shitty students or crumbling American education system? It's easier to vent to strangers than to your significant other sometimes.



Was this necessary?


I laughed. Don't get mad Britt, it's what you do.
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fkap : 4/26/2017 1:13 pm : link
"It came along at a time when the world still had not recovered from the previous global culture shock that came with things like railroads, steam ships, telegraph, industrial revolution. That shit lead to WWI & WWII."

please tell me this is in jest.
I enjoyed the Britt comment, too.  
fkap : 4/26/2017 1:20 pm : link
mostly because, straddling the before/after line, I can attest that teachers were whining about the declining education system before and after the internet. Nothing has really changed except for the medium.
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Motley Two : 4/26/2017 1:22 pm : link
In comment 13442975 fkap said:
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"It came along at a time when the world still had not recovered from the previous global culture shock that came with things like railroads, steam ships, telegraph, industrial revolution. That shit lead to WWI & WWII."

please tell me this is in jest.



Do you think the magnitude of those wars would have been the same without mass manufacturing, shipping, communication, the air plane, combustion engines, ect.?

RE: RE: Without the internet  
Beer Man : 4/26/2017 1:24 pm : link
In comment 13442688 Britt in VA said:
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In comment 13442586 Beer Man said:


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there would be no BBI, "Inside Football" would go back to the days of being a cheesy newsletter, draft coverage would be what you could get off ESPN and NFL Network, there would be no Asshats, and this thread would not exist.



Just commenting on this point, alone....

I'm not sure if I like football any more now because of the internet. In fact, I may like it less. Fantasy Football, advanced metrics, mock drafts, 24/7 draft coverage, just 24/7 coverage in general, and constant influx of opinion both talking head and fan, too much information in general.... These things have actually turned me off to the game a bit.
Growing up a Giants fan and someone who moved a lot (born an Army brat plus my own jobs have moved me many times) I didn't get to see many Giants games or have access to media that would keep me up to date on the team. Now with the internet (and Sunday ticket) I am on Giants overload and loving every minute of it.
I think about this often  
Mr. Nickels : 4/26/2017 1:28 pm : link
All the benefits have been discussed but are still not realized.

The internet could make most schools obsolete and really should. In the past you needed books and a teacher but you can learn about all of history just on the internet and you can read endless content.

Having messenger apps helps keep in convenient contact with friends. I never see my friends and aside from one would not be wasting my time talking to them on the phone, not enough time

The huge downside is the ugly parts of human nature in internet shaming/pitchfork mobs. Seeing people's lives ruined for such simple throwaway comments is very upsetting as is cyber bullying via cyberbullying.

Along with shaming there's also revenge porn and hacking. Hacking and identity theft are a problem too.

RE: RE: Anyway...without the Internet...  
RC02XX : 4/26/2017 1:28 pm : link
In comment 13442922 Britt in VA said:
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In comment 13442917 RC02XX said:


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who you would bitch to about your shitty students or crumbling American education system? It's easier to vent to strangers than to your significant other sometimes.



Was this necessary?


Lighten up, it was a damn joke at your expense.

I'll tell you one thing that the Internet will always be terrible at. It's ability to convey sarcasm and joke.
Hard to read sarcasm...  
Britt in VA : 4/26/2017 1:30 pm : link
when our last interactions on this site have been considerably less than friendly.

Moving on.
Forgot my most important part  
Mr. Nickels : 4/26/2017 1:30 pm : link
I feel like the documentation of people's pasts is the biggest problem of all with the internet along with said documentation lasting forever..

Now we have to see every ex-boyfriend our girlfriend has been with unless she has the class to delete all of that but most do not.

The internet sucks  
Brown Recluse : 4/26/2017 1:31 pm : link
Especially for sport fans
RE: Hard to read sarcasm...  
RC02XX : 4/26/2017 1:32 pm : link
In comment 13443009 Britt in VA said:
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when our last interactions on this site have been considerably less than friendly.

Moving on.


I honestly cannot remember our last interaction, so I'll take your word for it. And since that's the interaction we had last, I apologize that you were given an impression that I was taking a personal shot at you. I was merely going after the low hanging fruit with comic material.

Sorry, man.
Motley  
fkap : 4/26/2017 1:36 pm : link
the magnitude of those wars is one thing. but you talked about the culture shock of steam ships or the telegraph leading to WW 1. That's sheer bullshit.

we were well over the culture shock of the iron horse (railroad for you young'uns) by the time Gore invented the internet. We were well over the bullshit of culture shock as a concept by the time AOL offered service.
RE: Motley  
Motley Two : 4/26/2017 1:46 pm : link
In comment 13443017 fkap said:
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the magnitude of those wars is one thing. but you talked about the culture shock of steam ships or the telegraph leading to WW 1. That's sheer bullshit.

we were well over the culture shock of the iron horse (railroad for you young'uns) by the time Gore invented the internet. We were well over the bullshit of culture shock as a concept by the time AOL offered service.



I think you might have misunderstood me a bit. I meant ramifications of WWII were still being felt and impacting societies all over the globe when the internet came along.
The net effect has almost certainly been positive  
Greg from LI : 4/26/2017 1:48 pm : link
Yes, social media almost entirely sucks. No argument there. However, you have the option of simply not participating. Think about all of the things available to you that weren't there in, say, 1992. There is an immense amount of information. News from all over the world. There are professors from some of the world's great university providing courses for free. You can pay almost all of your bills easily. Any number of obscure products that were once difficult to obtain are readily available. I am not limited to the physical copies of books at my local library - I can pick out almost anything I want for a low cost and read it on my tablet. I can't go up to NY every week to spend as much time as I'd like with my elderly grandfather while he's still with us, but I can video chat with him as much as I want so he can see his great-grandchildren. I'm applying to grad school this fall, so I can take a shitload of practice GREs. I can watch old Giants/Yankees/Rangers games on YouTube. I can indulge my own odd hobbies, like listening to the real radio news broadcasts of WWII to see how the news of the time was presented in real time. I can download Dan Carlin's history podcasts to learn more than I ever could have imagined about WWI.

Of course there are downsides. There almost always are. Like almost anyone, my attention span is probably shorter than it should be as I've become accustomed to getting exactly what I want instantly, and can immediately switch to something else on whim. I fall down rabbit holes and waste too much time, whether it be here or Wikipedia or reddit or whatever. And, again, I agree that Twitter and Facebook mostly suck ass (although Facebook is useful for a few things). I wouldn't trade everything we've gained to get rid of those relatively minor annoyances.
The internet is incredible  
Go Terps : 4/26/2017 1:57 pm : link
The power to learn about what you want when you want can not be overstated. I'm 38 years old and can remember living without the internet...it was worse. A lot worse.

Think about the amount of time that was wasted channel surfing alone. Before it was, "Let's see what's on TV". Now it's "Let's watch a couple episodes of Breaking Bad."

Immeasurably better.
Far worse  
JonC : 4/26/2017 2:22 pm : link
For me as an individual, all the knowledge and power at the fingertips and I built a career on it.

I simply avoid social media and the people that have made the world worse over the same period of time by being given a platform and a voice almost the entire planet can hear. If you're investing in Facebook or similar, or Tinder or similar, you're likely making your life much harder, in my experience.
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arcarsenal : 4/26/2017 2:48 pm : link
Yeah, I found that getting rid of Facebook made things much better in general. I have plenty of people that I text/speak to/see regularly - those are the people who matter in my life. Getting rid of Facebook is how you figure out how many of the 500+ friends you have are actually friends or just people you say hi to when you run into them.

I like not knowing every detail about everyone else's life. I have things to talk to them about when I do see them.

There are a few small downsides - I always used to rely on it as a bit of a "social calendar" and it was an easy way to keep track of birthdays, events, etc... but I can live without that.
RE: RE: All of the negatives notwithstanding...  
Mr. Bungle : 4/26/2017 3:05 pm : link
In comment 13442863 HomerJones45 said:
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In comment 13442662 RC02XX said:


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in terms of cyberbullying, hacking, etc., to say the world would be a better place without the Internet is to pine for the days of insular communities and stagnation of ideas. Far far more benefits came about with the advent of the Internet than cost.

Nonsense. Some of you are too young to remember pre-Internet. People got together at clubs, taverns, meetings, pubs, house parties, phone calls. There was plenty of idea exchange, and people were actually less insular because you had to actually talk to people instead of e-mailing.

It's such a shame that the Internet has stopped people from going to pubs and taverns.
the very first facebook post I read  
fkap : 4/26/2017 3:05 pm : link
(very mildly paraphrasing) was from my niece who wrote:
woke up. kissed my baybay (not sure if she was talking about her baby daddy or her baby). ate a bowl of cornflakes (so boring without sugar). took a dump. a satisfying dump, not one of those got to strain really hard after getting too dehydrated drinking all night dumps. back to bed for a nap.

I swore then that facebook might not be for me. I may be missing out on things, but overall, not having to hear about every day mundane details probably evens it out.
Some of you guys have some shitty social media friends...  
RC02XX : 4/26/2017 3:27 pm : link
obviously you need to up your standards. By the way...I'm fucking awesome on Facebook...get to my level, bitches.
We'd be worse off without internet  
djm : 4/26/2017 7:13 pm : link
There are pitfalls but readily available information and knowledge to virtually everyone is a great thing. I know I'm smarter because of it. We all are.

The pros outweigh the cons. We just need to figure out how to govern things better. Right now we live in an era that will one day be looked upon as the Wild West. It won't last forever. That watershed moment, be it some huge security breach or cyber attack is coming. It's only a matter of time.
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Rick5 : 4/26/2017 9:44 pm : link
In comment 13443212 arcarsenal said:
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Yeah, I found that getting rid of Facebook made things much better in general. I have plenty of people that I text/speak to/see regularly - those are the people who matter in my life. Getting rid of Facebook is how you figure out how many of the 500+ friends you have are actually friends or just people you say hi to when you run into them.

I like not knowing every detail about everyone else's life. I have things to talk to them about when I do see them.

There are a few small downsides - I always used to rely on it as a bit of a "social calendar" and it was an easy way to keep track of birthdays, events, etc... but I can live without that.

I dropped facebook about a year and a half ago. I don't miss it one bit. My internet use has been way down in general recently (including here). I just don't find posting (here or anywhere else) to be as much fun as it was a decade or so ago.
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arcarsenal : 4/26/2017 10:17 pm : link
In comment 13443889 Rick5 said:
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In comment 13443212 arcarsenal said:


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Yeah, I found that getting rid of Facebook made things much better in general. I have plenty of people that I text/speak to/see regularly - those are the people who matter in my life. Getting rid of Facebook is how you figure out how many of the 500+ friends you have are actually friends or just people you say hi to when you run into them.

I like not knowing every detail about everyone else's life. I have things to talk to them about when I do see them.

There are a few small downsides - I always used to rely on it as a bit of a "social calendar" and it was an easy way to keep track of birthdays, events, etc... but I can live without that.


I dropped facebook about a year and a half ago. I don't miss it one bit. My internet use has been way down in general recently (including here). I just don't find posting (here or anywhere else) to be as much fun as it was a decade or so ago.


Yeah, in some ways the novelty just wears off after a while.

I find that the less distracting social media/internet outlets I stay connected to, the more I focus on more important things.

When I used to have Facebook, it just turned into a habit to pop open the app and start scrolling through it any time I had a free few minutes. I was staring at my phone too much and not paying enough attention to the things that were actually around me in the real world.

People spend insane amounts of time on Facebook, Twitter, etc.. just scrolling and scrolling and scrolling. It just never ends. It gets exhausting, but the more you immerse yourself, the more the notifications come, and the more you continue to check and respond and post. It's just a vicious cycle.

I've felt much more refreshed without most of that stuff.
social media does not add  
fkap : 4/27/2017 10:42 am : link
quality of life. you may be hooked on it. it may make some aspects of life easier. but we can do fine without it. The Giants season is going to be the same whether we get a newsletter in the mail once a month (that's if we get it), or if we read the twitter account of the beat writer who has a synapse fire/boss telling him to pump out a twitter.

then there's the knowledge aspect. absolutely, the net can be a source of easy access to knowledge. but there are just as many people wearing tin foil hats, or denying evolution, as ever. what good is access to knowledge if people don't avail themselves of it, don't know what to do with it, or if it just makes it easier for people to scam you with false (or less than quality) knowledge? I read it on the internet, therefore it must be true, is a joke for a reason.

I really like on demand all wheel drive on my car. but I did just fine with having to get out and lock the hubs manually, too.

I enjoy the internet for a lot of reasons. But, it would be a mistake to ascribe too much of a sentimentality of can't live without it.
Facebook has one value for me  
Greg from LI : 4/27/2017 10:44 am : link
Staying in touch with friends or relatives who live far away, of which I have more than a few. We share family pictures, drop a line or two, and that's nice. I really don't do much on it beyond that.
Would that mean no cell phones either?  
Steve in South Jersey : 4/27/2017 10:45 am : link
no being on call 24/7?
RE: Would that mean no cell phones either?  
Jonald : 4/27/2017 1:00 pm : link
In comment 13444589 Steve in South Jersey said:
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no being on call 24/7?


Once upon a time there were cellphones that didn't have interenet.

True story.
I think I saw them on a history show  
fkap : 4/27/2017 2:04 pm : link
you said "beam me up, Scotty" into them. the beaming part was impressive, but the phones themselves were really primitive.
the world's far more interesting  
area junc : 4/27/2017 2:04 pm : link
without the internet.

Oh no, you can't bank online. You actually have to go into a bank and establish a face-to-face relationship with a banker. And who knows who you might bump into in line.

Repeat this with every errand you run. You meet people. Talk. Establish community.

Instead, we're all plugged in hermits who can't look eachother in the eye. And yes it's particularly bad with the kids coming up now. Not far off the Matrix.
Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, etc. aside...  
RC02XX : 4/27/2017 2:15 pm : link
Those of you, who bitch about social media are also ones heavily using social media on a daily basis whenever you post your clown comments on BBI.

According to Merriam-Webster:

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Definition of social media

: forms of electronic communication (such as websites for social networking and microblogging) through which users create online communities to share information, ideas, personal messages, and other content (such as videos)


Different form, same shit. Just saying.
RE: the world's far more interesting  
Mr. Bungle : 4/27/2017 2:19 pm : link
In comment 13445075 area junc said:
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without the internet.

Oh no, you can't bank online. You actually have to go into a bank and establish a face-to-face relationship with a banker. And who knows who you might bump into in line.

Repeat this with every errand you run. You meet people. Talk. Establish community.

Instead, we're all plugged in hermits who can't look eachother in the eye. And yes it's particularly bad with the kids coming up now. Not far off the Matrix.

Yeah, it was so much better when the bank closed at 4pm on Friday and you were locked out of banking until Monday morning, because you got to have meaningless small talk with other people waiting in line.

(You can still do that now, by the way.)
RE: RE: the world's far more interesting  
RC02XX : 4/27/2017 2:22 pm : link
In comment 13445102 Mr. Bungle said:
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In comment 13445075 area junc said:


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without the internet.

Oh no, you can't bank online. You actually have to go into a bank and establish a face-to-face relationship with a banker. And who knows who you might bump into in line.

Repeat this with every errand you run. You meet people. Talk. Establish community.

Instead, we're all plugged in hermits who can't look eachother in the eye. And yes it's particularly bad with the kids coming up now. Not far off the Matrix.


Yeah, it was so much better when the bank closed at 4pm on Friday and you were locked out of banking until Monday morning, because you got to have meaningless small talk with other people waiting in line.

(You can still do that now, by the way.)


Shhhh...you hermit!

And would someone please think of the children!?!
RC  
fkap : 4/27/2017 2:25 pm : link
clown comments on BBI is exhibit A on why the internet isn't all it's cracked up to be.
RE: the world's far more interesting  
David in LA : 4/27/2017 2:31 pm : link
In comment 13445075 area junc said:
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without the internet.

Oh no, you can't bank online. You actually have to go into a bank and establish a face-to-face relationship with a banker. And who knows who you might bump into in line.

Repeat this with every errand you run. You meet people. Talk. Establish community.

Instead, we're all plugged in hermits who can't look eachother in the eye. And yes it's particularly bad with the kids coming up now. Not far off the Matrix.


I have no problem with going into the bank, except that I'd rather do my banking online and use my time to do other things. IMO there are way more conveniences born out of the internet, that outweigh the negatives. We're saving time, and money. For the most part, a lot of things are way more transparent and accessible than they were before.
RE: RC  
RC02XX : 4/27/2017 2:37 pm : link
In comment 13445123 fkap said:
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clown comments on BBI is exhibit A on why the internet isn't all it's cracked up to be.


No doubt...and the lack of self awareness displayed by some in this circle jerk session (like so many others on BBI) is what I'm trying to highlight with my comment more so than that there are both positives and negatives with regards to the Internet (which no one is disagreeing on).
area junc  
fkap : 4/27/2017 2:45 pm : link
you're making the assumption that human interaction is a net positive thing. that's a judgment call. having to deal with the DMV old days vs yesterday when I was able to handle registration renewal online certainly leads me to judge one way.

As I said originally, things are different. there's no denying that some things are obviously easier (such as at the DMV), but better vs worse is completely judgment. I find it better to text kids to get off my lawn. others find it better to be able to yell at them in person.
Life before 1990, 9 to 5 work schedules?  
njm : 4/27/2017 2:51 pm : link
DAMN! I wish someone had told me I was only to work from 9 to 5. Or maybe those 60, 70 and 80 hour weeks were a figment of my imagination.

It's a mixed blessing with the final determination yet to be made:

* You can get information quicker. You can also get inaccurate information quicker.

* Wider communication. But also much more of what I believe is called "silo-ing", you only communicate with a wider group of like minded people, shutting out opposing views.

* Easy search. But sometimes I found really great information NOT using key words that I would have missed.
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