but it seems like I might've had 2 or 3 female teachers under the age of 60 from 4th grade on through college. And none of them were even remotely attractive.
I saw the story yesterday before the daily mail or whoever had time to dig up her old instagram pictures or wherever they're from. So when I saw the pictures I thought wait a minute she didn't look like this in the story I saw yesterday.
I'm not a psychiatrist but my guess is what happened is the pictures above were her at 18/19 maybe even early college up to probably 21 and then the mug shot was the picture of what she turned into by 25 and she lost her self esteem. She was desperate for attention and took it where she could get it.
I saw the story yesterday before the daily mail or whoever had time to dig up her old instagram pictures or wherever they're from. So when I saw the pictures I thought wait a minute she didn't look like this in the story I saw yesterday.
I'm not a psychiatrist but my guess is what happened is the pictures above were her at 18/19 maybe even early college up to probably 21 and then the mug shot was the picture of what she turned into by 25 and she lost her self esteem. She was desperate for attention and took it where she could get it.
Not for nothing, but I'm pretty sure she could get the attention of most guys even looking as she did in that mug pic.
I saw the story yesterday before the daily mail or whoever had time to dig up her old instagram pictures or wherever they're from. So when I saw the pictures I thought wait a minute she didn't look like this in the story I saw yesterday.
I'm not a psychiatrist but my guess is what happened is the pictures above were her at 18/19 maybe even early college up to probably 21 and then the mug shot was the picture of what she turned into by 25 and she lost her self esteem. She was desperate for attention and took it where she could get it.
Are you suggesting a psychiatrists job is to judge women based on a series of photographs? I think we have a plethora of psychiatrists on bbi!
I saw the story yesterday before the daily mail or whoever had time to dig up her old instagram pictures or wherever they're from. So when I saw the pictures I thought wait a minute she didn't look like this in the story I saw yesterday.
I'm not a psychiatrist but my guess is what happened is the pictures above were her at 18/19 maybe even early college up to probably 21 and then the mug shot was the picture of what she turned into by 25 and she lost her self esteem. She was desperate for attention and took it where she could get it.
Not for nothing, but I'm pretty sure she could get the attention of most guys even looking as she did in that mug pic.
Maybe, I have no idea, just my guess at her motivation. She was a math major in college so I will assume her choices were not an intelligence thing where she didn't know any better, so I fall to psychological/mental.
Totally agreed. My guess is she wouldve went for all 3 at once eventually. Makes for a fun 20yr reunion story when the wives are getting a drink across the room.
That have to tell people when they get some pussy. Keep your mouth shut, and you could have been hitting that all summer
Isn't it possible though, based on pj's non-professional theory, that they were hitting that and she got too clingy and they had no other options to get her off their backs?
I saw the story yesterday before the daily mail or whoever had time to dig up her old instagram pictures or wherever they're from. So when I saw the pictures I thought wait a minute she didn't look like this in the story I saw yesterday.
I'm not a psychiatrist but my guess is what happened is the pictures above were her at 18/19 maybe even early college up to probably 21 and then the mug shot was the picture of what she turned into by 25 and she lost her self esteem. She was desperate for attention and took it where she could get it.
Are you suggesting a psychiatrists job is to judge women based on a series of photographs? I think we have a plethora of psychiatrists on bbi!
yes, a bunch of Sigmund frauds on here, no not necessarily saying that just saying based on the series of pictures a possible motive became clear to me. I always wonder, more so with the seemingly happily married teachers than this one, why these stories have become so prevalent (if they are more prevalent than years past).
teacher porn has been around forever, so it's not like there's no audience for this story. I'd guess that it's only more public now than in the past, but has been going on since school started. Maybe they just needed a pioneer to test the waters and show everyone that the consequences aren't that bad. The pretty ones get 3 months probation. The ugly ones 12 years. If I can part some wisdom on the future statutory rape teachers....look good when you get busted, it's only gonna help.
who was not young like the girl in this thread. Older with daughters also in high school but she was a milf. Anyway, the word was that (with no proof) she would have a student each year who she messed around with.
One day she invites me and a friend over to her house for a BBQ. Her two daughters were there and her husband too (who she later divorced). It was strange and my friend and I did not know what to expect going to her house. Of course, nothing happened there.
So, fast forward a few months and there are parent teacher conferences. Some of the teachers lived far and really could not go home then come back for the evening conferences. Come to find out that my mother invited this teacher over the house for dinner. Another strange situation for me at that time.
Then, I find out that soon after graduation one of my friends fucks this teacher at a hotel.
teacher porn has been around forever, so it's not like there's no audience for this story. I'd guess that it's only more public now than in the past, but has been going on since school started. Maybe they just needed a pioneer to test the waters and show everyone that the consequences aren't that bad. The pretty ones get 3 months probation. The ugly ones 12 years. If I can part some wisdom on the future statutory rape teachers....look good when you get busted, it's only gonna help.
they only get probation?
I figured if not jail then at a minimum suspended sentences (so probation) and forced to register as sex offenders for the rest of their lives.
can't see many of the busted teachers recovering from this and having a normal life, but I guess if they look good some dude would still be interested in them. Some dudes are pretty desperate too, especially ugly dudes.
teacher porn has been around forever, so it's not like there's no audience for this story. I'd guess that it's only more public now than in the past, but has been going on since school started. Maybe they just needed a pioneer to test the waters and show everyone that the consequences aren't that bad. The pretty ones get 3 months probation. The ugly ones 12 years. If I can part some wisdom on the future statutory rape teachers....look good when you get busted, it's only gonna help.
they only get probation?
I figured if not jail then at a minimum suspended sentences (so probation) and forced to register as sex offenders for the rest of their lives.
can't see many of the busted teachers recovering from this and having a normal life, but I guess if they look good some dude would still be interested in them. Some dudes are pretty desperate too, especially ugly dudes.
I'm sure life will never be the same again. This will hang over her for the rest of her life. But I'm she'll eventually find some dead end back end office job and live a life of mediocrity going forward.
She'll also find some schmuck to marry (because let's face it. That's life). But I wouldn't be surprised if she goes back to fucking young boys again. It's a power struggle that she'll have to wrestle with herself.
but it seems like I might've had 2 or 3 female teachers under the age of 60 from 4th grade on through college. And none of them were even remotely attractive.
Buyouts/early retirement is a factor. Also, various pressures have kept wages down, turning some teaching jobs into more of a phase, less of a life calling. So you get kids doing it.
"Hmm, what should I do for fun tonight? I know! Sex with 3 16-year-olds who will brag to all of their friends and get me arrested and kicked out of teaching forever. I have heard that sex offender status for the rest of my life is also great fun."
so it's not statutory rape. But if I were the dad of one of those boys, I wouldn't be happy.
We all laugh about this stuff but it's like any other power relationship: Even if both parties are consenting, it's a problem for the "lower ranked" person. Can they really say no? Can they break it off? Is she in a position to retaliate if they want to date another girl?
And even more, you send the kids off to school and entrust the teachers with their care. They have a responsibility and a trust. It's not like these boys met this woman at a ballgame or a concert and she took them home. She's a teacher in their school. That's not cool.
so it's not statutory rape. But if I were the dad of one of those boys, I wouldn't be happy.
We all laugh about this stuff but it's like any other power relationship: Even if both parties are consenting, it's a problem for the "lower ranked" person. Can they really say no? Can they break it off? Is she in a position to retaliate if they want to date another girl?
And even more, you send the kids off to school and entrust the teachers with their care. They have a responsibility and a trust. It's not like these boys met this woman at a ballgame or a concert and she took them home. She's a teacher in their school. That's not cool.
Thank you. This woman is sick and is a predator. It sound 'fun and sexy' but it's not. It's abuse because she is in a position of power. Reverse the sexes of the people and then think about it.
Great Dane/Buford: The power imbalance might be even worse here.
We all laugh about this stuff but it's like any other power relationship: Even if both parties are consenting, it's a problem for the "lower ranked" person. Can they really say no? Can they break it off? Is she in a position to retaliate if they want to date another girl?
And even more, you send the kids off to school and entrust the teachers with their care. They have a responsibility and a trust. It's not like these boys met this woman at a ballgame or a concert and she took them home. She's a teacher in their school. That's not cool.
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Thank you. This woman is sick and is a predator. It sound 'fun and sexy' but it's not. It's abuse because she is in a position of power. Reverse the sexes of the people and then think about it.
Now add another factor: The student population is mostly children of color.
A 16 year old, regardless of gender, is in no position to accurately and healthily make sexual/romantic decisions with an authority figure. Plenty of folks 10 years older aren't.
Once the cool factor wears, you have a very ill-equipped person left to deal with a curveball on the journey of what a healthy, trusting relationship is.
And if you don't think that's a life problem, take a good long thought on how many adult people you know who are in healthy, trusting relationships. And weigh them against the number and general happiness of people who arent.
Anytime there was a rumor in high school that a teacher and a student were fucking, its because well...they were. Then their relationship " officially began" when the student graduated high school two or three weeks later. Male or female.
That's basically any woman without make up. She don't look bad either.
This amazes me. I can't even tell it's the same person. Hair color is different, eye color is different, even the nose looks different. I knew this already but I'm stunned at the extent to which we live in a fake world.
A 16 year old, regardless of gender, is in no position to accurately and healthily make sexual/romantic decisions with an authority figure. Plenty of folks 10 years older aren't.
Once the cool factor wears, you have a very ill-equipped person left to deal with a curveball on the journey of what a healthy, trusting relationship is.
And if you don't think that's a life problem, take a good long thought on how many adult people you know who are in healthy, trusting relationships. And weigh them against the number and general happiness of people who arent.
May be I am speaking from inexperience but at some point life is going to throw curve ball at you and if you are going to blame all your future failures on the curve ball of banging a hot teacher than you were going to strike out anyhow..
Why was she not my teacher in 1982? Damn Yeah I guess its the right thing to do bu the 17 yr old in me is like damn! (I am 53)
Same here ... '82. But remember, girls/women were NOT wearing the outfits then that they're wearing today. A lot of turtlenecks, long sleeves, corduroy is what I remember. Even the "hot girls."
May be I am speaking from inexperience but at some point life is going to throw curve ball at you and if you are going to blame all your future failures on the curve ball of banging a hot teacher than you were going to strike out anyhow..
Sure... at some point we all face negatives in life and have to deal with those negatives. Sure.
So... what? Where point are you driving at with regards to the case at issue in this thread?
That because negatives happen and we all have to deal with them at some point... it's either ok or justified (or what?) that young people get preyed upon by older authority figures?
Furthermore: Improper early sex relationships can and do mess folks up... it is certainly not the case that folks would be messed up anyway so the early sex stuff is no big deal or a side issue.
May be I am speaking from inexperience but at some point life is going to throw curve ball at you and if you are going to blame all your future failures on the curve ball of banging a hot teacher than you were going to strike out anyhow..
Sure... at some point we all face negatives in life and have to deal with those negatives. Sure.
So... what? Where point are you driving at with regards to the case at issue in this thread?
That because negatives happen and we all have to deal with them at some point... it's either ok or justified (or what?) that young people get preyed upon by older authority figures?
Furthermore: Improper early sex relationships can and do mess folks up... it is certainly not the case that folks would be messed up anyway so the early sex stuff is no big deal or a side issue.
Thats the thing if I had sex with a hot teacher and you would have asked me if I had been preyed on.. i would say hell no.. I wanted to do it and glad I did.. preyed on seems to insinuate that the boys had to be convinced to have sex with her.. if they were 12 or 13 I would agree but at 16 they probably just had to be asked and I am sure most boys would just say yes.. in fact most would pursue it.. hence I won't use the word prey..
You seem to imply that because they had sex early that they are bound to messed up.. I am saying that in most cases something like this shouldn't mess up a kids life.. If you can actually show studies that this is very harmful to kids, I'd definitely change my opinion but without hard facts, I can only go by how it would impact me and the guys I know.. We would be just fine regardless of our encounter with hot teacher..
where were these teachers when I was in High School?
but seriously, while it may be inappropriate, I find it difficult to call these young men "victims"? What 17 yr old boy wouldn't want to shack up a hot 25 yr old girl?
What buzzkill?
I saw the story yesterday before the daily mail or whoever had time to dig up her old instagram pictures or wherever they're from. So when I saw the pictures I thought wait a minute she didn't look like this in the story I saw yesterday.
I'm not a psychiatrist but my guess is what happened is the pictures above were her at 18/19 maybe even early college up to probably 21 and then the mug shot was the picture of what she turned into by 25 and she lost her self esteem. She was desperate for attention and took it where she could get it.
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W the buzzkill
I saw the story yesterday before the daily mail or whoever had time to dig up her old instagram pictures or wherever they're from. So when I saw the pictures I thought wait a minute she didn't look like this in the story I saw yesterday.
I'm not a psychiatrist but my guess is what happened is the pictures above were her at 18/19 maybe even early college up to probably 21 and then the mug shot was the picture of what she turned into by 25 and she lost her self esteem. She was desperate for attention and took it where she could get it.
Not for nothing, but I'm pretty sure she could get the attention of most guys even looking as she did in that mug pic.
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W the buzzkill
I saw the story yesterday before the daily mail or whoever had time to dig up her old instagram pictures or wherever they're from. So when I saw the pictures I thought wait a minute she didn't look like this in the story I saw yesterday.
I'm not a psychiatrist but my guess is what happened is the pictures above were her at 18/19 maybe even early college up to probably 21 and then the mug shot was the picture of what she turned into by 25 and she lost her self esteem. She was desperate for attention and took it where she could get it.
Are you suggesting a psychiatrists job is to judge women based on a series of photographs? I think we have a plethora of psychiatrists on bbi!
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W the buzzkill
I saw the story yesterday before the daily mail or whoever had time to dig up her old instagram pictures or wherever they're from. So when I saw the pictures I thought wait a minute she didn't look like this in the story I saw yesterday.
I'm not a psychiatrist but my guess is what happened is the pictures above were her at 18/19 maybe even early college up to probably 21 and then the mug shot was the picture of what she turned into by 25 and she lost her self esteem. She was desperate for attention and took it where she could get it.
Not for nothing, but I'm pretty sure she could get the attention of most guys even looking as she did in that mug pic.
Maybe, I have no idea, just my guess at her motivation. She was a math major in college so I will assume her choices were not an intelligence thing where she didn't know any better, so I fall to psychological/mental.
Isn't it possible though, based on pj's non-professional theory, that they were hitting that and she got too clingy and they had no other options to get her off their backs?
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W the buzzkill
I saw the story yesterday before the daily mail or whoever had time to dig up her old instagram pictures or wherever they're from. So when I saw the pictures I thought wait a minute she didn't look like this in the story I saw yesterday.
I'm not a psychiatrist but my guess is what happened is the pictures above were her at 18/19 maybe even early college up to probably 21 and then the mug shot was the picture of what she turned into by 25 and she lost her self esteem. She was desperate for attention and took it where she could get it.
Are you suggesting a psychiatrists job is to judge women based on a series of photographs? I think we have a plethora of psychiatrists on bbi!
yes, a bunch of Sigmund frauds on here, no not necessarily saying that just saying based on the series of pictures a possible motive became clear to me. I always wonder, more so with the seemingly happily married teachers than this one, why these stories have become so prevalent (if they are more prevalent than years past).
dad gives them the nod of approval when mom leaves the room.
dad gives them the nod of approval when mom leaves the room.
If my future son ever did that, I'll pour him a glass of the finest whiskey. He deserves it.
One day she invites me and a friend over to her house for a BBQ. Her two daughters were there and her husband too (who she later divorced). It was strange and my friend and I did not know what to expect going to her house. Of course, nothing happened there.
So, fast forward a few months and there are parent teacher conferences. Some of the teachers lived far and really could not go home then come back for the evening conferences. Come to find out that my mother invited this teacher over the house for dinner. Another strange situation for me at that time.
Then, I find out that soon after graduation one of my friends fucks this teacher at a hotel.
they only get probation?
I figured if not jail then at a minimum suspended sentences (so probation) and forced to register as sex offenders for the rest of their lives.
can't see many of the busted teachers recovering from this and having a normal life, but I guess if they look good some dude would still be interested in them. Some dudes are pretty desperate too, especially ugly dudes.
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teacher porn has been around forever, so it's not like there's no audience for this story. I'd guess that it's only more public now than in the past, but has been going on since school started. Maybe they just needed a pioneer to test the waters and show everyone that the consequences aren't that bad. The pretty ones get 3 months probation. The ugly ones 12 years. If I can part some wisdom on the future statutory rape teachers....look good when you get busted, it's only gonna help.
they only get probation?
I figured if not jail then at a minimum suspended sentences (so probation) and forced to register as sex offenders for the rest of their lives.
can't see many of the busted teachers recovering from this and having a normal life, but I guess if they look good some dude would still be interested in them. Some dudes are pretty desperate too, especially ugly dudes.
I'm sure life will never be the same again. This will hang over her for the rest of her life. But I'm she'll eventually find some dead end back end office job and live a life of mediocrity going forward.
She'll also find some schmuck to marry (because let's face it. That's life). But I wouldn't be surprised if she goes back to fucking young boys again. It's a power struggle that she'll have to wrestle with herself.
Buyouts/early retirement is a factor. Also, various pressures have kept wages down, turning some teaching jobs into more of a phase, less of a life calling. So you get kids doing it.
Try talking to a 16 year old. You want to pull the ejector cable within the first 3 minutes.
Try talking to a 16 year old. You want to pull the ejector cable within the first 3 minutes.
In a helicopter!!!
"Hmm, what should I do for fun tonight? I know! Sex with 3 16-year-olds who will brag to all of their friends and get me arrested and kicked out of teaching forever. I have heard that sex offender status for the rest of my life is also great fun."
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That have to tell people when they get some pussy. Keep your mouth shut, and you could have been hitting that all summer
Millenials
LULZ !!!!
We all laugh about this stuff but it's like any other power relationship: Even if both parties are consenting, it's a problem for the "lower ranked" person. Can they really say no? Can they break it off? Is she in a position to retaliate if they want to date another girl?
And even more, you send the kids off to school and entrust the teachers with their care. They have a responsibility and a trust. It's not like these boys met this woman at a ballgame or a concert and she took them home. She's a teacher in their school. That's not cool.
So are you.
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need lots of therapy and another profession.
So are you.
meds time so soon?
We all laugh about this stuff but it's like any other power relationship: Even if both parties are consenting, it's a problem for the "lower ranked" person. Can they really say no? Can they break it off? Is she in a position to retaliate if they want to date another girl?
And even more, you send the kids off to school and entrust the teachers with their care. They have a responsibility and a trust. It's not like these boys met this woman at a ballgame or a concert and she took them home. She's a teacher in their school. That's not cool.
Thank you. This woman is sick and is a predator. It sound 'fun and sexy' but it's not. It's abuse because she is in a position of power. Reverse the sexes of the people and then think about it.
And even more, you send the kids off to school and entrust the teachers with their care. They have a responsibility and a trust. It's not like these boys met this woman at a ballgame or a concert and she took them home. She's a teacher in their school. That's not cool.
Once the cool factor wears, you have a very ill-equipped person left to deal with a curveball on the journey of what a healthy, trusting relationship is.
And if you don't think that's a life problem, take a good long thought on how many adult people you know who are in healthy, trusting relationships. And weigh them against the number and general happiness of people who arent.
The South Park guys pretty much nail this one.
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16 X 3 = 48.
Try talking to a 16 year old. You want to pull the ejector cable within the first 3 minutes.
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I have a 16 year old son... I can't imagine how she would find a high school sophomore remotely interesting. This chick is a nut job.
Care to elaborate?
That's basically any woman without make up. She don't look bad either.
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That's basically any woman without make up. She don't look bad either.
These things are cycles... these things are sad. These things are certainly not an opportunity to high five and cry "Awesome!"
Once the cool factor wears, you have a very ill-equipped person left to deal with a curveball on the journey of what a healthy, trusting relationship is.
And if you don't think that's a life problem, take a good long thought on how many adult people you know who are in healthy, trusting relationships. And weigh them against the number and general happiness of people who arent.
May be I am speaking from inexperience but at some point life is going to throw curve ball at you and if you are going to blame all your future failures on the curve ball of banging a hot teacher than you were going to strike out anyhow..
Same here ... '82. But remember, girls/women were NOT wearing the outfits then that they're wearing today. A lot of turtlenecks, long sleeves, corduroy is what I remember. Even the "hot girls."
Sure... at some point we all face negatives in life and have to deal with those negatives. Sure.
So... what? Where point are you driving at with regards to the case at issue in this thread?
That because negatives happen and we all have to deal with them at some point... it's either ok or justified (or what?) that young people get preyed upon by older authority figures?
Furthermore: Improper early sex relationships can and do mess folks up... it is certainly not the case that folks would be messed up anyway so the early sex stuff is no big deal or a side issue.
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May be I am speaking from inexperience but at some point life is going to throw curve ball at you and if you are going to blame all your future failures on the curve ball of banging a hot teacher than you were going to strike out anyhow..
Sure... at some point we all face negatives in life and have to deal with those negatives. Sure.
So... what? Where point are you driving at with regards to the case at issue in this thread?
That because negatives happen and we all have to deal with them at some point... it's either ok or justified (or what?) that young people get preyed upon by older authority figures?
Furthermore: Improper early sex relationships can and do mess folks up... it is certainly not the case that folks would be messed up anyway so the early sex stuff is no big deal or a side issue.
Thats the thing if I had sex with a hot teacher and you would have asked me if I had been preyed on.. i would say hell no.. I wanted to do it and glad I did.. preyed on seems to insinuate that the boys had to be convinced to have sex with her.. if they were 12 or 13 I would agree but at 16 they probably just had to be asked and I am sure most boys would just say yes.. in fact most would pursue it.. hence I won't use the word prey..
You seem to imply that because they had sex early that they are bound to messed up.. I am saying that in most cases something like this shouldn't mess up a kids life.. If you can actually show studies that this is very harmful to kids, I'd definitely change my opinion but without hard facts, I can only go by how it would impact me and the guys I know.. We would be just fine regardless of our encounter with hot teacher..