Timely article for me, as I am firmly in the travel sports cocoon with my two sons, in fifth and third grade. Both on the travel soccer circuit, and the younger one with lacrosse as well.
The best line in the article, relating to spending exorbitant amounts spent by some parents chasing a college athletic scholarship: "“They could have set it aside for the damn college.”
In my humble opinion, kids should play a travel sport only if they enjoy it, and parents shouldn't look at it as an investment expecting a monetary reward in the form of a college scholarship later on - the odds are overwhelming that you will be very disappointed. Play for the love of the game, getting better, and making and being with your friends.
And, it really stinks that the rise of travel sports has caused a decline in youth rec leagues.
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The kid Joey the article starts with is very well known in travel baseball. Purely because his parents have done a great job marketing him. Sad thing is, he can make a very good career already out of pushing product.
As the kids aged, the costs ranged from significant to exorbitant, especially for one of them who played 6 days a week year round on 2 teams for leagues and 3 for tournaments plus ancillary things like ODP and Empires plus summer league and camps. The travel itself was very costly although I have to say that we got to go to see places for tournaments that we otherwise would not have had the opportunity to visit. So, it was vacation for us.
Overall, if you want quality and competition, I would say it was incomparable. You can't get that in rec soccer and, while HS is rah-rah and I recommend it for school spirit, it's really not high level soccer (even at high level schools (except for Shen where their HS team curiously always seems to be their travel team)).
OTOH, I would not recommend ODP (at least ENY), either as a vehicle for college, an investment, as skill-development or as an experience.
Anyway, two of my kids who played travel year round never had a desire (or skill) to play soccer in college, although at least one played a lot of intramural. One did play in college and that's attributable to the level and amount of soccer, especially travel played as a youth. However, scholarship itself never played into the calculus for travel. At a certain point, but not until many years into it (maybe sophomore or junior year after beginning playing travel at age 9), being able to *play* college at a higher level (having the skills, being seen) did factor in, especially to tournament choices.
But mostly it really was just what we did. An intense and time-consuming family hobby.
But now it has become so watered down. A trophy for the parents to say "yeah, my kid plays travel". That level is a total scam in. Y opinion. But in the upper levels it is absolutely necessary. It is an outstanding tool to develop your child. Not as a future pro. But when they excel at something, many life lessons are learned by pushing themselves and competing against the best of the best.
My son plays baseball basically year round (winters are for park and rec basketball), babe ruth fall ball now. He's not gonna get a scholarship. His absolute favorite part is goofing around in the dugout and he hopes to be able to make the High School team.
To each his own, I guess.
Since its a business, anything goes, but I still feel sorry for the kids who childhood is affected.
It can drive you nuts if you let it. It's important to just keep perspective and remember that kids have to be kids, not robots. More than anything, they care about having fun and being with their friends; that can't be taken from them.