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Major dilemma: my wife of 13 years is an Eagles fan.

BUgiantfan : 1/28/2018 6:46 pm
For the last two Super Bowls the Giants were in, she wore Giants gear to "support her husband". She asked me today who I was rooting for and the idea of saying "I'll root for the Eagles" made me want to vomit.

The odd part is that I really didn't have a huge beef against the Eagles when I was growing up on Long Island. In the mid 90's, they were the only team in the division that gave the Cowboys a run for their money and I hated the Cowboys so much. When I went to college in PA, the guy across the hall from me was the most annoying, arrogant Eagles fan on the planet. I have hated the city of Philadelphia ever since I met him. I haven't even seen or heard from him in 18 years but I can't get myself to root for the Eagles because fuck that guy!

Am I being too petty or should I stand my ground in continuing to hate the Eagles, despite my wife's wishes?
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Thanks! Some good advice on this thread...  
BUgiantfan : 1/29/2018 12:14 am : link
So, I'll wear a Green Lantern shirt, not root against the Eagles, and secretly root for the patriots.


...and, of course, blast her in the butt.
IMO, there is a very simple answer for this  
NyquistX3 : 1/29/2018 1:49 am : link
for the die hard Giants fan. The Eagles must lose. Make it up to your wife in other areas of her life. Sorry :(
It is not worth your marriage  
dk in TX : 1/29/2018 7:24 am : link
Compromise is the keyword here.
...  
SFGFNCGiantsFan : 1/29/2018 7:41 am : link
Divorce.
Nightmare  
Rong5611 : 1/29/2018 8:21 am : link
You have no choice, you need to support her. The wearing of the jersey would be painful, try to avoid if you can.

My wife is a Viking fan, alittle easier. Although, the 2000 Championship Game was not fun.
If you have to wear an Eagles shirt  
Bramton1 : 1/29/2018 8:26 am : link
Wear a long-sleeved Giants shirt underneath so that the Eagles shirt doesn't touch your skin and burn you.
You said it in the OP....  
WideRight : 1/29/2018 8:27 am : link
No beef with the Eagles.

Since they have never won anything, and aren't likely to, put on the jersey and count on getting some props after the terrible loss.

It actually sounds like a win-win. You get to watch them lose and get a consolation prize!
Fans come in all sizes, shapes, and gender  
joeinpa : 1/29/2018 9:46 am : link
They also vary in the intensity of their fandom.

I would never wear Eagle garb. If that describes you, I see no reason why you have to ratchet down your fandom to match your wife s
Buy  
spike : 1/29/2018 9:49 am : link
an AMERICAN EAGLE shirt and be done with it.
Why did you marry her in the 1st place  
The 12th Man : 1/29/2018 10:08 am : link
if you knew that, hell why the hell did you date her knowing that information. Get out now while you still have a chance.
RE: If you have to wear an Eagles shirt  
Thegratefulhead : 1/29/2018 10:12 am : link
In comment 13810763 Bramton1 said:
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Wear a long-sleeved Giants shirt underneath so that the Eagles shirt doesn't touch your skin and burn you.
Wins the thread right there.
What's the big deal? It's just football.  
Ira : 1/29/2018 10:28 am : link
She supported you during two Giants Super Bowls. You owe her.
okay -- here's my take  
gidiefor : Mod : 1/29/2018 10:30 am : link
if you don't reciprocate and support your wife -- you risk losing the loyalty she has shown you going into the future

don't equivocate -- you love her -- you married her -- don't half-ass it -- especially if you plan on being together for a long time
Have "something at work come up" and...  
GiantSteps : 1/29/2018 11:15 am : link
watch the game elsewhere. Root against the Eagles in peace.
wear the jersey  
Banks : 1/29/2018 12:18 pm : link
you made the mistake of not telling her you wouldn't do the same when she rocked Giants gear during our SBs. You can try putting on a Hulk shirt and sit in silence, but if she wants you to high five a td, you have grin and bear it.
I couldn't do it  
Boatie Warrant : 1/29/2018 12:44 pm : link
My wife was a 9ers fan when we got married but is a Giants fan now. I just kept buying Giants clothes I knew she would want to steal because they are warm and comfy. Now I have only jerseys to wear and a wife who wears Giants gear almost every day :)
Reminds me of a BB King line:  
BigBlue in Keys : 1/29/2018 3:46 pm : link
"Stand up for your right, be a man, be a man!" From the song Beware, Brother, Beware.

Or maybe this was what Meatloaf meant when he said "I'd do anything for love, but I won't do that. No I won't do that!"

Wearing your Giants gear and biting your tongue would be the most I'd be willing to go. Tell her if she really loves you she wouldn't ask in the first place :)
No.  
Don in DC : 1/29/2018 3:50 pm : link
Nothing could make me root for the Eagles. Nothing. Fuck them, fuck their dirty players, fuck their fans, fuck Philly.

24-7, forever and ever.

No.
I don't see the issue here.....  
BillKo : 1/29/2018 4:21 pm : link
...her choice to wear Giants gear during our Super Bowls.

Now, it's YOUR choice :)


LOL...
RE: No.  
BigBlue in Keys : 1/29/2018 4:33 pm : link
In comment 13811375 Don in DC said:
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Nothing could make me root for the Eagles. Nothing. Fuck them, fuck their dirty players, fuck their fans, fuck Philly.

24-7, forever and ever.

No.


That's really what I wanted to say.
Tell her that you are absolutely rooting for the Eagles  
Jimmy Googs : 1/29/2018 5:06 pm : link
because its important to her. But silently, you do otherwise.

Lying is always the best policy if you can get away with it...
For  
Rolyrock : 1/29/2018 8:20 pm : link
Better or for worse, this incident is worse. Buuuut
She didn't say that if the Eagles lose you couldn't throw off the jersey stomp and burn it with unbridled joy.
RE: You think that's a dilemna?1?!  
Beezer : 1/30/2018 12:25 am : link
In comment 13810512 Eli Wilson said:
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My wife is a Patriots fan!!
We've had a couple rough Super Bowls.

She's also a freaking Red Sox fan.


I’m betting many are thinking what I’m thinking.
1. I’d never marry an Eagles fan.  
Beezer : 1/30/2018 12:31 am : link
Seriously. No matter how much chrome she could suck off an old Chevy. Dare? That’s one thing. Marry? No. You guys are fucking idiots and you make awful life choices.

2. Anyone married to me would know it would be ridiculous to expect me to wear the jersey or other fear if any other team.

3. I’m not “rooting” for anyone to win this Super Bowl. I’ll watch and hope the Eagles lose. Splitting hairs? Maybe. But fuck you all and your Eagles- and Patriots-loving wives. You made your beds, now go lie in them. It’s YOUR personal hell. Not mine. Jerks.
Date?*  
Beezer : 1/30/2018 12:32 am : link
(Not dare)
And gear*  
Beezer : 1/30/2018 12:33 am : link
(Not fear)

Suck at typing on a phone.
I pray children are not involved.  
Beezer : 1/30/2018 12:36 am : link
.
You’re not supporting the Eagles  
Bill L : 1/30/2018 12:43 am : link
You’re supporting your wife.
RE: You’re not supporting the Eagles  
Beezer : 1/30/2018 12:45 am : link
In comment 13811844 Bill L said:
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You’re supporting your wife.


Who supports the Eagles.

They need an intervention.
Just don't let her take any pictures of you wearing it  
TheMick7 : 1/30/2018 5:43 am : link
When she tells people after the SB that you wore it,deny,deny,deny!
RE: 1. I’d never marry an Eagles fan.  
BUgiantfan : 1/30/2018 12:54 pm : link
In comment 13811832 Beezer said:
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Seriously. No matter how much chrome she could suck off an old Chevy. Dare? That’s one thing. Marry? No. You guys are fucking idiots and you make awful life choices.

2. Anyone married to me would know it would be ridiculous to expect me to wear the jersey or other fear if any other team.

3. I’m not “rooting” for anyone to win this Super Bowl. I’ll watch and hope the Eagles lose. Splitting hairs? Maybe. But fuck you all and your Eagles- and Patriots-loving wives. You made your beds, now go lie in them. It’s YOUR personal hell. Not mine. Jerks.


It’s amazing how rosy things look before you get married. Something about that marriage license- it’s the signal that tells Medusa to let her hair down.
Agree with those that say you  
T-Bone : 1/30/2018 12:54 pm : link
have to wear it. A deal's a deal and if you renege on it why should she expect you to keep up your 'end of the bargain' for anything else?

That said, as we were getting in the bed my two year old... out of the blue mind you... says 'Go Eagles!' (we've taught him how to say 'Go Giants' and 'Go Redskins', my wife's favorite team). I looked at him with the most angry face I think I've ever looked at him with and said 'I don't want to EVER hear you say that again. Do you hear me?'. He looked all sad and said 'Yes dadddy. Go Giants!'.

But the damage had been done. No milk before bed for him last night!
So...  
MetsAreBack : 2/6/2018 9:23 am : link
did you get laid at least?
if it was her choice to wear Giants jersey  
bc4life : 2/6/2018 9:31 am : link
that's on her. I would rather toss Bigfoot's salad than wear an Eagle jersey.

If I died and they they buried me in a Eagles jersey - I'd still find a way to take it off.
and when preparing  
bc4life : 2/6/2018 9:33 am : link
and serving food to her fellow Eagle fans - you know I ain't washing my hands.
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