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Greg from LI : 2/14/2018 6:22 pm
Some of you may remember my dog being gravely ill a couple of years ago. She escaped the reaper that time so we could have a few more years together, but now she has the cancer we feared she had back then. Was hoping she'd make it to her 14th birthday, but alas that just wasn't in the cards.

I hate the world sometimes.
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Sorry to hear it pal  
Joey in VA : 2/14/2018 6:24 pm : link
Losing your pet is horrific.
Sad news. Sorry to hear  
DennyInDenville : 2/14/2018 6:26 pm : link
Best wishes , thoughts and prayers to your pup and family of the pup . Very sorry for your loss
Sorry to hear  
JohnG in Albany : 2/14/2018 6:29 pm : link
They do get into our lives, that's for sure.

Peace.

Sorry to hear it, Greg  
GeorgeAdams33 : 2/14/2018 6:34 pm : link
I've been through it many times with family dogs and my boss' dogs, but I dread the inevitable with my two who are going into their 9th & 11th years. You have done all you can do and I'm sure it was appreciated on a level we don't even understand. Praying for God to give you strength on top of your compassion.
Very sorry to hear ;(  
KArchibald : 2/14/2018 6:34 pm : link
Thoughts and prayers with you and your family.
So sorry to hear....  
Italianju : 2/14/2018 6:41 pm : link
just had to put a cat down two sundays ago. He was with us for 13 years and was very dog like in his companionship. Its def a very tough time. But take some solace in knowing that he wont be suffering, it has helped me. All the cliche stuff has held true in that it gets a bit easier each day. Still has been a trying time. Thoughts are with you.
Can't read these threads.  
Mr. Bungle : 2/14/2018 6:44 pm : link
Sorry, Greg. You gave her a great life. It's an awful thing to go through.
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arcarsenal : 2/14/2018 6:51 pm : link
Sorry to hear, Greg.

I remember when I started the thread about my guy back in October/November you had said yours was hanging in there but you weren't sure how much time you had left.

It's hard, man.

All you can do is take solace in all the good years you had together, knowing you gave her the best life you could and that she made it a really long way.

I still miss my Golden every single day. I'll never get used to him being gone - but I can tell you that as time passes, all of the good memories start to come back and you'll remember her as a healthy, happy dog and remember all of the good times you shared.

Dogs are truly, truly special. Hang in there, bud. It does get easier as time goes on.

All the best.
Sorry to hear it Greg -  
Del Shofner : 2/14/2018 6:51 pm : link
we've lost a couple over the years - doesn't make it easier. I can't even think of losing our current dog, although I know it will happen eventually. Just remember that you gave her a good life by being a devoted dog owner and companion. And I hope you get another dog when you're ready ...
My condolences Greg  
Jints in Carolina : 2/14/2018 6:59 pm : link
It is heartbreaking isn't it.
sorry  
MookGiants : 2/14/2018 6:59 pm : link
pal
Man,  
LawrenceTaylor56 : 2/14/2018 7:02 pm : link
these threads are always tough to read. My condolences Greg. Hang in there.
So sorry to hear this,  
batman11 : 2/14/2018 7:04 pm : link
Greg. My condolences to you and your family.
Sorry to hear that  
Les in TO : 2/14/2018 7:07 pm : link
Never easy to say goodbye to a beloved pet, basically a member of your family
as one who has been through 6 generations of dogs now  
gidiefor : Mod : 2/14/2018 7:09 pm : link
I totally understand how you feel Greg -- those little buggers find a place in your heart that has a big hole in it when they leave

May your fondest memories of this beast ward off some of the pain of losing him!!! It doesn't completely help -- but my response is to go right out and get another one.
Sorry Greg, awful news.  
Shepherdsam : 2/14/2018 7:12 pm : link
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Awful  
AcidTest : 2/14/2018 7:15 pm : link
news. I am very sorry for your loss. Prayers to everyone.
if I had one wish?  
santacruzom : 2/14/2018 7:24 pm : link
Dogs' average lifespan increases to 50.
I'm so sorry  
jpennyva : 2/14/2018 7:34 pm : link
That really sucks. I can't even imagine. My deepest condolences.
I'm sorry, man.  
BrettNYG10 : 2/14/2018 7:46 pm : link
Wish it could be easier.
My condolences, Greg.  
allstarjim : 2/14/2018 8:13 pm : link
My pup, Jack, just turned 10 recently. I know we don't have many years left, and I'm thinking more and more of that inevitable goodbye, and how sad that day will be. I know this hurts, because for me it hurts just to think about it.

I hope you take heart in knowing you gave your pup a good life full of love.
My condolences Greg  
gtt350 : 2/14/2018 8:16 pm : link
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Ive put down 3 pets and  
chopperhatch : 2/14/2018 8:24 pm : link
Had one die in his sleep. The latter was fine. But putting a pet to sleep is the fucking worst.

You will see your dog again. At least you gotta believe that.

Good luck Greg.
So sorry to hear this  
Ron from Ninerland : 2/14/2018 8:32 pm : link
As soon as I saw the thread title I knew it was something like this. Our dogs are 10 and 12. I dread the inevitable day.
Really sorry Greg.  
Beezer : 2/14/2018 8:32 pm : link
We are in it here, too. Day 3 of our big guy not wanting to eat much. Watching closely, talking to our niece, a newly minted vet. Hoping he bounces back. No fun right now.

All the best.
I'm not overly  
rebel yell : 2/14/2018 8:43 pm : link
religious, but I do believe this saying: "Heaven is a place where every dog you've ever loved comes to greet you."
I saw this when I saud goodbye to my 17 year old...  
BamaBlue : 2/14/2018 8:45 pm : link
Lab-Chow mix a couple of years ago.

Terrible news  
Walt in MD : 2/14/2018 8:53 pm : link
Sorry to hear that Greg.
Sorry to  
BigBlueinDE : 2/14/2018 9:02 pm : link
hear Greg.
Sorry  
Danny Kanell : 2/14/2018 9:24 pm : link
Bud.
So sorry to hear Greg  
Stufftherun : 2/14/2018 10:29 pm : link
man's best friend, they're so unique.
I’m so sorry Greg  
DonQuixote : 2/14/2018 10:33 pm : link
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Was just thinking...  
trueblueinpw : 2/14/2018 10:49 pm : link
Going to visit a friend of mine tomorrow who has an emotional support dog and a question occurred to me, aren’t all dogs for emotional support? Sorry man, loss is the only downside to having a wonderful pet.

Nothing real can be threatened. Nothing unreal exists. Herein lies the peace of God.
So sorry to hear that  
DG : 2/14/2018 10:57 pm : link
Greg. I've had to have 2 put down in the past 2 years..my deepest sympathies.
RE: if I had one wish?  
Mr. Bungle : 2/14/2018 11:12 pm : link
In comment 13832749 santacruzom said:
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Dogs' average lifespan increases to 50.

It still wouldn't be enough.
Sad news...  
Torrag : 2/14/2018 11:58 pm : link
...but every day you have with them is a good day. Good luck.
It will never get easy Greg  
A-Train : 2/15/2018 12:19 am : link
I just went through this 3 weeks ago with my cat of 18 years. Gave him a last meal of fried chicken and cream cheese. I will never forget being with each of my feline friends for the last time. I cried every time.
Enjoy every last moment and know that it is a brave, final act of love for your friend. You were lucky to have each other.
Greg.....  
Giants1956 : 2/15/2018 6:30 am : link
Good luck, Man~
So sorry.  
Bubba : 2/15/2018 6:40 am : link
Having gone through this a few months ago myself I know how you feel. Keep well.
So sorry to hear.  
Giantgator : 2/15/2018 6:54 am : link
Animals give (and get) such pure love.
Sorry Greg  
Tom from LI : 2/15/2018 7:10 am : link
That really sucks.
It really does suck  
Shirk130 : 2/15/2018 7:23 am : link
and I hope you find some comfort in the realization that you gave each other so much happiness over the years.
it really is the worst  
BronxBombers : 2/15/2018 9:01 am : link
i lost mine about a year ago, 16 years old, got her in college...i still have pics of her all around my life...we have another dog that is 10, his health seems ok...but when he goes, that is it for us, with kids, its just too much to give them the attention and love they deserve plus the ending being just plain awful.
RE: Sorry to hear it Greg -  
Greg from LI : 2/15/2018 9:01 am : link
In comment 13832716 Del Shofner said:
Quote:
we've lost a couple over the years - doesn't make it easier. I can't even think of losing our current dog, although I know it will happen eventually. Just remember that you gave her a good life by being a devoted dog owner and companion. And I hope you get another dog when you're ready ...


Del, we will someday, but we still have another dog, a 10 year old dachshund. Not sure she'd tolerate a new puppy.
Hurts me everytime I  
section125 : 2/15/2018 9:02 am : link
read about families losing their dog.

Sorry Greg.
Sorry Greg  
Kevin in Annapolis : 2/15/2018 9:18 am : link
we put down our 13 year old Golden just before New Years. It sucks, not other way to say it.

Enjoy your last few hours with her, shower her with love and pets, and tell her how good she is.
Sorry man.  
Heisenberg : 2/15/2018 9:45 am : link
I lost my yellow lab to brain cancer at 13. It sucks.
So sorry for your loss, Greg  
RiffRaff : 2/15/2018 9:50 am : link
I completely know what you're going through. I've had to put down several family pets over my life time. It's never easy. Tears you up, but you've still got your good memories of your pooch. You'll miss her, but she'll always be with you.

Hang in there buddy.
I'm trying to look at it this way  
Greg from LI : 2/15/2018 9:58 am : link
We adopted her from the Yuma County shelter when she was 3 months old. She was literally one day from the needle because no one wanted her for whatever reasons. Instead of 3 months, she got 13 happy years.
Sorry greg  
LatHarv83 : 2/15/2018 10:03 am : link
Lost a pet this past summer myself, never easy. I didn’t go the euthanasia route and the final couple days seemed rough. She was old and it happened very fast. In hindsight right now I still struggle with that decision and am not sure if I did the right thing or what I’d do next time

Plenty of animals out here dying prematurely or tragically every day. You were able to give yours a long and fulfilling life. It’s a coping mechanism to have that outlook for sure, but it’s also a fact
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