cousin I never met before, getting married in a state I'd have to fly to, and my kids aren't invited (just my wife and I) = wedding I'm not going to.
What is the appropriate gift?
cash is always my preference so $150? Is that cheap?
Some appliance off the registry?
jokes, insults, post them all, hopefully I get a reasonable suggestion sprinkled in...
Frankly, not knowing them and not attending I don’t think obligates you at all. Of course your relationship with their parents etc is also a factor there.
So, not close.
but I'm going to send something.
thanks for the replies.
I'm guessing in many states $150 is more than they would expect under the circumstances you described.
When I got married I wouldn’t have thought twice about someone who declined the invite not sending any gift. Especially if I never met them.
$150 should be fine. $100 would be ok, but, my opinion is $150 would be more appropriate. I may actually simply respectively decline rather than sending $100. It depends on your Aunt and Uncle. Were you close with them? Was your Mom or Dad close to them?
I way over analyze these situations. $150 or a simple decline
Had my wife and I fooled for weeks.