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Big Al : 8/12/2019 3:03 pm
Probably the weirdest thing i have asked advice about in 20 years here. Have some houseguests here including a child almost 3 and my wive’s sister.

First I don’t believe in ghosts and think it is nonsense. Yesterday the child said something about seeing a ghost in the hallway. My wife and I assured her there were no ghosts in the house and the child was fine. She even came in a little later with her sheet on her saying she was a ghost. She was laughing.

In the middle of the night I hear a tape in the hallway playing on a cellphone.and catch something about driving out demons. I shut it off. The next morning I tell my sister in law she can’t play stuff like that in
my hallway especially without my permission.

I just get back from dropping my wife off somewhere and guess what is playing on the hallway again.

I tell her she can’t do that and she is defiant and hurls a bunch of Jesus Christ’s at me like I am a vampire.

Any thoughts on what I should do (and about kids and ghosts)?




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Is your wife on your side of this  
Sneakers O'toole : 8/12/2019 3:09 pm : link
or her sister's?
Putting a small dose of Xanax in there food comes to mind  
Eli2020 : 8/12/2019 3:09 pm : link
But if we're going to keep our moral standards, I would just ignore it.

You can't fix crazy and they'll be gone soon enough.
Your sister in law  
Metnut : 8/12/2019 3:09 pm : link
is a lunatic.
I talked with her  
Big Al : 8/12/2019 3:11 pm : link
yesterday and she agree with my position. However I am waiting for a call from her to pick her up from the eye doctor so I don’t know yet,
If she's on your side  
Sneakers O'toole : 8/12/2019 3:14 pm : link
I'd ask the wife to talk to her. Might go better.
Just so I'm clear on this  
pjcas18 : 8/12/2019 3:15 pm : link
you want the demons to stay in your house instead of being driven out?

Any time someone offers to drive demons out of my house I usually take them up on the offer.
Your House, Your Rules  
Boatie Warrant : 8/12/2019 3:16 pm : link
Don't like them? There is the door.

On the flip side, is it a big deal? If you don't believe in ghosts then her attempts at "getting rid of demons" shouldn't really matter to you.
I think this is a simply matter of  
Mike from Ohio : 8/12/2019 3:17 pm : link
"This is my house, please respect my wishes."

Not that you could answer this, but why be afraid of something that can be chased off with a recording? If it is that powerless I would suggest you all jump it in the hallway and noogie it until it leaves on it's own.
How hawt is the Sister in-law?  
Diver_Down : 8/12/2019 3:18 pm : link
Just curious how she falls on the crazy/hot scale. If she's hawt, please post pics.
The demons  
Big Al : 8/12/2019 3:18 pm : link
have never bothered me in the 30 years I have been here. Maybe they find I am a kindred spirit.
RE: How hawt is the Sister in-law?  
Big Al : 8/12/2019 3:20 pm : link
In comment 14527907 Diver_Down said:
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Just curious how she falls on the crazy/hot scale. If she's hawt, please post pics.
Too old for most of you guys.
RE: The demons  
pjcas18 : 8/12/2019 3:20 pm : link
In comment 14527908 Big Al said:
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have never bothered me in the 30 years I have been here. Maybe they find I am a kindred spirit.


Maybe they've spent the past 30 years waiting for the right time to pounce and it hasn't exactly presented itself, but it's getting close.

It could also be a case of they moved the head stones but they didn't move the bodies and they're using the little kid to drive them to the light or stay out of the light - I forget - Coach got confused too.

just saying, demons <> good and driving out demons = good.

be careful here.
Maybe she could train them instead of driving them out.  
Sneakers O'toole : 8/12/2019 3:21 pm : link
Guard demons would be highly effective home defense. Not sure how you feed them though.
I notice the cat  
Big Al : 8/12/2019 3:23 pm : link
often stares at things I don’t see. Could he be also seeing the demons?
RE: Maybe she could train them instead of driving them out.  
Diver_Down : 8/12/2019 3:25 pm : link
In comment 14527925 Sneakers O'toole said:
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Guard demons would be highly effective home defense. Not sure how you feed them though.


Apparently, nuts.
RE: I notice the cat  
Mike from Ohio : 8/12/2019 3:28 pm : link
In comment 14527931 Big Al said:
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often stares at things I don’t see. Could he be also seeing the demons?


Sounds the like cat in the Sopranos that stared at Chris' picture after he died. Did you know they steal the breath from babies?
RE: RE: I notice the cat  
Big Al : 8/12/2019 3:29 pm : link
In comment 14527948 Mike from Ohio said:
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In comment 14527931 Big Al said:


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often stares at things I don’t see. Could he be also seeing the demons?



Sounds the like cat in the Sopranos that stared at Chris' picture after he died. Did you know they steal the breath from babies?
i need to throw my cat in the lake to see if he floats.
RE: I notice the cat  
JesseS : 8/12/2019 3:30 pm : link
In comment 14527931 Big Al said:
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often stares at things I don’t see. Could he be also seeing the demons?


Al, I'm a therapist - lots of experience - but just my two cents.

Remove her head from her body. Bury the head and the body in two different places. Then ask why your sister in law has to visit and that it should only be done outside of your house going forward - that's if the head separation doesn't work. But I'm Jewish, and I know gentiles have different methodology.
I just asked Siri  
Big Al : 8/12/2019 3:35 pm : link
are ghosts real? Her response was “Not that I know of”? That should settle it.
What if stopping her opens up the gateway  
eli4life : 8/12/2019 3:36 pm : link
For a full paranormal invasion?
.  
arcarsenal : 8/12/2019 3:36 pm : link
Has anyone suggested a blast in the butt for the SiL?
RE: RE: I notice the cat  
Big Al : 8/12/2019 3:37 pm : link
In comment 14527958 JesseS said:
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often stares at things I don’t see. Could he be also seeing the demons?



Al, I'm a therapist - lots of experience - but just my two cents.

Remove her head from her body. Bury the head and the body in two different places. Then ask why your sister in law has to visit and that it should only be done outside of your house going forward - that's if the head separation doesn't work. But I'm Jewish, and I know gentiles have different methodology.
Me too. Maybe this mixing stuff is not working.
In my family  
Burtman : 8/12/2019 3:37 pm : link
I have full control when it's my side of the family and my wife has full control when it's her side of the family. Tell your wife how you feel and then it's her problem to fix.

BTW, was the ghost a Giants fan?
call the  
madgiantscow009 : 8/12/2019 3:41 pm : link
exorcist.
RE: In my family  
Big Al : 8/12/2019 3:42 pm : link
In comment 14527976 Burtman said:
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I have full control when it's my side of the family and my wife has full control when it's her side of the family. Tell your wife how you feel and then it's her problem to fix.

BTW, was the ghost a Giants fan?
My
guess Cowboys.
this was posted in the Sam Beal thread  
madgiantscow009 : 8/12/2019 3:42 pm : link
Thanks guys  
Big Al : 8/12/2019 3:46 pm : link
I need some stress relief waiting for my wife to call to be picked up to see if the shit hits the fan. Hopefully she won’t be able to see too well with her eyes dilated.
Moved into our house in 1998.  
Beezer : 8/12/2019 3:52 pm : link
Strange things started happening that first night, and while it goes in waves (couple months on, as much as a year or two off), there is absolutely activity in our home. So many stories that confirm it for me. And when they were little (they're 21 and 18 now) both our kids saw a little girl in the house - completely independently of each other. Ots more stories but I'll be anti-Beez today and leave it at that.

If they're just visiting, no biggie. And if you're not sensitive to it, then no biggie. But as someone who has experienced 2 and a half decades of it, I believe, without question.
RE: Moved into our house in 1998.  
Big Al : 8/12/2019 3:54 pm : link
In comment 14528022 Beezer said:
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Strange things started happening that first night, and while it goes in waves (couple months on, as much as a year or two off), there is absolutely activity in our home. So many stories that confirm it for me. And when they were little (they're 21 and 18 now) both our kids saw a little girl in the house - completely independently of each other. Ots more stories but I'll be anti-Beez today and leave it at that.

If they're just visiting, no biggie. And if you're not sensitive to it, then no biggie. But as someone who has experienced 2 and a half decades of it, I believe, without question.
Can I send my ghost over to you? That would solve the problem.
RE: Moved into our house in 1998.  
BillKo : 8/12/2019 4:11 pm : link
In comment 14528022 Beezer said:
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Strange things started happening that first night, and while it goes in waves (couple months on, as much as a year or two off), there is absolutely activity in our home. So many stories that confirm it for me. And when they were little (they're 21 and 18 now) both our kids saw a little girl in the house - completely independently of each other. Ots more stories but I'll be anti-Beez today and leave it at that.

If they're just visiting, no biggie. And if you're not sensitive to it, then no biggie. But as someone who has experienced 2 and a half decades of it, I believe, without question.


Beez, you've written about this before.

I guess never gave consideration to moving?

Hey Burtman  
Big Al : 8/12/2019 5:13 pm : link
My former comrade in arms against the barbarians at the gates. Have not seen you around for a while.
RE: I notice the cat  
steve in ky : 8/12/2019 5:15 pm : link
In comment 14527931 Big Al said:
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often stares at things I don’t see. Could he be also seeing the demons?


As long as you don't wake up to the cat staring at you with exposed claws ready to sacrifice you, I think you are OK.
When people..  
FatMan in Charlotte : 8/12/2019 6:25 pm : link
do nutty shit like that, I crack jokes at them.

If someone were strange enough to play a recording urging demons to leave, that would be fodder for the rest of our family gatherings.

I might just start randomly yelling "BOO!" just for the fuck of it!
It's all fun and games  
Sneakers O'toole : 8/12/2019 6:31 pm : link
until the demons put your eye out.
I hope not.  
Big Al : 8/12/2019 6:34 pm : link
The second of my two cataract surgeries is due on Wednesday. Don’t want to go through that for nothing,
'You can't fix crazy and they'll be gone soon enough'...  
Torrag : 8/12/2019 6:38 pm : link
Ding , ding, ding. Plus you tell your wife what happened and she has to handle her sister from now on. Problem solved.
By the way  
Big Al : 8/12/2019 6:46 pm : link
I just recalled the words she used. I was”rebuked in the name of Kesus Christ” about three times. Do I need to fear about this?
Sorry for my typing.  
Big Al : 8/12/2019 6:48 pm : link
Jesus
RE: Sorry for my typing.  
BlueLou'sBack : 8/13/2019 1:52 am : link
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Jesus


Jesus will no doubt forgive you; but your wife might not regarding poking fun at her sister, or even her sister's mishugas. If your wife has spent a lifetime ignoring your sil's cuckoo, she might not want that stone overturned, either.

If your sil looks like madgiantscow's gypsy, send your wife on a two week vacay and get to the bottom of the issue with the sil...

We all have "demons" in our family if we peel away enough layers or widen the circle to 3rd cousins thrice removed, I imagine.

None of that ramble was intended to help at all. But you weren't really asking for help, were you? Or you'd let the tapes run and be glad for them.
You have to steer into this I think  
NoGainDayne : 8/13/2019 3:00 am : link
say that the ghost appeared to you in the night and demanded the tape stop or it would posses any children in the house.

Be sure to also add that you know it's crazy you didn't believe in ghosts before this but the encounter was so vivid you have no choice but to believe now.
Convince your wife  
Les in TO : 8/13/2019 6:15 am : link
That her sis is bat shit crazy and that you can’t be in the house while she’s playing exorcist
RE: RE: Moved into our house in 1998.  
Beezer : 8/13/2019 7:21 am : link
In comment 14528076 BillKo said:
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In comment 14528022 Beezer said:


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Strange things started happening that first night, and while it goes in waves (couple months on, as much as a year or two off), there is absolutely activity in our home. So many stories that confirm it for me. And when they were little (they're 21 and 18 now) both our kids saw a little girl in the house - completely independently of each other. Ots more stories but I'll be anti-Beez today and leave it at that.

If they're just visiting, no biggie. And if you're not sensitive to it, then no biggie. But as someone who has experienced 2 and a half decades of it, I believe, without question.



Beez, you've written about this before.

I guess never gave consideration to moving?


Not really.

A priest came in within maybe 3-4 months. Went through the house. Seemed to quiet things but only for a relatively short time. Then more stuff. We have never felt threatened or unsafe. Just ... tons of weird things that when I tell the stories, would seem not believable if we hadn’t been in the middle of it.

Not sure if it was coincidence, but you know that thing where they say if you renovate and start to tear up old historical things, you get a flare up of activity? Huge case of that roughly a year and a half ago when we did the upstairs bathroom remodel. It was definitely noticed by “someone.” But we had a chat (lol) and it died down somewhat quickly.

I wonder  
Big Al : 8/13/2019 7:43 am : link
if my having a chat with the demon will satisfy my sister in law.
I had very wierd personal experience I can't explain...  
BamaBlue : 8/13/2019 7:46 am : link
within a couple of months of my Mother's death, I was on the phone with my Dad. Throughout my life, my Dad and I have had a contentious relationship and my Mother always mediated. As I'm arguing with my Dad, the light switch in my study flipped off. At first, I thought the light blew out, but when I went to the light switch, it gave me a chill, because it had flipped off. I flipped the light on and reconciled that I must have flipped the switch half-way on, and continued the heated discussion with my Dad. within a minute, the light flipped off again at the switch. This time, I got a big chill down my neck and got out of the room.

Never happened before or since.
RE: I wonder  
Les in TO : 8/13/2019 7:52 am : link
In comment 14528697 Big Al said:
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if my having a chat with the demon will satisfy my sister in law.
how long are they staying at your house?
The circumstance are complicated.  
Big Al : 8/13/2019 8:26 am : link
She had a hard three years after quitting her job and moving to Vancouver from the Bahamas to take care of their mother who died earlier this year at the age of 96. She came here in late May to attend a friend’s son graduation and has since been using this as a base to take a European vacation with my wife and another sister and taking various trips to visit friends and relatives on the East coast (and also job hunting through the internet). My wife has asked me to give her time to get her life back together but no set time to leave was ever set.

Last night at bedtime I had a talk with my wife and we both agreed that she will have to leave very soon. Some hard talks are coming up today. I would guess she will either go back to live in her mother’s house ( which I think she will inherit) or find a friend or relative to “temporarily” move in with. I don’t think she has any further ties back in the Bahamas.

I have tried to be patient with her because she has made personal sacrifices on behalf of the family but we have had run ins before because she tends to try to throw herself into other people’s business. A condition of her coming here was agreed by to my wife that she be stopped immediately if she did this here.
I feel for you  
Les in TO : 8/13/2019 8:44 am : link
But it sounds like she has options so it’s time to reclaim your space sanity and demon free house

Houseguests and fish both start to stink after three days. In law guests maybe two days
Not buying it  
NYDCBlue : 8/13/2019 10:26 am : link
There is no way any self respecting Ghoul, Ghost, Shade, or Specter would want to haunt a house like this....
Big Al's crib - ( New Window )
Hey Al,  
Burtman : 8/13/2019 10:53 am : link
I flipped sides and became one of the barbarians. They have better dental.
RE: Hey Al,  
Big Al : 8/13/2019 11:01 am : link
In comment 14528919 Burtman said:
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I flipped sides and became one of the barbarians. They have better dental.
Has our old friend Matt been back for any reunions with you Professor?
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