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moespree : 8/17/2019 12:49 pm
His name was Shemp and he was a 15 year old Basset Hound.

Though I could see signs, and his age being an obvious thing....it still felt like a shock to me. He had his best day in a long time this past Tuesday, but there was nothing that could be done. It all just happened early this morning. He aspirated and his lungs clogged with fluid.

This is particularly difficult for me because for most of his life it was just me and him. Also due to circumstances in my life and work I was with him pretty much 24/7 for 15 years and that's no exaggeration. 24/7.

I've been told by people today that 15 years for any dog let alone a Basset Hound whose average age is 8-10 is remarkable and that I should be proud of the life I gave him. I am proud of that and I suppose in time that will give me some comfort. But as of this moment now I'm really struggling with the whole thing.

He was a very special dog to me and I will miss him very much.

I don't usually make posts like this, but I thought this might help me out a bit to talk it through, so thanks for reading.
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I'm sorry for your loss man  
BestFeature : 8/17/2019 12:51 pm : link
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Sorry to hear that, Moe  
Vanzetti : 8/17/2019 12:51 pm : link
Shemp is a great name for a dog
My heart goes out to you buddy.  
Bold Ruler : Mod : 8/17/2019 12:54 pm : link
Know that I am thinking of you from Vermont. Breathe and exhale... the pain will pass.
It's rough man. Trust me I know.  
Jints in Carolina : 8/17/2019 12:56 pm : link
He lived a nice long life and was loved. That's all you can ever ask for.

My sincere condolences.
RIP  
MadPlaid : 8/17/2019 12:58 pm : link
So sorry for your loss.
Sorry for your loss, man.  
Gene : 8/17/2019 12:58 pm : link
You can take comfort in the fact you gave a very special dog a good life.
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Ryan in Albany : 8/17/2019 1:12 pm : link
We can never keep them long enough, but what a wonderful, long life for Shemp. My condolences.
Losing your best friend is awful  
xman : 8/17/2019 1:13 pm : link
no getting around it. You are lucky to have had so many of those days. Sorry for your loss .
I’m sorry for your loss.  
PersonalFoul : 8/17/2019 1:13 pm : link
I had to put my dog down a few years ago, and even though I thought I was prepared, it hit me like a ton of bricks. It’s never easy. Truly an amazing bond between people and dogs. Hard to imagine now, but it will get better as time goes on.
Sorry for  
XBRONX : 8/17/2019 1:14 pm : link
your loss. Dogs are wonderful
Yeah it’s always tough with dogs  
Payasdaddy : 8/17/2019 1:15 pm : link
Fact is in a few ways I love them more than most humans
My two Germans shepherds passed in 2011 ( right in front of me. Went into shock. Was sluggish but didn’t expect that) and my favorite of all time 2013
Had a hard battle with acl tears and that type of nerve damage they get when they are old)
Probably kept her around longer than I should’ve
Got right back on my horse so to speak and got me a wonderful gsd from gsd rescue. Have had her for 6.5 yrs. she probably only has 2-3 left
Yeah it stinks but getting another dog ASAP helped me a lot. Never fill void but they grow on you quick
Sorry for your loss
I'm very sorry for your loss.  
Giants61 : 8/17/2019 1:28 pm : link
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They are all special to us  
allstarjim : 8/17/2019 1:36 pm : link
There's nothing like the special bond between dog and man. I'm so sorry for your loss. I have an 11 year old yellow lab and I know my time with him is running short. I know when that day comes, the understanding of those that love their dogs like I love mine will be a help, but nothing will take away the pain of that loss. A part of your heart will be with Shemp forever, and that's the way it should be, because that's what makes it worth it, and this inevitable process all of us dog lovers will go through is the cost we pay for the love and bond they give to us.

Cherish his memory, as I know you will, and honestly, you really should be proud that you gave him such a good life. You made a difference for him. So many dogs out there don't get that chance.

God bless, and my sympathies.
Feel for you and Shep  
SCGiantsFan : 8/17/2019 1:46 pm : link
Hard to lose those you care for so dearly.
I'm sorry for your loss bud.....  
Kev in Cali : 8/17/2019 1:47 pm : link
It's not easy losing a pal that's been a part of your life for so long. Cherish the memories and just know they lived a good, long and fulfilling life.
I'm sorry, brother...  
rebel yell : 8/17/2019 1:47 pm : link
I keep mentally preparing myself for the same with my aging coonhound, but nothing can really prepare you for the loss of a companion who is steadfast, loyal, never judgmental and always loving. Very few humans have those attributes, but dogs sure do. Hang in there. It might not feel like it, but eventually the pain will subside and what remains will be the happy memories.
Still think about my German shepherd  
justafan : 8/17/2019 1:48 pm : link
At least once a week and it's been teep year's. Her name was beast and as I always dais, she was my beast friend. But i think about the good rarely the end. Sorry buddy. Dogs are such good pals. I got this picture of her in a Justin tuck jersey the second time we downed the pats. Love that pic.
sorry for your loss  
RasputinPrime : 8/17/2019 1:53 pm : link
truly our best friends.
Sorry to hear that.  
GiantsUA : 8/17/2019 1:54 pm : link
Dog's are the best, hopefully in the future you will get another dog.
I’m sorry for your loss.  
odunde : 8/17/2019 1:57 pm : link
As a dog owner it’s hard to think about.
You're not alone  
Poktown Pete : 8/17/2019 2:10 pm : link
It's awful, I know.

As some have already said here, it's the price we pay for having the blessing of such a loyal friend in our lives.

If dogs go to the hereafter (and I'd like to believe they do in some form or another)then we can hope to be with them again someday! I hope the following helps:


Rainbow Bridge Poem


Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our pets are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.

The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; Her eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flyingover the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress thebeloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your dog, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

~Author Unknown
It is the worst  
X : 8/17/2019 2:12 pm : link
cried for two weeks when my Lab died. Hang in there.
im very sorry  
mattlawson : 8/17/2019 2:22 pm : link
it sucks
So sorry for your loss Moe  
Blue21 : 8/17/2019 2:27 pm : link
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My  
AcidTest : 8/17/2019 2:34 pm : link
condolences. I am very sorry for your loss.
Sorry for your loss  
OdellBeckhamJr : 8/17/2019 2:50 pm : link
you think you know how much you love your furry fella when they're alive but once they're gone its crazy how big of a place they had in your heart.

I lost my 14 year old black lab a couple years ago and not a day goes by where I don't think about him.
God Bless you and Shemp  
No Where Man : 8/17/2019 2:57 pm : link
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Sorry for Your Loss,  
clatterbuck : 8/17/2019 3:19 pm : link
those that get it, who have experienced the love and companionship, understand fully.
always a sad time  
ColHowPepper : 8/17/2019 3:42 pm : link
when this happens, and somehow tears flow more easily for a beloved pet on whom we project our entire inner life and love. Bear up as best you can and honor him, and yourself
sorry for your loss  
snickers : 8/17/2019 3:44 pm : link
We have had 4 dogs and it never gets easier. Unconditional love and more of the same. I would not want it any other way but believe me I feel your pain. Memory eternal.
Sorry for your loss - hang in there  
Daniel in Kentucky : 8/17/2019 3:55 pm : link
When I lost my dog I cried like a baby.
I know how rough it can be.
Very sorry to hear moespree  
Dr. D : 8/17/2019 4:22 pm : link
Funny, i was just thinking of my late friend right before i saw your post.

My Airedale, Tiki, was 15 and a half when i had to put him to sleep about 13 mos. ago. I cried like a baby a lot. Sucks.

Hang in there.
Sorry for your loss, Moe  
adamg : 8/17/2019 4:26 pm : link
It seems pretty clear you were a great owner and dad to him. I hope you start to remember more of the good times and focus less on this tough time. But, it's perfectly legitimate to feel bad and mourn. Hope you start to feel better soon.
RIP  
pjcas18 : 8/17/2019 4:28 pm : link
Schemp, sorry for your loss Moe.

No words I can say to help you feel better, just offering my condolences.
Sorry moespree...  
Jimmy Googs : 8/17/2019 4:51 pm : link
the day your dog dies is just an awful one for certain. In so many ways, dogs are just better than people...
Sorry for your loss  
davek3698 : 8/17/2019 5:09 pm : link
Here's another nice, apropos poem.
I Loved You Best - ( New Window )
you lost  
FranchiseQB : 8/17/2019 5:12 pm : link
a member of your family. I wish you well and hope in time you can heal and find another great companion.
Man's best friend says it all  
Torrag : 8/17/2019 5:38 pm : link
RIP Shemp. Those of us that have traveled this road understand what you're feeling. Unconditional love. Be well.
It is tremendous pain and grief  
arniefez : 8/17/2019 5:41 pm : link
I feel for you. Some people will never understand don't worry at all about them. I hope you can find some peace quickly. Talk to people who understand and try to be around caring people.
RIP Shemp!  
GiantSteps : 8/17/2019 5:49 pm : link
Just sending out best wishes. I miss my dogs as much as ever, and it's been years since they passed. They're family members.
I want to thank you all for the kind words  
moespree : 8/17/2019 5:52 pm : link
They mean a lot to me and I appreciate them all.
Sorry for your loss  
steve in ky : 8/17/2019 5:58 pm : link
Losing a pet that is dear to you isn’t easy. Sounds like you gave him a great life and I hope the fond memories you have of him will eventually help to ease the pain you currently now feel.
sorry for your loss  
bc4life : 8/17/2019 5:58 pm : link
It sucks, been through it a few times
Sorry for your loss  
Archer : 8/17/2019 6:01 pm : link
Just think how lucky your dog was to have you as his friend
Sorry for your loss.  
SFGFNCGiantsFan : 8/17/2019 6:42 pm : link
:-(
Man that's sad....  
rnargi : 8/17/2019 6:46 pm : link
Sorry pal, hope you are ok. My "pup" is fading quickly and I'm dreading the day.
Aw man. I’m sorry  
Steve L : 8/17/2019 8:51 pm : link
Peace and love to him, you and your family.
So sorry about your buddy  
Watson : 8/17/2019 9:12 pm : link
Dogs are amazing creatures. Sounds like u gave him a long loving life.
Many  
MattinKY : 8/17/2019 9:14 pm : link
of us have been down this road; I have had dogs all my life and no matter how they left this world it was too soon and too hard on the dog and myself. The last 2 I lost were both 15. One died in my arms and the other laid down in the backyard and passed instantly. That was 2009 and 2013 respectively and not a day goes by I don't miss them both. I believe they made me a better person. I only hope they felt I gave them half as much as they gave me.
There truly are no words that help. Just know your buddy will never leave you.
its a hard thing to deal with  
Giant John : 8/17/2019 9:40 pm : link
Sorry.
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