I'm dropping my son next Monday for his first year at West Point. He's transferring from the University of Washington where he was in a frat, so it's going to be a dramatic adjustment to his sleep and drinking schedule.
There's a two week delay in the first summer basic training due to the virus. All new cadets will be tested day 1, and they are planning in-person classes starting in the Fall on schedule. If there's anywhere that can control campus and students, it's West Point.
Does anyone have experience (especially as a parent) with West Point? I know he won't have off-base privileges for a while, but I think there are times when we can go and see him. He has a few days at Thanksgiving and two weeks over Christmas.
He's pumped about it, we couldn't be more proud of him. He's a big Giants fan, so hopefully there's going to be a weekend that we can go to an Army game and a Giants game when he can leave campus in the next few years.
Thank your son for his service to this great nation.
If you are quasi-local, then my advice is to get season tickets to Army Football (although, I am not sure that's doable this year). Then you can see him every game; meet at the game (at half-time they can leave the cadet seating and go sit with you) and then tailgate until about dinner time when they have to return (can't leave the grounds).
I’m sure he will do well, I wish him the best.
I wasn’t around when he went to school there (I was on the West Coast), but there are definitely a handful of days family is invited to attend certain events.
Won't be easy, but stick it through.
In the spring, visiting on Saturdays during parades is good too. BTW, cadets generally hate the parades.
During Beast Barracks and during the school week when classes start is not really a good time to visit of course and he would likely not be able to see you anyway unless the rules have changed.
I have no idea what constraints have been put in place for covid, so pls read my post w that in mind. And I have information based on my son, I have no idea what might have changed since he graduated.
One thing to keep in mind is West Point is an active military base and must adhere to proper guidelines and threat assessments. I would go up at times and it was easy to get on base, other times the security was very strict but I was never turned away. Just make sure you bring a photo government-issued ID. The other thing to remember that while half the corps have not made their commitment to the military yet (that happens the first day of class their 3rd year) they live a military life. Things change quickly, they're not given much notice and rarely given the opportunity to ask questions why.
So as I said, you can visit whenever you want as long as your son is available. They have a lot of on their schedule, especially plebe year, but they're not on lockdown. For example, I was able to play golf on the military course on campus with my son a few times his plebe year. There are a lot more restrictions on the plebes, the most relevant to your question is a limitation on where they could go. In general, they are allowed into Highland Falls and a few other nearby places at certain times (weekends, etc). No offense to any BBI folks that live in Highland Falls, but good luck finding a good meal or anything interesting to do there. Plebes were allocated 1 pass per semester to really leave, usually started Friday night and ended Sunday night. The number would increase for each year to the point it was unlimited his senior year (again, assuming something else wasn't going on that required him to remain on base). Cadets can also earn additional passes, but I believe there is a limit. Also, cadets get a pass if they were to attend an away athletic event a West Point team was playing in. For example, if you live in Maryland and the Army lacrosse team was playing John Hopkins your son could get a pass for that weekend if he attended the game.
The recommendation to get football season tickets is a very good one, that's what we did and saw him often during the fall semester. My son played baseball, so we traveled up there for a ton of games during the Spring semester.
Thayer Hotel is on campus and offers a finer dining area but also a grill room where we often ate. My son also liked to eat at the Hacienda in Highland Falls and I'm pretty sure that is within the travel limits of plebes. He also liked to order delivery from a sandwich place called Schade's in Highland Falls, it might be nice to see if you could open an account for him (they didn't offer this in the past but maybe they do now).
I remember how lost I was trying to get info, so feel free to reply w any other questions.
I will say receiving mail is really helpful especially during the summer.
Start planning now if you are going to attend a game or plan to visit in the fall semester but there is so much unknown right now. The reality is you may not see him till Christmas break since he may very well just go home with a more local classmate as Thanksgiving travel could be problematic. Until then get those pens ready.
I'm trying to get my son to consider USNA. Right now, it's a losing battle.
As was mentioned earlier, the Thayer Hotel is the best place in Highland Falls. If you're willing to drive a short distance, there;s a local restaurant with multiple locations, Cosimo's, that I would highly recommend. There's one in Central Valley, and another in the Town of Newburgh (dramatically better than the city). I'd also recommend Schlesinger's Steak House in New Windsor (great cigar bar as well).
Bear Mountain State Park is a 10 minute drive down Rt. 9W from the Point...great to place to walk around. I would also suggest, if they have fans this year, attending a football game in early/mid October. The foliage is perfect at that time, and it is an amazing view.
Which reminds me...when you drop him off on R Day, take the time to do some of the events. Buy a coat at the coat factory, take a Ferry ride up the Hudson, eat at the Officer’s Club...
If you’ve never been, and it sounds macabre, but tour the West Point cemetery. It’s an awesome, somber place with great history. The West Point museum just outside the Highland Falls gate is also worthwhile. And, even if you don’t eat or stay there, take a walk around the lobby of the Thayer Hotel.
One exception to this is Beast Barracks. In fact, it was the longest time we weren't able to contact my son while he was at the academy or active service.
Depending on how much free time you have there's nature and hiking all around Bear Mountain, the Gunks are a short drive away, and there's hiking outside Cold Spring. Other than the museum, there's not much to do in Highland Falls.