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Grey Pilgrim : 2/25/2021 9:26 am
The Deer Hunter has to be high on the list.

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Old Yeller..... won't ever watch that shit again.  
chopperhatch : 2/25/2021 2:39 pm : link
20 years a Slave was really tough.

I remember being taken to Awakenings when I was younger, started watching that one recently and stopped.
I thought the Pianist  
chopperhatch : 2/25/2021 2:42 pm : link
Was far more depressing than Schindler's List. I mean, at least Oskar Schindler saved many Jews' lives (albeit not altruistically at first). Szpilman emerged from the Holocaust with everybody he loved dead. But I am able to still watch both of those films.
wow for me its "road to perdition"  
Rory : 2/25/2021 2:45 pm : link
severely underrated Tom Hanks performance as a bad ass gangster but distant father/husband who ends up switching roles over time
J.T.  
rnargi : 2/25/2021 2:55 pm : link
...
Passion of the Christ  
Jimmy Googs : 2/25/2021 2:56 pm : link
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Midnight Express  
No Where Man : 2/25/2021 3:04 pm : link
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Angela's ashes  
TheEvilLurker : 2/25/2021 3:05 pm : link
Really long...I guess it ends happier, but depressing.
RE: Learn to swim  
j_rud : 2/25/2021 3:09 pm : link
In comment 15161509 UConn4523 said:
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-MJK


See you down in Arizona Bay
RE: I thought the Pianist  
Matt M. : 2/25/2021 3:11 pm : link
In comment 15161559 chopperhatch said:
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Was far more depressing than Schindler's List. I mean, at least Oskar Schindler saved many Jews' lives (albeit not altruistically at first). Szpilman emerged from the Holocaust with everybody he loved dead. But I am able to still watch both of those films.
Equally as depressing for me. No doubt.
RE: Click  
Beezer : 2/25/2021 3:12 pm : link
In comment 15161425 Steve in Greenwich said:
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I mean the look in the Fonz's eyes when all he wanted to do was hang out with his son one last time before he died and to teach him his lifelong accomplished coin magic trick only to find out his son knew the trick all along ....


Ugh. Yes.
What Dreams May Come (Robin Williams)  
Beezer : 2/25/2021 3:16 pm : link
is a great and goddamn brutal film.

Mystic River. Just leaves me with a stomach ache every time. Terribly depressing.

Local Hero. It's great and I love it. But man ... when that phone rings in the Scottish phone booth along the water's edge, and Mack is back in Houston just waiting for someone to talk to? Gets me every time.
Reign Over Me  
Beezer : 2/25/2021 3:18 pm : link
Adam Sandler, Don Cheadle.

Rough.
RE: wow for me its  
montanagiant : 2/25/2021 3:19 pm : link
In comment 15161563 Rory said:
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severely underrated Tom Hanks performance as a bad ass gangster but distant father/husband who ends up switching roles over time

Excellent movie
The Deer Hunter  
Pete in MD : 2/25/2021 3:25 pm : link
was pretty interesting IMO. A lot to take in. It's somewhat over the top from an anti-war stance but it does a good job of showing a group of guys from a working class area being sent to war and coming back damaged. DeNiro's character takes it all in and changes the way he looks at killing, so the audience does too. Now using deer hunting as a parable for war is interesting and debatable but I think the movie gets it's message across, and in an affecting way. Depressing? Yes but a really well-made movie IMO.
Blue Valentine  
Go Terps : 2/25/2021 3:30 pm : link
Ryan Gosling and Michelle Williams. If you're married, were married, or are thinking about getting married this movie is scarier than any horror flick. Nightmare.
RE: Blue Valentine  
djm : 2/25/2021 3:36 pm : link
In comment 15161623 Go Terps said:
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Ryan Gosling and Michelle Williams. If you're married, were married, or are thinking about getting married this movie is scarier than any horror flick. Nightmare.


seen it! and not long after we got married...

still married...fuck that movie. it's well done but brutal.

Honestly, nothing on the tele has depressed me more than NYG football, lately. I think we can all agree on that. Movies aren't real. NYG is like family to me. When they suck, it's like my family is shitting all over me.
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djm : 2/25/2021 3:40 pm : link
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released in, im thinking, 1983 that depicted the post-nuclear world? I think it was a TV movie.. The Day After, Morning After...something like that. I was in the Navy at the time and I remember seeing that with my co-workers while we were out at sea and man, really got to a lot of us....pretty damn impactful for its time.



It was The Day After, and it was indeed a TV movie starring Jason Robards and John Lithgow, among others. I remember watching that in elementary school and it was terrifying.


Yeah that movie gave me nightmares as a kid. For more than a few years.


Yep this one was rough and extremely popular even for back then. Everyone watched it.

A few years later, I watched a similar movie called "threads" that took place somewhere over in Great Britain. This movie was even more "gritty" or realistic and perhaps even more highly acclaimed. I was like 12 or so and it was nuts my parents let me watch this. Then again they were pretty liberal with what I could watch. The weird coincidence was I went to bed that night and ended up getting extremely sick --laid out for 3-4 days with high fever. That movie fucked me up but I don't think it made me sick. But if any movie could...be warned.
wiki page on "threads"  
djm : 2/25/2021 3:43 pm : link
..made in 84. Sure enough, I was 12.

If you want to see a movie about nuclear holocaust, this is your movie. It came out one year after TDA.
threads--took place in Sheffield England - ( New Window )
RE: A film nobody saw - Miracle Mile  
djm : 2/25/2021 3:45 pm : link
In comment 15161489 Stan in LA said:
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Los Angeles gets nuked. Final Scene - ( New Window )


I saw it. In the movie theater. It kind of broke some newer ground for touching on some social themes that were taboo. The gay guy, etc.
Eight Below  
JFIB : 2/25/2021 3:46 pm : link
I hate this F&^%$ng movie. My wife and I walked out. 8 sled dogs try to survive an arctic storm that freezes to death all but one or two and the driver. Movie sucks. I will never watch it. Animals dying in a movie is deal breaker for me.
For Me, It was Beaches  
LTIsTheGreatest : 2/25/2021 3:58 pm : link
The way they dragged out Barbara Hershey's illness and death was so depressing
RE: The Deer Hunter  
Victor in CT : 2/25/2021 4:08 pm : link
In comment 15161616 Pete in MD said:
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was pretty interesting IMO. A lot to take in. It's somewhat over the top from an anti-war stance but it does a good job of showing a group of guys from a working class area being sent to war and coming back damaged. DeNiro's character takes it all in and changes the way he looks at killing, so the audience does too. Now using deer hunting as a parable for war is interesting and debatable but I think the movie gets it's message across, and in an affecting way. Depressing? Yes but a really well-made movie IMO.


I agree. Brilliant work of cinematic art.
RE: For Me, It was Beaches  
moze1021 : 2/25/2021 4:25 pm : link
In comment 15161655 LTIsTheGreatest said:
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The way they dragged out Barbara Hershey's illness and death was so depressing


Beaches super sad... I watched that movie way more than I should have as a kid..
I think I need to add...  
moze1021 : 2/25/2021 4:26 pm : link
that I was super down for a few days after La La Land...

RE: Eight Below  
Enzo : 2/25/2021 4:29 pm : link
In comment 15161643 JFIB said:
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I hate this F&^%$ng movie. My wife and I walked out. 8 sled dogs try to survive an arctic storm that freezes to death all but one or two and the driver. Movie sucks. I will never watch it. Animals dying in a movie is deal breaker for me.

you should have stayed for the ending. Most of the dogs live!

For a feel-good Disney movie, Eight Below is pretty good.
Silent Running  
Ron from Ninerland : 2/25/2021 4:37 pm : link
Going way back here, but that was a painfully depressing movie to watch. To this day its tough for me to even listen to the Joan Baez soundtrack.
Speaking of dog  
pjcas18 : 2/25/2021 5:36 pm : link
movies, Marley and Me was pretty depressing, especially since I got it right around the time my kids were pushing to get a dog, and it came to DVD right around Easter and I was tasked when getting stuff for their Easter baskets.

Knowing nothing about the movie (I blame myself - obviously for that) I picked it up at Target when checking out with the Easter basket stuff and got home and told the kids we have a surprise movie to watch and a) it wasn't even a kids movie and b) it wasn't a comedy and c) it was pretty dark (for kids at least). Plus, the dog dies at the end. One of my kids even said she didn't want a dog anymore because she didn't think she could deal with that. The kids were 6 or 7 at the time.

Father of the year, but who the F puts a puppy on the cover of that movie and leaves it by the checkout. I can't be the only one who did that.

Red Zone Cuba  
jnoble : 2/25/2021 5:47 pm : link
starring Coleman Francis and a whole lot of running around not-Cuba and flying on light fixed wing aircraft
Ordinary People.  
chiro56 : 2/26/2021 12:50 am : link
Great movie. The family dynamics hung over me for years.
RE: Speaking of dog  
Matt M. : 2/26/2021 1:00 am : link
In comment 15161739 pjcas18 said:
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movies, Marley and Me was pretty depressing, especially since I got it right around the time my kids were pushing to get a dog, and it came to DVD right around Easter and I was tasked when getting stuff for their Easter baskets.

Knowing nothing about the movie (I blame myself - obviously for that) I picked it up at Target when checking out with the Easter basket stuff and got home and told the kids we have a surprise movie to watch and a) it wasn't even a kids movie and b) it wasn't a comedy and c) it was pretty dark (for kids at least). Plus, the dog dies at the end. One of my kids even said she didn't want a dog anymore because she didn't think she could deal with that. The kids were 6 or 7 at the time.

Father of the year, but who the F puts a puppy on the cover of that movie and leaves it by the checkout. I can't be the only one who did that.
That movie was a fleece job. The commercials made it seem like mostly a quirky family/pet movie. The depressing story was a blindside.
House of Sand and Fog...  
manh george : 2/26/2021 3:18 am : link
is near the top of the list.
Yeah I remember my wife pushing me into seeing Marley and Me  
Greg from LI : 2/26/2021 5:25 am : link
And yeah, it definitely was not the movie the commercials were selling.
RE: The Deer Hunter  
Grey Pilgrim : 2/26/2021 7:31 am : link
In comment 15161616 Pete in MD said:
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was pretty interesting IMO. A lot to take in. It's somewhat over the top from an anti-war stance but it does a good job of showing a group of guys from a working class area being sent to war and coming back damaged. DeNiro's character takes it all in and changes the way he looks at killing, so the audience does too. Now using deer hunting as a parable for war is interesting and debatable but I think the movie gets it's message across, and in an affecting way. Depressing? Yes but a really well-made movie IMO.


Good Synopsis. It's actually one of my favs.

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Forgot about  
oghwga : 2/26/2021 7:45 am : link
House of Sand and Fog.
Good call.

Brutal, great movie.

The Constant Gardener also a winner.
Constant Gardner is a good call  
UConn4523 : 2/26/2021 7:53 am : link
I’ll add

The Machinist
We Need to Talk About Kevin
The Wrestler
12 Years a Slave
Avatar was depressing for me because of all the  
MartyNJ1969 : 2/26/2021 12:03 pm : link
beautiful landscapes and sceneary I will never actually experience because I live in NJ toxic wasteland area.
I started watching Reservation Road  
santacruzom : 2/26/2021 12:04 pm : link
one night as a relatively new father, and I couldn't make it past 15 minutes.
RE: Blue Valentine  
santacruzom : 2/26/2021 12:07 pm : link
In comment 15161623 Go Terps said:
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Ryan Gosling and Michelle Williams. If you're married, were married, or are thinking about getting married this movie is scarier than any horror flick. Nightmare.


Oh yeah, that movie is quite a gauntlet.
the original Fail Safe  
santacruzom : 2/26/2021 12:08 pm : link
is also terribly depressing. I haven't seen it in two decades and it was already very old by then, but I imagine it still packs a punch.
Oh, one last one  
santacruzom : 2/26/2021 12:12 pm : link
Irreversible, but I absolutely wouldn't recommend finding out for yourself.
RE: the original Fail Safe  
Greg from LI : 2/26/2021 12:39 pm : link
In comment 15162328 santacruzom said:
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is also terribly depressing. I haven't seen it in two decades and it was already very old by then, but I imagine it still packs a punch.


I can still hear that "phone melting" sound in my head.
RE: RE: wow for me its  
Rory : 2/26/2021 1:40 pm : link
In comment 15161612 montanagiant said:
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severely underrated Tom Hanks performance as a bad ass gangster but distant father/husband who ends up switching roles over time


Excellent movie


"I'm glad it was you"

jesus
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Route 9 : 2/26/2021 1:42 pm : link
That stupid Jane Doe autopsy movie. Just nothing good happened. Bleh.
I forgot Awaoenings...  
TheEvilLurker : 2/26/2021 7:39 pm : link
Took my date to it, thought it would be a happy movie from the ads... boy was > wrong.

After the movie, we called it a night.
Awakenings  
TheEvilLurker : 2/26/2021 7:39 pm : link
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j_rud : 2/28/2021 9:57 am : link
In comment 15162459 Rory said:
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severely underrated Tom Hanks performance as a bad ass gangster but distant father/husband who ends up switching roles over time


Excellent movie



"I'm glad it was you"

jesus


Such a great movie, I dont think it gets nearly the credit it deserves. Checks a lot of boxes. Father-son movie, road trip movie, gangster movie. Some really funny moments too, like when the son is "negotiating" his cut of the mob money.
RE: The Lovely Bones.  
bw in dc : 2/28/2021 11:10 am : link
In comment 15161282 NBGblue said:
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The bad guy kind of gets away with it, and also kind of gets his comeupence in the end; but its just a downer.

Also "Sideways". An unremittingly depressing bout of wineing and whining.


I'm with you on "Lovely Bones". Children being abducted and murdered is always a crusher. Tucci is brilliant as the bad guy.

"Sideways" is actually one of my favorite movies. I think the movie ends on a nice high note when Miles goes back to visit Maya at the end.
Room (Brie Larson)  
UConn4523 : 2/28/2021 11:15 am : link
fits the bill.
The end of American Sniper  
Jimmy Googs : 2/28/2021 11:43 am : link
is tough to not get choked up...

I don't know if depressed  
River Mike : 2/28/2021 3:04 pm : link
is the right word, but No Country for Old Men left me stunned, speechless and empty. The only movie I will never watch again no matter what the circumstances.
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