Julianna Zobrist, the wife of former Chicago Cubs star Ben Zobrist, is seeking $4 million as she claimed her husband allegedly failed to “preserve marital assets” when he took a leave of absence from the Major League Baseball team in 2019.
She cheats on him, which has been known to really mess people up to the point they can't think or do their jobs right, and then she expects him to just keep playing like nothing happened.
You think so? I mean, she’ll probably get something but, since the evidence is pretty clear she was the one guilty of infidelity, wouldn’t that have a some kind of bearing on how much she receives?
It sucks that they're out there. I believe that type of scumbag are a small minority, but in the minds of many, they tarnish the entire profession.
The problem is - in the whole scope of the number of religious institutions, the number is very small. In the environment of megachurches, the number is quite high. And there is no checks and balances. In the NC/SC area, the pastors of several "non denominational" megachurches sit on each others boards and funnel money between and through each other with no oversight or accountability.
You think so? I mean, she’ll probably get something but, since the evidence is pretty clear she was the one guilty of infidelity, wouldn’t that have a some kind of bearing on how much she receives?
I don't know, I shouldn't have said that, I'm far from a legal expert and have no firsthand divorce experience.
Just seems like the woman usually gets half (at least) regardless of why the couple divorce. not counting things like child custody, alimony, etc. which also seems to favor the mother/wife
who claim that "God" wants them to have new private jets so they don't have to stop to refuel or fly commercial. And the rubes just open up their checkbooks like good little sheep. It's disgusting. And sad. And pathetic. And sort of hilarious.
You think so? I mean, she’ll probably get something but, since the evidence is pretty clear she was the one guilty of infidelity, wouldn’t that have a some kind of bearing on how much she receives?
I don't know, I shouldn't have said that, I'm far from a legal expert and have no firsthand divorce experience.
Just seems like the woman usually gets half (at least) regardless of why the couple divorce. not counting things like child custody, alimony, etc. which also seems to favor the mother/wife
Oh no doubt. Especially if you live in a state where the law basically says marital assets have to be split. I’m not sure if they have kids; if they do, I feel bad for them as, divorce sucks, especially if you’re younger. Hopefully he can come out of this without giving up too much and move on with his life.
You think so? I mean, she’ll probably get something but, since the evidence is pretty clear she was the one guilty of infidelity, wouldn’t that have a some kind of bearing on how much she receives?
Most states, divorce is no fault. In terms of a division of assets, it doesn't matter who is the "at-fault" party for the divorce. For custody of children, etc., the courts may look at stuff like this, but not for the division of assets.
I don't know, I shouldn't have said that, I'm far from a legal expert and have no firsthand divorce experience.
Just seems like the woman usually gets half (at least) regardless of why the couple divorce. not counting things like child custody, alimony, etc. which also seems to favor the mother/wife
But this specific claim (the $4MM) isn't simply about division of property, and her 50% entitlement. She's asking for half of a chunk of money he didn't get. She's saying that by retiring he was effectively dissipating a marital asset (the rest of his contract), and she's entitled to what he gave up. That's extraordinarily unlikely to be a successful argument. The fact that he could earn more than he's choosing to could factor into a) support (though given the size of the marital pot, that probably won't be an issue), and b) child support, but it's very very unlikely to factor into a hypothetically larger marital pot.
[Not an atty, so hardly the most qualified commentator, but I have worked extensively in divorce, though never in Tennessee where they're getting divorced].
You think so? I mean, she’ll probably get something but, since the evidence is pretty clear she was the one guilty of infidelity, wouldn’t that have a some kind of bearing on how much she receives?
Most states, divorce is no fault. In terms of a division of assets, it doesn't matter who is the "at-fault" party for the divorce. For custody of children, etc., the courts may look at stuff like this, but not for the division of assets.
Well, that just sucks. And I’d be willing to bet a pre-nup wasn’t signed before they married either.
You think so? I mean, she’ll probably get something but, since the evidence is pretty clear she was the one guilty of infidelity, wouldn’t that have a some kind of bearing on how much she receives?
I think Illinois is a no fault divorce state if you have been separated for a certain amount of time, and she was the one who filed for divorce.
When he played in St. Pete, the community fawned over this great Christian couple and their faith. If he is truly devoted to his faith, he probably won't fight this, especially because of their kids. And as for her career. It wasn't much with him (would she have been singing at Rays and Cubs games and the World Series if she wasn't married to Ben). Without him, she'll be just another singer.
The hypocrisy is not surprising. How many of the most cutthroat, dangerous, vindictive and cheating people go to services every Sunday and are welcomed as pillars of the church. Organized religion has no trouble accepting people who ignore the tenets of their faith on a daily basis, as long as they repeatedly show up on Sunday to 'repent' for the previous week's sins, before going right back to the same behavior when they leave the building.
of taking a look at her Instagram page out of curiosity.
She is an absolutely vile human being. Some of the shit she posted is sociopathic. And her female Christian minions just love it. It's like an entire subset of whackjobs. She plays the victim card very very well. It's Fucking disturbing.
You think so? I mean, she’ll probably get something but, since the evidence is pretty clear she was the one guilty of infidelity, wouldn’t that have a some kind of bearing on how much she receives?
I don't know, I shouldn't have said that, I'm far from a legal expert and have no firsthand divorce experience.
Just seems like the woman usually gets half (at least) regardless of why the couple divorce. not counting things like child custody, alimony, etc. which also seems to favor the mother/wife
Oh no doubt. Especially if you live in a state where the law basically says marital assets have to be split. I’m not sure if they have kids; if they do, I feel bad for them as, divorce sucks, especially if you’re younger. Hopefully he can come out of this without giving up too much and move on with his life.
They have three kids, and I don't think the oldest is even 10. She, by the way, removed all pictures of Ben AND the kids from her Instagram page.
Seriously. This should do wonders for her career as a Christian pop singer. I can see the title of her next single now.
“I love you Jesus (but if you fail to maintain your biblical promises, I’m leaving and want half)”
The everyday "Christian" doesn't care about infidelity or immorality.
What exactly are you talking about?
I'm "Christian" and personally have had multiple opportunities to commit adultery. One time (when I was single) it was with a good friend's wife. She came onto me hard, took off her shirt and put her naked tits in my face. I refused to play. A more recent op after I was married, I was away on business and a woman came onto me. I probably easily could've gotten away with it, there was no one around for miles that knew me and my wife was hundreds of miles away. I said no thanks. That's just a couple examples (could give more).
In both those cases, the women were attractive. I had a freaking boner as my friend's wife was putting her tits in my face. The only thing that kept me from playing in each one of the situations was my beliefs on fidelity and morality.
And I'm sure I'm not the only Christian that cares very much about fidelity and morality.
Not to get preachy, but Jesus said that not everyone who calls themselves a Christian, legitimately is one. The Zobrist bitch and the false pastor seem to fall into this category.
until we got someone sharing their erection history.
Glad I could help.
I won't go into my complete erection history (too many chapters) but if I did, it would start something like this:
Chapter 1: I woke up one morning when I was 12 and felt different. I wondered to myself, was my wiener for more than just whizzing? Before I knew it, a snot like substance started flying. I thought what the heck is going on?!
until we got someone sharing their erection history.
To be serious, my point was that I didn't reject my friend's wife bc she was unattractive (she resembled Cameron Diaz) or didn't turn me on. It was actually HARD to resist her, but I did so, specifically for moral reasons.
I was responding to the poster above who said "everyday Christians don't care about infidelity and immorality".
until we got someone sharing their erection history.
To be serious, my point was that I didn't reject my friend's wife bc she was unattractive (she resembled Cameron Diaz) or didn't turn me on. It was actually HARD to resist her, but I did so, specifically for moral reasons.
I was responding to the poster above who said "everyday Christians don't care about infidelity and immorality".
I’d love to know the truth on how you, as an apparently devout Christian, let a situation get to the point that you were not only alone with your good friends wife, but she felt comfortable enough with the situation you two were in at the moment that she took her shirt off and put her titties in your face.
You being a Christian and all, did you tell your friend about this? Or nah?
until we got someone sharing their erection history.
To be serious, my point was that I didn't reject my friend's wife bc she was unattractive (she resembled Cameron Diaz) or didn't turn me on. It was actually HARD to resist her, but I did so, specifically for moral reasons.
I was responding to the poster above who said "everyday Christians don't care about infidelity and immorality".
I’d love to know the truth on how you, as an apparently devout Christian, let a situation get to the point that you were not only alone with your good friends wife, but she felt comfortable enough with the situation you two were in at the moment that she took her shirt off and put her titties in your face.
You being a Christian and all, did you tell your friend about this? Or nah?
Was thinking the exact same thing. The hypocrisy is real. Or completely exaggerated in some sort of weird flex.
You telling me that’s never happened to you? You know, sitting around having a private bible study with your good friends wife, just the two of you and suddenly a set of DD’s are kicking the shit out of your face?
Huh. I’ll be damned. I thought that’s happened to all of us a dozen times or so.
You telling me that’s never happened to you? You know, sitting around having a private bible study with your good friends wife, just the two of you and suddenly a set of DD’s are kicking the shit out of your face?
Huh. I’ll be damned. I thought that’s happened to all of us a dozen times or so.
Nah. I'm not as suave and desirable as the Doctor here. Or should I say The Love Doctor.
But I will say, if my best friend's wife shoved her utters in my face, he'd be the first to know. Methinks this was a "look at me" post from TLD.
And I'm sure I'm not the only Christian that cares very much about fidelity and morality.
Bottomline is your Christianity had nothing to do with it. Atheists, Agnostics, Hindus, Muslims, Jews, Buddhists, Scientologists, etc, it makes no difference. Good people will do good things and bad people will do bad things regardless of their religious beliefs.
until we got someone sharing their erection history.
To be serious, my point was that I didn't reject my friend's wife bc she was unattractive (she resembled Cameron Diaz) or didn't turn me on. It was actually HARD to resist her, but I did so, specifically for moral reasons.
I was responding to the poster above who said "everyday Christians don't care about infidelity and immorality".
I’d love to know the truth on how you, as an apparently devout Christian, let a situation get to the point that you were not only alone with your good friends wife, but she felt comfortable enough with the situation you two were in at the moment that she took her shirt off and put her titties in your face.
You being a Christian and all, did you tell your friend about this? Or nah?
If you really want to know: it was during a party at their house. I went to the bathroom to piss. My friend's wife must have seen me go into the bathroom and just walked right in and locked the door. She said my friend had passed out and she's had the hots for me or whatever. Then the titties came out, etc.
I agonized over whether I should tell my friend or not. They had a little daughter.
I didn't know what to do. How do you tell a friend something like that? I didn't want to be part of the breakup of any family, especially that of a friend. I just hoped the wife would get her shit together.
There was another incident and I tried to talk sense into the wife. Told her she would really regret it if she wrecked her marriage (my friend was a good guy, good husband and father).
He walked into a room while I was telling her this, but I don't know if he knew that's what was happening. I later asked him if he wanted to talk about it and he declined. I ended up getting new job and moving not too long after.
The situation destroyed their marriage and my friendship, but I can honestly say I did what i thought was the right thing (morally and at least what I thought was right for my friend).
Should I have come right out and told him his wife was a slut trying to do me? I still don’t know. Like I said, I was hoping she would stop and their marriage/family would be ok.
I wish it never happened and we were still friends.
And I'm sure I'm not the only Christian that cares very much about fidelity and morality.
Bottomline is your Christianity had nothing to do with it. Atheists, Agnostics, Hindus, Muslims, Jews, Buddhists, Scientologists, etc, it makes no difference. Good people will do good things and bad people will do bad things regardless of their religious beliefs.
Once again, my response was to the one who said above:
"everyday Christians don't care about infidelity or immorality".
I never said that good morals is strictly a Christian thing.
And I'm sure I'm not the only Christian that cares very much about fidelity and morality.
Bottomline is your Christianity had nothing to do with it. Atheists, Agnostics, Hindus, Muslims, Jews, Buddhists, Scientologists, etc, it makes no difference. Good people will do good things and bad people will do bad things regardless of their religious beliefs.
My response was to Harvest Blend who specifically called out Christians for not caring about infidelity or immorality.
And you can't tell me what did or didn't influence my personal decisions.
I figure if you want to have an adulterous affair with your pastor, and you pray for guidance, and a voice tells you to go ahead, it ain't God's voice you're hearing
And you can't tell me what did or didn't influence my personal decisions.
Of course not, but you shouldn't need religion to know it's wrong to cheat. And if you need religion to give you the strength to resist cheating with the wife of a friend than you're kind of weak, don't you think? I'm not saying, I'm just saying...
And you can't tell me what did or didn't influence my personal decisions.
Of course not, but you shouldn't need religion to know it's wrong to cheat. And if you need religion to give you the strength to resist cheating with the wife of a friend than you're kind of weak, don't you think? I'm not saying, I'm just saying...
Exactly. I don’t need religion to tell me that banging my friends wife or cheating on my wife is wrong. And I damn sure don’t need religion to convince me not to do it. The mere thought of how it would destroy the people that I love is enough for me. Too each their own, I suppose. Whatever gets you through the day.
my wife is gone, I haven't had any desire to be with another woman. I still feel like I'd be cheating on her. And that's without religion in my life. Pretty cut and dried to know right from wrong. But it's so often the case that the "religious" STILL can't figure that shit out. And then there is this moral indignation or high ground they deploy that is the height of hypocrisy. Some of the most judgmental, self-righteous, close-minded and intolerant people I know are deeply religious.
I love these people who act so religious publicly, but are cheaters, etc. behind closed doors. I have more respect for people who don't put any pretenses, but still screw up. At least they're honest about who they are & aren't, if that makes sense.
She cheats on him, which has been known to really mess people up to the point they can't think or do their jobs right, and then she expects him to just keep playing like nothing happened.
Keep earning that money, sucker!
Self centered, heartless f*cking bitch.
Seriously. This should do wonders for her career as a Christian pop singer. I can see the title of her next single now.
“I love you Jesus (but if you fail to maintain your biblical promises, I’m leaving and want half)”
Great work, Padre.
It sucks that they're out there. I believe that type of scumbag are a small minority, but in the minds of many, they tarnish the entire profession.
And hit him up for appearances, autographs, etc. He and her are quite a pair.
You think so? I mean, she’ll probably get something but, since the evidence is pretty clear she was the one guilty of infidelity, wouldn’t that have a some kind of bearing on how much she receives?
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morally superior pastors...
It sucks that they're out there. I believe that type of scumbag are a small minority, but in the minds of many, they tarnish the entire profession.
The problem is - in the whole scope of the number of religious institutions, the number is very small. In the environment of megachurches, the number is quite high. And there is no checks and balances. In the NC/SC area, the pastors of several "non denominational" megachurches sit on each others boards and funnel money between and through each other with no oversight or accountability.
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will probably get it too.
You think so? I mean, she’ll probably get something but, since the evidence is pretty clear she was the one guilty of infidelity, wouldn’t that have a some kind of bearing on how much she receives?
I don't know, I shouldn't have said that, I'm far from a legal expert and have no firsthand divorce experience.
Just seems like the woman usually gets half (at least) regardless of why the couple divorce. not counting things like child custody, alimony, etc. which also seems to favor the mother/wife
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will probably get it too.
You think so? I mean, she’ll probably get something but, since the evidence is pretty clear she was the one guilty of infidelity, wouldn’t that have a some kind of bearing on how much she receives?
I don't know, I shouldn't have said that, I'm far from a legal expert and have no firsthand divorce experience.
Just seems like the woman usually gets half (at least) regardless of why the couple divorce. not counting things like child custody, alimony, etc. which also seems to favor the mother/wife
Oh no doubt. Especially if you live in a state where the law basically says marital assets have to be split. I’m not sure if they have kids; if they do, I feel bad for them as, divorce sucks, especially if you’re younger. Hopefully he can come out of this without giving up too much and move on with his life.
Mmfufu needs to get the plate removed from her lip. Shit costs money.
You was butt naked on a zebra last month.
Fuck this cunt though and fuck that douchey pastor as well.
The arm tat...the IG account...the clothes...Brother Ben, you married crazy.
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will probably get it too.
You think so? I mean, she’ll probably get something but, since the evidence is pretty clear she was the one guilty of infidelity, wouldn’t that have a some kind of bearing on how much she receives?
Most states, divorce is no fault. In terms of a division of assets, it doesn't matter who is the "at-fault" party for the divorce. For custody of children, etc., the courts may look at stuff like this, but not for the division of assets.
Just seems like the woman usually gets half (at least) regardless of why the couple divorce. not counting things like child custody, alimony, etc. which also seems to favor the mother/wife
But this specific claim (the $4MM) isn't simply about division of property, and her 50% entitlement. She's asking for half of a chunk of money he didn't get. She's saying that by retiring he was effectively dissipating a marital asset (the rest of his contract), and she's entitled to what he gave up. That's extraordinarily unlikely to be a successful argument. The fact that he could earn more than he's choosing to could factor into a) support (though given the size of the marital pot, that probably won't be an issue), and b) child support, but it's very very unlikely to factor into a hypothetically larger marital pot.
[Not an atty, so hardly the most qualified commentator, but I have worked extensively in divorce, though never in Tennessee where they're getting divorced].
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will probably get it too.
You think so? I mean, she’ll probably get something but, since the evidence is pretty clear she was the one guilty of infidelity, wouldn’t that have a some kind of bearing on how much she receives?
Most states, divorce is no fault. In terms of a division of assets, it doesn't matter who is the "at-fault" party for the divorce. For custody of children, etc., the courts may look at stuff like this, but not for the division of assets.
Well, that just sucks. And I’d be willing to bet a pre-nup wasn’t signed before they married either.
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will probably get it too.
You think so? I mean, she’ll probably get something but, since the evidence is pretty clear she was the one guilty of infidelity, wouldn’t that have a some kind of bearing on how much she receives?
I think Illinois is a no fault divorce state if you have been separated for a certain amount of time, and she was the one who filed for divorce.
When he played in St. Pete, the community fawned over this great Christian couple and their faith. If he is truly devoted to his faith, he probably won't fight this, especially because of their kids. And as for her career. It wasn't much with him (would she have been singing at Rays and Cubs games and the World Series if she wasn't married to Ben). Without him, she'll be just another singer.
The hypocrisy is not surprising. How many of the most cutthroat, dangerous, vindictive and cheating people go to services every Sunday and are welcomed as pillars of the church. Organized religion has no trouble accepting people who ignore the tenets of their faith on a daily basis, as long as they repeatedly show up on Sunday to 'repent' for the previous week's sins, before going right back to the same behavior when they leave the building.
She is an absolutely vile human being. Some of the shit she posted is sociopathic. And her female Christian minions just love it. It's like an entire subset of whackjobs. She plays the victim card very very well. It's Fucking disturbing.
I feel dirty now. Fucking gross.
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will probably get it too.
You think so? I mean, she’ll probably get something but, since the evidence is pretty clear she was the one guilty of infidelity, wouldn’t that have a some kind of bearing on how much she receives?
I don't know, I shouldn't have said that, I'm far from a legal expert and have no firsthand divorce experience.
Just seems like the woman usually gets half (at least) regardless of why the couple divorce. not counting things like child custody, alimony, etc. which also seems to favor the mother/wife
Oh no doubt. Especially if you live in a state where the law basically says marital assets have to be split. I’m not sure if they have kids; if they do, I feel bad for them as, divorce sucks, especially if you’re younger. Hopefully he can come out of this without giving up too much and move on with his life.
They have three kids, and I don't think the oldest is even 10. She, by the way, removed all pictures of Ben AND the kids from her Instagram page.
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morally superior pastors...
Seriously. This should do wonders for her career as a Christian pop singer. I can see the title of her next single now.
“I love you Jesus (but if you fail to maintain your biblical promises, I’m leaving and want half)”
The everyday "Christian" doesn't care about infidelity or immorality.
Ben probably should’ve consulted Barney Stinson’s Hot/Crazy scale before getting on bended knee.
Ben probably should’ve consulted Barney Stinson’s Hot/Crazy scale before getting on bended knee.
Shouldn't we all?
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She seems like a real peach.
Ben probably should’ve consulted Barney Stinson’s Hot/Crazy scale before getting on bended knee.
Shouldn't we all?
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morally superior pastors...
Seriously. This should do wonders for her career as a Christian pop singer. I can see the title of her next single now.
“I love you Jesus (but if you fail to maintain your biblical promises, I’m leaving and want half)”
The everyday "Christian" doesn't care about infidelity or immorality.
What exactly are you talking about?
I'm "Christian" and personally have had multiple opportunities to commit adultery. One time (when I was single) it was with a good friend's wife. She came onto me hard, took off her shirt and put her naked tits in my face. I refused to play. A more recent op after I was married, I was away on business and a woman came onto me. I probably easily could've gotten away with it, there was no one around for miles that knew me and my wife was hundreds of miles away. I said no thanks. That's just a couple examples (could give more).
In both those cases, the women were attractive. I had a freaking boner as my friend's wife was putting her tits in my face. The only thing that kept me from playing in each one of the situations was my beliefs on fidelity and morality.
And I'm sure I'm not the only Christian that cares very much about fidelity and morality.
Not to get preachy, but Jesus said that not everyone who calls themselves a Christian, legitimately is one. The Zobrist bitch and the false pastor seem to fall into this category.
Glad I could help.
I won't go into my complete erection history (too many chapters) but if I did, it would start something like this:
Chapter 1: I woke up one morning when I was 12 and felt different. I wondered to myself, was my wiener for more than just whizzing? Before I knew it, a snot like substance started flying. I thought what the heck is going on?!
To be serious, my point was that I didn't reject my friend's wife bc she was unattractive (she resembled Cameron Diaz) or didn't turn me on. It was actually HARD to resist her, but I did so, specifically for moral reasons.
I was responding to the poster above who said "everyday Christians don't care about infidelity and immorality".
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until we got someone sharing their erection history.
To be serious, my point was that I didn't reject my friend's wife bc she was unattractive (she resembled Cameron Diaz) or didn't turn me on. It was actually HARD to resist her, but I did so, specifically for moral reasons.
I was responding to the poster above who said "everyday Christians don't care about infidelity and immorality".
I’d love to know the truth on how you, as an apparently devout Christian, let a situation get to the point that you were not only alone with your good friends wife, but she felt comfortable enough with the situation you two were in at the moment that she took her shirt off and put her titties in your face.
You being a Christian and all, did you tell your friend about this? Or nah?
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until we got someone sharing their erection history.
To be serious, my point was that I didn't reject my friend's wife bc she was unattractive (she resembled Cameron Diaz) or didn't turn me on. It was actually HARD to resist her, but I did so, specifically for moral reasons.
I was responding to the poster above who said "everyday Christians don't care about infidelity and immorality".
I’d love to know the truth on how you, as an apparently devout Christian, let a situation get to the point that you were not only alone with your good friends wife, but she felt comfortable enough with the situation you two were in at the moment that she took her shirt off and put her titties in your face.
You being a Christian and all, did you tell your friend about this? Or nah?
Was thinking the exact same thing. The hypocrisy is real. Or completely exaggerated in some sort of weird flex.
A party for the "pastor" scumbag where they were seen grinding and dancing all over each other. Praise Jesus!
Is that a cross in your pocket or you just happy to see me? - ( New Window )
Huh. I’ll be damned. I thought that’s happened to all of us a dozen times or so.
Instead of letting their singing proclaim them as idols, they self-proclaim it before getting in front of Simon Cowell and sounding like stuck pigs.
Huh. I’ll be damned. I thought that’s happened to all of us a dozen times or so.
Nah. I'm not as suave and desirable as the Doctor here. Or should I say The Love Doctor.
But I will say, if my best friend's wife shoved her utters in my face, he'd be the first to know. Methinks this was a "look at me" post from TLD.
And I'm sure I'm not the only Christian that cares very much about fidelity and morality.
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until we got someone sharing their erection history.
To be serious, my point was that I didn't reject my friend's wife bc she was unattractive (she resembled Cameron Diaz) or didn't turn me on. It was actually HARD to resist her, but I did so, specifically for moral reasons.
I was responding to the poster above who said "everyday Christians don't care about infidelity and immorality".
I’d love to know the truth on how you, as an apparently devout Christian, let a situation get to the point that you were not only alone with your good friends wife, but she felt comfortable enough with the situation you two were in at the moment that she took her shirt off and put her titties in your face.
You being a Christian and all, did you tell your friend about this? Or nah?
If you really want to know: it was during a party at their house. I went to the bathroom to piss. My friend's wife must have seen me go into the bathroom and just walked right in and locked the door. She said my friend had passed out and she's had the hots for me or whatever. Then the titties came out, etc.
I agonized over whether I should tell my friend or not. They had a little daughter.
I didn't know what to do. How do you tell a friend something like that? I didn't want to be part of the breakup of any family, especially that of a friend. I just hoped the wife would get her shit together.
There was another incident and I tried to talk sense into the wife. Told her she would really regret it if she wrecked her marriage (my friend was a good guy, good husband and father).
He walked into a room while I was telling her this, but I don't know if he knew that's what was happening. I later asked him if he wanted to talk about it and he declined. I ended up getting new job and moving not too long after.
The situation destroyed their marriage and my friendship, but I can honestly say I did what i thought was the right thing (morally and at least what I thought was right for my friend).
Should I have come right out and told him his wife was a slut trying to do me? I still don’t know. Like I said, I was hoping she would stop and their marriage/family would be ok.
I wish it never happened and we were still friends.
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And I'm sure I'm not the only Christian that cares very much about fidelity and morality.
Bottomline is your Christianity had nothing to do with it. Atheists, Agnostics, Hindus, Muslims, Jews, Buddhists, Scientologists, etc, it makes no difference. Good people will do good things and bad people will do bad things regardless of their religious beliefs.
Once again, my response was to the one who said above:
"everyday Christians don't care about infidelity or immorality".
I never said that good morals is strictly a Christian thing.
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And I'm sure I'm not the only Christian that cares very much about fidelity and morality.
Bottomline is your Christianity had nothing to do with it. Atheists, Agnostics, Hindus, Muslims, Jews, Buddhists, Scientologists, etc, it makes no difference. Good people will do good things and bad people will do bad things regardless of their religious beliefs.
My response was to Harvest Blend who specifically called out Christians for not caring about infidelity or immorality.
And you can't tell me what did or didn't influence my personal decisions.
And you can't tell me what did or didn't influence my personal decisions.
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And you can't tell me what did or didn't influence my personal decisions.
Of course not, but you shouldn't need religion to know it's wrong to cheat. And if you need religion to give you the strength to resist cheating with the wife of a friend than you're kind of weak, don't you think? I'm not saying, I'm just saying...
Exactly. I don’t need religion to tell me that banging my friends wife or cheating on my wife is wrong. And I damn sure don’t need religion to convince me not to do it. The mere thought of how it would destroy the people that I love is enough for me. Too each their own, I suppose. Whatever gets you through the day.