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NFT: Concern for FMiC

allstarjim : 10/13/2021 11:49 pm
I see he hasn't been on at all lately. Does anyone have any info. Anyone know his first name?
His First Name is  
Aloha Alan : 10/14/2021 12:03 am : link
Scott.
Why do people keep starting threads about the guy?  
steve in ky : 10/14/2021 12:11 am : link
Apparently he has had enough of the site and isn’t posting any longer. Just let it go.
Two truths  
V.I.G. : 10/14/2021 12:18 am : link
1) I hope he is alive and well
2) The site is better without him
I like the guy  
allstarjim : 10/14/2021 12:26 am : link
You may not. Bottom line, he's been a part of this community since at minimum 2001. If showing concern for a long-time poster here offends, then that's your problem.

I emailed him, I'll let those concerned click on the thread, and the rest of you keep scrolling (which, by the way, is always an option for you).
RE: Why do people keep starting threads about the guy?  
Mike from SI : 10/14/2021 12:27 am : link
In comment 15412949 steve in ky said:
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Apparently he has had enough of the site and isn’t posting any longer. Just let it go.


I can't tell if this particular thread is trolling or genuine. I really hope the latter.
RE: His First Name is  
Route 9 : 10/14/2021 1:15 am : link
In comment 15412945 Aloha Alan said:
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Scott.


I thought his name was Eddie?
The  
jtfuoco : 10/14/2021 2:40 am : link
Guy was toxic I have been here since 1998 and he had to be in the top 10 of toxic posters on the site.
He is Satan  
Big Al : 10/14/2021 7:29 am : link
and has returned to the depths of Hell after the exorcism held by some members here.
Hope he's alright  
Ned In Atlanta : 10/14/2021 7:30 am : link
but not surprising he's gone underground. Guy has been defending Giants management for as long as I have been on the site and never takes too kindly to those who disagree with him. We're seeing the product of said mismanagement not exactly surprised he's not here at this point.
RE: Hope he's alright  
UConn4523 : 10/14/2021 7:33 am : link
In comment 15412992 Ned In Atlanta said:
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but not surprising he's gone underground. Guy has been defending Giants management for as long as I have been on the site and never takes too kindly to those who disagree with him. We're seeing the product of said mismanagement not exactly surprised he's not here at this point.


Pretty sure he's fine. I think he can handle the Giants and management not performing well - likely realized (like many of others before him) that the trolls on this board and internet in general always win. I don't blame Eric for it either, its gotta be good for business.
RE: The  
section125 : 10/14/2021 7:36 am : link
In comment 15412968 jtfuoco said:
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Guy was toxic I have been here since 1998 and he had to be in the top 10 of toxic posters on the site.


meh, he was entertaining. He got nasty to some, yes and some of it was over the top, true. The last incident was pretty dumb. When you out troll a troll you need some quiet time.
RE: He is Satan  
Big Al : 10/14/2021 7:40 am : link
In comment 15412991 Big Al said:
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and has returned to the depths of Hell after the exorcism held by some members here.
I predict his return on Halloween when evil spirits are released.
RE: RE: His First Name is  
BMac : 10/14/2021 7:52 am : link
In comment 15412964 Route 9 said:
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In comment 15412945 Aloha Alan said:


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Scott.



I thought his name was Eddie?


Nah...Mud.
Scott is fine  
JonC : 10/14/2021 8:06 am : link
he's just doing something else with his fandom these days.
It often seemed to me  
joeinpa : 10/14/2021 8:14 am : link
He had some connections inside the building that made him privy to into most of us didn t have.

Hope he comes back.
I find it interesting  
Dnew15 : 10/14/2021 8:26 am : link
that some BBI members have problems with other BBI members to the point where they literally don't care if someone is alive or dead.

That's kinda crazy...
RE: I find it interesting  
jvm52106 : 10/14/2021 8:39 am : link
In comment 15413026 Dnew15 said:
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that some BBI members have problems with other BBI members to the point where they literally don't care if someone is alive or dead.

That's kinda crazy...


+1
RE: RE: Hope he's alright  
Mike from Ohio : 10/14/2021 8:40 am : link
In comment 15412994 UConn4523 said:
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In comment 15412992 Ned In Atlanta said:


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but not surprising he's gone underground. Guy has been defending Giants management for as long as I have been on the site and never takes too kindly to those who disagree with him. We're seeing the product of said mismanagement not exactly surprised he's not here at this point.



Pretty sure he's fine. I think he can handle the Giants and management not performing well - likely realized (like many of others before him) that the trolls on this board and internet in general always win. I don't blame Eric for it either, its gotta be good for business.


I like FMiC, but let's not pretend he is just a guy who likes talking football on here and was chased off by the proliferation of trolls. He has very strongly held positions and has no tolerance for anyone who disagrees with him. He is typically the first one to get nasty and start name calling.
RE: Why do people keep starting threads about the guy?  
Russ in Queens, NYC : 10/14/2021 8:56 am : link
In comment 15412949 steve in ky said:
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Apparently he has had enough of the site and isn’t posting any longer. Just let it go.


Because we like what he posts and are worried about him. Nothing more than that.
Mike  
UConn4523 : 10/14/2021 8:58 am : link
I'm not pretending anything. He went overboard because this board lost its ability to police the right things. Eric and co care more about no politics than getting rid of really bottom barrel shitty posters who instigate at every turn. Its their prerogative but its been happening for a long time.

I've disagreed with him on plenty of things especially when it came to social issues, or even various Yankee scenarios.
RE: Mike  
Mike from Ohio : 10/14/2021 9:20 am : link
In comment 15413057 UConn4523 said:
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I'm not pretending anything. He went overboard because this board lost its ability to police the right things. Eric and co care more about no politics than getting rid of really bottom barrel shitty posters who instigate at every turn. Its their prerogative but its been happening for a long time.

I've disagreed with him on plenty of things especially when it came to social issues, or even various Yankee scenarios.


He went overboard because he could not tolerate people who thought Gettleman has done a poor job. Most of them were not instigators. They were people who had a differing opinion. By and large, he simply attacked anyone who held that view. FMiC was an instigator.
joeinpa  
fkap : 10/14/2021 9:24 am : link
FMiC's connection was with the sports medicine/equipment field, and thus his connections were more generic. Don't think he was an insider along the lines of a couple others here.
the thread in question I didn't play a role in  
UConn4523 : 10/14/2021 9:30 am : link
by the time I saw it I had no interest in reading 150 posts of re-posts of other threads. Just didn't care.

I think the good posters you are referring to show trollish tendencies more than you think. The repetition of their posts is nauseating and I think he (and definitely me) take more issue with that than simply being disagreed with. He definitely goes overboard, not defending that. But more posters than you are letting on are issues here - its why a lot of people don't post anymore, not just FMiC.

Just look at football conversations these days - same 5-10 people saying the same things on every single thread, day through night. And we've been bad for a decade so that isn't an excuse - its simply gotten out of control here the last year or so. NFT's are much better threads, not even close actually, but even those get ruined because the trolls can't help themselves when they see certain posters posting about something they enjoy.
a few other points  
fkap : 10/14/2021 9:31 am : link
this place was never much good at policing.

FMiC targets went far beyond defending Gettleman.

There was just a lengthy thread that went on for days on this exact same topic. It was deleted a day or two ago. By the OP, or by mods once again protecting FMiC?
He’s a good dude and a good poster when he wants to be  
Metnut : 10/14/2021 9:31 am : link
but he was in a bad place here for a while. Getting into posing contests constantly isn’t good for mental health, so he probably made the right move to take a break. Hopefully if he comes back he can have a more restrained demeanor.
FMiC has strong critical thinking skills...  
Dan in the Springs : 10/14/2021 9:32 am : link
and little patience for less than that. A bit too much hubris perhaps but his cause was essentially pointing out flawed thinking and premature leaps to conclusions. He is likely bowing out of the corner forum because so many of the discussions here are boring right now.

Little to no X's and O's, no insider information anymore, no real discussion on other topics apart from food (thanks Bill in UT), lots of proclamations from people with little to no knowledge of the inner workings of an NFL organization, etc.

I don't blame Eric for banning politics - it's a lightning rod that isn't worth policing and not the purpose of the site, but it is what it is. Anyone that has been here for more than 10 years would have to admit the quality of discussion here has reached a serious low. When the Giants were bad before we had incredible discussions on markets, geopolitics, economic trends, terrorism and its causes, etc. Those days are over. We have a daily argument over whether Jones/Judge/Gettleman/Mara are any good or not, which by the way, is dominated by a few voices whose hubris is world-class.

It's dull. The conversation in the forum is dull.

Anyway, that's what has slowed me from participating compared to 2 years ago, and I imagine it has done the same for FMiC.
Dan, 100%  
UConn4523 : 10/14/2021 9:36 am : link
agreed on the politics too, ,I understand why they are banned. Really only brought it up because people can't help themselves on more than just politics, the shitty posters have no boundaries and no subject is off limits for them to ruin.

Dull is a great word to describe it. I haven't learned anything new about football in a while and I used to all the time but many people way smarter than me, with connections and interesting POV's don't post anymore.
RE: the thread in question I didn't play a role in  
Chris684 : 10/14/2021 9:38 am : link
In comment 15413100 UConn4523 said:
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by the time I saw it I had no interest in reading 150 posts of re-posts of other threads. Just didn't care.

I think the good posters you are referring to show trollish tendencies more than you think. The repetition of their posts is nauseating and I think he (and definitely me) take more issue with that than simply being disagreed with. He definitely goes overboard, not defending that. But more posters than you are letting on are issues here - its why a lot of people don't post anymore, not just FMiC.

Just look at football conversations these days - same 5-10 people saying the same things on every single thread, day through night. And we've been bad for a decade so that isn't an excuse - its simply gotten out of control here the last year or so. NFT's are much better threads, not even close actually, but even those get ruined because the trolls can't help themselves when they see certain posters posting about something they enjoy.


I totally agree with UConn here.

He is right that there are people who are supposedly "good posters" who instigate every thread and try to bring nothing to the table other than "I told you so". It's as if people have been emboldened by the Giants losing because they feel the team would have been better off with their armchair plans they play out in their minds.

FMIC could give people a hard time and I didn't always agree with it, but I do/did find myself seeing his point many times especially as it related to calling out how stupid it's gotten around here.
Dan  
fkap : 10/14/2021 9:39 am : link
only half right about FMiC.

True, he did not 'suffer fools gladly' (as he once said), but he spent much (most?) of his time attacking posters, not posts. Seemed to me he liked the fight more than the cause.
He was/is a good poster  
Essex : 10/14/2021 9:39 am : link
and I would like to see him return. My only critique of him is a lot of time he can't see the forest from the trees. I don't mind his language or attitude, but he will harp on a word you use as if you were writing a Supreme Court Brief instead of on a message board in between doing stuff at work or playing with your kids at home. In other words, I feel like a lot of my arguments with him came down to adjectives that I had used instead of the substance of what I was saying.
I've had discussion with Fats for a very long time  
Greg from LI : 10/14/2021 9:41 am : link
And I like the guy......but his dogged determination to defend Dave Gettleman was beyond ridiculous, particularly when he had a bit of a personal connection from being a friend, or at least acquaintance, of Brandon Beane.
i've been posting for about 15 years i think  
UConn4523 : 10/14/2021 9:41 am : link
I used to respond to any post directed my way, whether it was agreement or disagreement. Those days are gone. There's easily 10-15 handles I don't reply to anymore under any circumstances - i've never had to do that before. And i know i'm not alone on that one.
RE: He was/is a good poster  
ron mexico : 10/14/2021 9:43 am : link
In comment 15413116 Essex said:
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and I would like to see him return. My only critique of him is a lot of time he can't see the forest from the trees. I don't mind his language or attitude, but he will harp on a word you use as if you were writing a Supreme Court Brief instead of on a message board in between doing stuff at work or playing with your kids at home. In other words, I feel like a lot of my arguments with him came down to adjectives that I had used instead of the substance of what I was saying.


bingo...its very tiresome
RE: i've been posting for about 15 years i think  
Greg from LI : 10/14/2021 9:43 am : link
In comment 15413122 UConn4523 said:
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I used to respond to any post directed my way, whether it was agreement or disagreement. Those days are gone. There's easily 10-15 handles I don't reply to anymore under any circumstances - i've never had to do that before. And i know i'm not alone on that one.


Seriously? There have always been trolls whose posts I ignore without even reading, going all the way back to the pre-login days.
RE: i've been posting for about 15 years i think  
Mike from Ohio : 10/14/2021 9:46 am : link
In comment 15413122 UConn4523 said:
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I used to respond to any post directed my way, whether it was agreement or disagreement. Those days are gone. There's easily 10-15 handles I don't reply to anymore under any circumstances - i've never had to do that before. And i know i'm not alone on that one.


You are not alone on that at all. I do the same thing. There are some people who do not want discussion, but unity of opinion. You can only ignore those guys..

The problem is that FMiC not only engaged those people, but when they were not on a thread he would call them out to join it and then start launching attacks.

I get why he is gone. I have considered doing the same thing because intelligent discussion and respectful disagreement are largely a thing of the past on BBI. It is good for Eric's business, but much in the same way Twitter makes money. Toxicity sells.
Good to hear that FMIC has no health issues but  
Rick in Dallas : 10/14/2021 9:48 am : link
honestly I stayed out of threads where he was attacking other posters...it was way too toxic.
As far as BBI goes I come to this site daily to get information on my favorite football.I would be lost without BBI.I still enjoy the football discussions about the team and individual football players.
RE: He was/is a good poster  
Gatorade Dunk : 10/14/2021 9:48 am : link
In comment 15413116 Essex said:
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and I would like to see him return. My only critique of him is a lot of time he can't see the forest from the trees. I don't mind his language or attitude, but he will harp on a word you use as if you were writing a Supreme Court Brief instead of on a message board in between doing stuff at work or playing with your kids at home. In other words, I feel like a lot of my arguments with him came down to adjectives that I had used instead of the substance of what I was saying.

I have had more run-ins with FMIC than I can count, but I would be happy to see him return. He's a worthy adversary, knows his shit when it comes to football, and even if he tends to have some bias, so do I. And despite our very public debates on here, we also engaged in 1:1 email conversations that were always civil, informed, and enjoyable.

It sucks that he pulled the ripcord after the doctored quote fiasco, but that will obviously be forgotten in due time. FMIC is part of the fabric of BBI.
RE: RE: i've been posting for about 15 years i think  
UConn4523 : 10/14/2021 9:50 am : link
In comment 15413127 Greg from LI said:
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In comment 15413122 UConn4523 said:


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I used to respond to any post directed my way, whether it was agreement or disagreement. Those days are gone. There's easily 10-15 handles I don't reply to anymore under any circumstances - i've never had to do that before. And i know i'm not alone on that one.



Seriously? There have always been trolls whose posts I ignore without even reading, going all the way back to the pre-login days.


yeah, there were always a couple i'd ignore but they had short shelf lives here and usually got banned. The problem now is they aren't getting banned so the list is growing. And they post a lot more often than those in the past did.
I heard that while in BBI timeout  
Beer Man : 10/14/2021 9:52 am : link
he is working on slimming down and improving his people skills. His goal is to return to BBI as a new man with the handle of SMiC. He has also been indulging in a steady diet of the Hallmark channel as part of his anger management program and to improve his people skills.
FMiC is a pretty big asshole to everyone  
Bear vs Shark : 10/14/2021 9:57 am : link
I know he's an old member of the board, but surprised how people just gloss over his temperament and love him.

the dude would fly off the handle at anyone who disagreed with him, which makes the fact that he took a completely incorrect position on Giants management + Gettleman even funnier.

Now that I know which of the guys he is on the three angry Giants fans podcast, I'm stoked to listen and see if his personality on there matches his online persona.
he didn't fly off the handle with everyone that disagreed with him  
UConn4523 : 10/14/2021 10:00 am : link
however he definitely did with specific posters. That's kinda the point i'm making.
I’ve gotten to know him  
GNewGiants : 10/14/2021 10:14 am : link
In my stint here with few email exchanges.

Great guy and a lot of people are missing the arguments he has made. I don’t think he stands up for Gettleman as much points out ridiculous arguments against him and the constant negativity on the board.
RE: I’ve gotten to know him  
Essex : 10/14/2021 10:21 am : link
In comment 15413151 GNewGiants said:
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In my stint here with few email exchanges.

Great guy and a lot of people are missing the arguments he has made. I don’t think he stands up for Gettleman as much points out ridiculous arguments against him and the constant negativity on the board.

Again, I don't want to attack him because I like him and thought him a good poster. And, as I explained before, I would love for him to return and to hear his insight. However, what FMIC tried to do was stifle criticism of individual moves that got criticism because some Gettleman bashers would bash Gettleman. The point is that this is a message board and people are going to analyze each transaction the GM makes. Instead of focusing the discussion on the individual move, he would force it to be whether you were pro-Gettleman or not. Maybe I am not self-aware of myself, but I like to think I analyze every move individually and cannot be placed in a pro-Gettleman or anti-Gettleman camp. In other words, although I think over four years Gettleman has proven he is not the right man for the job, if Gettleman makes a trade tomorrow, I will debate the merits of the trade. I guess my point is maybe ignore the Gettleman camps and just talk about the transaction instead of every thread becoming a pro or anti DG thread.
I never saw him as a value add  
sb from NYT Forum : 10/14/2021 10:29 am : link
...It seems all he would call posters he disagreed with "fucking idiots" but never explain why.

If he wasn't a BBI early-adopter he would have been banned over a decade ago.
RE: I never saw him as a value add  
UConn4523 : 10/14/2021 10:32 am : link
In comment 15413157 sb from NYT Forum said:
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...It seems all he would call posters he disagreed with "fucking idiots" but never explain why.

If he wasn't a BBI early-adopter he would have been banned over a decade ago.


I disagree, new adopters roam free and are infinitely more toxic.
RE: FMiC has strong critical thinking skills...  
montanagiant : 10/14/2021 10:37 am : link
In comment 15413106 Dan in the Springs said:
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and little patience for less than that. A bit too much hubris perhaps but his cause was essentially pointing out flawed thinking and premature leaps to conclusions. He is likely bowing out of the corner forum because so many of the discussions here are boring right now.

Little to no X's and O's, no insider information anymore, no real discussion on other topics apart from food (thanks Bill in UT), lots of proclamations from people with little to no knowledge of the inner workings of an NFL organization, etc.

I don't blame Eric for banning politics - it's a lightning rod that isn't worth policing and not the purpose of the site, but it is what it is. Anyone that has been here for more than 10 years would have to admit the quality of discussion here has reached a serious low. When the Giants were bad before we had incredible discussions on markets, geopolitics, economic trends, terrorism and its causes, etc. Those days are over. We have a daily argument over whether Jones/Judge/Gettleman/Mara are any good or not, which by the way, is dominated by a few voices whose hubris is world-class.

It's dull. The conversation in the forum is dull.

Anyway, that's what has slowed me from participating compared to 2 years ago, and I imagine it has done the same for FMiC.

Excellent post
RE: RE: Why do people keep starting threads about the guy?  
steve in ky : 10/14/2021 10:37 am : link
In comment 15413054 Russ in Queens, NYC said:
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Apparently he has had enough of the site and isn’t posting any longer. Just let it go.



Because we like what he posts and are worried about him. Nothing more than that.


Well I assure you he’s fine
RE: Good to hear that FMIC has no health issues but  
chick310 : 10/14/2021 10:49 am : link
In comment 15413130 Rick in Dallas said:
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honestly I stayed out of threads where he was attacking other posters...it was way too toxic.


It was basically this. fmic could have football conversations but were few and far between. He was far more interested in going at it with posters to rip into their opinions causing much the endless drama on threads. Very often the instigator and always the one to be mostly shouting at and cursing down others.

And interesting to see the short memories of some not able to recognize they were often right in the mix of that same drama, saying the same things over and over on numerous threads, or looking for the entertainment value of it all with their popcorn at the ready.
RE: he didn't fly off the handle with everyone that disagreed with him  
Mike from Ohio : 10/14/2021 10:49 am : link
In comment 15413144 UConn4523 said:
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however he definitely did with specific posters. That's kinda the point i'm making.


Specific posters were not 2 or 3. More like 30 or 40. And these are not trolls or newbies. They are intelligent posters with whom he simply held a different opinion, which in his mind made them idiots.
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Bill2 : 10/14/2021 10:53 am : link
Agree with much of your posts UConn and Dan. I have the same feelings and same responses.

For me, there have always been bad Giant performances to deal with. There have always been 10-15 posters who are needy and damaged despite the correctable feedback they receive from many on the board. I dont ever remember the perfect storm of damaged or useless posters who chose football to show their flawed abilities to interact and at a time the Giants stink up the joint. A Perfect Storm. Honestly rather than re watch the same movie, I've found other ways to deploy my time.

And these thoughts are just imho:

1) I thought the majority of us long ago agreed that it was low class to post about someone who was not there? Reverse the scene. Would you think it was how men should act to other men? Or would the word Karen occur to you?

2) Given the players involved, I don't believe any version of what happened from any of them.

3) The revealing of personal names, sources, ways for our most damaged posters to cause havoc ( of which there are any examples over the last 15 years...for one...why do you think none of the female posters of a few years ago stay far away?). I thought one of the terms of membership was not crossing personal boundaries. If FMIC wanted to engage you or talk to you...he would. Why be shitty about another man's choices? It's not a valued connection by either party and it's so obvious you are not concerned nor he concerned about you if he hasn't reached out. That's an addiction to a source of stress and drama and not out of concern for a person.

The site is still here. It either works for a poster or it doesn't. Outside of a few friends still on here and reading Sy...lurking is a good option and so is getting on with life.

Imho
RE: RE: RE: Why do people keep starting threads about the guy?  
Russ in Queens, NYC : 10/14/2021 11:00 am : link
In comment 15413163 steve in ky said:
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Apparently he has had enough of the site and isn’t posting any longer. Just let it go.



Because we like what he posts and are worried about him. Nothing more than that.



Well I assure you he’s fine


That's good to know. Seriously: thank you.
RE: RE: he didn't fly off the handle with everyone that disagreed with him  
UConn4523 : 10/14/2021 11:04 am : link
In comment 15413175 Mike from Ohio said:
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however he definitely did with specific posters. That's kinda the point i'm making.



Specific posters were not 2 or 3. More like 30 or 40. And these are not trolls or newbies. They are intelligent posters with whom he simply held a different opinion, which in his mind made them idiots.


Difference of opinion on this one. A good poster can troll, I see it ALL the time.
RE: FMiC has strong critical thinking skills...  
KingBlue : 10/14/2021 11:07 am : link
In comment 15413106 Dan in the Springs said:
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and little patience for less than that. A bit too much hubris perhaps but his cause was essentially pointing out flawed thinking and premature leaps to conclusions. He is likely bowing out of the corner forum because so many of the discussions here are boring right now.

Little to no X's and O's, no insider information anymore, no real discussion on other topics apart from food (thanks Bill in UT), lots of proclamations from people with little to no knowledge of the inner workings of an NFL organization, etc.

I don't blame Eric for banning politics - it's a lightning rod that isn't worth policing and not the purpose of the site, but it is what it is. Anyone that has been here for more than 10 years would have to admit the quality of discussion here has reached a serious low. When the Giants were bad before we had incredible discussions on markets, geopolitics, economic trends, terrorism and its causes, etc. Those days are over. We have a daily argument over whether Jones/Judge/Gettleman/Mara are any good or not, which by the way, is dominated by a few voices whose hubris is world-class.

It's dull. The conversation in the forum is dull.

Anyway, that's what has slowed me from participating compared to 2 years ago, and I imagine it has done the same for FMiC.


+1
RE: FMiC has strong critical thinking skills...  
cjac : 10/14/2021 11:17 am : link
In comment 15413106 Dan in the Springs said:
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Anyone that has been here for more than 10 years would have to admit the quality of discussion here has reached a serious low.


Being someone that has been on this site since the mid 90s, i can tell you that the quality of discussion on this site usually goes with how the team goes. its always better in years that the team is playing well.

the team has completely sucked for 10 years, so the quality of discussion has gone right along with it
RE: FMiC is a pretty big asshole to everyone  
Big Al : 10/14/2021 11:21 am : link
In comment 15413135 Bear vs Shark said:
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I know he's an old member of the board, but surprised how people just gloss over his temperament and love him.

the dude would fly off the handle at anyone who disagreed with him, which makes the fact that he took a completely incorrect position on Giants management + Gettleman even funnier.

Now that I know which of the guys he is on the three angry Giants fans podcast, I'm stoked to listen and see if his personality on there matches his online persona.
Not everyone can refrain from flying off the handle and keep calm like you do.
I also disagree that he only flew off the handle for specific posters  
widmerseyebrow : 10/14/2021 11:22 am : link
Maybe it wasn't always that way, but I feel like the past couple years at least he's always packaged an insult in his response to anyone who has disagreed with him in the slightest. As a reader it's just tiring because it usually cascades into a boring tit for tat after that.

He called Rico (definitely not a troll) "a fucking moron" once simply for sharing asshat information which turned out to be correct. Everyone gets worked up on here once and a while, but I thought it was lame that he didn't even bother to apologize afterwards.
RE: I never saw him as a value add  
Big Al : 10/14/2021 11:26 am : link
In comment 15413157 sb from NYT Forum said:
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...It seems all he would call posters he disagreed with "fucking idiots" but never explain why.

If he wasn't a BBI early-adopter he would have been banned over a decade ago.
Not necessarily. Two rather mild mannered 20 year plus posters I know have been banned in recent times for comments on one thread,
People that resort to ad hominem attacks  
give66 : 10/14/2021 11:34 am : link
only expose themselves as frauds and mentally weak. Good riddance
Bottom line for me  
Big Al : 10/14/2021 11:43 am : link
This place is a lesser place and certainly less interesting place without him here. I value intelligence here. I don’t mind being insulted. I have been called things here over the years that make FMIC critical comments look polite. Not sure why being insulted on an anonymous forum is so upsetting but I guess that I can understand. I hate forums where discussions getting kind of tough is an offense that deserves banning. Either hit back or ignore both of which tactics that I have used at times.
RE: RE: FMiC has strong critical thinking skills...  
UConn4523 : 10/14/2021 11:51 am : link
In comment 15413199 cjac said:
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In comment 15413106 Dan in the Springs said:


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Anyone that has been here for more than 10 years would have to admit the quality of discussion here has reached a serious low.



Being someone that has been on this site since the mid 90s, i can tell you that the quality of discussion on this site usually goes with how the team goes. its always better in years that the team is playing well.

the team has completely sucked for 10 years, so the quality of discussion has gone right along with it


It wasn't this bad until recently. Its at an all time low and it has nothing to do with being bad since we've been bad the whole time.
RE: a few other points  
bw in dc : 10/14/2021 11:59 am : link
In comment 15413101 fkap said:
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There was just a lengthy thread that went on for days on this exact same topic. It was deleted a day or two ago. By the OP, or by mods once again protecting FMiC?


You pose a very interesting question.
haha, he has protection?  
UConn4523 : 10/14/2021 12:02 pm : link
he went after Eric a lot, I highly doubt he's being sheltered by the mods. Pretty sure that thread went off the rails as usual, and it was deleted.
This is  
The Jake : 10/14/2021 12:06 pm : link
above my pay grade, but I just want to contribute one idea to the discussion:

could it be that as the quality of play on the field degrades, the quality of conversation on BBI goes with it? If the "hey day" of BBI was about 10 years ago (arguably), then that would correspond with the absolute height of the franchise, wouldn't it?

The one thing all of us have in common is that we love the NY football Giants. And right now they are a tremendous source of anger and frustration. This is simply the most likely venue for us, as fans, to release our anger. That we release it on each other is unfortunate, but also totally expected.

I applaud FMiC for taking a break. We could all use a break from this debacle of a team.
RE: RE: FMiC has strong critical thinking skills...  
The Jake : 10/14/2021 12:07 pm : link
In comment 15413199 cjac said:
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the team has completely sucked for 10 years, so the quality of discussion has gone right along with it


beat me to it! apologies.
So what happened years 1-9?  
UConn4523 : 10/14/2021 12:10 pm : link
I’ve posted during all of them, it’s starkly different now. Lots of good posters have left the board completely.
It's all a matter of perspective  
The Jake : 10/14/2021 12:16 pm : link
it could be that from your perspective, UConn, the board has reached a sort of intelligence tipping point in year 10, whereas years 1-9 were more of a slow burn.

From my perspective, I do miss the "Wild West" days of BBI a little, as do I the nuanced discussions about politics and economics (among other topics), but I'm also grateful to have a place to voice my concerns about the team with other people who know what's up.

Would I also like a message board that looks and functions like it should in 2021? Sure, but you can't have it all :)
RE: So what happened years 1-9?  
BrettNYG10 : 10/14/2021 12:17 pm : link
In comment 15413261 UConn4523 said:
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I’ve posted during all of them, it’s starkly different now. Lots of good posters have left the board completely.


A lot of those posters were perpetual optimists who couldn't handle the negativity of the board (and negativity of reality, really).

#FreeMook
Pretty sure a few of the posters that left are back as dupes  
Go Terps : 10/14/2021 12:23 pm : link
I can't link specific names to specific dupes, but there are some familiar voices around here under new handles.
RE: RE: So what happened years 1-9?  
bigbluehoya : 10/14/2021 12:25 pm : link
In comment 15413268 BrettNYG10 said:
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In comment 15413261 UConn4523 said:


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I’ve posted during all of them, it’s starkly different now. Lots of good posters have left the board completely.



A lot of those posters were perpetual optimists who couldn't handle the negativity of the board (and negativity of reality, really).

#FreeMook


and many of them seemed to view that optimism as an inherently superior outlook. Ironically, that optimism in many cases drove them to be exceedingly negative in the way they interacted with other posters, increasing the toxicity.

Takes two to tango, so it doesn't rest solely at their feet.
He had a blog that's still up  
Stan in LA : 10/14/2021 12:30 pm : link
For those interested.
Link - ( New Window )
RE: RE: So what happened years 1-9?  
UConn4523 : 10/14/2021 12:30 pm : link
In comment 15413268 BrettNYG10 said:
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In comment 15413261 UConn4523 said:


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I’ve posted during all of them, it’s starkly different now. Lots of good posters have left the board completely.



A lot of those posters were perpetual optimists who couldn't handle the negativity of the board (and negativity of reality, really).

#FreeMook


So what happened years 1-9?

People are living the site, and being replaced by low quality posters.
I never had a issue with FMIC in fact enjoyed his call outs  
bigblue1124 : 10/14/2021 12:31 pm : link
He would always call out people that needed it from what I saw. His call outs may have been aggressive but my guess is most who dislike him couldn’t handle it. I guess it’s hard to have a battle of wits with an unarmed person.

Hope he is well.
...  
SFGFNCGiantsFan : 10/14/2021 12:32 pm : link
I liked him as poster. I hope he returns.

I don't get why people get so upset what others say to them. It's a freaking message board. I could pass you on the street & not even know.
RE: RE: RE: So what happened years 1-9?  
BrettNYG10 : 10/14/2021 12:43 pm : link
In comment 15413296 UConn4523 said:
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In comment 15413268 BrettNYG10 said:


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In comment 15413261 UConn4523 said:


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I’ve posted during all of them, it’s starkly different now. Lots of good posters have left the board completely.



A lot of those posters were perpetual optimists who couldn't handle the negativity of the board (and negativity of reality, really).

#FreeMook



So what happened years 1-9?

People are living the site, and being replaced by low quality posters.


There was much more to hang your hat on 2012-2020 than 2021, IMO. I say this as someone who has been quite negative the past few years.

2012-2015, you had Eli. Not far removed from a Super Bowl win. 2016 was a playoff year. 2017 was bad, but you could blame coaching, etc. Particularly McAdoo. 2018 was a misread by DG according to the optimists. So we need a few years to rebuild. 2019 had Jones, who gave us reasons to be optimistic. 2020 was bad, but you had the Barkley injury. Still had a young QB. Judge looked good, so you had reason for optimism.

Many of these posters told us it was too soon to judge Gettleman/Jones/etc and that THIS was the year we could do it. They said this themselves. I think this year - without a doubt - has proven the Dave Gettleman experiment is an objective failure.

I saw the optimists points for many of those years. I agreed very much early on, particularly from 2012-2016. The failures of 2021 are a different breed than the prior ones.
RE: ...  
mfsd : 10/14/2021 12:48 pm : link
In comment 15413300 SFGFNCGiantsFan said:
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I liked him as poster. I hope he returns.

I don't get why people get so upset what others say to them. It's a freaking message board. I could pass you on the street & not even know.


I’m with you on this. I’m a big fan of FMIC…sure he can be overly harsh sometimes, but don’t see why anyone needs to take it so personally. He does contribute good content too, not just dropping into threads to argue (although he does plenty of that)

I was on the business end of a FMIC thrashing a couple years back, don’t even remember what it was about, Yankees related I think. I recall laughing and thinking being shredded by the Fatman is sort of a right of passage around here, I’ve finally made it

I always got a kick out of the ongoing FMIC/Jimmy Googs battles…I do think they should probably just get a room and end it

I don’t know the exact details that preceded his absence, but if he stepped over a line I’d love to see him chime in with a mea culpa. And I’d love to see his antagonists accept said apology and move on

If he’s taking a voluntary break, that can be a healthy thing. We’re all prone to getting too worked up sometimes, even more when we wait all offseason just to see our favorite team suck yet again…
RE: Bottom line for me  
Mike from Ohio : 10/14/2021 1:03 pm : link
In comment 15413225 Big Al said:
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This place is a lesser place and certainly less interesting place without him here. I value intelligence here. I don’t mind being insulted. I have been called things here over the years that make FMIC critical comments look polite. Not sure why being insulted on an anonymous forum is so upsetting but I guess that I can understand. I hate forums where discussions getting kind of tough is an offense that deserves banning. Either hit back or ignore both of which tactics that I have used at times.


People are not upset by being insulted on a message board. They are upset because discussions get derailed and conversations shut down because a small handful of people can't control their emotions.

FMiC had become one of them.
He doctored a quote?  
trueblueinpw : 10/14/2021 1:15 pm : link
I read something about that in the last FMIC thread. I actually think that would be bad enough for the ban hammer.

I have no way to know if he did doctor a quote, but if he did, that’s pretty shameful stuff. Imagine being so needy that you would doctor a post? Who would even have the time for something like that? Egad!

Anyway, now that he’s on the back of the BBI milk carton maybe he show up?
I've been on  
Scooter185 : 10/14/2021 1:24 pm : link
Nyyfans for over 7 years, and they don't allow the personal attacks. There's still disagreements over Cashman and Girardi/Boone, roster, etc. But it all stays baseball related.

The personal attacks, name calling, and overall tribalism is what brings discussion here down. So as knowledgeable as FMiC may be about football all the other stuff offsets it.
RE: RE: Bottom line for me  
Big Al : 10/14/2021 1:32 pm : link
In comment 15413362 Mike from Ohio said:
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In comment 15413225 Big Al said:


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This place is a lesser place and certainly less interesting place without him here. I value intelligence here. I don’t mind being insulted. I have been called things here over the years that make FMIC critical comments look polite. Not sure why being insulted on an anonymous forum is so upsetting but I guess that I can understand. I hate forums where discussions getting kind of tough is an offense that deserves banning. Either hit back or ignore both of which tactics that I have used at times.



People are not upset by being insulted on a message board. They are upset because discussions get derailed and conversations shut down because a small handful of people can't control their emotions.

FMiC had become one of them.
People are upset about being insulted. That seems pretty clear to me from reading this thread. FMiC cannot shut off conversations. If people don’t like his comments, just ignore them and continue rather than getting upset and responding.
RE: He doctored a quote?  
Essex : 10/14/2021 1:33 pm : link
In comment 15413389 trueblueinpw said:
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I read something about that in the last FMIC thread. I actually think that would be bad enough for the ban hammer.

I have no way to know if he did doctor a quote, but if he did, that’s pretty shameful stuff. Imagine being so needy that you would doctor a post? Who would even have the time for something like that? Egad!

Anyway, now that he’s on the back of the BBI milk carton maybe he show up?


When they say he doctored a quote, did he take the quote out of context or did he actually change words in the quote? I am just curious what people mean by it.
RE: He doctored a quote?  
Les in TO : 10/14/2021 1:34 pm : link
In comment 15413389 trueblueinpw said:
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I read something about that in the last FMIC thread. I actually think that would be bad enough for the ban hammer.

I have no way to know if he did doctor a quote, but if he did, that’s pretty shameful stuff. Imagine being so needy that you would doctor a post? Who would even have the time for something like that? Egad!

Anyway, now that he’s on the back of the BBI milk carton maybe he show up?
I assume he’s on a “hiatus” similar to how his fellow Charlotte resident MIchael Jordan was “retired” from the NBA in 94-95
RE: ...  
bw in dc : 10/14/2021 1:42 pm : link
In comment 15413300 SFGFNCGiantsFan said:
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I liked him as poster. I hope he returns.

I don't get why people get so upset what others say to them. It's a freaking message board. I could pass you on the street & not even know.


Very true. It's a debate site and everyone has a view. But the level of vitriol that gets created just amazes me. A lot of posters afflicted TSS - Thin Skin Syndrome... ;)

I've said a few times, I enjoy Fatman. And I'm on the receiving end of many of the types of attacks cited above. There a few times where he outright lies about things directed towards me, but that's more of a reflection of character than mine.
There are plenty of good quality posters and posts  
chick310 : 10/14/2021 1:52 pm : link
all over BBI. If some have left because of how the team has fared and they do not enjoy the current messaging or views from others, no matter how pessimistic/realistic, than so be it.

A good poster should be able to still discuss and debate the Giants no matter what issues they are facing and no matter what their won/loss record shows. And that is what the majority do from my viewpoint, some with thick skin and some not. But they still do it.

If some magical perfect storm of damaged posters really ran them off then we'll just have to get by without them. Can't imagine it will be difficult.
He's angry...  
rnargi : 10/14/2021 2:05 pm : link
...so are a couple other Giants fans.
I just listened to his most recent podcast..  
Sean : 10/14/2021 2:16 pm : link
bw’s fat friend does not sound at all like his BBI persona. Although they did bash refs a good amount.
RE: I just listened to his most recent podcast..  
bw in dc : 10/14/2021 2:51 pm : link
In comment 15413538 Sean said:
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bw’s fat friend does not sound at all like his BBI persona. Although they did bash refs a good amount.


I had the same reaction when I listened.

I don't think I heard my Fat friend use the words obtuse or ponderous. Two of his favorite go-tos here at BBI. So I'm going to go back and check... ;)

Banned for doctoring a quote  
Giants73 : 10/14/2021 3:17 pm : link
Is a real thing? Is someone using information on the BBI board as all factual? Is this not just opinions with stats some time used to back up one’s point.
RE: Banned for doctoring a quote  
trueblueinpw : 10/14/2021 3:25 pm : link
In comment 15413604 Giants73 said:
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Is a real thing? Is someone using information on the BBI board as all factual? Is this not just opinions with stats some time used to back up one’s point.


I don’t think he was banned. But, the accusation, as I understand is that he referred to an old post but altered the contents of that old post. I mean, if you can be banned for using the word “retard” don’t you think you should also be banned for posting something that’s fake?
RE: Banned for doctoring a quote  
bw in dc : 10/14/2021 3:43 pm : link
In comment 15413604 Giants73 said:
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Is a real thing? Is someone using information on the BBI board as all factual? Is this not just opinions with stats some time used to back up one’s point.


When you have to resort to manufacturing information to make a point, you lose credibility. Especially editing old posts.

So I would have never pegged my Fat friend as a poster who would resort to such bogus tactics.

But let's all keep an open mind. I'm sure my Fat friend is eager to give an explanation to clear his name. My guess is it's all just a misunderstanding... ;)

I was kind of amused by my interactions with FMIC  
Producer : 10/14/2021 4:22 pm : link
even though he often behaved as an abusive bully. He seems like an intelligent fellow, though I don't agree he exhibited special critical thinking capacity on this message board. Shouting at people, insults, and flat denials without engaging in debate is not an indication of an advanced critical thinker. He is an ardent homer, and he defends the regime. He doesn't like naysayers or critics. it was hard to have any nuanced conversation with him.

I remember our discussions about covid in Jan and Feb of 2020. He loudly insisted it was nothing, even as the data mounted. He insisted it would not affect us. How wrong he was about that. And then many months later he said he was right - that the worst impact was our outsized response to the pandemic, rather than the virus itself. He is stubborn and reluctant to consider countering points of view. And he can't admit he is wrong. nevertheless, he was at times an entertaining fellow to converse with on here.
RE: I was kind of amused by my interactions with FMIC  
Gatorade Dunk : 10/14/2021 5:03 pm : link
In comment 15413670 Producer said:
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even though he often behaved as an abusive bully. He seems like an intelligent fellow, though I don't agree he exhibited special critical thinking capacity on this message board. Shouting at people, insults, and flat denials without engaging in debate is not an indication of an advanced critical thinker. He is an ardent homer, and he defends the regime. He doesn't like naysayers or critics. it was hard to have any nuanced conversation with him.

I remember our discussions about covid in Jan and Feb of 2020. He loudly insisted it was nothing, even as the data mounted. He insisted it would not affect us. How wrong he was about that. And then many months later he said he was right - that the worst impact was our outsized response to the pandemic, rather than the virus itself. He is stubborn and reluctant to consider countering points of view. And he can't admit he is wrong. nevertheless, he was at times an entertaining fellow to converse with on here.

Let's not pretend like you have all that much credibility here. You're basically a one-trick pony: a die-hard Jones hater on a plant-based diet. And you can't wait to tell the board on every possible thread about each of those opinions.
RE: RE: I was kind of amused by my interactions with FMIC  
Producer : 10/14/2021 5:09 pm : link
In comment 15413697 Gatorade Dunk said:
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In comment 15413670 Producer said:


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even though he often behaved as an abusive bully. He seems like an intelligent fellow, though I don't agree he exhibited special critical thinking capacity on this message board. Shouting at people, insults, and flat denials without engaging in debate is not an indication of an advanced critical thinker. He is an ardent homer, and he defends the regime. He doesn't like naysayers or critics. it was hard to have any nuanced conversation with him.

I remember our discussions about covid in Jan and Feb of 2020. He loudly insisted it was nothing, even as the data mounted. He insisted it would not affect us. How wrong he was about that. And then many months later he said he was right - that the worst impact was our outsized response to the pandemic, rather than the virus itself. He is stubborn and reluctant to consider countering points of view. And he can't admit he is wrong. nevertheless, he was at times an entertaining fellow to converse with on here.


Let's not pretend like you have all that much credibility here. You're basically a one-trick pony: a die-hard Jones hater on a plant-based diet. And you can't wait to tell the board on every possible thread about each of those opinions.


I don't hate Jones. I just like the Giants more than any one player. And the decision surrounding who the QB should be, is the biggest *trick* an NFL team faces. If an NFL team gets that wrong, or doesn't understand the importance of the decision, they are lost. That's my contention.

And to make this personal and boil it down to a straw man, says a lot about your powers of reason.
Hope he is well in his personal life  
JoeyBigBlue : 10/14/2021 5:17 pm : link
But honestly could not care less if he post or not on here. The guy is a huge douche.
I've always been a fan of Fatty, in some  
Bill in UT : 10/14/2021 5:21 pm : link
perverse way, lol. But it's hard to just ignore his insults because they lead to confrontations that totally derail a thread and make it very difficult to keep up with. I'd love to have him back, just as I'm happy that Jimmy Googs is back, but I'd love to see the personal attacks go away.
I don't know why people are arguing for rules of engagement  
NoGainDayne : 10/14/2021 5:44 pm : link
for a person that has none and is one of the most disrespectful foul mouthed people I have ever encountered. He would bait me in threads I wasn't at all a part of and also join threads for the sole purpose of antagonizing me or others. As can be seen on the thread below.

In my many battles with him and when called out by posters I issued a few public apologies. In his numerous battles with MANY people I never saw him issue one.

He called me a fraud, accused me of lying numerous times. Said I "fabricated my credentials." Even when I said I was going to get some press he said I was embellishing that. I'm a lot of things but a liar isn't one of them and not once have I lied about my experience on this site at all. But that man has no problem bending the truth, sometimes severely to suit his agenda. I can share the thread in question here because honestly while I got stuck in the mud with him many times I'd never say something like this to anyone, threatening them like this. And that is where he was beyond where anyone on this site is willing to go in a truly disgraceful way.

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Why do you..
FatMan in Charlotte : 12/9/2020 12:59 pm : link
think I'm castrated??

Is it because you are so arrogant that you think my main reason for posting is to go after you??

With each passing week where you try to work in posts about analytics, two things become increasingly obvious.
1) Your need to inject analytics into discussions - even where they don't apply is borderlining on an obsession
2) The take that the Giants have their heads up their asses regarding analytics is becoming more and more a figment of your imagination.

And if you think I'm neutered - you might want it to stay that way - I've talked to a few teams who have been approached by a jackass peddling Madden simulations as "analytics". And by George, you really don't want me to go there.


George is my first name. Anyone that has seen this thread and knows me interpreted this in the same way. He claims he had no idea. Yeah right...
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