She crashed her car into a house and the house burned down. She is in a coma and bloodwork says she supposedly had foreign substances in her system. Link - ( New Window )
Who apparently lost a bunch of personal possessions. That’s the person to feel sorry for here
Yea, if reports are true and she evaded help and caused further damage I don’t know how much sympathy I’d have for her. Especially if she was drugged out and being irresponsible. Of course you don’t want anyone to suffer a horrible death, but reports don’t sound good.
Her car can be seen speeding towards the house that burned down through a ring door bell which recorded her going by. This video is available on google by various sources.
Why feel sorry for her? because she is a celebrity? It's just lucky she did not kill people on the road or in the house. She left the scene of an accident. Totally reckless and did not give a crap.
Her car can be seen speeding towards the house that burned down through a ring door bell which recorded her going by. This video is available on google by various sources.
Like 20 years ago or so didn’t she walk into some strangers home naked declaring she was a god or something? I feel like this could be part of those issues based on the description.
Sounds like every girlfriend I've ever had
She is a very beautiful woman. She has one of those old fashion
Why feel sorry for her? because she is a celebrity? It's just lucky she did not kill people on the road or in the house. She left the scene of an accident. Totally reckless and did not give a crap.
Why? Because very few people deserve to die like that. I think it’s fine to think if someone had to die at least it was the one who was reckless and what was at fault. But from what I’ve read she lost consciousness shortly after the crash which means she quite possibly was awake while being burned. I personally don’t feel bad that she is going to die because she is the cause of it and at least nobody else got killed, but I do feel sorry if she had to suffer like that. It sucks someone lost all their personal stuff but it’s just stuff not lives or well being. And I’m pretty sure when all is said and done they will be well compensated for it
sad both for her and the lady whose house burned down.
Just read they are checking to see if any of her organs can be saved for transplant. I read she had severe lung damage from smoke and heat caused by the fire - awful.
Tox report said cocaine, but she had been seen drinking wine and vodka. Her actions seemed more like drunk, than coked up.
Who apparently lost a bunch of personal possessions. That’s the person to feel sorry for here
So the person to feel sorry for is the one who lost her personal possessions, not the one who is in a coma with severe burns across her body and likely to die? Because your sorrow is such a limited commodity that you can't feel sorry for both of them so you have to choose one or the other and you choose the one who survived without a scratch on her body? Interesting. Does it make me fortunate that I have the room in my heart to feel sorry for both of them or does that make me weak? And does it make me a fool because the bulk of my sorrow is directed at the one on her deathbed regardless of where the fault for the incident lies? These are just some of the questions that your comment inspired.
Yeah, I don't get the sympathy for the person who caused this problem.
Feel bad for the person who lost their house. And the person who caused this, tried to get away, too. Feel bad for her, though.
People are something else.
What if I told you that the woman who lost her house was a Nazi-sympathizing child molester who made her living steeling from charities and that Anne Heche was a philanthropist who tragically suffered with mental health issues that were passed on genetically from her parents who abused her? The truth is we know nothing about either of these individuals and shouldn't be judging either one. And sympathy is not a zero sum game, we can be sympathetic to the plight of both women.
Nothing wrong with having sympathy for all involved
So the person to feel sorry for is the one who lost her personal possessions, not the one who is in a coma with severe burns across her body and likely to die? Because your sorrow is such a limited commodity that you can't feel sorry for both of them so you have to choose one or the other and you choose the one who survived without a scratch on her body?
Speaking for myself, the person I feel sorry for is the innocent victim who lost a tremendous amount due to someone else's recklessness. Someone who recklessly endangered innocent lives is not deserving of sympathy in my opinion. It is truly a miracle no innocent people were injured or killed, and I think if you're behaving in a manner that requires a miracle not to kill people, you're not a sympathetic figure. My sympathy's not a limited commodity, but that doesn't mean people get it when they don't deserve it. (Tbat's not to say it's good that she died - certainly it's sad, especially for her loved ones. But she put people's lives at risk, imo it's a blessing hers is the only one that was lost).
RE: RE: Yeah, I don't get the sympathy for the person who caused this problem.
Feel bad for the person who lost their house. And the person who caused this, tried to get away, too. Feel bad for her, though.
People are something else.
What if I told you that the woman who lost her house was a Nazi-sympathizing child molester who made her living steeling from charities and that Anne Heche was a philanthropist who tragically suffered with mental health issues that were passed on genetically from her parents who abused her? The truth is we know nothing about either of these individuals and shouldn't be judging either one. And sympathy is not a zero sum game, we can be sympathetic to the plight of both women.
Milton: For the second time in a couple of weeks, you show that you are a better man than me.
Speaking for myself, the person I feel sorry for is the innocent victim who lost a tremendous amount due to someone else's recklessness. Someone who recklessly endangered innocent lives is not deserving of sympathy in my opinion.
I don't know how many people in this world can say they've never done something that could endanger the lives of others (everyone who's ever smoked a cigarette in public has endangered innocent lives). I don't see why you can't be highly critical of someone's behavior and at the same time be sympathetic to the fate they've suffered.
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It is truly a miracle no innocent people were injured or killed, and I think if you're behaving in a manner that requires a miracle not to kill people, you're not a sympathetic figure.
It was truly not a miracle that no innocent people were injured. You need to look up the word in a dictionary. While it's true the damage did not reach the worst case scenario, it's also true that the incident could've just as easily ended with her ramming the car into a tree, with no property damage other than the car, and Heche escaping with only minor bruises, the loss of her driving license, and maybe some prison time.
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My sympathy's not a limited commodity, but that doesn't mean people get it when they don't deserve it. That's not to say it's good that she died - certainly it's sad...
If you believe it's sad she died aren't you being sympathetic?
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...she put people's lives at risk, imo it's a blessing hers is the only one that was lost.
It's not like she set out to harm anyone. She was obviously a mentally unstable person, likely based in part on either her genetics or upbringing. I save my lack of sympathy for those whose purely selfish actions were made with the full knowledge that innocent lives would be lost or ruined. A mentally ill woman who mixes booze and blow and gets behind the wheel is deserving of both my criticism and sympathy, especially given that she was the only one who suffered bodily harm (and did so in such a horrific manner). I'm also sympathetic to the woman whose life was turned upside down by Heche's irresponsible and reckless actions, but I suspect the crowd funding will make her financially whole again (and then some) and my understanding is that she was able to save from the fire the items that had sentimental value. I could be wrong about that.
do you know if she set out to harm someone or not? She was going 90 mph in a residential area and already had smashed into a few things prior to driving into a house. Sure sound like harming others could possibly have been part of the plan - at the very least, she was being dangerous to the general public in that area.
If this was Anne Smith, people would be ripping her to shreds for being careless and destructive to herself and others. because it is Anne Heche, we get glowing writeups about her legacy.
It was a terrible event that happened that was the fault of Anne Heche. You can have empathy for her death and still realize she's fully responsible for what happened to the unfortunate people who crossed her path that day, and frankly, her body of work means shit right now.
In your real personal life, can you forgive someone who you believe has wronged you. One of the biggest of many faults that Mrs. Big Al say I have is I hold grudges and cannot get past it. I agree that it is good for everyone involved if you have the ability to forgive. I am a smaller person for having trouble doing this. Milton seems to speak for the quality of forgiving (although we can’t know here whether he actually has this quality in personal circumstances).
Of course, there are other factors. Should you forgive even if the other party shows no remorse? Can you forgive someone whose sin is against someone else? That heads into certain religious principles.
In any case, yes someone can say anything here to show individually what a good person you are and it may be for show, but the actual statement is a positive for mental health.
That years ago her brother died in a car crash and that she always believed it was suicide. I can’t help but wonder if possibly that wasn’t on her mind as well.
Ridiculous platitudes and straw man arguments are fun, aren’t they?
I also said "child molester"--is being a Nazi sympathizer worse than child molester? I guess I could've limited it to "cheats on her taxes" and "litters" but the point was simply that we don't know either of the individuals and the sum total of their pluses and minuses as human beings. If one were to believe in such a thing as the pearly gates to heaven, it is not this singular incident which will determine either woman's entry (how's that for ridiculous platitudes!?), so why even bring up which of the two is most deserving of sympathy? It's not a competition and if it were, the "winner" would not be decided by this one moment that connects them. That was my point and I used extremes to demonstrate how far wrong one can be when they presume to judge those they hardly know.
In your real personal life, can you forgive someone who you believe has wronged you. One of the biggest of many faults that Mrs. Big Al say I have is I hold grudges and cannot get past it. I agree that it is good for everyone involved if you have the ability to forgive. I am a smaller person for having trouble doing this. Milton seems to speak for the quality of forgiving (although we can’t know here whether he actually has this quality in personal circumstances).
you can be sympathetic to her addiction (and other issues since childhood) and also to the families that were impacted by this. Why does one need to choose a side?
RE: RE: Yeah, I don't get the sympathy for the person who caused this problem.
Feel bad for the person who lost their house. And the person who caused this, tried to get away, too. Feel bad for her, though.
People are something else.
What if I told you that the woman who lost her house was a Nazi-sympathizing child molester who made her living steeling from charities and that Anne Heche was a philanthropist who tragically suffered with mental health issues that were passed on genetically from her parents who abused her? The truth is we know nothing about either of these individuals and shouldn't be judging either one. And sympathy is not a zero sum game, we can be sympathetic to the plight of both women.
What if I told you made that entire scenario up because you're fucking weird?
All of the obnoxious people I know commonly say things like you just know if X happened, everyone would y.
Then ... it's not so far off from what people tend to do. People do pick and chose what is relevant and what isn't. No problem with pointing it out.
No, no. See, assuming you know what someone will think makes you a butthole.
For instance, when I assume you're always wrong, I'm a butthole. Now granted you're wrong like 99% of the time wrong. But then out of nowhere, you surprise us all and hate the RHCPs. Which is right.
It never pays to assume anything. A good lesson for the week.
No, no. See, assuming you know what someone will think makes you a butthole.
For instance, when I assume you're always wrong, I'm a butthole. Now granted you're wrong like 99% of the time wrong. But then out of nowhere, you surprise us all and hate the RHCPs. Which is right.
It never pays to assume anything. A good lesson for the week.
Fly away on my zephyr
I feel it more than ever
And in this perfect weather
We'll find a place together
Oh yeah. I remember her now. She was in Volcano (1997 film) and man that movie sucked. I completely forgot about that awful movie. It had Don Cheadle in it. Woof.
Rest in peace and love to you. Rest easy. Red Hot chili peppers should play a tribute to her.
Yea, if reports are true and she evaded help and caused further damage I don’t know how much sympathy I’d have for her. Especially if she was drugged out and being irresponsible. Of course you don’t want anyone to suffer a horrible death, but reports don’t sound good.
Saw that video she was going really fast!!!!
And at the same time they can also fault that person for the harm they did to the victims and feel worse for them.
No, haven't checked out. I hope she gets the help that she needs. She must have been going thru some crisis to do what she did.
Sounds like every girlfriend I've ever had
Really a sad outcome of this tragedy
Why? Because very few people deserve to die like that. I think it’s fine to think if someone had to die at least it was the one who was reckless and what was at fault. But from what I’ve read she lost consciousness shortly after the crash which means she quite possibly was awake while being burned. I personally don’t feel bad that she is going to die because she is the cause of it and at least nobody else got killed, but I do feel sorry if she had to suffer like that. It sucks someone lost all their personal stuff but it’s just stuff not lives or well being. And I’m pretty sure when all is said and done they will be well compensated for it
Just read they are checking to see if any of her organs can be saved for transplant. I read she had severe lung damage from smoke and heat caused by the fire - awful.
Tox report said cocaine, but she had been seen drinking wine and vodka. Her actions seemed more like drunk, than coked up.
People are something else.
People are something else.
Speaking for myself, the person I feel sorry for is the innocent victim who lost a tremendous amount due to someone else's recklessness. Someone who recklessly endangered innocent lives is not deserving of sympathy in my opinion. It is truly a miracle no innocent people were injured or killed, and I think if you're behaving in a manner that requires a miracle not to kill people, you're not a sympathetic figure. My sympathy's not a limited commodity, but that doesn't mean people get it when they don't deserve it. (Tbat's not to say it's good that she died - certainly it's sad, especially for her loved ones. But she put people's lives at risk, imo it's a blessing hers is the only one that was lost).
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Feel bad for the person who lost their house. And the person who caused this, tried to get away, too. Feel bad for her, though.
People are something else.
What if I told you that the woman who lost her house was a Nazi-sympathizing child molester who made her living steeling from charities and that Anne Heche was a philanthropist who tragically suffered with mental health issues that were passed on genetically from her parents who abused her? The truth is we know nothing about either of these individuals and shouldn't be judging either one. And sympathy is not a zero sum game, we can be sympathetic to the plight of both women.
Ridiculous platitudes and straw man arguments are fun, aren’t they?
Speaking for myself, the person I feel sorry for is the innocent victim who lost a tremendous amount due to someone else's recklessness. Someone who recklessly endangered innocent lives is not deserving of sympathy in my opinion.
If this was Anne Smith, people would be ripping her to shreds for being careless and destructive to herself and others. because it is Anne Heche, we get glowing writeups about her legacy.
It was a terrible event that happened that was the fault of Anne Heche. You can have empathy for her death and still realize she's fully responsible for what happened to the unfortunate people who crossed her path that day, and frankly, her body of work means shit right now.
Of course, there are other factors. Should you forgive even if the other party shows no remorse? Can you forgive someone whose sin is against someone else? That heads into certain religious principles.
In any case, yes someone can say anything here to show individually what a good person you are and it may be for show, but the actual statement is a positive for mental health.
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Who is a Nazi sympathizer?
Ridiculous platitudes and straw man arguments are fun, aren’t they?
Taken from us too soon
This is truth.
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Feel bad for the person who lost their house. And the person who caused this, tried to get away, too. Feel bad for her, though.
People are something else.
What if I told you that the woman who lost her house was a Nazi-sympathizing child molester who made her living steeling from charities and that Anne Heche was a philanthropist who tragically suffered with mental health issues that were passed on genetically from her parents who abused her? The truth is we know nothing about either of these individuals and shouldn't be judging either one. And sympathy is not a zero sum game, we can be sympathetic to the plight of both women.
What if I told you made that entire scenario up because you're fucking weird?
RIP
All of the obnoxious people I know commonly say things like you just know if X happened, everyone would y.
That crystal ball on human reaction must let them down often, since people are individuals, dynamic, and surprising.
All of the obnoxious people I know commonly say things like you just know if X happened, everyone would y.
Then ... it's not so far off from what people tend to do. People do pick and chose what is relevant and what isn't. No problem with pointing it out.
By the way, I still don't remember this actress.
LOL
What if I told you made that entire scenario up because you're fucking weird?
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All of the obnoxious people I know commonly say things like you just know if X happened, everyone would y.
Then ... it's not so far off from what people tend to do. People do pick and chose what is relevant and what isn't. No problem with pointing it out.
No, no. See, assuming you know what someone will think makes you a butthole.
For instance, when I assume you're always wrong, I'm a butthole. Now granted you're wrong like 99% of the time wrong. But then out of nowhere, you surprise us all and hate the RHCPs. Which is right.
It never pays to assume anything. A good lesson for the week.
For instance, when I assume you're always wrong, I'm a butthole. Now granted you're wrong like 99% of the time wrong. But then out of nowhere, you surprise us all and hate the RHCPs. Which is right.
It never pays to assume anything. A good lesson for the week.
Fly away on my zephyr
I feel it more than ever
And in this perfect weather
We'll find a place together
It's not about being wrong or right. I'm more focused on finding out who the Nazi sympathizer was.
Rest in peace and love to you. Rest easy. Red Hot chili peppers should play a tribute to her.